I just…🤦🏻‍♀️oh my god TW: DV

pinkmailboxes · 2021-08-29T22:59:26+00:00

Fucking legos and fifteen year old friends. This dude has not reached emotional maturity for his age. Poor girl. I hope she dumps his ass

MyLifeIsWandsXIII · 2021-08-29T23:06:25+00:00

Why is a 20 y/o friends with a 15 y/o? I feel like that says enough about what the boyfriend's mental age is.

eatnthrowtrashaway · 2021-08-29T23:08:07+00:00

Playing with legos? Mad mommy won’t play with legos with him?!

I’m really confused why the OP is presenting all this information like it’s normal and not abnormal. Like what’s the explanation for a 20 year old playing with a teen five years younger

BlueSkiesOverLondon · 2021-08-29T23:09:30+00:00

LVM are so controlling about women’s phones. They really can’t handle the idea that we might prefer to do things that don’t revolve around them sometimes.

KathyisQueen · 2021-08-29T23:57:18+00:00

He’s friends with a 15 year old… she makes him dinner… is she babysitting him or dating him?

coldfoot23 · 2021-08-29T23:21:42+00:00

Is there anyway I can message this girl and tell her to RUN

ScrappleSandwiches · 2021-08-30T00:22:55+00:00

Bangs his head against the wall?! Holy crap.

Oli_love90 · 2021-08-30T00:03:46+00:00

A lot of these women who post are so desperate to be in any relationship that they try to rationalize ALL red flags. It’s sad.

Catz10000 · 2021-08-30T00:04:27+00:00

Wtf is the point? She's his mom. And the neighbor's apparently. I can't count the red flags in every sentence.

arnezuara · 2021-08-29T23:48:15+00:00

What a fucking sociopath. I hope she gets out, she needs to find this sub and start working on her escape plan.

ceramicunicorn · 2021-08-30T01:34:33+00:00

I just had a funny vision in my head of this scenario being acted out in a comedy sketch, but then in comes a group of no-nonsense women in shirts that say “FDS” on the back, like they’re emergency personnel.

I await the day where the brand has the funding to sustain both the podcast and a YT COPS-esque sketch series of faux trailers a la “This Week, on FDS Rescue Missions....” that just takes these wackadoodle stories from Reddit and adds some levity with a fantasy of what it would look like if FDS magically swooped in!

DivineGoddess1111111 · 2021-08-30T00:45:46+00:00

Poor little boy can't get mummy's attention 24/7 🙄 He needs therapy and a lot of growing up.

purasangria · 2021-08-30T00:55:24+00:00

If he's stressing you and becoming demanding, dump him. And don't do wife shit when you're not a wife.

DandelionScreaming · 2021-08-30T02:04:24+00:00

So she cooks and cleans and he’s throwing temper tantrums, demanding all her attention, playing legos and… befriending 15 year olds and involving them in his arguments?

No like seriously I knew someone who plays with giant legos, demands all his mommy’s attention, likes playing with a 15 year old boy & throws similar tantrums… this someone was 2 years old.

At least one of his neighbor’s checked and then double checked on her (privately) in case of domestic violence. She’s the only good thing about this story, we need more people like her.

Phoenix__Rising2018 · 2021-08-30T03:05:03+00:00

🤡🤡🤡🤡

If you don't want to end up some scrotes servant or mommy, don't take on the work of a servant or mommy.

She delivers home cooked food and does all the clean up and then entertains him and then fucks him sucks his dick and doesn't cum. Lol no

She's just a servant 5 to 7 nights a week.

feminologie_ · 2021-08-29T23:43:19+00:00

It sounds like her boyfriend might have some kind of learning disability. I think he might be developmentally delayed if he is playing with Legos and friends with 15yr olds. Plus the screaming and temper tantrums when he doesn't get his way. Sounds like someone who is mentally a child. If this is the case, I hope he sees a doctor to get the help he needs. Regardless, she needs to leave. This is not acceptable behavior from anyone

QueenAlice3 · 2021-08-30T00:27:20+00:00

Sometimes it feels like the punchlines are writing themselves…

PokePrincess95 · 2021-08-30T01:05:27+00:00

I had roommates that did this shit. Got me written up for a noise complaint

roonil_wazlib_the2nd · 2021-08-30T02:53:56+00:00

Ooof this is so hard to read. She needs to listen to her friend and dump this child. She comes over to HIS place, cooks and cleans for HIM and HIS friend but she apparently is not doing enough? No thank you.

GoldandGlowing · 2021-08-30T04:11:01+00:00

Is there proof her SO is even 20? Lol why is he friends with fifteen year olds, unable to cook on his own, and unable to handle his emotions?

PicoPicoMio · 2021-08-30T00:55:34+00:00

What exactly does she love about him?! Horrifying 😵‍💫

xdecadent · 2021-08-30T07:42:46+00:00

She’s literally a baby, 20 years old. Ay bendita 😔

I hope someone gets this girl out of this because this is escalating into a DV situation. This is a prime example of how girls are socialized to be overly accommodating at their expense. This girl is in danger.

Novemberinthechair · 2021-08-30T06:47:43+00:00

Mommy! Look at me!

A 15-year-old friend? Legos? She's their servant? Oh god, no.

anotherdamnloser · 2021-08-30T05:24:39+00:00

Omg he’s a little kid and she’s the mom

shhhsahar · 2021-08-30T02:59:06+00:00

I’m guessing he has autism or a learning disability of some sort, based on the head banging, being friends with a 15 year old, playing with legos, not doing chores etc. I’m autistic too, but the possessive behavior isn’t normal and the OP needs to run because it’s only going to get worse. And he needs therapy ASAP.

Hippofuzz · 2021-08-30T09:08:55+00:00

… his 15 year old friend? Legos? I get predator/delayed vibes. Also just no all over.

Davina33 · 2021-08-30T07:13:47+00:00

That poor poor woman. I really hope she sees the light and leaves him.

AbbyDean1985 · 2021-08-30T10:18:53+00:00

I didn't have to read much to know she should walk the fuck out of that "relationship."

LucyStar3 · 2021-08-30T08:41:39+00:00

Woah, he has mastered levels of manipulation and control well ahead of his age. Congrats to him!

And she hasn't even learned basic boundary-setting at her age. As disappointed as I'm, I understand how this world works, and want to help her before she wastes 10 years of her life understanding this basic lesson.

Ok_Passenger_5717 · 2021-08-30T12:28:35+00:00

Hahahahah, I would just let him bang his head as much as he wanted

Title	I just…🤦🏻‍♀️oh my god TW: DV
Author	Thereismorethanthis
Upvotes	579
Comments	51
Date	August 29, 2021 10:54 PM UTC (4 years ago)
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