I screamed lmaoo

miniicinny · 2020-10-05T13:54:05+00:00

It was me, I was girls. 😭

But never again. I'm done "giving them a chance" If you don't meet my basic standards, I'm not forcing myself to entertain you. Men don't do that why should I?

Doggonelovah · 2020-10-05T15:06:48+00:00

When you give an ugly guy a chance and he starts treating you like he’s the good looking one

Twolipz_78 · 2020-10-05T14:44:15+00:00

This is it!! He was not my type in any way and did not really stand out and I made an exception for him and now look! Just look! “Hurt” is an understatement of the shit fuckery he not only put me through but I allow myself to be hurt by.

I’m trying.

TheGhostProofBlanket · 2020-10-05T17:09:07+00:00

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Littlebunny080 · 2020-10-05T13:11:12+00:00

Lmaoo but that’s sad actually, when you think about it...

cremebruleecakes · 2020-10-05T14:54:56+00:00

This happened to me earlier this year, but also exactly how I found FDS. Ehhh silver lining? 🤷🏻‍♀️

Gourmay · 2020-10-05T17:51:55+00:00

That’s why they lovebomb.. they know it’s their only chance.

quiiidpr0qu0 · 2020-10-05T17:14:36+00:00

fucking facts. i always lower my expectations and my taste in men bc they all ugly af anyway but damn the audacity to break my heart and play games ? fuck nah

LeyMio · 2020-10-05T16:43:35+00:00

Men should learn to look into the mirror and realize what pitiful losers they are.

Sunday_V · 2020-10-05T15:18:04+00:00

Past me is feeling very attacked right now 😅

4E4ME · 2020-10-05T16:18:25+00:00

I always use the analogy of stray dogs here. I think this is what this hurt is (has been) for me; I brought home a stray dog, cared for it, fed it, gave it a safe space, attempted to heal it's wounds. I overlooked the times that it growled at me and attempted to sooth it. Then when it turned around and bit me in the hand, I was like "how dare you bite me when I overlooked the fact that you were a stray dog..."

But the hurt and the anger is misplaced when it's directed at the dog for acting like a dog. It is actually for myself, because I betrayed myself by bringing home a stray dog when I knew in my heart that I was looking for a purebred champion.

Hold out for what you really want Ladies. It can seem painful and lonely when we are looking for the right relationship; we have to find other ways to find meaningful companionship while we are looking for the right romantic relationship.

ChocolateBiscuit96 · 2020-10-05T16:28:45+00:00

If you’re not feeling it, don’t force it... especially if there are red flags. Guys usually state their intentions early on anyway, or you can just read in between the lines

2020-10-05T14:12:51+00:00

ok me

Woman_on_Pause · 2020-10-05T16:25:44+00:00

This was me.
But alas, no more.
FDS helped me settle the score
My pride has returned
I am no longer getting burned
Finally, I have taken the turn

fin

321tina321 · 2020-10-05T18:20:57+00:00

Is this really how it is??? I can not even comprehend doing this. I'm more of a I'd rather be single than burdened person. So I'm hardly ever attracted to anybody and I go and say 'dont try to make promises you cant keep. " I'm afraid I would get lazy and move on. I never understood this for a long time. Additionally i felt really wierd for being this way. Especially when I was younger. Like for some reason i felt i should have to hide it and not give much explanation why i dont want to go out with someone who asks.

anonymous55555111 · 2020-10-05T18:30:58+00:00

This is why I will never lower my physical standards

aquietsword · 2020-10-05T22:33:07+00:00

Ah, yes. Me giving the ugly ass, mommy issues having "nice guy" a chance because of the propaganda saying they're worth it. Learned that bullshit lesson.

waddamelone · 2020-10-05T23:51:05+00:00

LmaoooooWhyWasThisMeoooooo. That taught me to just let it go man. Just go for someone you’re ACTUALLY attracted to and interested in. Because giving men a chance because they “might be the one” never worked out to this point. 💀😂

Ms_Tilly · 2020-10-06T00:12:10+00:00

I am DECEASED😂😂😂

I used to internally joke about throwing a bag over my ex's head. At certain angles he really was hard to look at.

laintallbad · 2020-10-05T16:16:32+00:00

Notice how when you also start falling for him or showing him interest he starts distancing himself or acting colder (sometimes he even ghosts you)? It's because now he thinks he's ALL that and he got you wrapped around his finger. He has the audacity to think (Hm, if SHE shows me interest then I'm worth someone better, next). That's just how they're wired.

bietchkrieg · 2020-10-05T15:27:12+00:00

This is literally me in my last relationship. It ended with me having to get a protective order after months of sexual, psychological and physical abuse. The cognitive dissonance you get from developing feelings of attachment as a result of abuse from someone you felt ambivalent about upon meeting them is one of the hardest things to sit with.

breadandbunny · 2020-10-05T15:25:55+00:00

This is very sad. 😔

ShadowoftheGrimoire · 2020-10-05T16:18:43+00:00

I’m in this post an I don’t like it 😫

Sinchichis96 · 2020-10-05T17:17:14+00:00

The amount of O’s on her LMAO...I feel you sis😭😭😭

Ellifants · 2020-10-05T19:34:23+00:00

P E R I FCKIN O D T.

Vixen-By-Your-Side · 2020-10-05T21:38:38+00:00

Been there.

moonchild2998 · 2020-10-05T20:44:15+00:00

Maybe it’s because I’m not even in a good point in my life, but seeing this stuff makes me even more depressed

Montanegro · 2020-10-05T22:39:58+00:00

These posts hit too close to home and I refuse to look stupid like that ever again

creepingforresearch · 2020-10-05T22:43:44+00:00

It’s me, I was girls 🙃

perolikeporquedoe · 2020-10-05T23:21:33+00:00

I felt so attacked lmao 🤣😭 that was literally me in my previous relationship...never again!

SpiritDonkey · 2020-10-05T13:33:08+00:00

Ouch, this one stings like a mfucker.

5AMClub100 · 2020-10-05T15:47:27+00:00

Lmao meeee

2020-10-05T17:54:57+00:00

WHY was this ME!

IDontExist4u · 2020-10-05T18:42:38+00:00

THIS IS ME

javagarbagecollector · 2020-10-05T19:51:13+00:00

Looool it's be me

PrincesssBacon · 2020-10-05T20:57:15+00:00

This smacks

tauruspiscescancer · 2020-10-05T14:51:25+00:00

triggered 😬😬😬😬😬

AotearoaCanuck · 2020-10-05T15:37:26+00:00

Omg #preach

blackm8mba · 2020-10-05T17:17:05+00:00

MEEE

traceface6 · 2020-10-05T17:56:43+00:00

Story of my fuckin life

paris_rogue · 2020-10-05T18:28:46+00:00

This is me now-I feel called out T.T

Salt_Satisfaction · 2020-10-06T00:54:23+00:00

I feel attacked

2020-10-06T02:33:07+00:00

236B?!?!!!???

2020-10-08T18:03:57+00:00

this has been like 90% of my relationships/dating experience :/ i just wanted love/a boyfriend so badly, that i ended up attached to people i didn't even like as a person. needless to say, I've changed my ways, but unfortunately i think this is a common experience for young women who don't have great self esteem.

Much-Outcome · 2020-10-05T21:07:50+00:00

I have done this before.

HappyPeachie · 2020-10-05T17:33:24+00:00

Can't relate to this one. I make all men take the Myers-Briggs and if we are not psychology compatibile, it's a no. No exceptions.🤷🏻‍♀️✌🏻

Title	I screamed lmaoo
Author	Danaus_genutia
Upvotes	3052
Comments	97
Date	October 5, 2020 12:21 PM UTC (5 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/FemaleDatingStrategy
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/FemaleDatingStrategy/comments/j5ie3i/i_screamed_lmaoo/
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