Imagine tolerating this

aaslanes · 2021-09-19T02:45:38+00:00

He had her under his control since she was a teenager. They met when she was 16, started dating at 19 I believe. Theres no doubt he has her career under control rn.

TERFSareawesome · 2021-09-19T00:49:36+00:00

She had such a powerful moment to say to the world "I deserve better, I deserve to be treated with love, I deserve a hot man who will respect me and treat me like a prize." Instead she stayed with him and made a whole album about all his cheating and then tried to dress that album up as empowerment. It's sad. A lot of women learned that it's okay to be a doormat from that. She could have dumped him and ended up with some gorgeously hot, sexy, also RICH businessman HVM but she stayed with him for whatever reason...

DivineGoddess1111111 · 2021-09-19T01:37:33+00:00

If a gorgeous, talented woman like B can be cheated on by a man who looks like the camel on the Camel cigarettes packet, what hope is there for any woman? I feel like that's the message that was sold to millions of young woman everywhere. It lowered expectations. I can guarantee he is still cheating, she has basically given him permission by forgiving him. Terrible example for her daughter.

PinkBlair99 · 2021-09-19T00:25:18+00:00

It’s unfortunate.

So many women looked at him cheating on her and the lesson they took from it was that if even she can’t prevent a man cheating on her, there’s no hope.

The real lesson was that even the most successful, smart, talented, beautiful, financially independent, sought after women tolerate cheating. And justify it as “ride or die” or “exorcising my father’s intergenerational failures by enabling them myself” or “saving him” or “I’m not giving up the billionaire mogul power couple status after all this work I’ve put in” or “my torturer became my remedy.”

Nah. It’s the highest level of pickmeism. And it’s toxic for women.

AyemHerself · 2021-09-19T03:39:14+00:00

Not the point here, but what is with his facial expression? Why the bottom-lip horse chomp? Is that supposed to be attractive? He's not the only one I've seen pose that way for photos.

MaleficentDrive4443 · 2021-09-19T16:54:14+00:00

Why do people keep saying that if Jay Z cheated on Beyoncé any man will cheat on their woman? How does being Beyoncé make a difference? The cheater was Jay Z. It is all about the guy’s mindset. It doesn’t matter who the woman is.

basuragoddess · 2021-09-19T05:53:44+00:00

Why are their faces blacked out? I had no idea who tf this was 😂

PicoPicoMio · 2021-09-19T02:11:46+00:00

Honestly I lost faith in men when that donkey cheated on her, one of the most celebrated artists in the world.

povofme · 2021-09-19T03:08:01+00:00

Of course he has the playboy shirt 🙄🙄

millennialpink2000 · 2021-09-19T02:18:43+00:00

I'll happily die alone before I stand next to a guy who cheated on me. She's pathetic

IvyLeagueButt · 2021-09-19T07:57:11+00:00

He grooms and dresses like a literal middle schooler.

Gotta say Lemonade shattered any HVW image I had of her. What a joke when everyone was focused on "Becky with the good hair" and calling Solange crazy when really people should've been mad at her husband if anything 🤦🏽

avoidivoid · 2021-09-19T06:47:42+00:00

Blacking out their faces is sending me 💀 but finding out B was a pickme killed the last of my compulsory heterosexuality haha. I can't wait for Black women to stop making excuses for men.

CloacaDiddler · 2021-09-19T07:46:01+00:00

I realize I’ve always been attracted to women as well, but just looking at that picture alone is like…c’mon now, society is practically forcing me.

Look at her!! Then look at him!! Just eww

Novemberinthechair · 2021-09-19T06:28:10+00:00

Wtf is on his shirt?

throwawayaway388 · 2021-09-19T22:15:24+00:00

If this is Beyonce, I'm so glad this is finally being talked about and being taken more seriously

popthetab · 2021-09-19T03:05:02+00:00

Who is the couple in the photo?

vbych76 · 2021-09-19T05:13:24+00:00

Hear me out, she had that song called "Why don't you love me", long before any cheating rumors.There she lists all that she brings to the relationship. We all know, that if you have to say it out loud, things are going down the drain, because who you are and what you do are going unnoticed and someone is not paying attention.Same with the lyrics from "Love on top", where she begs him to finally put their love, before his other priorities.

Also lately, in most of their pictures, including the magazine covers, he looks like an accessory to her. Like a handbag or part of the background, with a sulking face of a toddler made to take part of a family picture. You reminded me of that lyric she has from Apesh*t "pay me in equity", so to me it seems like she is not getting her fair share of what has been earned too. And it's not like she hasn't made hit album after hit album, building up their joined value and the value of the producer's company.

xfelugirlx · 2021-09-19T23:09:27+00:00

I love beyonce but is true af everything you say, she told us to be free and empowered but she can’t do it for herself and stays with his lvm ugly af husband, just left him already

Xenobia95 · 2021-09-19T09:13:28+00:00

Didn't her dad have a mistress too? Maybe it's normal in her family? I can't stand him, that's why the call me hova dude who are you?

TellCerseeItWasMe · 2021-09-19T07:47:09+00:00

Pretty sure that's like the only guy she's been with

jkklfdasfhj · 2021-09-19T13:35:24+00:00

I obviously don't know these people personally, but I suspect they're in love with their image as a couple more than anything else. That's probably what's keeping them together. Her album went from anger (after the cheating and miscarriage) to healing. There's no actual process that made it make sense. I'm glad a lot of her fans were disappointed in this, and I also observed how scrotes used her forgiving him as an excuse to cheat "if 🐝 can forgive him, and if she can be cheated on, then any woman can forgive cheaters and be cheated on". Disgusting to use that as "precedent" but scrotes gonna scrote...

chronosxci · 2021-09-19T03:19:58+00:00

He basically groomed her as a young adult. I bet it's very messy for her to leave.

intergalacticanon44 · 2021-09-19T14:30:41+00:00

Have you ever listened to the lyrics of Upgrade U, she can’t be saved unfortunately 💔💔💔

Determinedblonde · 2021-09-19T07:50:17+00:00

Her outfit is stunning. I always thought she was a knock out and her husband was a munter.

No-Conversation-3823 · 2021-09-19T03:48:21+00:00

This is why I take my hat off for JLO ;you cheat ,you get dumped real quick. I just don’t like how she back peddles to old flames when she could have any man.

LanaDelDesperate09 · 2021-09-19T00:54:00+00:00

I can't. Whenever you comment on anything regarding the cheatation situation people go WILD on you on social media. It's just sooooo depressing. I still cant believe she is happy with this.

Astral_weaver · 2021-09-19T14:24:08+00:00

Can we stop and comment the way he is holding her in the photo? I wouldn't let a man grab me like that and also have the audacity to pose while grabbing me.

fak_beauty_standards · 2021-09-19T07:10:51+00:00

They had kid when it happened, but I feel like it happened alot before.

Stonerscoed · 2021-09-19T16:55:16+00:00

I love bey but she’s definitely a pickmeisha. I don’t think you get that far in music if you don’t play or live that way.

Impossible_Mud_7599 · 2021-09-19T15:33:13+00:00

I remember when a group of girls from my office paid an insane amount of money to go to her Lemonade tour. I remember the pickme-est of the group being like “oh, you don’t like Beyoncé?” in the most judgmental tone ever.

I was thinking, sorry for not pretending to love this crap.

Title	Imagine tolerating this
Author	PinkBlair99
Upvotes	488
Comments	86
Date	September 19, 2021 12:21 AM UTC (4 years ago)
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