No more!

SimpleSyrups · 2020-01-08T12:24:38+00:00

Fucking case in point a post on here linking over to the relationships thread where the “boyfriend “ doesn’t brush his teeth, shower, or clean and financially abuses his girlfriend with gifts (that she pays for) while she desperately tries to clean his apartment for him when she visits.

ThunderofHipHippos · 2020-01-08T13:34:40+00:00

Advice to woman: Maybe he has depression? You should make a doctor's appointment for him, drive him, pay for it, and take care of him while he recovers from this trauma. You've been coddling him and this is pretty much all your fault

Advice to man: Wow, it sounds like she's really pushy and trying to force you to get married! You should definitely dump her, you deserve better.

Maisiebr · 2020-01-08T13:55:18+00:00

Women in deadbedrooms: My partner has porn induced ED, calls me ugly and disgusting, regularly vanishes in the bathroom to watch porn on his phone while I'm in the room. For the one time he wanted to have sex with me, he "accidentally" pushed his penis in the wrong hole without any preparation or consent, after which I felt violated and hurt.

Men in deadbedrooms: My partner has a serious illness/had an accident. We didn't have sex for two months, so I want an open relationship. Wait, I don't really want to take care of her, and will probably just leave her, even though she helped me with so much in my life.

nymphaetamine · 2020-01-08T12:09:00+00:00

I know this is satire but I actually see so many posts like this on the relationship subs. Women are conditioned to tolerate outrageous bullshit from men nowadays, to ignore the glaring bad and look for the little bits of good to cling to because pObOdY's NeRfEcT. What the hell happened? Women wasting their time making posts to ask a bunch of strangers if they're overreacting for being bothered by some shit that my grandma would have pushed my grandpa down a flight of stairs for. Women have gotten soft and men are having a field day with it.

I swear, the moment my life stopped being depressing and difficult was when I stopped looking for the good in people and started taking their actions at face value. Not everything is some deep issue to be philosophized about, interpreted, and forgiven. When someone acts like an asshole, it means they ARE one. Stop being so fucking understanding of pricks who treat you like shit.

Ka_Tetof99 · 2020-01-08T13:47:37+00:00

Posts like this in those subs are why I had to stop reading and start hanging out here more often. I kept reading these and thinking, girl, what the absolute fuck? Why are you with him????? Why are you constantly asking if you’re overreacting for having emotions or being upset? What the entire fuck? Where is the rage and anger?

I’m just glad this sub has angry women who won’t take shit. Put the fucking fury back into feminism.

mypretties · 2020-01-08T14:08:02+00:00

"And nobody tell me to leave him because I won't, he is the love of my life!!"

"Ok so hes the best father and husband, but after work he goes straight to the garage and plays video games until bedtime and my daughter cries for her daddy everyday and he ignores her. I work fulltime and do 100% of cleaning and childcare. Advice pls, btw I'm 8 months pregnant so I'm probably just being hormonal and a karen."

Read this post yesterday and I just can't.

Queen_Evergreen · 2020-01-08T15:07:55+00:00

Since FDS r/relationships is too painful

Montanegro · 2020-01-08T16:12:16+00:00

Ladies stop bending over backwards for men, stop taking them back! They would never tolerate the things they put us through.

Ms_Tilly · 2020-01-08T12:08:42+00:00

I love that everything else shit. Everything is perfect, BUT.... He's my soulmate and best friend, BUT....

saxophonepax · 2020-01-08T14:41:56+00:00

There was a recent one I read about a 21yr old guy who was obsessed with a teddy bear and would regularly include it while they had sex even after she said no and expressed her discomfort. Why she was even posting to reddit for advice on how to "talk to him" rather than dump him ASAP I will never know!!

2020-01-08T18:25:29+00:00

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gigababejfl · 2020-01-08T19:44:57+00:00

I have completely avoided that sub and most dating subs because I cannot tolerate this life when I see the absolute weak minded fuckery that comes out of the mouths of these girls.

Anyone who knows me irl knows I'm quite sensitive and soft about certain things but that, to me, is a skyscraper level over being an actual moron.

Chicks will be like "he raped me but I'm worried if I say anything, its rude and will hurt his feelings"

Bitch, what

I honestly cannot with some of these chicks so for my own wellness, I avoid completely.

Sienna57 · 2020-01-08T13:35:40+00:00

It’s also when they will think about doing something even if they are heinous and how much leeway people get. Literally yesterday on the front page were two posts about leaving people homeless -

AITA For kicking my girlfriend out after she was mean and eventually yelled at my 10 year old orphaned brother who came to live with us

What should I do - we’ve been broken up for 7 months and my ex-boyfriend won’t leave?

fleur0394 · 2020-01-08T19:34:34+00:00

Raise your hand if your family fucked you up in conditioning you to be this way. Family can set the tone for a large amount of bull you forgive or tolerate in future relationships. It's such a huge disadvantage and unlearning all of it is a struggle.

Goddess_Sekh · 2020-01-08T22:02:29+00:00

The sad reality is that many women grow up feeling so insecure and worthless. They are consistantly taught that you need a man in your life to be successful (because the ultimate purpose of a women is still considered in our society to be a wife and mother) so that they cling to any man that shows them the slightest interest...regardless of how fucking awful they are.

And because our society raises women to think that they so desperately need a man they will put up with all kinds of toxic, abusive bullshit...and these men continue with their awful behavior and treatment of women because the women they treat this way, tolerate their behavior and therefore they don't really see an issue with it.

So fucked up...

samismyboy · 2020-01-08T20:34:12+00:00

My Father tried to push my Mom out of a moving car when they were dating. She still married him. Damn! She needed this Sub!!!

saint-jezebel · 2020-01-08T17:06:56+00:00

It’s funny because it’s true. I had to leave that sub 🤣

drion4 · 2020-01-08T16:27:15+00:00

I never knew Angela from "the Office" was on Reddit!

nebulaedust · 2020-01-08T10:18:50+00:00

*doormats in relationships

simply_unaffected · 2020-01-09T03:09:50+00:00

I hate how normalized violence against women is or how women continue to be in relationships for some form of stability, financial or otherwise. Girl needs to get independent and dump this psycho before he comes after her next.

SingleDadSoundcloud · 2020-01-08T13:27:38+00:00

The solution is to get engaged to Andy Bernard and mourn Sprinkles until Dwight gets his shit together

2020-01-08T17:48:33+00:00

For a moment I thought I was on r/relationship_advice, lmao.

Sometimes a bit of irony hammers a point better than a 1000-words serious post.

wingsoverthere · 2020-01-09T02:30:00+00:00

Not even lying, my boyfriend once told me he didn't like the way I folded his socks, HIS SOCKS!

Vestbi · 2020-01-08T16:09:59+00:00

no more what lmao

prettylittledragon · 2020-05-14T18:31:14+00:00

sounds like Jenelle from Teen mom 2

Title	No more!
Author	rosapalmera
Upvotes	2870
Comments	120
Date	January 8, 2020 10:06 AM UTC (6 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/FemaleDatingStrategy
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