Reminder: they literally see us as objects to possess and discard (and you should keep your personal business to yourself)

Forwardgash · 2021-02-14T20:31:27+00:00

Do we judge them based on how many times they watched pixels on a screen? Do we judge them based on the porn-induced ED? Or is it only “fair” if they judge us?

Papaverinum · 2021-02-14T20:32:00+00:00

yet, they wear their worn out socks and underwear for years...

FabledAngryVillager · 2021-02-14T20:50:32+00:00

Men expire sooner, so I'm guessing his gf is gonna take out the trash soon 🥰🥰🥰🥰

wagonwheel_ · 2021-02-14T22:02:57+00:00

Men ✍🏻 view ✍🏻 women ✍🏻 as ✍🏻 objects ✍🏻 and ✍🏻 call ✍🏻 it ✍🏻 “preference” 🤡

PasDeTout · 2021-02-14T22:42:27+00:00

I am so sick of ‘it’s a preference’ which seems only to apply to men. Women don’t get to have preferences.

LetsGetin_Formation · 2021-02-14T21:53:28+00:00

Every time I’ve gotten cheated on, it was with an older pick me.

Men don’t care about age. They care about easy.

Naive 20 year old = Pick me 35 year old. They’re all the same in their eyes. Stay woke y’all.

AbundantOverflow · 2021-02-14T20:57:28+00:00

What’s interesting is that he seems financially successful and has a girlfriend. I wonder how this mindset plays out in their interaction because there’s no way a man can view women this way and it not impact how he treats women.

Ultimately, I think it’s sad because empathy requires seeing other people as human beings, not objects akin to disposable goods. So many women are loyal to opportunistic men yet judged for being hYpERgAmOuS when they dare vet in their best interests.

Fitncurly · 2021-02-14T21:17:56+00:00

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millennialpink2000 · 2021-02-14T23:09:20+00:00

The confidence this idiot possesses to tell women that they MUST see things from a man's perspective in order to date? Like he's some professional???

Men really see themselves as the default and the prize.

singing_stream · 2021-02-14T23:34:30+00:00

and yet they cry when we dump them for a new model that isn't a piece of crap that objectifies women.

slight_sapphire · 2021-02-15T02:04:52+00:00

This is such bs. My idiot brother cheated on his gorgeous wife when she was 25 with someone who was the exact opposite of everything this describes. The lady was 40, had 3 kids, was overweight, and not what would be considered conventionally attractive. I’m sorry if my description of this person sounds mean, but I’m just trying to point out that none of what they say matters to them actually does. It’s all just about opportunity.

Interesting_Day1188 · 2021-02-14T23:27:44+00:00

And I prefer men that don't have such a delicate, fragile, made of sugar and will melt in a gentle spring mist, ego that they can handle a woman 'with a past' aka life experience.

This guy is such a loser. This is the epitome of give me a clueless woman so I can manipulate her to be whatever makes me feel comfortable.

uptownxthot · 2021-02-15T02:25:12+00:00

i saw one of his photos and of course he’s a man with no jawline.

spinsterchachkies · 2021-02-14T20:56:50+00:00

This is why you can’t share your personal life with a man you are dating until you know he is HV (Rape, molestation, number of prior partners, illness or if you go to therapy etc.)

ReignOnYou95 · 2021-02-14T23:11:12+00:00

Do they think the same doesnt apply to men?

Interesting_Day1188 · 2021-02-15T00:22:08+00:00

How many of you think that if Cardi B were single and showed interest in this guy that he'd be all over it?

PinkPetalCdistbeauty · 2021-02-14T21:41:40+00:00

Spoken like a true nvm that wouldn’t know his proper way around a pussy even with an instruction tutorial 🤦‍♀️

cmil7731 · 2021-02-15T00:03:28+00:00

This reminds me of that Twitter comment- “In today’s episode of what object are women being compared to today...?” Clothes, cars, and toys. For real? We are not objects. We are not disposable. We are not something you can buy. And we are certainly not something that wears out. Gross comment from a gross man with an inferiority complex trying to hype himself online.

TheDameWithoutASmile · 2021-02-14T21:34:13+00:00

A. People aren't objects. Men keep forgetting that part. B. By his own "logic", wouldn't women prefer virgin men, too? It'S jUsT a PrEfErEnCe after all. Just human nature! But if we said that, we'd be castigated. How DARE we not want single dads/pornsick dudes/divorced guys? C. There are actually a lot of things you don't want new, so...

Exsqueeze_meh · 2021-02-15T07:01:50+00:00

“once a women is worn out we move on, its just a preference, what’s the problem?”

I just never want to interact with men because of this shit. Calling them sociopaths doesn’t even cut it anymore, what kind of a person thinks that line of thinking is ok?

EmilyTheGr8 · 2021-02-14T20:37:33+00:00

Makes my stomach churn just thinking there are men out there with this attitude.

ferociouslycurious · 2021-02-15T00:34:42+00:00

Sounds like someone who doesn’t know how to take care of anything. My kids outgrew that years ago.

Pecuche · 2021-02-15T03:46:25+00:00

Love the laugh he gives himself at the end, like he's being cute or something. Can't believe he's proud to have this mentality.

Emergency-Feed8216 · 2021-02-15T06:40:11+00:00

So Mr. Dahmer, why did you murder and eat those people?

It's just pREfErenCe.

K0rla · 2021-02-15T10:14:00+00:00

He’s right, misogyny is a choice and he’s choosing to be a piece of sexist trash. I suppose many women he meets will choose to not give him any time, but that preference will probably upset him because he doesn’t like high maintenance women (ie women that likes it be treated as people)

eyooooo123 · 2021-02-15T11:38:42+00:00

They treat women like objects and then wonder why they never have a fulfilling relationship

Important_Page_6846 · 2021-02-15T18:00:37+00:00

Yet males replace all of those things eventually no matter what. If that’s how he feels that’s his prerogative but don’t bitch and moan when you’re an old fart who’s left high and dry. Or when the only reason women can stand to be near you is for your money. Or when you’re dying alone and nobody wants to be by your side. That’s how humans work, you can do whatever you want but they’re not a figment of your imagination living just to pleasure you. They have their own thoughts, wants and needs and when you’re gone you can’t force nothing on them, you’ll be forgotten in a dark corner of their mind as the worthless piece of shit that you are. And for any lurkers out there, take it from someone in the healthcare field. Males found rotting by a neighbor solely because of the smell is a very common occurrence and more often than not nobody comes to claim the body. Neighbors will begin paying property taxes and loot bank accounts but your body ends up cremated and thrown in a mass grave with other unwanted folk. 🤷🏾‍♀️ there’s no way it was worth it when you sit there alone at your deathbeds, one of the most significant moments to see what mark you’ve left on this earth. Most of these scrotes only leave shit stained underwear and trauma so we can’t say it’s not well deserved.

Dexaroo5716 · 2021-02-16T05:17:28+00:00

They cry their eyes out about a lot of women preferring tall men though. When we have actual preferences it’s a crime. They have abusive, hateful attitudes toward women in general and label it a “preference” but that’s ok right? Only women’s preferences are subject to approval by the scrotes? FOH. As long as we are stating preferences openly I also prefer it if my men don’t store their head directly up their own chauvinistic ass. It’s just how we are lol

505ithy · 2021-02-15T04:13:41+00:00

Reminds me of that episode of mad men when Faye tells don that he only likes the beginnings of things. Too many men model him without understanding his character that’s for sure.

quarterlyavocado · 2021-02-15T15:06:13+00:00

That first sentence isn't even true. Would he choose a "new and fresh" Chrysler minivan just off the factory line over a 5-year-old Bentley? No.

HighPriestess31 · 2021-02-15T16:20:34+00:00

When greedy consumption is the order of the day, dehumanization becomes acceptable. Then, treating people like objects is not only acceptable but required behavior. It's the culture of exchange, the tyranny of marketplace values. Those values inform attitudes about love. Cynicism about love leads young adults to believe there is no love to be found and that relationships are needed only to the extent that they satisfy desires... Relationships are treated like Dixie cups. They are the same. They are disposable. If it does not work, drop it, throw it away, get another. Committed bonds (including marriage) cannot last when this is the prevailing logic. And friendships or loving community cannot be valued or sustained.

- Bell Hooks, All About Love

bonenecklace · 2021-02-15T18:23:50+00:00

There is literally no medical or physical way to tell how many partners a woman has had unless she has had children, & even then you would only be able to definitively say that she has had sex (x) amount of times depending on how many children she has. These dusty scrotes think that they have some super power where every women's number of partners is floating above her head like a goddamn sim character.

Donttellmehow2feel · 2021-02-15T01:44:26+00:00

As far as I've seen, the ones who talk like this online are incels who are unlikely to ever have access to any woman or a car at all. I emphasize online, because no merely successful man IRL pulls this bs fantasies.

devoushka · 2021-02-15T14:47:34+00:00

Out of curiosity I asked 2 of my male friends if they care at all how many partners a girl has had. They categorically said no, even if it was many more than they had. I've never heard anyone else say that they care either, only heard pickmes telling other women that men care. Pretty sure it's only incels and pickmes on the internet that believe this.

HeavyMetalLobster · 2021-02-15T15:25:08+00:00

Actually had a conversation about this again with my current partner

He has slept with 11 women total. I have slept with 43 men total. We are both in our mid thirties

This wasn’t ever a secret or a mystery. I told him I’ve experienced what it’s like “around the block” and he has more to offer than any of them. The grass isn’t greener. I’ve seen it. It’s shit grass with ants and rocks and just terrible. He treats me amazingly and I wouldn’t ever give that up. I’m not tempted to leave when I know who I have is the very best

Title	Reminder: they literally see us as objects to possess and discard (and you should keep your personal business to yourself)
Author	AbundantOverflow
Upvotes	384
Comments	64
Date	February 14, 2021 8:26 PM UTC (5 years ago)
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