tw: rape. the comment section is full of angry scrotes blaming her, telling her she didn’t get raped, not to ruin the guy’s life because it’s her fault she was drunk.

purasangria · 2022-03-01T14:48:25+00:00

The fact that he was touching her while she was throwing up in the toilet shows what a degenerate he is. Disgusting.

SupremeDearLeader · 2022-03-01T15:21:45+00:00

How many women do you know that sexually molest another human who is vomiting in a toilet????

yoursultana · 2022-03-01T15:51:58+00:00

Imagine if a man wrote this about his gay male coworker raping him. I would like to see the scrotes in the comments then.

wonkyeyes8877 · 2022-03-01T17:40:04+00:00

Just a couple weeks ago, a male wrote a front-page post about how he thinks he was raped because he and a woman both got drunk and he woke up naked with her. Nothing else included. The top comments told him he was raped. Reddit fucking loves to accuse women of rape when there is zero evidence. But when it's a woman getting drunk? ...

fuckbeingautobanned · 2022-03-01T11:15:13+00:00

Good news everyone! The post got more attention and almost all of the top comments are denouncing the coworker's actions. Spread the word ya'll: intoxicated consent is NOT consent :)!

iaintgonnacallyou · 2022-03-01T13:09:44+00:00

Jesus Christ the comments are vile. Telling her to sort out her drinking problem, telling her how she’s supposed to feel or what actually happened as if they know better than she did, “don’t ruin his life because you regret having sex”.

Someone went as far as to say “everyone is talking about her but what about the guy? He was just as drunk!” Are you fucking kidding me?

The_Cat_Empress · 2022-03-01T16:15:16+00:00

“We we’re on very uneven ground”

This…this is disgusting. Beyond words.

How can you see a woman throwing up in the toilet and get it up? How can you be a disgusting perv to feel up someone so vulnerable.

I want to give OOP a hug…she has a lot of issues and the alcohol just made it worse. JFC this is horrible. She needs help.

aquietsword · 2022-03-01T10:59:34+00:00

Rescue mission? She should absolutely report him, this WAS rape. Reddit males will never support rape victims because the majority of them would/have done the same. It takes a fraction of a brain cell to know that a puking woman CANNOT FUCKING CONSENT. Scrotes are such cancer on society.

dembar126 · 2022-03-01T21:42:02+00:00

"I'd never want anything to do with him sober"

This is it. As soon as the reddit scrotes read this part, they were triggered. Because they know she's probably talking about an ugly socially awkward guy, which is reddits main demographic.

Thereismorethanthis · 2022-03-01T11:08:30+00:00

oh, I forgot to mention that all but one comment I read left by men…their solution was for her to “talk to him about what happened” the fuck? many of them were super aggressive about it, too. arguing their point over and over and saying the real problem is “her drinking problem”.

creamtart_ · 2022-03-01T11:43:10+00:00

Jesus fucking Christ. This breaks my heart. Women need to stop gaslighting themselves! The bloody mental gymnastics justifying male entitlement and violence, I cannot even.

She can’t even give herself the space to call her rape experience for what it is. That is so tragic. Not sure if it’s a trauma response (could be, i.e. refusing to call it for what it is/ denying it happened) but I’m getting a really depressing vibe that she’s got extremely low self-esteem and regularly accepts shitty male behaviour towards her.

May she find FDS and heal.

Huntscunt · 2022-03-01T13:39:32+00:00

Nothing screams sexy as much as vomiting in a toilet....gross.

Honestly, this right here tells me there's no way he didn't know that she couldn't consent.

DivineGoddess1111111 · 2022-03-02T00:19:23+00:00

We have had a very famous case of a young woman who was raped in our parliament house by a coworker. She was also black out drunk.

Of course all the scrotes saying she just regretted it in the morning because she has a boyfriend, so she called it raped.

She was found alone, naked and passed out in her workplace which is the seat of our federal government. What woman would consent to that?

A_SGD1998 · 2022-03-01T23:35:12+00:00

Hi. This is my post. I’m not allowed to say anything else on the original post but thank you all for the support. A bit of an update/clarification here. This didn’t happen at my work, it was a night out with coworkers so I wasn’t making any drinks. My manager was mentioned because he knows the manager of the place and thats the only reason I know I paid my bill. I felt embarrassed to say what he did but seeing everyone assume he was holding my hair… He was grabbing at my chest. Thats when my bra came off. I found some of his… in my hair. I did go to the ER and get tested for it all He texted me the next day saying I bit this lip so hard he bled. Thank you to all who reached out. This is a very isolating experience.

stevie7116 · 2022-03-01T15:51:15+00:00

Oh hey… this happened to me to. It’s rape. I’m just dealing with it now 7 years later (therapy) and am finally able to admit what happened to me that night.

abby_ch238 · 2022-03-02T00:14:15+00:00

I haven’t read the post bc of the trigger warning but it’s funny how they blame us for drinking but if we don’t drink they keep pushing drinks our way and demands to know why we don’t drink. Like yes we should be able to drink and not be harmed but even when we do take the precaution of not drinking to stay safe they whine. Why? Because they want to harm us

everythingandlove · 2022-03-01T14:09:20+00:00

This is why I run in the other direction from people who think that I need to "get drunk" to say I'm an adult.. it's an experience thing I guess? But yeah, no, I don't want to get raped, or even worse!

ImpressiveHat8550 · 2022-03-01T10:32:43+00:00

I’ve seen the comments and their disgusting. The most insidious thing males have ever done is spread the myth that it’s only rape if it’s done in a dark alley by a stranger. They know good and damn well what consent is, they just don’t care. After all, in their mind your just a female. It speaks volumes that when a woman discusses something disturbing that happened to her (rape/assault/abuse/stalking) the FIRST thing men do is start looking for ways to twist things up to make it her fault.

poor-as-Sin · 2022-03-01T10:43:58+00:00

"Just a friend". A male friend. A co-worker. The type of friend who lurks at the outskirts of your soul, ears peeled for the first sign of weakness, so he can rape you.

nothingisrealidc · 2022-03-01T15:41:09+00:00

If the feeling was mutual then why did he wait until until she was in a very vulnerable position to start anything? Why did he put his hands on her when she was vomiting in the toilet? This rapist loser knew damn well what his position was in her life before that night. He crossed the line because he knew it would require her to be completely not in her mind to be ‘able’ to do that. These types of men would rather rape than miss out on sex because the woman they’re attracted to, doesn’t want them. Maybe all his ‘girl issues’ that he used to talk to her about were all direct consequences from him being a rapist goof. I really hope that she goes forward with making his life hell or pressing charges because if that’s the way he thought with her, he’s probably done it before or will do it again.

hilariouslystated · 2022-03-03T05:42:12+00:00

This just goes to show that a lot of the time, you can't even keep a scrote as a friend. They're usually waiting to sleep with you and in some cases, don't mind raping you to achieve that goal. They're sociopathic.

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