Why can’t they stop invading our spaces? This guy thinks he can waltz into a sub dedicated to women decorating their homes for advice. Mod thinks it’s fine despite complaints. He’s entitled to a “woman’s touch” I guess.

Zurflu · 2021-08-07T15:07:48+00:00

At the very least he could have just posted his photos and not mentioned he was male, no? Instead he had to announce that he shouldn't be there on the way in. What a weirdo.

Lemon_bars_addiction · 2021-08-07T14:34:22+00:00

He's not clueless at all, just wants to be mommied so feigning cluelessness and then hoping to strike up a chat conversation with one of them with the aim of it leading to more. Why are men.

Edit: Also I hate his place.

505-Minute-Drive · 2021-08-07T15:57:28+00:00

Why is it entirely one beige color? 😵💀

springtulip475 · 2021-08-07T14:46:02+00:00

useless pick me mod

Apprehensive_Ad_7917 · 2021-08-07T15:50:31+00:00

You know what I did when I got my own apartment and wanted to make it more homey and inviting? I googled it. Women aren’t born with an innate ability to do this shit, we just put in the effort.

Phoenix__Rising2018 · 2021-08-07T15:11:54+00:00

Another loser using women to trick other women into thinking he's not a loser or a perv.

Got to be "inclusive" by allowing men to use us! Be a good girl!

melodicamagica · 2021-08-07T14:45:39+00:00

He must know at least one woman he can ask about this?? And he knows he’s doing something wrong by posting on there but of course he gets coddled. “We should be more inclusive!” 🙄 NO! Men need to stay out of women’s spaces. I don’t care what they want.

abirdofthesky · 2021-08-07T15:34:59+00:00

What a boring, greige place.

DandelionScreaming · 2021-08-07T16:04:32+00:00

It wouldn’t be such an issue if he came asking for advice for a daughter’s room or something… nope. He wanted to go specifically to the woman’s sub for a living room, despite the existence of an identical and active male sub. 😐 Why? Why unless he assumed women are naturally better at taking care of a home, or wants to use other women online to attract women irl? We don’t really wanna deal with that. Also… yeah beige everywhere 😬

It’s really hard to find female-only spaces online. I don’t mind shared spaces, but pretend female oriented spaces annoy me greatly.

CorruptSoulGem · 2021-08-07T14:32:36+00:00

I’m confused where is this posted?

arnezuara · 2021-08-07T15:27:44+00:00

He sounds like a predator lol.

modernmedusaa · 2021-08-07T15:33:33+00:00

Lmfaooooo yeah we can tell bro - shit looks like a basic ass showroom that went bust over lockdown

No doubt he has a female cleaner coming in too

Dear god this is why I refuse to move in with men - their bland taste of home decor . It’s tasteless, low effort and unimaginative just like them 🤣

ububTkuc · 2021-08-07T16:46:09+00:00

This is a prime example of the patriarchal flex of demanding unpaid labor form anything taht possesses a Virginia. He could have asked his momma, he could have asked his big sis or a female cousin, he could have ask3s a pickle that he occasionally hoooks up with, he could have used the free interior decoration services provided by some of the better furniture stores, he could have paid a interior decorator or (if on a budget) an interior decorating student. But noooooooo, instea, he insists on crashing into a conversation not intended for him and demanding service!

janeaustenfan99 · 2021-08-07T18:05:40+00:00

Tell me how to make my space more comfortable so I can have as much casual sex with as many women as possible in it

Catz10000 · 2021-08-07T15:14:11+00:00

I honestly missed the part about him not being a man. My first thought was what woman has ZERO personal touches in her home? So, the signs are always there to see. Guys have such bland taste.

MajesticSkyPachyderm · 2021-08-07T15:33:15+00:00

Ugh, I saw this and it pissed me off too. Fuck off to a sub about male living spaces mate (and if they don't exist, create them, but leave female spaces to female people, it's in the name 🙄)

BBQCoolRanchQueen · 2021-08-07T15:38:27+00:00

He is there for a couple of reasons; one, he wants the free emotional labour and two, to be predatory and try to pick up women. Being inclusive in a women's only group doesn't mean including men.

crazykitten27 · 2021-08-07T16:26:03+00:00

It's a power play men do this all the time! He could have just posted the picture and asked for advice or posted on one of the other interior decorating subreddits. He didn't even have to bring up that he was a man at all. But his whole point was to invade a space that is just for women and either "be excepted and given validation and attention" or be banned and if he was banned after that you'd know he'd take it back to one of the toxic men subreddits and cry about the misandry.

Men get off on invading women only safe spaces thats why its so rare to find women only spaces. Its a power trip to men to walk all over our boundaries!

fireforestfairy · 2021-08-07T17:36:40+00:00

Which sub is this in?

spinsterchachkies · 2021-08-07T15:40:33+00:00

Go away ew lol

daphne_dumaine · 2021-08-07T16:39:19+00:00

So sick of men using women's energy and time.

ItsFreezen · 2021-08-07T18:10:49+00:00

And then he gets helpful replies and thanks them with PM assaults later.

mashibeans · 2021-08-07T18:22:29+00:00

That mod should go and get picked by him already.

Painfulmenstruation · 2021-08-07T18:28:13+00:00

If he’d just wanted design tips he’d have pretended to be female. Rather, he knows pick mes will flock to respond so he announces his existence as a male.

Why don’t men do what women do? We look at photos of homes and learn about interior design. The whole point, in my opinion, is that the decor of your home reflects your style and tastes.

catlady4u · 2021-08-07T18:18:25+00:00

No, he didn't have to announce he was a man. Isn't it just like a scrote to invade women's spaces where they are not wanted. I am SO grateful for our mods who keep FDS scrote free! 😁

Big-Respond8481 · 2021-08-07T18:12:55+00:00

There is a male living spaces, he can use that too.

Peak_Tree · 2021-08-07T21:11:58+00:00

He's not clueless. I've seen this happen MANY times. A man enters a man-free space and pick me mods/ admins think it's perfect...only to end up with their group being overrun by scrotes.

Many of those actively seek positions of power in those kind's of groups...they have demed themselves the arbiters of what we can and can't do and discussiong things in spaces that are men free is something they think we shouldn't be able to do.

fleuretpomme · 2021-08-07T15:34:12+00:00

The mod is a pickme propping up sexist ideologies. As others stated, it's rooted in misogyny to think women are naturally good at this kind of stuff. He could have asked a mixed gender group.

He may have worded it cutely/nicely, but let's be real, he and other men's intentions are to make the space appealing to women so that they can fuck.

anonymoose852 · 2021-08-07T15:59:10+00:00

Hi 👋 I'm fully aware that I am breaking the rules of the sub, but I'm still going to post anyway and mention so because I don't care and I know I'll get away with it.

I am explicitly stating that I need The Female Advice because of course the males are less homely and welcoming hurdedurdurdur. Forget that an exact sub for men in my situation already exists for the same purpose.

Also forget that I posted on said sub for men already but got lukewarm responses from them so now I need the Females for emotional support. Give me the nurturing I deserve since my fellow men could not provide!!!

Ok, all joking aside, I'm just salty because I cannot imagine a scenario where a woman could waltz into a men's discussion group and ask for decorating help because she wants to make stuff more "homely." Is there anything really wrong about asking for help? No. But is there a real sense of women always being expected to provide emotional labor for men, to accommodate for them NO mattter what? (I.e. be always supportive, always kind, always welcoming?) Yes.

MeggyCasteejo · 2021-08-07T16:04:41+00:00

So HE did something wrong by coming into a designated women's space, yet THE WOMEN are being forced to ignore the rules to accommodate him. And women who highlight the rules are being called "ridiculous".

That mod is an idiot. Turning against her own group and insulting them to please a man. Pathetic.

princesspoppy77 · 2021-08-07T17:47:46+00:00

The place looks like shit.

Potential_Ad_1451 · 2021-08-07T17:56:25+00:00

Why are men like this. How hard is it to learn to decorate. Women learned. We didn’t come out of the womb with knowledge of interior design. I literally hate that so often they don’t even try a little bit of critical thinking.

killaguyy · 2021-08-07T17:56:39+00:00

Lmao

alkahina_ · 2021-08-07T18:08:09+00:00

His apartment is hideous 🤢

BossBae247 · 2021-08-07T18:29:23+00:00

This all sounds like a trap!!!😵I get bad vibes about what this NVM is posting.

bisanti · 2021-08-07T19:05:24+00:00

The white dining set takes it over the edge of hideousness. That’s my advice.

Ambitious_Cup5774 · 2021-08-07T19:09:26+00:00

He should be hiring an interior decorator, but why bother when he has the free labor of women.

the-worst- · 2021-08-07T20:14:11+00:00

There's a male sub and even other non-gendered subs that he can go to instead.

WOMEN EXCLUSIVE SPACES NEED TO STAY EXCLUSIVE TO WOMEN. There is NO reason a man should or needs to enter a women specific area. They have plenty of spaces that are exclusive or even male specific. And the pickmes are actively working for the idea of NO women only spaces while also not being against male only spaces. It's ridiculous.

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