Well, ive been trying to make friends. The thing is men are evil and we all know this.

Every time I am around a group of men, this is outside of work or school, so voluntary association, drinking beer smoking weed type of stuff, the toxic "i get sex haha you dont!" talk always comes out and the men reveal their true colors on how they see the world and how they see women as objects.

This guy is tall and attractive, and very violent and aggressive, everything he says is how he is better and others are not. (he used to also bully me in high school, like physically assaulting me at times, but I was told he was different now 10 years later)

He always has women around, and yesterday decided to belittle me about tinder. And also cause he wanted to tell everyone how im a "retard" and so on. I just sat their quietly while he told everyone all about what a lonely loser I am, how i paid for tinder premium 5 years ago and still dont get matchs (never ask men for dating advice) and so on, then I just got up and left, ignored peoples texts after and blocked them all.

This isnt the first man ive met like this, but the fact they are ALWAYS drowning in women makes me wonder if their behavior is what attracts women.

The fact a woman can sit there and listen to a man she is fucking belittle another man cause he "lives alone" and "never had a gf" and so on is weird.

I tried to put this like in reverse, like lets pretend I had a gf, and she was picking on and bullying another girl in front of me because she's weird or ugly. That would be a huge turn-off for me.

So I was wondering if that kind of behavior is actually a turn on for women or not? cause i noticed the more aggressive and unhinged the man is, the more women he gets.