All they have to do is tell men what they want to hear, and most men fall for it. For example, alot of men, particularly traditional ones, are into the idea of their woman submitting to them. And so if a woman knows that she's dealing with these kinds of men, all she has to do is talk about how her role is to submit to men and be led, and this strokes men's egos so that they don't even think about why another human being would willingly submit to them.

Most men can't see that even the women who say they are into submitting to their partners are manipulating them. No person with self respect willingly submits to another, and no intelligent person wants to be led. Also, understanding the selfish mentality of most people should raise any man's red flag when a woman says she likes being submissive and being led. The reason why some women want to submit and be led is because they realise they get more power in a relationship this way. If they "submit" and are being led, this means they aren't responsible for what happens, and not being responsible for their actions is something a large number of women like.

Unfortunately most men have been so dumbed down and manipulated that they don't think about any of this. They want to be providers, leaders and protectors of women, but none of them ever stop to ask why. Since most people are selfish and are always looking out for themselves, men should ask themselves why any woman would want to be submissive, be led and provided for. Its obviously because she benefits from that arrangement. It allows her to have the upperhand, otherwise she wouldn't want it. And since most women think highly of themselves, why would they submit to any man? Men need to start asking these questions, rather than just accepting it because women are telling them what they want to hear.