Men are much more likely to face initial rejections

Women are much more likely to face manipulations

Initial rejection is close to meaningless, she doesnt like my face so what ? someone will.

It's when you put your heart and energy that it hurts. Being pumped into believing feelings are mutual and a relationship is starting only to be dumped the next day is not even comparable to rejections. It is traumatising

It is that perspective that makes dating so difficult. Women have to be on high guard and to find ways to protect themselves from this happening.

I prefer facing 100 rejections than one pump and dump. I am thankful to be able to have confidence that if im getting responses then she's most likely interested and being honest about her intentions. I know they have no reason to lie and the rare times a girl who wanted only to hook up and saw that i'd be likely to want to pursue the relationship past that , they have all been clear about their intentions and i have been able to choose for myself.

We never speak about that advantage we have over women. We navigate in a much safer space where we can be much more trustful than women can be.

Please dont respond by a strawman where i would have said men face no problem in relationships. Im talking about that incentive men have to lie and manipulate from desperation/lack of opportunity that women do not have as they can easily find casual sex if they want to and do not need to resort to such low blow to meet their end and the consequences of this disparity