I constantly see “your SMV/RMV is what you can get” and “iT dOeSn’T mAtTeR wHaT yOuR gRaNdMa tHiNkS” etc but people rattling off these tired deflections know exactly what men are talking about when they say this.

There is a certain degree of objectivity in physical beauty that is consistent and observable across multiple cultures. There is a reason there are people that a majority find ugly or attractive. Very few people have THAT unique of a type.

And yes, it most certainly DOES matter in a conversation about women’s delusion and inflated standards.