Inspired by this thread.

We know "virginity" is a big thing for many guys.

But what is it?

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  • Is a woman who sucked dick a virgin?
  • Is a woman who jerked a man off a virgin?
  • Is a woman who had her pussy eaten by a man a virgin?
  • What about if a woman ate her out? Is she a virgin?
  • If a woman fingered her?
  • If a man fingered her?
  • If she used a tampon? A dildo? A vibrator?
  • If she bumped cooters with another woman?
  • What if she had a make-out session with a dude?
  • What if this make-out session included her straddling him on the couch fully clothed where both of them "got off"? Is this woman a virgin?
  • What if she had a naked make-out session with a dude replete with grinding and dry-humping? Is she a virgin?
  • Is it experiencing "sexually-charged intimacy" that makes someone not a virgin? If so, define “sexually-charged intimacy” and how you draw the line?

What makes a person "a virgin"?

Or is that word simply a concept conceived from male fixation and is only applicable to women who have not been vaginally penetrated by a man? Because I believe that's the historical context.