Reading this subreddit you would sometimes get the sense that only psychos, criminals and serial killers get laid. The only way men can get women is to treat them like garbage and all good guys are virgins who are ignored by women. Obviously what I am saying is a bit of an exaggeration of the comments I see on here, but I think it’s worth pointing out that these generalizations are misleading and far from what I see in real life.

Criminals and truly bad guys are a small percentage of the population, who cares how much sex they are having unless you are jealous and what to date the women they are getting with. I’ve been at college for a semester now, and observed the casual sex scene. 99% of guys I know getting laid, gfs etc, are just ordinary guys who like most people are mostly good who can sometimes be assholes depending on the situation. Most do not abuse women, nor are they criminals constantly breaking the law. They are ordinary guys and they are the ones sleeping with the girls redpillers lust over, not criminals.

Hyper focusing on the bad guys of the world and using them as a model for masculinity and dating inspiration is dumb when there are plenty of good guys who have just as much if not more sexual success without being degenerate criminals. Like I’ve pointed out before in a previous thread the reason why it may seem like ‘bad guys’ are sexually successful is because many of the traits associated with dark triad like risk taking are advantages in the casual sex world:

A study has found that men who have a larger range of personality traits are more likely to have sex more often than those who don’t, with the traits also having an impact on the likelihood of having children.

Carried out by the Queensland University of Technology in Australia, the study published in the journal Personality and Individual Differences involved about 3,000 heterosexual male participants, and 1,500 heterosexual females.

The researchers looked at five main personality traits. Those were extraversion, agreeableness, conscientiousness, neuroticism, and openness to experience. They are known as the “big five traits,” which recent research has suggested are important categories that describe most of us pretty

“Throughout history, competitive advantages have helped men and women achieve increased success in their occupation, sport, artistic endeavors, their ability to acquire and secure resources, and ultimately, their survival,” said co-author Dr Stephen Whyte in a statement.

“However, little is known about the advantages, or disadvantages, personality traits provide in relation to sexual activity and offspring success.”

They found that compared to women, men were much more reliant on personality factors when it came to sexual frequency and the chance of having children. Men who were more extroverted, conscientious, emotionally stable, but less agreeable, tended to have sex more often, while higher extraversion seemed to be the only factor that affected women.

https://www.iflscience.com/brain/these-personality-traits-could-dictate-how-often-men-have-sex-study-claims/