Why is using magic slightly associated with femininity? If magic existed in real life men would be the most likely ones to use it. Just look at the real life things that are close to magic such as computer engineering, I know more about it than the average person but it still sometines just seems like magic to me, and not that many women are into it. All I'm trying to say is that women wouldn't be interested in magic if it actually existed, keep in mind "magic" was illegal and men are more likely to break laws.