Women's dating/relational motivations are seen by mainstream society as more noble than men's, but they actually aren't

PlayfulLawyer · 2021-08-25T01:40:07+00:00

There's always going to be double standards in regards to gender and sexuality in society, it just is what it is: male promiscuity versus female promiscuity, women having a vibrator versus man having a sex bot, cougars vs Dirty Old Men, male virginity vs female virginity , it just is what it is guys

As far as what more noble, I don't think there's anything wrong with men wanting sex like we do and being horndogs, all that, I enjoy my lust, as far as comparing it to women wanting to play house or whatever I don't think there's anything wrong with that either

Icy_Consideration905 · 2021-08-24T23:41:12+00:00

before the 18th century female sexuality in the united kingdom was portrated as animalistic and irrational aggressive(craving cocks and so on) , and somehow after that (even historians) have no clear explanation why a shift in the social dynamics acquired and somehow men became the aggressor and the more primal gender and women are portrayed as angels with no sexual desire aka the fairer sex, unfortunately we attach sex and the desire /lust to be priminal because good people dont/cant enjoy sex, that's why you have bunch of women screaming out of their lungs that "looks dont matter" in man because it deter the image that most women want to live by(female sexuality is more rational) , feminist want to blame the patriarchy for that shift, but alot of historians believe that women project the fairer sex helped women to gain alot of power and respect and helped the feminist movment to get wider and stronger and taking seriously (because before that no one will believe a slut who she only care about how big her husband's cock is will need or care to vote ) !!

now my take on all of that is i believe that women are collectivist so they will go by the book and the book say that women are more than just a sexual been (like men) and they look for more , but reality is most of them need a good pounding(from a man they lust for) and you will see how aggressive and animalistic she is!!they can go on and on and on!!

Mrs_Drgree · 2021-08-24T22:00:12+00:00

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Adaptoh · 2021-08-25T04:01:40+00:00

Men want love and the ability to protect and cater to a woman, but men are also extremely prideful creatures especially in today's society.

No man wants a woman that everyone has had or to be embarrassed by a woman mentally and financially. Women believe they're more valuable than they are because modern men are in desperation.

PM_ME_STRIPPERS · 2021-08-25T09:07:15+00:00

the men who only want thing aka SEX are usually the red flags, which women will choose to ignore because of the mans good looks

happygone25 · 2021-08-25T10:06:35+00:00

Well in a Darwinian sense, they (AFBB is what I assume you're referring to) are very noble... except for the fact that it's not how survival of the fittest works. Getting railed by the tall and handsome athlete and then expecting the awkward and nerdy programmer or rest of society to pay for your choices is NOT survival of the fittest, that's just cuckoldry.

MisterFlipside · 2021-08-24T22:22:44+00:00

Male sexuality is associated with wanton infidelity, female sexuality is associated with child rearing and family. Family is wholesome, fucking is not.

superlurkage · 2021-08-25T00:55:14+00:00

I’m afraid children are still seen as a collective, not selfish, interest. Both economically and socially

wtknight · 2021-08-24T22:51:29+00:00

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TheSmallerGambler · 2021-08-25T12:07:27+00:00

Public Social pressure tends to be pro-civilization in nature. Thus the woman’s imperative is viewed as more morally favorable and even as the moral default in civilizations which prioritize security, commitment, responsibility to provide childcare, etc.

wtknight · 2021-08-24T22:29:33+00:00

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kissmetilyouredrunk · 2021-08-24T22:23:56+00:00

Didn’t you just say it yourself? Wanting love, meaning, and your children to be protected and cared for IS more noble than wanting your penis to feel really really good

tylerwkess · 2021-08-25T01:57:19+00:00

Women date/marry for economic reasons, men date/marry for love.

EmptyApartmint · 2021-08-25T03:55:34+00:00

As someone else said: family is wholesome, fucking is not. The "playing house" only seems like a chore to men who have no interest in evolving to the next stage in their life- which is fatherhood and legacy building. There is nothing interesting about the game of hooking up. The outcome is always ejaculation and moving onto the next thing. The relationship- however, is where the excitement begins... That's closer to the "playing house" aspect of life than the "hook up" culture aspect.

Men want quantity, women want quality.

IcarusKiki · 2021-08-25T05:10:16+00:00

Just almost got assaulted by a homeless guy who followed me home because im an attractive woman. Had to call the cops because he was screaming explatives at me and following me after I ignored him asking me sexual questions. Every woman I know has been made to feel unsafe because of male sexuality.

SaBahRub · 2021-08-24T23:56:14+00:00

No, they’re just seen as less violent/rapey

Megabyte7637 · 2021-08-24T23:58:59+00:00

ChibsFilipTelfordd · 2021-08-24T23:23:40+00:00

Eh. Male sexuality is praised too nowadays, listen to pop music.

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Mrs_Drgree · 2021-08-25T01:36:59+00:00

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Lateralanouncer · 2021-08-25T22:13:11+00:00

I think this has recently changed.

Women's dating/relational motivations are seen by mainstream society as more noble than men's, but they actually aren't

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Title	Women's dating/relational motivations are seen by mainstream society as more noble than men's, but they actually aren't
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Date	August 24, 2021 9:51 PM UTC (4 years ago)
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