Do women who are into “cute” or “feminine” looking guys exist?

Yourlovelydeadqueen · 2021-12-28T00:53:03+00:00

Gothic artsy girls are you type, we tend to prefer men that have this androgynous look

flapperfemmefatale · 2021-12-28T00:45:35+00:00

Scrimmy_Bingus2 · 2021-12-27T23:32:36+00:00

I've noticed it's very common in Asia for women to prefer men with more feminine features. Not as common for adult women in the west, more of a teenage phase here.

DirtyDremel · 2021-12-27T23:50:39+00:00

Artsy, alternative, gothic girls would be into you.

Adopt an alternative look and work on your confidence.

philomexa · 2021-12-27T23:39:16+00:00

If you are small/feminine looking/boyish/cute it would do you well to pickup music/art and lean into alt-fasion.

Some women love androgynous artsy men.

DrinkItInMan11 · 2021-12-27T23:50:10+00:00

Of course there are, Harry Styles is popular and considered attractive and he's more feminine than masculine. I'd say they're a minority though compared to women who like strong masculine men.

ididntwanttoexist · 2021-12-28T02:19:26+00:00

Another person just saying yes. It's not the norm at all, and whether you choose to lean into it or go the opposite way and try to become more masculine looking depends on what kind of girl you want to attract, mass vs. niche appeal etc. but the other comments have pretty much been over that and where you might find the women who are into it. But we do exist and we don't all grow out of it after high school like is often asserted. And I actually mean I like feminine or androgynous/gender-ambiguous looking men, not just a guy who has mostly standard-issue masculine features but wears guyliner and wore a dress once on TikTok or something. I've always preferred non-muscular skinny guys with long hair, and generally don't like facial hair. I don't like square jaws, heavy features, or brawny body types. I appreciate personality-wise that a guy is indifferent enough to social norms to present however they feel like, and isn't concerned with how they measure up on some cultural masculinity scale. I'm not exclusively into straight up femboys or anything (and if I were I might as well give up, men like this aren't common at all despite tradcon fretting lol) but it would be my ideal, all else being equal.

merlinscalculator · 2021-12-28T04:11:49+00:00

Bisexual women who have dated both men and women!! Speaking from the experience, the wires in my brain are crossed I like feminine men and masculine women.

cloudnymphe · 2021-12-28T01:06:46+00:00

I’m exclusively attracted to this type. You might have more luck in dating if you leaned in to a more artsy/alt aesthetic and went for women who were more alternative themselves.

I believe part of the appeal of this type of guy for a lot of women is the look itself, but also the confidence it takes to stand out and look pretty as a guy, the fact that they aren’t afraid to paint their nails or wear eye makeup and that they don’t give a fuck if people think they’re weird for not following social norms. Same reasons I’ve seen some men talk about who are into more alt/goth girls. If you aren’t confident or comfortable in your look then maybe that has an effect on who you attract.

But if it doesn’t feel true to yourself and you prefer a more masculine look then you shouldn’t change your whole external expression just to appeal to a partner either.

hypnosistent · 2021-12-28T00:05:10+00:00

Of course, look at all the attention k-pop guys get. If you're naturally androgynous and want to play it up it may be more advantageous to do that than to try and compete with naturally hypermasculine guys. But I wouldn't discourage anyone from becoming more masculine in appearance either, if that's what you'd be happier looking like.

shinsekie · 2021-12-28T01:14:11+00:00

1) Frankly, those are the only type of men I'm attracted to. However, I understand women like me are not common and typically feminine men are not common either. Consequently, I go online to find those men, because the only men that show me any interest offline are the western ideal hypermasculine/buff attractive men.🙃

2) Somebody already mentioned it, but I agree with them... Go to queer spaces & look up transmasculine stuff. There's tons of sources that'll help you reach your goals of attaining a more masculine look. Best of luck!😊

LotBuilder · 2021-12-28T00:51:55+00:00

Yes, the downside is that they are in junior high school.

bison5595 · 2021-12-28T01:58:06+00:00

The problem with this question is you’re not asking the right one. Of course there are women who like feminine guys. Your real question is how many and should I change if it’s too low of a number.

Need_wine · 2021-12-27T23:50:24+00:00

I like feminine looking guys. I’m surprised you’re having an issue. Perhaps dress more masculine, get a masculine hair cut, or put on muscle weight.

januaryphilosopher · 2021-12-28T00:44:16+00:00

Sounds like my type, and I'm fairly confident that I exist. What kind of woman is likely to find you attractive depends on whether you're cute and/or feminine personality-wise as well.

SuspiciousRule · 2021-12-28T00:39:42+00:00

Do women that love k pop stars exist

Salt_Mathematician24 · 2021-12-28T01:56:42+00:00

YES! thank god. I see you and I love you lol.

Femboys are the future buddy.

Edit; for the record I'm a white western woman, mid twenties.

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sernamedeleted · 2021-12-28T00:46:28+00:00

Yes.

DirtyDremel · 2021-12-28T00:53:16+00:00

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DirtyDremel · 2021-12-28T00:53:26+00:00

Confidence is a big one. Not sure how I’d do adopting an alternative look, I don’t like to draw attention to myself, I usually just dress plainly

Expensive-Guitar3609 · 2021-12-28T01:32:46+00:00

Masculine and femenine are behaviours, demeanors, energy.

If women say you are femenine, it's not because the way you look.

Napoleon was 5.4' with a baby face, Adolf Hitler was 5.7' with a psycho face and a weak frame. Putin is like 5.8' and his face... Well I'm not sure he is human, he looks like a fucking robot.

The point is that no one would dare to say those men are "femenine" (we say a lot of things about Hitler but femenine is not one of them).

Part of being a man is having masculine energy. Why you don't give "men's vibes" it's only up to you to figure out. The answer, as always, it's within you. May be you had a fucked up life, may be your father wasn't in the picture while you grew up, may be it's like you said, you got fucked up by genetics, but you still have a dick and two balls and on top of that you WANT to be a man, for me that's all you need.

You need to find your center. Stop worrying about how others percieve you and start working to become the kind of man YOU want to be.

What do you want to do? What are your goals, your aspirations, your dreams? Work on it, with all your energies. You have two hands and two legs and are healthy and also you know how to write and read, let me tell you lots of men have done lots of things with half you have.

Hang around guys more. Make some good friends. Don't compare to other guys, just watch what the ones who are successful do and try to take from them what serves you best.

And yes, start lifting. You'll feel better, I promise.

Your body is the most perfect machine nature has ever created. You are A MAN.

I don't think you realize the full extent of such privilege, but when feminists say you are privileged, believe them.

You are at the top of the food chain bro. You have the things required to DO stuff, to fight, to endure, to thrieve. From hunting mammoths to save your own ass, and conquer the seas, or even walk on the Moon, your kind has made it all.

May be you thing you are a fag with wide hips, a big belly and weak arms. Not gonna lie, you sound like that, but that's because you lack discipline and courage to exploit your capabilities to the 100%. Nature gave you a Ferrari and you are worried about the speed limit. Fuck that shit man, get up and do something.

And don't forget to be physically active. You don't need to be a bodybuilder, just do sports, lift, swimm. Your body will figure out it's natural shape.

alialahmad1997 · 2021-12-28T03:01:52+00:00

I don't think having a baby face is that much of a disadvantage

Fit-Photograph1646 · 2021-12-28T03:51:30+00:00

Yes they do

y2kjanelle · 2021-12-28T04:13:18+00:00

Yeah, some girls are into that look. I personally like baby faces more than the rough, facial hair look. Your style can help too. How you present yourself, how you speak and act can all affect how people perceive you.

Yuri1kida · 2021-12-28T05:04:32+00:00

Yes, I like artsy boys who have soft features or "cute". I'm not really into beards or a lot of muscle.

lybid8 · 2021-12-28T06:07:24+00:00

I think there’s definitely a market for a feminine look but the size of that market will depend on what you mean by feminine. I think of myself as being into feminine faced men, think Willy Cartier for example, but with a nice frame tall somewhat muscular non feminine body.

Siukslinis_acc · 2021-12-28T06:29:42+00:00

I have always had a baby face and looked younger than I am (I’ve had girls tell me I look as young as fifteen and sixteen recently, they were older though).

It could be that they assume you are underage due to your looks. An adult having a romantic/sexual relationship with an underage person is seen as creepy and illegal, so I think the women don't want to deal with it (and even though she might be aware that you are of legal age, there is still a feeling of you being underage lookng at you and people glancing at the relationship would assume that it's an adult having a relationship with an underage person and then the whole gossip thing might start that might make it harder for her to do everyday stuff). Their brain could automatically say "nope, he's underage" and block you as a romantic/sexual relationship for them.

Are there any ways a guy can attempt to counteract a feminine look? Aside from working out I guess

Try growing facial hair and/or body hair. It (at least to me) gives off the feeling that that person is not underage.

2021-12-28T06:32:05+00:00

Depends on feminine. Michael Cera or McLovin is what i consider actually feminine. Those types no. Young johnny depp is the feminine girls like or things of that nature. Low body fat and chisled face. Skinny and twinkish but still angular.

PreparationWorried33 · 2021-12-28T08:28:23+00:00

They do exist. Online you can probably find them in femboi subreddits, fan communities or kink communities. Offline I’m not so sure. I’d advise to go after women a little younger than yourself but it seems you’ve already tried that.

Seagebs · 2021-12-28T08:37:28+00:00

My brother, it is critical for you to get unhealthily involved in the Korean boyband pop scene. Every concert you go to you will be frolicking.

SnooCats37 · 2021-12-28T09:12:17+00:00

You’re asking the wrong question, your question should be how do I feel comfortable in the skin I’m in. I see posts like this and it’s heartbreaking, there’s nothing wrong with how you look. And you look exactly how you’re supposed to. You don’t need to do anything to change that.

You don’t need to change, you need to learn how to love yourself for who you are

pokemin49 · 2021-12-28T09:36:02+00:00

Haven't you heard the good news, friend? Gender is now malleable. Maybe you should play around with being a shemale.

silveryspoons · 2021-12-28T09:44:15+00:00

>Do women who are into “cute” or “feminine” looking guys exist?

90% of women.

DirtyDremel · 2021-12-28T11:40:16+00:00

Hi guy! I am as well looking feminine and it is difficult but not impossible to find a woman who liked me physically. About half of my partners were bisexual or found girls body more attractive than guys body.

Jacke766565 · 2021-12-28T12:38:52+00:00

Hit the gym, eat a lot of protein and some creatine. Do 3 or four upper body workouts for every leg workout in the beginning

Gigamon2014 · 2021-12-28T13:12:19+00:00

If you're aiming for shlubby unattractive female redditors? Sure thing.

Real, hot women with options...your mileage will vary. Significantly.

tonyghow · 2021-12-28T15:50:21+00:00

Yes, though I've only seen it with very young alternative couples and/or the non-monogamous world. e.g. Two cute, feminine, slender 22yos who play video games and smoke weed. e.g. An older woman with a feminine husband she really loves as a cuck, and has the sex she really wants with alpha bulls.
Eat a lot of lean food, work out a lot, get big and cut in a healthy way.

More-Pangolin1310 · 2021-12-28T17:01:58+00:00

Hit the gym. 4-5 days a week. Lift heavy. Start out slow the first few weeks then build and build. Within a year you won’t hear that shit anymore.

Fantastic-Special771 · 2021-12-28T18:06:44+00:00

Focus on what you want to be and do not remove the thought from your mind for the rest of your life. The biggest thing you can do to look more masculine is work out, women do like feminine looking men but i think that how you present yourself and what you show your interests are will play a big part in how women view you. Many men who are muscular and masculine started off looking like bones, focus on what you desire and just go for it , you’ll be alright

throwaway316stunner · 2021-12-28T18:41:27+00:00

I was “cute” in high school. I was also often called “sweet” and “I wish you were/could replace my little brother.”

Didn’t get me anywhere when it came to dating and relationships.

I’m sure there are some women who are, but I wouldn’t say it’s many.

Johnny_Autism · 2021-12-28T18:53:40+00:00

"""feminine men""" -- lean, tallish, guys with cute floppy hair and chiseled cheekbones.

feminine men -- pudgy boys with wide hips and and elevated estrogen levels.

Liberal_On_Guns · 2021-12-28T19:14:53+00:00

Yes they can be found in high schools across the world. If you are an adult I do not suggest pursuing high schoolers because illegal and creepy.

And Korea, apparently.

Moneydamjan · 2021-12-28T20:54:24+00:00

yes but they're usually wierd masculine women or weird outcast goth women that hate their fathers

Teflon08191 · 2021-12-29T01:39:48+00:00

I think mid-late teen girls are single-handedly fueling the weird androgynous "K-Pop" craze. It seems they eventually grow out of it though. So unless that's your target demographic, no, not really.

Anna-2204 · 2021-12-29T01:50:08+00:00

Me, lol

unicosmo · 2022-01-01T02:14:03+00:00

I’m 20F, 5’2, and LOVE feminine guys. My biggest crushes are famous feminine guys. The cuter the guy, the more attractive in my opinion!

Perseus_the_Bold · 2021-12-28T18:18:47+00:00

Yes, they are called teenagers.

mistresswhat · 2021-12-28T02:21:53+00:00

Yes. You gotta play up the androgyny though. If you have feminine looks and are trying to dress/act masc we're gonna find you just as boring as the actually masc guys.

We mostly show up in alternative/progressive circles but if you're not in those you can often find us on Tinder in big liberal cities.

misnome4 · 2021-12-28T04:01:19+00:00

Totally bro. Good to see someone adapt and not turn bitter; women like this absolutely do exist.

There are women into every quirk, body shape and personality type. Women who want to be the dominant partner etc etc.

Sexual polarity is a thing which can play out in reverse. There are no hard and fast rules in love, and I have no clue as to your tastes, personality etc, but you'd likely have better success amongst the LGBTQ+ and alternative communities.

Crypto guru Maren springs to mind, she has a thing for femboys. (Not suggesting you throw on a skirt, but frankly I would for her.)

Good luck and ignore every preconception thrown your way. Find your crowd.

Title	Do women who are into “cute” or “feminine” looking guys exist?
Author	DirtyDremel
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Date	December 27, 2021 11:27 PM UTC (4 years ago)
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