Male depravity makes it to the front page.

spinsterchachkies · 2022-02-15T17:17:42+00:00

I bet men on Reddit will interpret this post as how terrible us women are because we are attracted to unavailable men (not that we feel safer with a man when think he is with a woman).

sveji- · 2022-02-15T13:47:28+00:00

"I went to Starbucks to work but as soon as I saw a female I had to stop my work to go and bother her"

poison_snacc · 2022-02-15T13:49:05+00:00

10/10 this never happened. A random male who sits down next to you in a public place and starts talking about his girlfriend and their “plans” is almost even creepier than a guy who sits down next to you to say yo you single.

thanarealnobody · 2022-02-15T15:58:42+00:00

Yeah, I’m sure he’s gonna make some long lasting, deep friendships and that lying about something that can be easily found out quite quickly definitely won’t come back to bite him in the ass and make every person think he’s a complete weirdo.

dkwantsdk · 2022-02-15T17:27:08+00:00

"However, this is pretty annoying"

I'm dumb struck at the audacity. I need to take a walk after reading this. Incredible.

ImpressiveHat8550 · 2022-02-15T11:27:22+00:00

Let me guess…. redditbros didnt understand that this actually says a lot about the current state of single males and that fact that women are becoming absolutely fed up with them.

BrightIdeaGenerator · 2022-02-15T14:50:13+00:00

I mean, he could try having conversations with men.....

Kimpractical · 2022-02-15T13:27:10+00:00

You’re a random guy talking to a girl alone at a coffee shop, of course she’s going to give you the side eye. That’s just normal and if it’s something that frustrates you then you’re just a creep

Tzarzarina · 2022-02-15T13:43:32+00:00

The worse part is that all the comments on his post are congratulating him for being a genius and “cracking the code”.

As if any of those women would speak to him when he eventually reveals he was lying and single. Why do men assume they are inherently attractive to us and they only need to get us to talk and open up somehow??

Here’s a new thought for men- how about approaching women who are in your social circle or acquaintances based on shared interests and compatibility instead of scoping out every attractive girl you meet in public and demanding their time?

Guys who cold approach women on the street really bother me. Like what are you basing this attraction on- pure superficial looks alone? Eeek, nothing makes my vagina dry up faster.

mentalgymnastics928 · 2022-02-15T13:52:14+00:00

I wonder if he had sat down next to a man at Starbucks if he would have asked him what he was drinking…

Why do men do this? Like I’m here to work, or just enjoy some time to myself! I’m not here to talk to a stranger. Leave women the fuck alone…it’s not that difficult.

vbych76 · 2022-02-15T11:51:31+00:00

Why always when a man says "I'm working on myself", he means having more defined abs (facepalm)?

ChemicalCobbler · 2022-02-15T15:51:07+00:00

The men in the comments are actually calling this guy a genius and saying they can't wait to try this out! 🤢

Yet another thing added to the long list of things women need to be mindful of. Even so, it's a red flag if a man is trying to get cozy with a strange woman when he has a gf, whether she exists or not.

themissdaydreamer · 2022-02-15T17:23:42+00:00

It's the "Therapy has helping" for me. Should therapy be considered a false green flag now? It's harder to tell men go to therapy to get their shit together or lean some petty tricks to prey on women.

Also are therapists aware that many of their clients are using therapy as a PUA mentorship session? Because the should be.

DameSorciere · 2022-02-15T15:17:10+00:00

"It's so annoying that I have to lie to make random women to talk to me." ???????? The entitlement is off the fucking charts.

Platipus6 · 2022-02-15T11:22:49+00:00

Lying to women to trick them into conversation because we're more pleasant to talk to than males.. and I mean it's not like we've got anything else going on in our lives teehee.

discoveringliberty · 2022-02-15T13:26:02+00:00

So he's trying to lull women into a false sense of safety by pretending to have a girlfriend because he knows that women feel safer around men who are taken.

This is why we aren't nice to random dudes. I don't care if you have a girlfriend, don't sit next to me if other seats are available and don't talk to me as if I'm interested in interacting with you. Normal guys wait for social ques that a woman is open to being approached, they don't just force interaction by sitting next to women and firing questions at them.

Women do not owe you a conversation, loser.

wondertarget · 2022-02-15T11:34:52+00:00

I've had to tell guys I have a boyfriend in the past so they would leave me alone (not that they did). This kid is whining about how no one likes him when we have to pretend to be in a relationship so men will LEAVE US TO OUR PEACE.

Men STILL bother me though I wear an engagement ring. Hell, they bother me when I'm out with my fiancé.

Other than him being a baby about not being acknowledged, his tactics to get women to talk to him are creepy and manipulative.

t3ddi · 2022-02-15T16:44:05+00:00

If he was going to SB to do work then why is he invasively trying to force conversation on anyone?

Equal-Ear2312 · 2022-02-15T17:34:22+00:00

is he ted bundy-ing these women? yes he is.

throwaway-fds · 2022-02-15T17:42:00+00:00

I feel very validated in my attitude to be assholes to men whether or not they have a girlfriend now. We save our energy for our fellow women and that's it.

FineDeliciousSnakes · 2022-02-15T12:39:46+00:00

Step 1) “therapy is helping”
Step 2) lie to women to talk to them
Step 3) internet points

Amazing, so original, I’m floored, tell me more 🙄

overthinker4444 · 2022-02-15T14:11:16+00:00

Self-improvement male: " I want to focus on myself to impress other males and women. Lying to women is TheRaPy for me."

These males can't stand it when women tell them that they would like to focus on themselves. They can't imagine how a woman wishes to stay alone and focus on herself than to be in a relationship. Instead of actually focusing on himself is he still busy with women🤣🤣🤣🤣

ceramicunicorn · 2022-02-15T16:10:02+00:00

When it comes to random strangers approaching, we talk to men who have girlfriends because it feels safer, as we’re working under the assumption that nothing will be expected of us sexually or romantically.

If men are out here guiltlessly using these strategies, it behooves us to ruthlessly use our own.

corkymuu · 2022-02-15T14:55:55+00:00

A man is (at least perceived to be) a lot less of a threat if he’s in the presence of a woman/a woman has given him the stamp of approval. It’s funny how he didn’t come to the proper conclusion on this and framed it as irrational, when really it’s the fact that women are typically great at determining if a guy is a creep or not solely because we have to be wary of these things daily.

thewetdog_ · 2022-02-15T11:57:53+00:00

Why do you want to talk to random women if not to hit on them/date them? Like why approach strange women

If you want to be friends you can’t start out lying either ???

This guy is a psycho

MacrameGoose34 · 2022-02-15T13:52:24+00:00

What campus library has zero seats unavailable...I went to a huge university and there was always ample seats and space. He's just moody that women can sniff out his intentions until he lies, he's practicing how to manipulate his future gf. And the fact that he feels so entitled to women's attention that he will pull out all the stops in order to get it reads that he's just addicted to women and a loser.

katiekat0214 · 2022-02-15T15:42:38+00:00

So many times I've said to men, I'm not here to chat. I'm here to enjoy my coffee/book/whatever in silence. I've only had to repeat it once, I think.

normal-tangerine5 · 2022-02-15T12:57:20+00:00

And you wonder why women want nothing to do with him

girltranquil · 2022-02-15T13:23:20+00:00

Why do that? If someone doesn't wanna make conversation with you then stop interacting or try talking to someone else. Some people can be rude or hesitant to talk to strangers but that doesn't mean you have to LIE. I wonder what his therapist would say if they find out he does this. Also, why does he only do this to girls? He should try it with other men and see the results.

just_because_needed · 2022-02-15T18:03:31+00:00

Women are social currency and a net positive for men. Proven.

herbivorouscarnivore · 2022-02-15T17:41:43+00:00

OMFG

Someone needs to tell this scrote that women don’t exist for him. It’s fine to ask if a seat is taken. Don’t try to converse after that. ugh

Constant-Wanderer · 2022-02-16T02:13:43+00:00

“It’s so annoying that women always think that I’m hitting on them, even when I’m only asking if this seat is taken.”

-proceeds to describe how to hit on women even when you’re asking if this seat is taken-

-wonders why women don’t want to deal with your shit-

aquietsword · 2022-02-15T21:06:08+00:00

Oh noooo, if it isn't the consequences of male actions. Fuck off you entitled loser.

ItsFreezen · 2022-02-15T12:37:43+00:00

I don't understand his stupid way of thinking?. Don't say you have a girlfriend and move on. I don't understand YOUR Problem Scrote?

ShegoGreen · 2022-02-16T01:18:12+00:00

So he's lying to women in order to become their friends. Then, he's secretly hoping that those friendships lead to a relationship because he manipulated them into putting their guard down.

How about just be a decent guy and doesn't demand women's attention? And try, just try for five seconds to understand why women are so aloof. And yes, the answer is men, who do specifically things like that to get women to be their, "friend." Men who literally and figuratively jump through hoops to force attention from women, never have, "innocent" intentions in the long run.

FDSMama · 2022-02-15T11:57:12+00:00

Awe, poor widdle baby boy can’t get a girl to talk to him! Must be something wrong with her, couldn’t possibly be that she just wants to be left alone! What girl wouldn’t want to talk to such an amazing TEENAGER?

☝️That’s all sarcasm in case it wasn’t clear.

My son is 18. I hope I did a better job raising him than this. Consent starts with us mamas. It’s up to us to teach our boys and girls that they own their bodies, and nobody is owed anything from them outside of decent respect.

Cause no harm but take no shit.

TERFSareawesome · 2022-02-16T03:59:51+00:00

This is why I always side eye men who randomly go out of their way to mention their girlfriend/wife/fiance to me. Like... okay? No one asked. Half the time it's a kind of predatory way to either flip the tables on you (i.e. "I know youre acting distant and uninterested, but it doesnt matter because I have a girlfriend so I rejected you!") or predatorily get close to you, and as soon as you show interest, they would dump their poor GF to get with you. Or at least that's how i take it from my experiences. It's always a game with LVM (I'm obviously not talking about HVM who are loyal to their wife and it naturally comes up in the course of a normal conversation flow- that's normal and fine!)

emziewemziee · 2022-02-17T21:56:20+00:00

having fake conversations about a fake girlfriend just to talk to a girl?? no not weird at all.

Title	Male depravity makes it to the front page.
Author	dlynne5
Upvotes	460
Comments	77
Date	February 15, 2022 11:06 AM UTC (4 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/FemaleDatingStrategy
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