Only 19 years old 😭 she shouldn’t tolerate this

Spittens · 2022-02-21T20:05:12+00:00

Holy age gap .....

SeaNegotiation8 · 2022-02-21T22:03:44+00:00

My god, he’s more melodramatic than his teenage girlfriend.

Her: “I’d really appreciate it if you would stop interrupting me.”

Him: “FINE, I’LL JUST NEVER SPEAK EVER AGAIN!”

FuckSakez · 2022-02-21T21:06:21+00:00

A woman his own age has more sense than to tolerate being shushed when tHe MaN is speaking.

Which is why he wants someone barely legal to make him feel important and worldly. If a friend did this to her, she wouldn’t tolerate the disrespect.

whitefox00 · 2022-02-21T20:24:06+00:00

I’ve experienced this one before. He believes his thoughts and opinions are much more important than hers. Also he doesn’t want a conversation, he wants an audience.

JulyParade · 2022-02-21T20:17:09+00:00

If you literally can't talk to your boyfriend... why can't she see how messed up this is?

shoesfromparis135 · 2022-02-21T21:03:38+00:00

What’s with all these 30-something guys dating teenagers?

radfem_babe · 2022-02-21T23:53:21+00:00

I feel bad for her. But I just don't understand why a 19 year would date a 30 year old.

Why teenagers are dating people in their 30s. It's just gross.

Platipus6 · 2022-02-21T21:58:26+00:00

Controlling People, by Patricia Evans :(

https://nomoreverbalabuse.blogspot.com/2008/07/teddy-check.html

lolmemberberries · 2022-02-21T23:28:11+00:00

She's nineteen! She should be with someone her own age.

xxxnja · 2022-02-21T21:38:39+00:00

Other 30 year old women don’t want him

The_Cat_Empress · 2022-02-21T23:59:08+00:00

That age-gap made me audibly scream "EWWWWWW" YO. WHAT THE FUK.

Let this coomer talk to himself in a corner and DUMP HIM. JFC these girls are dating so young!! These gross men snatch them up, it's disgusting!!

Severe-Weather-8722 · 2022-02-21T20:28:18+00:00

"Pet peeve". Yeah, it is for everyone. It's a lack of respect. And he's emotionally manipulative/abusive. Just run, girl. He's acting this way at 30. And you're 19. Ruuuuuunnnnnnn.

"I just won't talk anymore." Great. That solves half the problem! 🙃

Softrito · 2022-02-21T23:12:27+00:00

Sorry. I would have popped his mouth if I was her.

slayeroftruth · 2022-02-22T02:40:02+00:00

Men who want age gap are trash. I have never known any man who wanted age gap that wasn't the lowest of LVM. What they want is to exploit their naivety of being so young so they can treat them terrible at best or abuse them at worst and seem impressive when he is not.

fairywakes · 2022-02-22T03:15:27+00:00

I remember when I was 19 and felt sooooo cool when men 10+ years above my age ‘wanted’ me. What a foolish little girl I was - why don’t we normalize warning our daughters about men like this?

livingthroughthis · 2022-02-21T22:33:14+00:00

as a 19 year old I really don't know how women my age get in those sort of relationships, really. my best friend, also 19, is currently dating a 29 year old (since she was in high school btw) and he's like the most lvm in the world and now she wants to move in with him and I'm just like??? girl at least finish uni first

askmeabouttheforest · 2022-02-21T23:54:44+00:00

... he's acting like a toddler.

NotMyRealName814 · 2022-02-22T02:20:50+00:00

Honey, let's start with the age gap...

fujoDev · 2022-02-22T01:06:01+00:00

Why would a beautiful young 19 girl go out with a disrespectful way older man, gosh

No_Research_7869 · 2022-02-22T00:22:58+00:00

I’m sorry but wtf, how are you this blind to this kind of toxic relationship l, also the age gap is just 🚩

themissdaydreamer · 2022-02-22T10:20:10+00:00

younger women keep lying to themselves about what why men in the 30's pursue women who were teenagers 1-2 years prior. these men drop some stupid line like "you're more mature than women my age" and boom! these barely legal women get the male validation and female competition in one hit. but they're never treated as equals, because these men don't groom women to be their equals to being with, and whoever tells these girls otherwise doesn't have their best interest at heart.

_mooness · 2022-02-22T18:15:23+00:00

I once let a boyfriend talk to the void while I left my phone on my bed and went to go get a snack.

ciciplum · 2022-02-22T12:43:50+00:00

you have got to be kidding me

spinsterchachkies · 2022-02-22T17:39:21+00:00

And HES THE CHILD in the relationship. Of course

Shot_Presence_8382 · 2022-02-23T02:46:24+00:00

I read the first 4 words and rolled my eyes so hard 🙄

Just...OF FUCKING COURSE.

Of course some grimy 30 year old loser is going after a 19 year old GIRL.

NotYourCirce · 2022-02-23T15:46:59+00:00

That 30 year old child actually said “fine, I won’t talk anymore“ 😂

Ok_Passenger_5717 · 2022-02-23T18:16:43+00:00

My eyes rolled when I read the age of the "boy"friend.

Kingkazola · 2022-02-27T05:31:00+00:00

Even back when I was 19 making horrible life choices.I never saw the appeal of older guys it always seems so perverse and disgusting. 🤢

Patient-Pineapple-29 · 2022-02-21T23:09:00+00:00

I didn't read after the first sentence, it triggers the hell out of me to see an 11 years gap especially when the younger one is barely an adult.

Title	Only 19 years old 😭 she shouldn’t tolerate this
Author	voidcactus234
Upvotes	631
Comments	51
Date	February 21, 2022 7:58 PM UTC (4 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/FemaleDatingStrategy
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