I know that sounds crazy as hell. But.... but ......here me out. I just wanna talk about something I have noticed that I dont have data for. I mean to be honest...why would there be data on it? I'm pretty sure it would turn up all over the place if it did.

But anyway. It's a common thing to hear straight men complain about their dating options and the difficulty of acquiring those options/keeping those options. It's just too hard for them they say. The women have it easy they also say.

In rebuttal to this. I have heard some men and alot of women claim that lesbian women and gay men have it worse. That they less people to choose.

Now at first I was like sure. Yeah that's true. But honestly the more I hung around more and more circles filled with gay friends and couples that I discovered that's not true. At least when it comes to gay women.

I discovered that not only do lesbian women clean up with lesbian women. They clean up with straight women just as often. I'm talking relationships, dates, casual sex, etc. They are on a roll.

At first this had me flabbergasted. I'm like wow. I certainly didnt expect this. What are the women doing with the straight women that works so well. Me originally it's just a women connecting on women topics and everything. They talk about girl things and they can connect easier. But what I also discovered that had little to do with it.

So I'm thinking maybe its just women have better game then men. They just had those amazing conversation skills that made girls swoon.

But NO. That wasnt it either.

The women were saying almost the same thing the guys were saying. Only thing added was they were said alot more compliments. And not good ones either. Like nice hair or you are so beautiful. So what was the big deal!? I finally discovered after hanging around these groups long enough that...

Women have a very very low threshold for women. Like on EVERYTHING. Like I said. The lesbian women were doing the exact same things the guys were doing. But they got away with it! They would catcall, they would touch girls they just met, they would compliment non stop, they'd send them drinks.

And when a women who blow off 5 guys in a row who had the same approach, the one girl who attempted it did wonders! Same approach for the most part.

Then it all of a sudden makes sense. This is exactly why when I used to hear lesbian women give advice to men on dating straight women I used to be like....this advice is hella cringe. How the hell would this even work? One of my close lesbian friends said she had a foolproof pickup line that worked with most girls. Her pickup line was "You are soooooo beautiful ".

So I tried it for myself. You think I got any success using that line? HELL NO! The women would be creeped out or she say thanks than leave.

Dating for straight men play under an entirely different set of rules when it comes to women. Because women expect men to be better than them.

TLDR: Lesbian women have an easier time than most straight men do