What is femininity to you?

cowfishAreReal · 2022-10-20T12:19:58+00:00

A dumb concept humans created to put women in a box.

And yes masculinity is also a dumb concept humans created to put men in a box

Cosima_Fan_Tutte · 2022-10-20T14:47:19+00:00

Femininity is the art of having and showing men traits that inspire them to love and protect women.

wtknight · 2022-10-20T12:17:20+00:00

I don’t care about gender roles. I just like the female face and body. So women who have pretty faces and who try to accentuate there body is basically my definition of feminine.

2022-10-20T15:53:37+00:00

Clearly it's about liking floral prints and the color pink

Steakman1 · 2022-10-20T17:13:59+00:00

Never really thought about it too much. But here’s my quick analysis of it. It’s a traits that compliment more masculine traits to bring a comfortable balance between the two. For example, strong leadership qualities can often come with having a little less empathy. So a woman who maybe doesn’t come off as a strong leader type woman but has more empathy can bring a comfortable balance in the union of the relationship in that regard. Of course it would be great if everyone had a comfortable balance and were perfect. But that’s not how humanity works. And also this only works if both partners are actually open to the other’s point of view. If one or both partners are arrogant, then there isn’t a way to compliment each other.

But in my opinion I think this is why women love all these romance novels and movies where a woman essentially “tames” a more masculine and dangerous man (twilight, the vampire diaries, etc). And then this is also why more masculine, but good, men love when woman show empathy such helping a turtle cross the street or volunteering somewhere. I doubt red pill men care as much about it but that’s why I specifically said “masculine, but good, men.”

I think of it like a man doesn’t have any empathy because that would obviously be a significant flaw. But a feminine woman sorta “specializes” in that field. And then a masculine man has his traits that he “specializes” in. And then together they can instil that healthy balance on their children. The man will teach what he “specializes” in to his children. And the woman will do the same with what she “specializes” in.

uglysaladisugly · 2022-10-20T19:32:28+00:00

Feminity is all that a culture associate with people of the female sex.

tonyghow · 2022-10-20T20:20:10+00:00

There are many traits and behaviors but one in particular stands out…

Nurturing soft love instead of pragmatic tough love.

Separate-Driver-9149 · 2022-10-21T01:16:56+00:00

A woman who is capable of Turning a house into a home at the same time nurturing the family and being a reliable pillar for her family

dumbbitchcas · 2022-10-22T03:14:04+00:00

A prison. Hell. A curse.

CimZim · 2022-10-20T09:09:07+00:00

A desire to be the more passive partner in a relationship.

Feminine people, whether female or male, want to be taken care of. They want the masculine partner, again either female or male, to provide for them financially, to be their emotional rock when their lives become too hectic or overwhelming. They want us to protect and shelter them, to be actively supportive and take on a leadership role.

Feminine men and women want us to say "here's what we're going to do" and follow through with it, while still being secure in the knowledge we love them and are never going to make a decision we know they would hate. They want to be the one who is sought after sexually, not be the initiator, except in subtle and plausibly deniable ways.

MalePsychopath · 2022-10-20T14:27:13+00:00

femininity = softness (sweet, caring, empathetic)

masculinity = hardness (strong, resilient, protective)

NoTomboyGfWhyLivee · 2022-10-20T12:10:07+00:00

Honestly it's basically just be caring.

Mentally is to be caring around peoples, about their worries and troubles.

Physical is being caring with itself, taking care of her appearance and respecting itself.

gymbro718NYC · 2022-10-20T10:12:39+00:00

Hairless bleached asshole.

SmarmyPapsmears · 2022-10-20T12:20:23+00:00

Personality: Caring. Selflessness bordering altruism. Motherly qualities. Submissive (both in bed and not in bed). Contrasting qualities to me.

Physically: Petite, soft skin (softer than mine), hourglass figure. Big eyes. Contrasting physical qualities to me.

Obviously it's the contrast that is attractive.

MistyMaisel · 2022-10-20T15:54:03+00:00

Boobs
Vagina
Estrogen
Ability to have children
Menstruating
Increased social IQ
Decreased Physical Attributes (Strength, Endurance, Etc.)
Wider hips (dat ass)
Increased awareness and appreciation for all forms of beauty and pleasure particularly those tied to the senses of smell, taste, and eyes.
Increased desire for serenity, comfort, and stability in others and their environments.
More of a sense of daintiness or prissyness
More affectionate, warm, and gentle
More shy, inobtrusive, or submissive in at least overt ways
Heightened desire for new experiences
Greater ability towards social chameleoning
More self-sacrificing for others
Passive-aggressive

Upstairs-Rip-604 · 2022-10-20T07:50:24+00:00

Fashion such as women’s hairstyles, dresses, skirts, hair accessories, nail polish, high heels, leggings, and jewelry.

Physical characteristics such as boobs, a higher voice, a smaller height, and a “feminine face”.

That sums it up. Fashion and physical characteristics.

pinktuliplover · 2022-10-20T10:03:04+00:00

Feelings and behaviors biologically and socially attributed to women.

Examples: nurturing, beauty/beautifying, submissiveness, emotional, supportive, creative, receiving, alluring, expressive, magnetic, empathetic, and often driven by feelings

spinky_bum9451 · 2022-10-20T08:06:38+00:00

innocent, higher pitched voice, hairlessness, passive, sweet smell, naive, physically weaker, modest, submissive, gentle, shy, vulnerable, small, emotional

asshole67throw · 2022-10-20T11:49:29+00:00

Feminine energy is docile, childlike, appreciative, passionate, emotional, submissive, receiving.

Masculine energy is assertive, aggressive (not necessarily violent), leading, directional, stoic, logical, giving/providing, compassionate.

BruddaMSK · 2022-10-20T14:48:59+00:00

Being sweet & sexy

classicliberal1 · 2022-10-20T19:20:58+00:00

What is femininity to you?

She understands the binary language of moisture vaporators.

MarBitt · 2022-10-20T08:30:12+00:00

More of an association than a definition:

Able to conceive and give birth. Fertile.

Soft, wet, gentle, receiving.

Caring, wise, kind, intuitive, energetic, inspiring.

Crying. Confusion in emotions. Subjective. Passive. Self harming.

Capable of many small things. Empathic. Organizational talent. Inward and relationship oriented.

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DisasterPeace7 · 2022-10-20T18:03:13+00:00

Qualities and attributes most strongly associated with women, as far as what I think some of those are and what I prefer in my women: nurturing, warmth, tenderness, cooperativeness, affectionate, maternal, etc.,

And just because there's always one, I'm not going to be responding to "any guys can be warm!!!" or "every guy friend that I have is more nurturing than I am are they feminine?!?!" Comments lol

PurplePillEric · 2022-10-20T18:04:09+00:00

In terms of aesthetics:

feminine curves and features
height of around 5'4 ish
big eyes, long hair, and other indicators of vulnerability

In terms of energy:

soft, smooth, caring voice
compassion for asthetically cute creatures
display of vulnerability
display of bright or reflective colors aimed at emphasizing feminine curves and features
artistic graceful motion

Note that the question is "what is femininity" and did not ask me to discuss anything of virtue.

KikiYuyu · 2022-10-20T23:25:30+00:00

Just whatever traits females tend to have, really. Sort of a stereotypical example of female traits.

LetSuitable5665 · 2022-10-20T23:48:32+00:00

Depends on the culture you’re speaking of, it’s like asking what is music to you?

Title	What is femininity to you?
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Date	October 20, 2022 5:39 AM UTC (3 years ago)
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