A Letter to an Abuser

sorebum405 · 2022-11-17T20:03:18+00:00

Random Feminist Online:"But those are not real feminist!"

rammo123 · 2022-11-17T20:18:06+00:00

I honestly thought that the Heard case was going to be a turning point. She is so obviously, so undeniably, an abuser that I thought no one could possibly support her. I thought that the "mutual abuse" narrative was going to be the worse take.

It turns out I'm just an optimist.

xhouliganx · 2022-11-17T20:37:53+00:00

This is the first I’ve heard of Donna Hylton. What the actual fuck?!

cuddlebuns287 · 2022-11-17T23:18:27+00:00

They cry about "imperfect victims" when it's an abuser like Amber Heard, but don't even extend that to Johnny Depp despite their newfound obsession with "mutual abuse." Victims are only allowed to be imperfect if they're women.

hshsgdve · 2022-11-18T00:12:49+00:00

I think this is baked into the culture. The default setting is that men are guilty and women are victims. If a person actually thinks about it, Amber is clearly guilty, but thought requires effort.

Misandry is the default setting for most now.

Mental_Inevitable · 2022-11-18T05:06:34+00:00

All my rapists have been female 🤷🏻‍♂️

TheTinMenBlog · 2022-11-17T19:47:22+00:00

First an foremost, thank you to u/egalitarianphantom for your post that inspired this!

~

I took a bit of a backseat with the whole Johnny vs Amber thing, and i’ll be honest, I was disappointed at how the whole case became a battlefield of memes and edgy jokes.

Important lessons were lost; namely around the true bidirectional and cyclical nature of domestic violence, and how women and men participate in such violence at equal rates.

Instead of useful discourse, Team Johnny and Team Amber picked up sticks and beat each other with them.The conversation became narrowed; squished into hashtags and tiny tweets, and shoehorned into smaller and smaller bitesized rectangles, suitable for the daily deuce.

It was to be expected I guess.

But what I didn’t expect was over 130 feminist organisations to come out with an open letter backing Amber Heard, supporting an abuser, a liar and a fraud.

I don’t get it.

Do the audio tapes, expert testimonies, eye witness accounts, medical records and mountains of photographic evidence not translate into the language of radical feminist outrage?

How much information has to bounce off of such thick skills before a modicum of knowledge is stubbornly chewed upon?

The letter is worth reading of course, and can be digested in full at amberopenletter.com.

Those signing it are the none-too-suprising village idiots, the self aggrandising, self anointed ‘experts’, who remained silent and cowardly at the time, and now have come out in full force.

So what do you think?

~Source

Teen Violence Study

Zaronax · 2022-11-17T20:46:35+00:00

I'll be frank; I think they're maggots feeding off of the putrid carcass of feminism, which used to be a movement that was necessary in it's very infancy in order to bring actual improvement to women.

Was it perfect? No, it wasn't. But it was necessary that it exists to start a public discussion on equality.

Now, however, they're closer to what a terrorist state having full control of the social discussion and using it as a hammer to slam on everyone who dares disagree with them or who dares to point out that, well, reality disagrees with them on nearly everything they spout, would look like.

It's disgusting.

Tevorino · 2022-11-17T20:11:55+00:00

Excellent response to that letter!

TheDave101 · 2022-11-17T20:32:27+00:00

Spot on as always

Pasolini123 · 2022-11-17T21:14:35+00:00

I've made some internet research, because I didn't know Donna Hylton before.

Now I'm impressed. She seems to be a very bRaVe wOmAn!!! She fights the pAtRiArChY, makes speeches on many women's marches, gives interviews about the opression of women.

OMG! Just imagine! This woman is so STRONG, that she was even speaking on a Pussy Hat March!!!

So it's not only that feminists have defended her, because they see all female abusers, murders etc. as victims. No, miss Donna Hylton is apparently a feminist icon herself!!!

There is only one thing I can say: 🤮🤮🤮

Unexpected-bug · 2022-11-17T21:54:06+00:00

This is one of the reasons groups like r/antifeminists are growing every day. This is just a sample of the hateful ideas at the core of the feminist ideology,L.

skgody · 2022-11-18T08:52:53+00:00

What’s really bad is that most men believe women are vulnerable and the victim 95% of the time.

Punder_man · 2022-11-19T04:25:22+00:00

Its not like there isn't precedent to this..
Just look at how the #MeToo movement and feminists flocked to the defense of Asia Argento when she was accused of being a sexual predator by a boy whom she had power and influence over..

Was she crucified, cancelled and ruined?Nope! instead of going after her with the same fervor that they went after men accused they instead said:

“None of us know the truth of the situation and I’m sure more will be revealed,”

I note that this "Wait and see" view point didn't seem to apply to men who were accused of being predators..
When it was a man who was accused he was deemed guilty on accusation alone..

slong35 · 2022-11-17T22:34:15+00:00

I’m glad you posted this, and I’m glad that there are people out there that see the same hypocrisy I do, but things like this just make me feel much more depressed than I usually feel. It’s a never-ending uphill battle and to me, it seriously feels like it can’t and won’t ever get better. I just want to understand the world and be more fair toward everyone but the constant opposition from those around me, including my family, just make me want to make another ‘attempt’.

Sorry for the dramatics but I’m obviously in a very dark place right now. I’m not saying any of this for attention. Just trying to vent a little :(

Willingo · 2022-11-18T02:12:47+00:00

Where can I learn more about NOW replacing the Family Violence Prevention and Services Act with the Violence Against Women Act? Was it truly a replacement that removed protection for boys?

ANotSoHiddenCash · 2022-11-17T23:17:13+00:00

I know this is something minor, but if she is still in Aquaman I will refuse to see it. I have seen every comic book movie since the Ang Lee Hulk in theaters. This will be the first time I skip one.

Mahameghabahana · 2022-11-18T03:17:04+00:00

Would posting this in menslib lead to banned?

hotpotato138 · 2022-11-17T22:39:04+00:00

I can't believe they support her.

traveller1976 · 2022-11-18T14:58:08+00:00

Of course they do. The big lie was exposed. Do not believe all women. Now some of the toxic rabid feminists should be afraid of false accusations that can be disproven in court. Fuck them, but not with penis. Men should be very careful with their time, money and sperm.

Nobleone11 · 2022-11-19T07:47:00+00:00

I dare anyone to change my mind on feminism as a hateful, intolerant ideology that has nursed a grudge against men since The Declaration of Sentiments after seeing this.

Go on, give it a try. I'll be in the corner laughing my ass off.

Popular-Spirit1306 · 2022-11-18T01:36:16+00:00

I give up on women

psychosythe · 2022-11-18T19:01:50+00:00

I mean, they're right. The trial coverage has absolutely promoted fundamental misunderstandings about domestic violence.

It was just their trial coverage.

ZuiyoMaru · 2022-11-17T23:27:08+00:00

There is no praxis to be found on either side of the Depp v. Heard trial. It was two people in a bad relationship who threatened and hurt each other, dragging all of their dirty laundry out into the light of day for the tabloids to digest and process.

I'm not going to say that these organizations are in the right. I AM going to say that the commenters here are wrong for unequivocally choosing a side.

contortionsinblue · 2022-11-18T15:03:53+00:00

Disgusting!

Title	A Letter to an Abuser
Author	TheTinMenBlog
Upvotes	432
Comments	108
Date	November 17, 2022 7:46 PM UTC (3 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates
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