There is way too much wrong in this post. Why do young women allow themselves to be used like this???

tallwomenneedlovetoo · 2020-10-19T17:00:39+00:00

“Our kink is roleplaying as father and child” Is she being serious?

It’s gross enough when two adults roleplay that way with a 5 year age difference, but he’s genuinely old enough to be her dad. 🤢

FrequentPoetry · 2020-10-19T16:54:35+00:00

this is just sad

posts on reddit are like "me (20f) and my boyfriend (65m), found out he's been cheating the whole time and forgave him because he proposed. he said he will only get married with a prenup. am i being a gold digger??"

heleninthealps · 2020-10-19T16:43:02+00:00

Poor girl....So much shit going on here

eveninghope · 2020-10-19T16:46:29+00:00

What an absolute depraved asshole. What's so hard about this, if you don't reciprocate someone's feelings, just have some mercy and grace and DO. NOT. FUCK. THEM. IDGAF who you are, men, women, somewhere in between. It's just basic common fucking decency.

hilariouslystated · 2020-10-19T17:34:16+00:00

I spy with my little eye everything wrong in this post:

1) She is entertaining the likes of a man 20 years older than her, who probably can't be taken seriously by women his own age.

2) She's let him have sex with her with no commitment.

3) She's expecting an LVM scrote to treat her like a human being , which is a no with or without having sex without commitment. You don't beg men for anything, you just cut his ass off.

4) She's actually been tricked into thinking she made a joint decision with him "not to cut ties" when in fact, he's simply not done using her yet.

5) She's probably let him convince her to role play as father and child to satisfy his sick fetish for young women.

I want this girl in FDS!

Woke_Woman · 2020-10-19T17:04:38+00:00

"Unfortunately I fell deeply in love with him"

Fell in love with what exactly???

ShoshannaDreyfus · 2020-10-19T18:37:37+00:00

Why do people even use the terms friends with benefits?? You aren't friends ffs. None of my friends use my body to masturbate. None of my friends only spend time with me when sex is involved. Call it what it is.

hopewings · 2020-10-19T16:53:25+00:00

The age difference is so awful. He's 42 and she's 22.

I hope she gets the help she needs. At least she recognizes on some level that what she's doing is unhealthy.

pangolinplatypus · 2020-10-19T17:29:22+00:00

‘Daddy’ has clearly found a very vulnerable young woman here. What a f*cking disgusting pig of a man!

AnniaT · 2020-10-19T17:42:17+00:00

- Huge age gap

- FWB

- BDSM with incest kink

- Man doesn't want to hug the woman he's been having sex with for 8 months and she has to beg

Where do we begin?

I feel so sad for her. This man is an absolute disgusting scrote! If this asshole was decent instead of telling he has no feelings for her and keep fucking her, he'd stop seeing her to let her move on. But no, this POS is too selfish for that. And his age makes it even more disgusting!

JiltedGroupie · 2020-10-19T19:09:21+00:00

Wait so he’s fine with incest roleplay sex but giving her a hugcwould “inspire wrong feelings?” Jesus Christ, male depravity has no limit does it?

youdipthong · 2020-10-19T17:12:42+00:00

Everything with this is wrong. I hope she seeks therapy because this is just a lot.

Sewud · 2020-10-19T18:51:15+00:00

The audacity of these men to not be the bigger person and say "no thanks you're too young for me it wouldn't be good for you". They really don't have a conscience. He's not even nice to her. He must know she's doing this out of absolute self-hatred and not knowing better.

2020-10-19T18:56:39+00:00

She's in love with a man who thinks it's hot to abuse someone who he sees as a child*. No wonder she's depressed. She needs to see that he and this relationship are the problem, not the fucking solution. I hope you referred her to FDS.

*Yes, pretending to abuse someone is abuse. No, you can't consent to abuse. And of course, no person over the age of 27 considers a 22yo to be a peer - she is a literal child to him.

InevitableHulk · 2020-10-19T16:53:21+00:00

This is just really sad. 😞

IrritatedMango · 2020-10-19T17:15:52+00:00

Someone tell this girl to dump him he's such a douchebag

GrapeJuiceEnthusiast · 2020-10-19T18:00:33+00:00

You don't even need to read the post. The age gap in the title says it all.

HydraSkyFire · 2020-10-19T17:49:31+00:00

My boyfriend is a big hugger so I read this post out loud to him. When I read him the title he said "WTF". When I got to the father and daughter part he literally puked on the floor (he has a thing that he is imaging everything). He is getting a mop as I am writing this comment.

gcthrowaway2019 · 2020-10-19T18:28:57+00:00

Don't get into FWB unless you really are about that life. It ain't worth it.

melonmagellan · 2020-10-19T19:16:18+00:00

Yah, "we" made the decision. This dude is a predatory piece of shit old enough to be her father.

Oh and she's also mentally ill even classier.

stayforskz · 2020-10-19T17:14:15+00:00

Insecurity and self esteem issues :(

SMansdotter · 2020-10-19T17:16:38+00:00

Okay, that settles it.

The straights are definitely not alright.

Summerisle7 · 2020-10-19T20:34:18+00:00

I will go ahead and assume this guy is married with kids close to the OP's age

suncolor · 2020-10-19T21:09:24+00:00

What the fuck did I just read?

MyDarlingGirl · 2020-10-19T21:38:08+00:00

This man is a monster. He doesn't deserve to touch a woman, let alone a sensitive 22-year-old in pain.

2020-10-19T20:44:47+00:00

This is so gross and sad, poor poor woman.

2020-10-19T21:11:15+00:00

Age difference is a huge red flag.

MonicaLSolis · 2020-10-19T23:12:12+00:00

The age difference was the first red flag

ComprehensiveCatch46 · 2020-10-19T18:12:52+00:00

This is so sad. She needs to remove herself from that situation because this man does not care about her in the slightest & is only looking out for himself. What could she have fallen in love with in such an unkind man? This is definitely one of those cases where the age gap is deeply manipulative.

sassylittlespoon · 2020-10-19T20:41:46+00:00

This makes me so sad for her.

Poorfck · 2020-10-19T21:52:14+00:00

I can’t believe some people are defending him in the comments.

theingenuelover · 2020-10-19T22:47:49+00:00

It's the "role playing as father and child for me" (besides the age gap ofc)🤢

Suz1998 · 2020-10-19T23:29:00+00:00

Even if someone was into this- the only way it’s even remotely safe is when there is mutual respect and care and concern. I would never enjoy any type of relationship devoid of caring for me and my feelings. This is just sad. Poor girl.

2020-10-19T18:23:50+00:00

I honestly think this was written by a male who’s expressing his fantasies, in order to 1. jerk off and 2. condition women into thinking this behaviour is normal and they need to do it in order to find a partner.

2020-10-19T19:43:28+00:00

I'm vomiting. I feel bad for her that she lets herself get used by this.. this.. idk what to call it.

I'm so glad I recovered from this bs and now seeing clearly how wrong this is.. My god.

Dildo_Emporium · 2020-10-20T00:06:05+00:00

This makes me furious.

Title	There is way too much wrong in this post. Why do young women allow themselves to be used like this???
Author	Hennyyenni
Upvotes	145
Comments	79
Date	October 19, 2020 4:38 PM UTC (5 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/FemaleDatingStrategy
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