I don't want to judge but do we now have proof of girls' poor choices?

lvoncreek · 2023-11-16T22:23:18+00:00

Some men are attracted to absolute lunatics because they have a nice ass and give good blowjobs. They also say I can fix her.

Also, gold diggers. Most gold diggers are obviously in for the money, they are vain and often mean people, not very smart either. They can still find a man at every corner waiting for them to take their money.

Ive just heard about Ariana Grande's love life and she is a serial cheater and overall a hot mess. She always has a boyfriend. Men ignore that she is a walking red flag all the time.

ta06012022 · 2023-11-16T22:33:38+00:00

I didn't realize that instagram comments come from a randomly selected group of women. That's really interesting.

I was under the impression that instagram's algorithm tracked your interactions and then showed you things that people with similar interactions interacted with. I guess was wrong...

AngeCruelle · 2023-11-16T22:25:14+00:00

The entire Kardashian/Jenner family, QED

rivertorain- · 2023-11-16T22:26:31+00:00

Why do you think “don’t stick your dick in crazy” is a thing?

jamie29ky · 2023-11-16T22:41:47+00:00

Isabella Janke was mentally disturbed on another level and had orbiters supporting her every move.

Pixiteri is obviously mentally ill and never bathed or showered, and she has had a ton of men who come out of the woodwork to brag about banging her.

"Manic pixie dream girl" is an entire concept created to explain men who directly pursue a certain type of mentally ill women.

Soloandthewookiee · 2023-11-16T22:00:19+00:00

You want proof that men make bad dating choices too? Is this a real question?

Economy-House171 · 2023-11-16T22:06:51+00:00

Is this a joke? Only fan girls? Instagram thots comments? Women with daddy issues being fetishized? I've seen this singular image with 1000s of guys talk about how badly they want her. What a stupid question get off the internet my god. I can't believe a grown man genuinely believes that men aren't attracted to red flag woman, there will always be some people who make poor choices does not reflect what the whole gender is like

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Safinated · 2023-11-16T22:40:53+00:00

You can talk to anyone of any gender and they can give you examples of poor choices

Sillysheila · 2023-11-16T23:06:09+00:00

I think the equivalent would probably be men seeking out women with BPD.

It’s often referred to as “best pussy disorder”. Because men enjoy the hyper sexuality that comes with it. Despite this, women with BPD are often incredibly impulsive and reckless, prone to risk taking behaviour and typically don’t treat their partners nicely (they can be abusive often).

Aromatic_Ad5473 · 2023-11-16T22:44:52+00:00

He’s open about his mental health issues and addressing them. He open about his challenges with substance abuse and has been to rehab.

His exes all gave good things to say about him.

My guy, owning your issues, taking accountability, and dealing with them is the greenest of green flags.

TSquaredRecovers · 2023-11-16T23:18:12+00:00

When I was in active addiction, I had no shortage of men interested in me. And I was a completely dysfunctional alcoholic for a while. It did not deter men one bit. And not just for sex, but also for long-term dating.

BlueMountainDace · 2023-11-16T22:17:53+00:00

Have you heard of Kim Kardashian or any of her family?

Capybara_88 · 2023-11-16T22:49:39+00:00

Men and women can both make bad choices. Most of the threads on this subreddit can be answered by telling the OP to go outside more and stop basing your perception of reality on social media comments from random people.

Zabadoodude · 2023-11-16T22:09:40+00:00

He gets women because he's attractive, charismatic and high status, not because he has mental issues. Men aren't as drawn to status, so the male equivelant is the 10/10 bipolar "manic pixie dream girl" type. Men absolutely clutter around girls like that. Not all men to be sure, but not all women are fawning over hot successful mentally ill men either.

EulenWatcher · 2023-11-16T22:13:23+00:00

What does a gender-flipped example of a similar behavior have to do with the statement that "not all women are like that"? Where's the logical link here?

wtknight · 2023-11-16T23:34:21+00:00

Men "stick their dick in crazy" all the time. Isn't the male equivalent dating borderline women?

MyHouseOnMars- · 2023-11-17T00:19:27+00:00

The phrase "don't stick your dick in crazy"

done

sometimesthisisweird · 2023-11-16T23:34:56+00:00

Women make poor choices. Men make poor choice. Everyone makes poor choices. Individuals make poor choices all the time.

Guys chase after crazy ass women all the time. Haven't you heard about not sticking your dick in crazy. This isn't even really that uncommon.

But if obviously doesn't mean all men chase these women.

What a silly thing to say.

Economy-Shake-1448 · 2023-11-17T02:04:13+00:00

Why do I have yet to see anyone acknowledge that his is a

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Parodying KEN

He’s joking around, being silly, and being funny.

And yet you take everything he says seriously. Why?

xBTx · 2023-11-16T23:13:45+00:00

Hot Crazy scale bro

thetruthishere_ · 2023-11-17T03:12:22+00:00

People make poor choices. What planet are you living on that you dont think this a people thing?

Oh men will line up to go 'take care/rescue/fix' that mentally ill woman. The thirst is real.

Reality though, there are people out there that are 'fixers' on both sides as women will do it too. Some on both sides think they can 'tame/fix'.

Captain 'save a hoe' is a term for a reason and its bit more board as in captain 'save the woman'.

DreaminInChocolate · 2023-11-16T23:39:18+00:00

You don't need to leave this sub to find it.

Q4W: do you hate tsunderes? Or girls who are hot and cold? Whenever i likened anyone to this trope they got offended, but i meant it as a compliment since im so drawn to them.

I feel like a pretty significant number of women are at least a little tsundere so i dont get why ive had to walk that statement back so carefully.

Bekiala · 2023-11-16T22:03:12+00:00

Irk. I would think girls and boys make bad decisions. They are young. Brains not fully developed and they don't have the experience to realize what the consequences are.

I don't want to infantilize older teenager nor folks in their early twenties but these groups are just way way more likely to make bad decisions. Ugh. Maturity takes time.

doggiedoc2004 · 2023-11-16T23:27:22+00:00

Uuhhh Jonny depp/amber herd?

Bro I know so many dudes who go for red flag crazy women and the reason why is the same. BECAUSE SHE WAS HOT.

parasitic_assworms · 2023-11-17T01:25:08+00:00

That happens literally all the time. Men joke often about wanting egirls, bpd girlfriends, how the crazier a girl is the better the pussy feels. There is a twitter page dedicated to mugshots of cute crazy girls.

The reason you think it’s different is because the motivations are a bit different between the genders. Men want crazy women because they think they would be more attached to them but women want a crazy guy because they want the ego boost from getting a guy like that to commit to them.

Salt_Mathematician24 · 2023-11-17T00:32:33+00:00

Thing is, you can't entirely blame women for the decisions they make it a man's world. Of course they'll be strategic. If we lived in a truly egalitarian society, this may play out differently.

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Willow-girl · 2023-11-16T23:53:29+00:00

You know who sometimes makes bad choices? Young people, who lack experience of the world and may not have good role models (or the wisdom to listen to them).

Wisdom usually comes with age, although sometimes age arrives unaccompanied ...

obviousredflag · 2023-11-17T07:47:44+00:00

For short term sexual relationships, there is science on men preferring women with certain mental health issues, impulsivity, reckless behavior, etc.

Title	I don't want to judge but do we now have proof of girls' poor choices?
Author	thedarkracer
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Date	November 16, 2023 9:55 PM UTC (2 years ago)
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