I know many women on here pretend like they have no idea that a relationship means sex, as this sub does revolve around sex/relationships. So, if relationships don't mean sex to you, then please dismiss this post. Thank you.

Now, on to the topic. Prior to getting into a relationship, what is your desired outcome of the relationship?

I know this is going to confuse many women, so I'll use some analogies of situations where people have desired outcomes to clear things up.

  • When a person gets into a car, they have a desired outcome of reaching a specific location.

  • When a person enters a school, they have a desired outcome of graduating within 4 years. And/or obtaining a degree.

  • Before a person goes into a store. they have a desired outcome of leaving the store with specific goods.

Now, here are some contrasting analogies.

  • A person gets into a car without a desired outcome, and sits in the car, may drive the car around, not sure how much gas is needed, as they have no particular place to go, and the car eventually runs out of gas leaving the person stranded. Failed.

  • A person enters into a school without a desired outcome, not sure what classes to take, misses class, fails out of school. Failed.

  • A person enters into a grocery store without a desired outcome, looks around at all the different products, picks some stuff up, put some things back, stays inside the store until it closes. They leave with nothing.

As you can tell, the two situations juxtapose as one has a desired outcome and the other does not. One person is prepared to succeed, and the other is doomed to fail due to their own decisions.

So, what is your desired outcome of a relationship? Or have you just chosen to fail?

I am NOT going to reply to ad-hominems, jokes, personal attacks, etc. You will be ignored! If you don't like the post/poster, think it's "weird" (lol) just don't respond, and go find another post. Pretty simple. ;)