Womens behavior results in the spread of STDs

leosandlattes · 2025-01-10T06:02:44+00:00

Your title says women’s behavior causes spread of STDs, yet everything you are talking about is men’s behavior. How MEN need to go in for the lay asap, how MEN do not properly vet women because they would rather get laid and risk catching an STD. Lollll.

Solondthewookiee · 2025-01-10T05:59:18+00:00

Nah, there's nothing to back up this nonsense.

Accomplished-Alps204 · 2025-01-10T06:03:07+00:00

Damn, the creativity some people have in finding ways to put blame on women for pretty much anything. Amazing.

TongueTiedPDX · 2025-01-10T06:43:59+00:00

You’re self-selecting for women who have sex with men they barely know...

RelevantJackWhite · 2025-01-10T05:51:30+00:00

Maybe you keep getting STIs because you keep trying to fuck women as soon as possible. Never had a woman turn me down because I asked them if they had a recent test they could show me. Lo and behold, I've never caught an STI. Crazy how that works

ComfortableJeans · 2025-01-10T06:12:22+00:00

I feel like we could also say that men trying to fuck as quickly as possible would be behavior resulting in a high spread of STDs, no?

I guess we could argue that both parties should take their time, go slowly, get to know one another and be involved with getting to know/being sexual with only one partner at a time. But I don't think we could put this on just one sex here.

This really doesn't matter anyway, as the whole getting fucked by dozens of other people thing isn't even real for the vast, vast majority of men and women.

This study around sexual behavior that would suggest that the true median was around 6 sexual partners.

https://www.cdc.gov/nchs/data/ad/ad362.pdf

Well, between 4-8, anyway.

Through personal experience as someone who takes their sexual romantic relationships quite seriously, and waits a long time before I want to sleep with a partner, if a girl is really into you, she'll be into you for a fairly long while as you get to know one another. I've never found that you have to get it in as quickly as possible so she doesn't lose interest.

I'm sure you could kind of make it work, by bringing in some kind of malformed sunk cost fallacy, where she believes that she's already invested in you, so it's best not to stop now. But I'd rather not be involved in that kind of relationship.

Anyway... Couple all this with so many reports on how people are having less sex now that with previous generations, this all the people are hoeing around idea just doesn't seem to carry much weight in the real world.

thotisms_speaks · 2025-01-10T06:00:44+00:00

This just sounds like a lack of accountability on your part. If you're having unprotected sex with strangers because you're afraid they won't date you again otherwise, it's on you.

the_1st_inductionist · 2025-01-10T06:53:03+00:00

What an awful view of men to promote, that they aren’t responsible for their actions.

attendquoi · 2025-01-10T13:59:54+00:00

How is your desperation the fault of women?

Parrotsandarmadillos · 2025-01-10T08:41:44+00:00

I’d love to hear the explanation of how you fucking with no condom and getting an std is the woman’s fault. Unless you both agreed to get tested and stay clean, you only have yourself to blame.

Outside_Memory5703 · 2025-01-10T06:11:37+00:00

No, you don’t have to

Especially since you’re dating, not prostituting

BlackPhillip444 · 2025-01-10T19:03:06+00:00

Did you really just say that men need to fuck as soon as possible, but then say women's behavior is why STDs are spreading so quickly?

HeavenlyPossum · 2025-01-10T09:51:03+00:00

You posted a few weeks ago that you refuse sex without a full STD panel.

Either this post is a lie or that post is a lie, but my guess is that both are lies and this is all just fanfic about some imaginary version of yourself that has sex with women (but is still disgusted by women).

MidoriEgg · 2025-01-10T07:37:31+00:00

Anyone who sleeps with someone they haven’t vetted/hardly know without a condom is responsible for the spread of STI’s.

GrandpaDallas · 2025-01-10T14:52:48+00:00

Maybe just wear a condom?

Any-Remove-4032 · 2025-01-10T08:24:56+00:00

Oh, this is rage bait 1 hundo 😂😂

Makuta_Servaela · 2025-01-10T13:59:56+00:00

Male condoms are sold in way more stores and way more varieties and sizes than female condoms.

Lift_and_Lurk · 2025-01-10T14:36:45+00:00

Bruh it always takes 2 to tango and unless all these STDs are happening from only women fucking women, dudes have just as much a role in the spread of them too.

How hard is it to say “the condoms stay on till we are exclusive”?!

Eastoss · 2025-01-10T15:01:52+00:00

Women are to blame for setting the standards of the sexual market, as they have the upper hand in it.

Men feel like to have any chance they need to cut down anything that might make a woman reject them. Like waiting for blood analysis.

However, condoms aren't one of those criterias that fuck up your chances. It's either neutral either the lack of condom are even directly decreasing your chance to get sex.

Therefore, men having sex condomless isn't an adaptation to the market, it's them who want that.

As a conclusion, women's behavior doesn't result in the spread of STDs.

Kentaro009 · 2025-01-10T05:59:10+00:00

I do think a lot of men need to be way more careful with casual sex these days.

A promiscuous woman 50 years ago might be a woman with 10-20 sexual partners.

Now, there are a lot of women with 50-100 prior sexual partners and that isn't even particularly high these days.

I have gone out with 5 women that have had an awkward talk with me about their incurable STD and were surprised when I did not want to go out with them again.

Women used to be the stop-gap for the spread of STDs in the heterosexual community and that really is no longer the case.

Mammoth_Elk_3807 · 2025-01-10T11:04:03+00:00

That’s called tough shit.

BringBackBrothels · 2025-01-10T05:52:04+00:00

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chocobolamo · 2025-01-10T11:42:05+00:00

It was my experience that women were quite open to getting tested beforehand. However I had become chad at this point and chad can get away with saying "you might have cooties so I wont fuck you".

Prior I couldnt even get a date let alone have sex. But after i became chad it was much easier to say 'hey just letting you know im going to get a full sti panel done and i'd like if you did the same'

'oh does this mean we will be having sex' - yes baby girl, I will plow you once you have you test done.

At this point they already chose me and imagined it. I can understand how some women would get offended but they're probably just out of your league if they aren't willing to do so or the alternative they have the herp and you should stay away anyway.

talking about sex is only a turn off if they don't see themselves having sex with you. Do you even want a partner who would have such an avoidance to sex that she would lose interest in you? A secure woman would know that every man wants to take her out back and bend her over the dumpster. Why would she lose interest because you tell her what she already knows? Don't you want a partner that wants to have sex with you too?

Alternatively I think women have used the topic of sex to gaslight you into thinking you did something wrong or did something too soon. It's a convenient way to end their relationship with you without looking like a bad person - they convince you that you are the bad person. But obviously you wanna bend the hot chick over the dumpster so you have dont nothing wrong. They know that - they just didn't want to have sex with you.

bluestjuice · 2025-01-11T00:02:19+00:00

There are plenty of women who are extremely cautious about STI transmission and request screening prior to sex. Of course, there are also a lot of people (of all genders) who aren’t, and don’t. I imagine people who have a pretty quick rotation through partners, or quite a few short-term partners, are more likely to fall in the latter group, just because of logistics?

uglysaladisugly · 2025-01-11T15:06:21+00:00

So the spread of STDs is due to men not vetting the STds. But Its because of women because if you vetted them she wouldn't have sex with you? What???

mumblebumblegrumble · 2025-01-12T02:10:41+00:00

If women's actions result in the spread of STDs, why are STDs higher in men that have sex with men?

yeqfyf · 2025-01-10T10:08:20+00:00

So many women I've slept with have had a laissez-faire attitude regarding condoms. They'd say something like "you dont have to wear that" the first time we had sex. This has happened over a dozen times.

Title	Womens behavior results in the spread of STDs
Author	Kurkzer
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Date	January 10, 2025 5:47 AM UTC (1 year ago)
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