You constantly see this idea that some men believe in society that "Sex with a man degrades a woman". You see this idea in men slut-shaming Women for having lots of Sexual Partners while never shaming men for the same thing. Or the language of sex centering around violence and degradation like "smashed" ,"pounded" ,"Cracked" ,"banged" and "He fucked her" which implies that sex is degrading for the woman as she is the Passive Recipient. Men say they would never Marry or respect a Woman with a High Body Count as they claim she has little respect for herself to have sex with many men. While a Man who has plenty of sex is lauded and seen as superior for having sex with plenty of women. According to them ,A Man's value increases when he has sex while a Woman's value decreases. The Men who support this might say "well men just want women to have sex with them ,not other men." but men degrade even women who have sex with them ,I've seen plenty of men mock women who've slept with them too quickly as being "easy". It's clearly not just incels who can't get sex who say this.

So if that's the case ,why should women have sex with men at all? Why should they have sex with men if they ,by these men's own words, will view them as lesser for doing so? What incentive do women have at all to have sex with men if not only do they face Potential Threats like Pregnancy but also face being seen as Lesser. Men have shot themselves in the foot by saying all this as that means the best women is one who will never have sex with them. You can't slut-shame women and then be surprised that women don't want to have sex with you.

And yes ,there is a clear amount of Men who espouse this belief and clearly view a women's value as decreasing the more sex she has. So if you believe a women's value decreases if she has sex with a man ,then you should be perfectly ok with women never having sex with any man ,including you. You don't get to have your cake and eat it. Either sex degrades a woman therefore she should never have it with you ,or your idea that women are degraded when they have sex is wrong.