[Q4RP] If you were a young woman with average looks ,what would be your marriage/sexual strategy?

newName543456 · 2018-07-22T22:03:46+00:00

Screw as many guys as possible while still attractive, then, when looks are waning, pretend to be virtuous and snag a good provider with good career. Probably cheat on him while still realistic.

dicklord_airplane · 2018-07-22T16:05:34+00:00

Id do what my mom did and use my good judgement to choose an intelligent, principled, hard working person and then do everything in my power to ensure that he had a successful career. My parents married at age 25, and my dad was in grad school working on his Phd until he was 30. He went to ork in the oil industry and made a shit ton of money while my mom raised my brother and I, and they are still happily married over 35 years later. They are currently enjoying their retirement scuba diving in Indonesia.

Or i would do what my best friend's wife did. My best friend is a very intelligent, hard working, principled, handsome guy working as a research geologist for the USGS. But he is a huge nerd and has very little ability to chat up girls. My friend's wife saw the potential in him when they were 19, so she pursued him persistently. Now they are happily married. She really made a good choice because he keeps getting more attractive every year.

Both of those women favored investing in long-term potential over seeking instant gratification in relationships. That's the problem with women who can't find a man. They want instant gratification with a perfect man who brings them a perfect relationship. They dont want to build a good relationship, they think it should fall into their lap like so many pop fictional romances.

It's not hard to choose good men. Its not hard to spot potential in a man. You just have to think with your brain, not your vagina. You have to find good potential in a man instead of only looking at the minority of flashy guys who already "have it all."

cxj · 2018-07-23T02:36:52+00:00

Being the impulsive person that I am, I’d probably opt for the high risk high reward strategy of dating/marrying/baby having a moderately attractive guy with some issues and bankrolling us all with my RN career if I had to. I have an rn career as a man I’d probably have one as a woman too lol. I’d find a way to stress that I won’t tolerate cheating but if it happens it better be way outside my area code, I better not find out about it and it better be with a dumb young hot bimbo he doesn’t give two shits about.

Five_Decades · 2018-07-22T20:57:01+00:00

Find an average guy with average looks and who had a good career ahead of him in medicine or engineering and marry him.

Barely-moral · 2018-07-23T02:16:02+00:00

Assuming I keep the goals and values I have now as a man.

Invest in a beta man with potential and serious problems when it comes to self esteem and talking to girls.

Encourage him to change just enough for him to be acceptable as a partner. Nothing more than that.

I want a decent partner that will stay with me. So I have to find someone who has issues approaching girls, someone who has the potential to be decent, and I have to get to him early enough so he knows I saw something in him when other women couldn't.

tuesdayrain · 2018-07-22T13:34:37+00:00

I'd focus on my career to remain independent, while casually talking to/dating people online. I wouldn't have sex with any of them so I could filter for the most high quality guys who truly like me for my personality, and so I could use my virginity as a way to (try to) lock in a guy I finally decide to settle down with.

blackedoutfast · 2018-07-22T17:10:51+00:00

don't waste any time/money on college, looksmax instead. lock down an easily manipulated rich older guy when i'm at my peak SMV around 22. get married, then deadbedroom him. fuck hot alpha guys behind his back.

Willow-girl · 2018-07-22T22:36:54+00:00

Become amish. Those guys commit

[deleted] · 2018-07-23T12:41:57+00:00

Find a man I'm sexually attracted to and has something going for him/has potential. Engage in ever-increasing sex for ever-increasing commitment. Lock him down, fuck the ever loving shit out of him every day, and keep him happy. Be his cheerleader, lover, friend, and confidant. Have the guy picked out by age 21. Locked in by age 22.

[deleted] · 2018-07-22T19:19:56+00:00

There is a fundamental flaw I'd like to point out as a Red Pill man. You're asking me to define the strategy for an average looking woman when, as a Red Pill man, I'm more interested in my own strategy and can only see things from a 'male' perspective. Any advice I give you will be from the male perspective and will either be superficial, wrong or inapplicable. This is the converse of the rule that when women give me dating advice they just don't get it, that our sexual and mating instincts are just different. That being said, check out Red Pill women, since you want a Red Pill perspective and you need women to give you help on female strategy. That sub really is great when it comes to women's sexual strategy in a Red Pill paradigm.

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Gravel_Roads · 2018-07-22T14:42:21+00:00

I am just leaning RP but,

I'd fuck with whomever I wanted while young and then settle for an easy life before the wall like most other woman. The AF/BB and hypergamy arise from one simple thing about humans.

Humans are naturaly egotistical

Regardless of their gender or sex. If I never experienced the male perspective, why the hell would I consider anything outside of my own benefit? That is the problem

Edit: grammar.

Edit2: If I just changed bodies one day, I would obviously become a lesbian or bi as I am quite found to women.

Edit 3: If I just learned how it is to be a male somehow, I would compensate every bloke I interacted with and would be careful to compensate equally my interactions instead of just getting everything for me and forgetting I am interacting with a human being. Like... accepting living a simple life. And giving him the best I can for literally sustaining me.

Willow-girl · 2018-07-22T18:43:17+00:00

I was an average-looking young woman and was always able to pair up with men to whom I was genuinely attracted.

[deleted] · 2018-07-22T17:30:51+00:00

Join the harem of the Pharaoh

lalabats · 2018-07-22T17:59:52+00:00

These questions are always so difficult for me because my husband and I have been together since high school (going on 8 years), and I dont have experience in the adult dating world. But I find older men generally attractive, so the last one probably.

abaxeron · 2018-07-23T08:30:04+00:00

In a country with welfare safety network, I would give birth to 3-4 kids from a sperm donor with IQ 140+, adopt one more kid from an orphanage, and assign them to extracurricular activities with male curators who would serve as role models and paternal figures.

And I'd also buy a couple vibrators to keep me company.

LowCreddit · 2018-07-23T18:42:06+00:00

I would stalk the engineering building at college, tackle the best looking guy there, and make him put a ring on it for graduation.

Yu4nghydr4 · 2018-07-24T20:18:18+00:00

I’d save myself for love and find a masculine minded hardworking guy who has good potential

Develop my femininity and learn to sing like an angel

Instant ticket to success

vanBeethovenLudwig · 2018-07-27T10:09:12+00:00

To be honest what I look for is simply someone I get along with and that I'm attracted to. That's it. Usually the career prospects/intellect naturally come along with it - I wouldn't be able to get along with a man who isn't smart or alpha in any way.

Title	[Q4RP] If you were a young woman with average looks ,what would be your marriage/sexual strategy?
Author	Pretty_Please_C_My_V
Upvotes	13
Comments	230
Date	July 22, 2018 12:59 PM UTC (7 years ago)
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