Q4Women: How would you react if a man offered you 1000 dollars for sex?

azngirl7689 · 2018-04-12T16:39:05+00:00

Refuse. Than go look in the mirror and reevaluate my clothing choices. Do I look like a ho? Evaluate how I act towards men- do I act like a ho?

Than make these changes and pray to god no one insults me like that again.

Equalina · 2018-04-12T17:13:55+00:00

I’d be appalled. It would feel degrading to me. If I knew the man, I’d be hurt and angry that he knew me so little as to offer - if I didn’t know him, I’d assume he was a creep.

Electra_Cute · 2018-04-12T16:20:43+00:00

Disgusted

haikufun · 2018-04-12T16:17:48+00:00

I'd question what I am wearing that would signal that I'm supposedly a prostitute. Or wonder what kind of game this stranger is playing. And just to be clear, not have sex.

ivegotsomequestions0 · 2018-04-12T19:55:49+00:00

Hell YES. I'd even do it for less than that. I'd be fine with market rate for my area, as long as I didn't have to travel too far and his hygiene was decent.

It would be fine if we had just met, as long as I could ensure that he wasn't a cop or abuser. Of course, in reality, I'd probably doubt that my accepting the offer could remain secret and never impact my career, so I'd also need to be totally anonymous to him.

I've had plenty of guys think that they could fuck me for free, and do so, and very clearly not give a shit about me or my pleasure. Why not get paid? Besides, I suspect that if a guy did pay, he would actually be more pleasant, because he would value the interaction more and.

Atlas_B_Shruggin · 2018-04-12T16:16:56+00:00

i cant believe i gave it away for free all those years. i definitely would have taken it

sublimemongrel · 2018-04-12T17:22:41+00:00

Ha I’d just laugh. I’ve been “offered” cases for sex, I said no but he was “just joking god.”

TheChemist158 · 2018-04-12T16:23:59+00:00

I would deny. Just no. I don't need the money.

RockinSocksII · 2018-04-12T17:53:19+00:00

Nope. I make six figures not to have to sex with random people.

DemonConsulting · 2018-04-12T18:31:10+00:00

I'd feel disgusted and a bit insulted - I'm not a prostitute to be bought, nor am I so poor that 1000$ are a significant enough amount to change my mind on the issue.

Now if we were to add quite a few zeros, maybe my husband could get behind the idea but I doubt it tbh and I would still find it disgusting. Maybe if I were single... The more I think about it, the less I can see it being worth the possible implications for our relationship, even if it's a lot of money. Just imagine living in a house that reminds you every second that it was paid for by pimping out your wife/ whoring yourself out.

IHeartDay9 · 2018-04-12T21:02:10+00:00

$1000 is way too low. I'd consider a hand job for that, but probably not.

I'd start thinking about it at 10k. 50k would be a definite yes. There is no amount of money that would make me consider unprotected sex, unless perhaps if I had PrEP.

But realistically, I'd probably just refer them to a local agency. They could sleep with multiple way hotter women than me for $1000.

SpaceWhiskey · 2018-04-12T16:30:00+00:00

Probably not but maybe, it would really depend on the guy and the circumstances. Also it would need to be more money, like, way more. Honestly I can’t see the stars aligning for me to feel comfortable with it but life is full of surprises, who knows.

[deleted] · 2018-04-12T16:27:27+00:00

"Could you write it out to me, please? I'll spell my name for you."

GridReXX · 2018-04-12T22:47:59+00:00

If you were feeling a sexual chemistry with him anyway and you didnt value his opinion enough to care if he thought you were a “whore” because of it?

Take the money sis.

The “goldiggers” of the world are laughing at your “principles” from their yachts.

If you’re a woman who has had casual sex with a man who had the mindset that “you gave it up for free”? You might as well take the money.

Me personally? $1000 is low. I’d be flattered.

carefreevermillion · 2018-04-13T02:58:50+00:00

Y'all be saying you'll have sex with a dude for $1000, I got myself a man and I haven't had to pay rent for the past year.

Seriously, how different are relationships from prostitution when you get down to the mechanical details?

Atlas_B_Shruggin · 2018-04-12T18:08:46+00:00

Well when you think about it, women are out there giving it up for alot less than 1000.. dinner/drinks. Back to the house and he maybe spent 100 bucks on you. Its not a direct exchange but its an unspoken exchange that we wont look into. Prosititutes / sex workers are probably laughing at the girls who give it up bc they were drunk or "felt a spark" or was "hot"

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Littleknownfacts · 2018-04-12T16:18:01+00:00

It would have to be a lot more than $100. My SO wouldn't even mind as long as it paid off my student debt.

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yasee · 2018-04-12T17:54:50+00:00

I'd decline but I like to think I'd be somewhat polite about it. Not sure about an actual dollar amount but I suspect the amount of money it would take to get me to say yes to that kind of an offer (only while single, mind you) would be far beyond what anyone would ever be willing to pay for me lol

rulenumber303 · 2018-04-12T19:14:19+00:00

Just met? Call the cops 'cos both soliciting and procuring are illegal here.

Someone I knew? Depends whether I like him. If I hate him I call the cops, if he's an old and dear friend I ask him if he's OK, if he needs to talk to a counselor.

Young_Oryx · 2018-04-12T20:16:16+00:00

No, I wouldn't do that. The offer is weird and insulting.

lol_throwaway303 · 2018-04-12T21:12:14+00:00

I’d be like WTF, is this a joke, laugh in the guy’s face, be disgusted, never talk to this guy again, feel bad for him a bit, not entertain the idea, make him feel stupid if he wasn’t joking.

[deleted] · 2018-04-12T21:24:10+00:00

Refuse if I just met him, if I'm not attracted to him, or if I'm in a relationship. No amount of money is going to change my mind about that.

Accept if I've talked to him a couple times and was considering having sex with him anyway - if I'd do it for free I might as well get something out of it if the other person offers it to me.

1UPZ_ · 2018-04-12T21:57:39+00:00

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kandyapplez · 2018-04-13T02:10:56+00:00

It happened all the time when I was a hostess and bottle girl.

I laughed in their face and sometimes had them removed.

CatchPhraze · 2018-04-13T02:25:36+00:00

I wouldn't take that, it's certainly not enough for my dignity and even less considering it would probably end my relationship. That being said, I'm sure we could both agree to get over it for some absurd amount of money that would benefit both of us, but realistically nobody is worth THAT amount of money so it's kind of a moot point.

mistresswhat · 2018-04-13T21:47:40+00:00

Someone I don't know at all, offering this out of the blue = either a total scam or an attempt to lure me into a dangerous situation. I'd be wary. And I'm not someone with hangups about trading sex for money.

More women and straight men would say yes to this than will ever admit it, even anonymously on the internet.

Frankly, if you need the money and safety/scamming is not a concern I'd kinda judge you for saying no. Your body, your choice, of course.

Naya3333 · 2018-04-16T22:09:00+00:00

$1000 is not that much for sex. There are a lot of prostitutes who make that much in a night. I chose to not be a prostitute, so I am not going to accept this offer. If I were offered a significantly higher sum, like $30k, then I might consider the offer.

LifterofThings · 2018-04-12T18:10:42+00:00

If I were unattached and wanted to fuck him? Absolutely. I'd consider it even if I didn't want to fuck him, tbh.

Title	Q4Women: How would you react if a man offered you 1000 dollars for sex?
Author	lemonfloss
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Date	April 12, 2018 4:07 PM UTC (8 years ago)
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