Pickmeisha on r/offmychest

ManchurianCantaloupe · 2020-11-26T18:22:03+00:00

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MadamLeFay · 2020-11-26T16:17:32+00:00

This has to be written by a guy. It has to be. Please tell me this is written by a guy. If not, we must vote her off our island...

VeronaMoreau · 2020-11-26T16:34:19+00:00

The only one I agree with is #6 because the word s#mp and c#ck are used against men to keep them in line and keep the bar as low as possible.

OutlandishnessTiny14 · 2020-11-26T16:17:47+00:00

Without looking at their post/ comments history, I’m convinced this is a guy posing as a “hardcore feminist”.

OutlandishnessTiny14 · 2020-11-26T16:25:23+00:00

The last one. Omg what an extreme pickme. Of course ungrateful scrotes should be shamed for not wanting to go down on women because they likely expect the same, and I find her wording hilarious, she’s just baffled and mindblown at why women dislike such scrotes 😂😂😂. Let the pickmes and NVM stay mad, we’re gonna keep doing what we do 😌

Kimpractical · 2020-11-26T16:56:49+00:00

Tell them not to do this shit to us first. Tell them to stop shaming us when we don’t want to do anal or have threesomes or swallow cum. Tell them to stop shaming us when we don’t orgasm and it’s their fault because they don’t listen to what we want. Tell them to stop shaming us when we gain a little weight. Tell them to stop shaming us when we try to express and communicate our emotions and they don’t want to deal with it. Tell them to stop shaming us for having periods, or having more than one sexual partner in the past, or wanting to wear makeup and dress nice. And tell them to stop shaming us for making up our own minds, deciding not to deal with their bull shit, and having lives that are independent of them

Astral_weaver · 2020-11-26T16:22:03+00:00

We should shame them for all the things they are doing wrong and in our expense.

S H A M E T H E M.

GrapeJuiceEnthusiast · 2020-11-26T17:21:32+00:00

Why do women waste so much time and energy fighting for males? I've never seen a post going like:

"I'm a hardcore meninist and these are some of the things society does to women that I absolutely hate:

I don't like it when people shame women for taking ages to orgasm during sex.
I hate it when people shame women for their labia size.
It's wrong to shame women for their height/weight/breast size/butt size.
I don't like that women are shamed for their body hair.
I wish women didn't feel like they have to wear makeup, spend ages on their hair etc.
I haaaaaaaaaaaaate the word simp. We aren't simps for thinking women are human beings!
Stop shaming women for not being "kinky" in bed. Make an effort to help them feel safe and comfortable during sexual situations so that they feel good.
Fuuuuuuuuuuuck everyone who says that women should act a certain way or they're less of a man! Women don't have to be quiet, submissive, feminine etc. They're fucking human. Let them have feelings and feel safe and comfortable and loved.
This is the weirdest one of all to me, but holy fucking shit I hate when people give women shit if they don't want to go down on a man or do anal..."

Males don't give a shit about women's issues. They don't care about our problems or suffering so stop devoting so much emotional care into their "problems." The day I'll start feeling sad when someone makes a dick size joke is when males as a collective stop shaming women's natural bodies.

West-Cook · 2020-11-26T16:43:35+00:00

So like, I personally do think it’s not cool to “shame” people for things they can’t change, like penis size, height, or balding. But also, (1) having a preference for partners who are tall and have a big Dick and hair is not the same as shaming. And (2) it’s men having a complex about their penis size/height/balding while being judgmental about women’s looks that is shameful.

lollykpops · 2020-11-26T17:00:23+00:00

Women who advocate not recieving oral sex cause iTs IcKy are honestly???? Who are you and why are you afraid of your own vagina.

Tell-Me-Whyy · 2020-11-26T16:43:48+00:00

Gosh how dare she do that to the hardcore feminist name! Pickme under the cloak of feminism 😒😒😒

InevitableHulk · 2020-11-26T16:37:21+00:00

Trying to earn cool points, I see. I bet she only has guy friends because it’s “less drama.” Hope she gets picked.

late4church_ · 2020-11-26T16:49:09+00:00

Her punishment is the man she is with or will end up with. That alone is hilarious enough for her pickme ways so I aint mad lol

_xyoungbellax_ · 2020-11-26T16:53:19+00:00

Sometimes I wonder what they do with all that fake attention for their obviously low self-esteem. Don't they get tired of pleasing NVMs and getting absolutely nothing in return except "aww babe you're better than all the other girls I fucked"? Like woman, read some self-help books, get a hobby or something, quit this man pleasing shit. This is not going to get you anywhere in life, something I wish I knew in my teenage years.

Scotsburd · 2020-11-26T16:58:12+00:00

She spelled Handmaiden wrong.

MagnfiqueMaleficent · 2020-11-26T17:22:15+00:00

Why on earth should a man who demands oral not be shamed for refusing to return the favor? ESPECIALLY since he gets a pass to “finish quickly” according to this dumb pickmeisha? She might as well have just written: “ladies, your body is a mere cum dump for NVMs and LVMs.”

YOU’RE WRONG, Brenda. Don’t try to tell other women their bodies and their sexual pleasure mean nothing; get out of here with that. 🤡🤡🤛🏻

AllTheBeanToes · 2020-11-26T17:35:37+00:00

'I'm a feminist!' - tells women to stay in their lane and shut up

stayforskz · 2020-11-26T17:24:20+00:00

Funny thing is most points are actually men shaming or hating other men for:

-being simps, -wearing make up, -acting "gay", -acting "too emotional or feminine", the list goes on....

iggypooop · 2020-11-26T16:59:28+00:00

Oooow isn't she cute?

ninetiesbaby16 · 2020-11-26T17:55:18+00:00

Hahahahahhaha at men need to feel safe and comfortable during sex oh my lawd I’m laughing out loud hahahahahahahhahahhahahhh wow yes the poor widdle man is the one that feels unsafe

Sewud · 2020-11-26T17:42:12+00:00

Are men not feeling safe?

Express_Chocolate_60 · 2020-11-26T17:13:44+00:00

I kinda agree with 3, 5 and 6.

3- that's a thing you can't change at all- but hear me out that doesn't give them the right to use their insecurities and project them onto us.

5- i personally love men that put effort into their accessories (i'm visually driven so....if the dude has a fashion sense, clean, tidy clothes, a good perfume, jewelry, a nice color scheme overall that makes the whole package aesthetically pleasing ...oh well- that's my turn on). I wish it was more socially acceptable for men to look fancy or use heavy jewelry.

Let's not forget about those tribes/warriors that wore makeup and they looked badass.

ok- at this point i described an unicorn. nevermind :')

6- I think we all know that "simp" is used by lvm to mock men who behave like decent human beings.

discoveringliberty · 2020-11-26T17:38:12+00:00

When will women as a whole finally realise that they deserve to enjoy sex? Honestly, this woman has no idea how much damage one post like this can do. I hate the thought of young girls reading this and thinking that they have to put up with guys cumming in them after 3 mins and refusing to do oral while simultaneously expecting to receive it. And the idea that if you can't feel anything when a guy has a small dick then that's something you just need to work on. Ew.

KitKat1705 · 2020-11-26T17:44:49+00:00

And she still can't keep a man, no one wants a pick me. That's why she tolerate so much shit thinking you can keep a man like that 😂😂😂

Phoenix__Rising2018 · 2020-11-26T17:27:39+00:00

Yeah sure that's a woman. That's why all the reasons are things that stop men from getting fucked because women aren't attracted to them and are left sexually unsatisfied by them.

Yeah the real problem here isn't that men are raping and sexually abusing us en masse, it's that we need to spend even more time making them feel even safer and more comfortable than they already are. So when are they going to do that for us???

maraslove · 2020-11-26T17:29:12+00:00

She’s needs to STFU.

2020-11-26T17:28:35+00:00

This is just not true. Because:

Nobody judges men because of their appearance. I mean I have seen more women being shamed about breast size (to the level of feeling so inadequate they feel obliged to undergo risky plastic surgery) than any men being shamed about anything.
We are entitled to have our own opinions about attractiveness. Not shaming men for physical looks and sexual performance doesn't mean we must sleep with ugly guys in order not to hurt their fragile male ego. Why are they so hostile against women who have standards?
Most men could look better just by taking care of their personal hygiene, going to the gym, getting a haircut and dressing nice and clean clothes. But I guess it's easier to stay unkempt and dirty and complain about "bitches being shallow".
If you will discuss the unimportance of physical looks, start with the extreme beauty standards imposed to women. Even a 50/50 pickmeisha could make a general statement like "both women and men should not be shamed based on looks" or etc, but this "woman" (in fact a clown, lol) completely focused on men.

Meh, I could go on forever but this is so wrong on so many levels...

Fantastic-Living · 2020-11-26T18:06:45+00:00

This was written by either

someone who's so bought in to that breed of third wave ism where gender is a nice periodic table, so are all the world's 'kinks' and sexual and romantic attractions, yet somehow it doesn't model the fact that misogyny exists
a man

I guarantee it

OrangeyPanda · 2020-11-26T18:08:33+00:00

All issues caused by men. If only men cared about themselves 🙄

iaintgonnacallyou · 2020-11-26T18:09:38+00:00

I only half agree with #6. I don’t like the word simp. You’re a simp for treating a woman with respect? For treating a woman like a human being? Men trying to shame other men into treating women badly the way they do.

But “let men love people and express their love”??? The only ones preventing men from doing that is men. Everything in her post is about men vs men. This isn’t women’s problem at all.

I hope she gets picked. Women like this really hold us back.

Ghost_namesake · 2020-11-26T18:13:45+00:00

I wouldn't shame a partner for finishing quickly because sometimes it can happen. I would expect him to make effort to do better next time. I would also expect him to make sure I'm satisfied, even if he already finished.

kwalden2 · 2020-11-26T18:36:04+00:00

I hate women's bodies being shamed. It doesn't work both ways, though. I do think that when men's bodies are shamed, it's usually a well-deserved retort to some rudeness and abuse. Call a guy a jerk, asshole, abuser, slut, used-up, or even stupid, and they'll probably laugh you off. The only way to get them back is to call them a manlet/microdick. That's where they hurt. They literally don't respond to anything else. When a MAN insults a WOMAN'S body, it's usually a response to polite rejection or a way to lower her self-esteen and "keep her in line.

That being said, women don't really win by wasting their time calling men names to their faces. Save your breath for fighting for feminist causes or something. Tearing down a man's ego will only feel good for a few minutes. No one will care about them and their silly egos in the long-term anyway. That's why they're so mad.

Optimal_Grapefruit_5 · 2020-11-26T18:40:32+00:00

First I thought she was the mother of all pickmeishas or simply a guy.
Judging by her post history though it seems like that was mostly karma-whoring to set her reddit record straight.

It's still a disgusting post that's simping hard. Most those issues are either self-inflicted or primarily caused by other men.

People shame women for taking longer and being "too complicated even in bed"
Men shame each other over penis size, and shame women for having small boobs, but also for having big boobs 'cause for them the bigger the cup the bigger the slut, but also for medium boobs 'cause they could be bigger
Men shame each other over their height, call other guys manlet and little man and pipsqueak and I could go on
Men shame each other over baldness, and are fucking terrified of it
Most men don't feel compelled to enhance their appearance because they aren't raised with the idea their natural form is disgusting and must be altered; that said, men usually enhance their appearance in different ways from women and they're only shamed when they choose ways considered socially inappropriate (makeup as opposed to a haircut, shaving his beard different, wearing fitted/tailored clothes, getting fit, etc)
The vast majority of people who call men simps are other men
"Make them feel safe and comfortable" they're the ones railing you, "teach them" like women don't already
Toxic masculinity is mostly enforced by men on other men
Oral is the only or anyway easier way many women (idk if most) can orgasm. It's not the same, a vagina can't penetrate your mouth (inb4 challenge accepted). Face-fucks involve dicks for a reason.

SamuelaTheThrifty · 2020-11-26T17:35:27+00:00

It’s mostly men judging each other for these things. Men are the ones who create male beauty standards.

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Title	Pickmeisha on r/offmychest
Author	OutlandishnessTiny14
Upvotes	69
Comments	64
Date	November 26, 2020 4:15 PM UTC (5 years ago)
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