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[–]lanaisg0dFDS Newbie368 points369 points370 points 3 years ago (15 children) | Copy Link
I have a pickmeisha mother who blamed me at 13 of “seducing” her boyfriend who was around 27 when she found out he was touching me inappropriately smh
[–][deleted] 136 points137 points138 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Ew I'm so sorry
[–]ivy176FDS Disciple42 points43 points44 points 3 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
That's so awful, I'm sorry.. reminds me of that Precious movie, that was fucked up
[–]lanaisg0dFDS Newbie61 points62 points63 points 3 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
I only realized it wasn’t my fault when I was around 20 and now that I’m a mother I know I’d never ever do that to my daughter. She kept dating him after she found out and told me I ruined her life cause she thought she was gonna marry him (dated for 7 years forever girlfriend)
[–]ivy176FDS Disciple36 points37 points38 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Wtf.. horrible excuse of a mother
[–]ardiana_hautmannFDS Newbie14 points15 points16 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
That’s awful 😕😞
[–]littleredpartydress_FDS Newbie12 points13 points14 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
That’s so gross I’m so sorry :(
[–]cloeedFDS Newbie11 points12 points13 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
So sorry this happened to you. Under French law, abstaining to help someone who’s in danger is actually a criminal offense in itself.. wishing you the best on your journey
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[–]sweatydeath23 points24 points25 points 3 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Pick-me-sha
[–]creamilky3 points4 points5 points 3 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Nearly the same here- live in trash boyfriend creeping on me constantly, yelled at by my “mother” for attracting him at 15. I knew it wasn’t fair at the time and it hurt but with age I’ve realized how really fucked up that was.
[–]lanaisg0dFDS Newbie1 point2 points3 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
What happened after that? My mom kept dating him and allowed him around me after finding out. Then he started messing around with our neighbor who was also my moms BFF for years that’s when she FINALLY broke up with him. I found out years later she was still in contact with him and used to send him nudes even tho she was in another relationship SMH
[–]RadarFemefFDS Newbie2 points3 points4 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Oh I’m so sorry to hear that
[–]kurtelizabeth1 point2 points3 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I am so, so sorry. No one no matter what age deserved to hear that from their own mother.
[–]ThatsWhat__I__SaidFDS Apprentice118 points119 points120 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Something about this just resonated with me. I mean it was like a punch to the gut.
Looking back on my 35 year career in pediatrics - this also applies to the women who protect their husbands and boyfriends when the baby is brought in with signs of sexual abuse or other suspicious trauma. They will do anything to keep their man.
I'm literally shaking right now.
[–]trippyslothsFDS Newbie309 points310 points311 points 3 years ago (19 children) | Copy Link
Yes and then the cycle of pedos never ends because of this pickme protection program !!
[–]royaldetourFDS Newbie85 points86 points87 points 3 years ago (18 children) | Copy Link
It's so sad.
[–]trippyslothsFDS Newbie120 points121 points122 points 3 years ago (17 children) | Copy Link
Also they don’t report because: basically all men are pedos or have shown signs of pedo behavior at least once. So should we just take note of every male family member? That’s the most depressing realization. It would be all males with maybe the exception of a great-grandpa who has 0 testosterone left in his body, keeping his sex drive nonexistent. Every one of them has gazed inappropriately at a child, lusted over a teen celeb, made a gross remark, at least once
[–]rinabeanFDS Disciple84 points85 points86 points 3 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
There are men with perfectly normal testosterone who stopped lusting after teens when they stopped being teens.
What you're doing, saying basically "boys will be boys", and still dating them, is exactly the behaviour being called out here. Trying to fuck men who you think want to fuck children is utterly disgusting
[–]FluffandRaincloudsRuthless Strategist21 points22 points23 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Thank you for this.
[–]littlecloudxoProvisional Member6 points7 points8 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Exactly.
[–][deleted] 64 points65 points66 points 3 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Holy shit this
I remember discussing some problematic comments with my gf made by her (ex) husband whom she has a kid with, and she immediately got really defensive and was interrogating me for it. Like yo dont shoot the messenger, wouldnt you rather him not being creepy with his niece??
I dont think shes like a "pick me" type of person, but regardless, it was depressing when I thought back on all the men in my own life who had said creepy or creepier things and it was... literally.... every single one of them.......
Why are men allowed to be like this? Why is this normalized? The truth is, un-internalizing the internalized sexism is fucking difficult, especially when these issues are endemic. It's hard to root out the creepy-is-ok thread from our tightly woven social fabric that binds families together.
[–]PooPooMeeksFDS Newbie24 points25 points26 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Sadly, this is one of those problems that society REFUSES to fix. It's out there, passed from generation to generation. I've always said time and time again that the government needs to incorporate sensitivity training to stop this type of sexism. But even looking at the COVID situation right now shows just how little the US prioritizes important, detrimental life issues.
This is why when sexual assaults happen, a large amount of the time we have waves of denial from either family members, authority figures or law enforcement officials.
[–]CassieGreen85FDS Apprentice132 points133 points134 points 3 years ago (5 children) | Copy Link
I still remember how they treated that actress from Stranger Things, Millie Brown. She was about 12 when she rose to stardom, and the MINUTE she put a bit of makeup and some feminine clothes (she took photos for a magazine or sth), they already started talking about her sexuality. She's currently 16, she wasn't even 14 when they started talking about her goddamn sexuality.
Imagine being that sick (and it's normalized!) that you think it's ok to sexualize a preteen just because she's a celeb.
[–][deleted] 72 points73 points74 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
And then...... Drake.
Search Drake and Millie Bobby Brown controversy for the details on that, it is grooossss
[–]PooPooMeeksFDS Newbie70 points71 points72 points 3 years ago* (3 children) | Copy Link
Also the Olsen twins: the minute they turned 18, men were salivating and openly talking about their “hotness”. They just didn’t wait until the girls turned 18, hey were listing after these girls WAY before this.
Britney Spears is a great example too. Her first video Hit Me Baby One More Time solidified the “schoolgirl Lolita” fantasy that helped boost her career, with these older men fantasizing about her being so young and “sexy.” 🤢
[–]tasdronFDS Newbie25 points26 points27 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
There was a professor at UF who kept a running count of days until the Olsen twins turned 18 on his blackboard. He would open each class by updating it. It went on for more than a year.
[–]velvetdoggo21 points22 points23 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I'm pretty sure there was a "countdown until she turns 18" for Emma Watson as well. 🤮
[–]ObserveTheSpeedLawFDS Newbie4 points5 points6 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
A talk radio show I used to listen to back in the day had a countdown daily to when Shiloh Novelle Jolie—Pitt turns 18. Complete with “Whitesnake” like stripper music.
[–]royaldetourFDS Newbie83 points84 points85 points 3 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Ugh even the old ass ones get that prefrontal cortex deterioration and grab and say sexually inappropriate shit.
[–]trippyslothsFDS Newbie78 points79 points80 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Oh I forgot about Joe Biden
[–]Ms_TillyRuthless Strategist14 points15 points16 points 3 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Not true about great grandpa. One of my worst experiences as a live in caregiver was an 80+ yr old, extremely frail man in a walker, stopping by my room to hold his hands out in front of him and actually say to me "you know what I want to do with these?"
I stormed out and went straight to my office to see what my boss and supervisor wanted to do. They said it was within my right to blow the whistle on him, but I felt too bad for his old wife who had been so good to me. It scared the shit out of the old man though. He kept thanking me and crying and I told him to just stay the hell away from me and that if he needed help with anything, I'd have to call in a second aide. They ended up moving into a permanent care facility shortly after.
[–]CassieGreen85FDS Apprentice6 points7 points8 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Yeah I don't give a pass to the elderly, just because you're old and weak doesn't mean you stop being a piece of shit. I hate the stereotype of elderly being harmless/innocent because I've met more than my share of absolutely assholes who happened to be grandparents age (hell, one of my grandmas is one of those).
The only reason old geezers aren't as much of a threat is because they're physically weaker than us at that point.
Like the other comments say, age doesn’t necessarily hinder their libidos. I realized that after my sisters noticed how my 85 yo grandfather was always looking at a woman’s ass when she walked away. Similarly, my 60 yo father always loves to flirt with waitresses/cashiers. Knowing this immediately changed my opinion of them, regardless of the fact that they are family and never personally harmed me. I don’t understand the women who leave it to the justice system to figure out whether the man is guilty or not (and I’m a lawyer). I’ll always trust the accusations, there’s no fire without smoke. The cases where women or children have lied represent such a small portion of all the cases brought to court (not even counting the ones which haven’t been) that it’s wrong and disgusting to rely upon those and on the "innocent until proven guilty” system. We live in a society where men used to be entitled to marry children as long as they paid a small sum to their parents. In some countries, men are still allowed to rape women so long as they marry them right after. Women need to always stand for women and children because we can’t rely on men.
[–]YarikEnterpriseFDS Disciple260 points261 points262 points 3 years ago (8 children) | Copy Link
Oh, my mother was pickmeisha enough she made me give her SHIRTLESS boyfriends massages.
Starting when I was six. And begging not to.
The mentality of pick-me directly leads to child abuse. I will never stop beating this drum. It is a large part of why I am here, because I firmly believe that any action I can take to help women here is the best way to keep more little girls from being created to live the life I did.
(I'm a stable, content, functioning adult now. I just have complex PTSD and zero contact with my family of origin.)
[–][deleted] 82 points83 points84 points 3 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link
Jesus christ I'm so sorry
[–]YarikEnterpriseFDS Disciple83 points84 points85 points 3 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
Thank you for your sympathy. I will always bear scars, but I am solid in who I am today as an empathetic, loving woman who knows the face of true evil and is passionate about preventing it in the ways she is able. I am truly happy with myself, and none of the people who hurt me will ever be able to say that. 😊
[–]greatcathyFDS Newbie38 points39 points40 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
You're inspiring
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[–]YarikEnterpriseFDS Disciple3 points4 points5 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
You're in the right place. This sub has some of the most amazing women I've ever met, and I'm so happy to be a part of it!
[–]LoveyouguysbutFDS Newbie36 points37 points38 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
You are an inspiring person. You somehow found the strength and wisdom to create a life of your own. You should be so incredibly proud of yourself.
[–]LiuCheezeFDS Newbie6 points7 points8 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
thanks for sharing this, I can relate to this and makes me feel better that other people have had similar experiences with awful pick me mothers
[–]royaldetourFDS Newbie176 points177 points178 points 3 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
"Accusations like that could ruin his life!" Where is the sympathy for the innocent child? What about her life being ruined? They also excuse it for the sake of family unity and honestly just don't want to have to deal with the discomfort of facing the fact that there's a pedo in the family. It's disgusting. Those poor babies who have no one in their corner.
[–]_boring_daven_FDS Newbie97 points98 points99 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Actions like that should ruin their lives. They are literally a danger to society
[–]Queen_Anne_BoleynFDS Newbie58 points59 points60 points 3 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
I work in child welfare. In one of my current cases, an 11 year old has made disclosures that she and her sister were expected to "keep the men happy". This included mom's boyfriends (plural), unke and 2 cousins. Trust and believe that I'm doing all I can to get justice for these kids.
[–]littlecloudxoProvisional Member2 points3 points4 points 3 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Why haven’t they been taken away yet?!?!?
[–]Queen_Anne_BoleynFDS Newbie1 point2 points3 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
They have been, we are now trying to make sure that the perps have jail time, trying to get "mom" on some pretty serious charges
[–]ChobyoFDS Newbie51 points52 points53 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
A family member of mine molested his kids, they were 8-9 when it happened, mind you it came out 22 years later, because they couldnt keep it in anymore after their parents got a divorce. I can understand why a lil kid hesitates to go against a parental figure buut...now comes the disgusting part, apparently the sister of the pedo uncle KNEW ABOUT HIS TENDENCY TO GET TOO CLOSE TO KIDS, and didnt say a single word to my aunt about it...like wtf. God forbid but if my brother turned out to be a pedophile and I got to know about it the last thing I would do is stay silent. I understand how she doesnt want to destroy his life, but the first step would be immediately removing him from interacting with minors and sending him into therapy, alone. I would never let him get close to any kids again. Like wtf, how can u keep this shit a secret from their mother?
[–]superheroxnerdFDS Newbie134 points135 points136 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Holy shit. I never thought about this but it’s true. They are totally complicit in gaslighting everyone into thinking the husband is a good person. These predators have no consequences at home or the world because pick mes are so desperate.
[–]MACMUAFDS Apprentice165 points166 points167 points 3 years ago (5 children) | Copy Link
Damn. This. It’s true tho. They are the cowards that don’t stick up for themselves you think they will defend a child or woman against their bf/husband? Nope.
[–]myousernameRuthless Strategist107 points108 points109 points 3 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
I had an aunt who is an ultimate Pickme. She stubbornly allowed all 5 of her children to go to foster care because she wouldn't kick out her child molester husband. She wouldn't even allow other family to take them because she thought it would imply that he was guilty if she cooperated with CPS.
Almost all of my cousins were abused in foster care, sexually or otherwise. The oldest daughter ended up recanting just so that her and her siblings could come home.
[–][deleted] 37 points38 points39 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Wow that is awful
[–]PooPooMeeksFDS Newbie30 points31 points32 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Damn that’s evil. God bless those kids.
[–]BovvsetteFDS Disciple99 points100 points101 points 3 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
They even blame the victims for ”luring” their glorified dildo of a man, despite him initiating the abusive contact. Some pickmes go insane with their man-pleasing, excuses, and enabling shit behavior. Scrotes and pickmes teaming together is the bane of women's and children's lives.
[–][deleted] 44 points45 points46 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
The next saddest thing is that an actual dildo is a better partner
[–]tonha_da_pamonhaFDS Apprentice40 points41 points42 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Too true. I told my mom when her boyfriend's nephew raped me and she said not to tell the family because she didn't want to create drama. Then in about 5 years she happily tells me he's getting married one day. Im like wtf? Did you forget? Why would you think I want to hear that?! My mom is a massive pickmeisha btw. She would eat shit for her boyfriend.
[–]Raccoon328FDS Newbie81 points82 points83 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
This is true! This is why I will never tell my mom the things that happened to me when I was younger, because I know the only person blamed will be me
[–]PooPooMeeksFDS Newbie70 points71 points72 points 3 years ago (8 children) | Copy Link
I was 19 when my brother in law decided to start flirting with me one night when he picked me up from my local junior college. I was so innocent I never got kissed before or anything, and this hairy grown man decides to ask me inappropriate questions and asks to touch my stomach. I gave in to some of the stuff at first because he really was a “brother” in my mind. My sister had dated him since I was 11 years old. I told my Dad about it the next day, and instead of directly kicking his ass, he cowards out and puts it on ME, the gullible victim that was raised by a strict mother that he allowed to mold me into a super sheltered, naive young woman. He says to me, “you want me to go talk to him?” I was very scared and immediately said “No! It would ruin everything!” I had a little baby niece and 10 year old nephew i was very close too and wanted to protect our family closeness. So I held this burden for 6 years, with the horrible memories festering in my mind ...
...anyways fast forward and when I’m 25 I tell what happened to my sister after she said insulting things about my future ex husband(who turned out to be an asshole too). Her response? She gets extremely pissed at me. She says “It will never be the same!” My Father gets pissed that I came out with it, and tells me that I need to “fix” what I ruined. My mother even was initially reluctant to be on my side, but eventually she was. And my brother in law denied it of course. He even tried calling me to confront me, because of course his ass didn’t think he did anything wrong. I never picked up the phone out of my ongoing fear of confrontation - a fear that would eventually ruin my life overall, but that’s another story...
I was getting married at the time and this secret ruined my wedding day. But long term my family threw me to the wolves. I confronted my Dad years later who reluctantly said “sorry” but made sure to say, “i was doing what i thought was right at the time, AIGHT?” Mom ended up getting “tired” of my resistance to be super friendly with my brother in law too. Me and my Sister ended up talking again after a few years, but we steer clear from mentioning her husband at ALL, unless it’s about pleasantry talk.
So basically family visits still happen, holiday celebrations, etc. Like nothing ever happened. But a few times a week, I still remember and feel a horrible tinge in my heart, of the trauma and betrayal, because of my family of pickmeishas. 🙁😡
[–]UnforgettableBevyFDS Newbie23 points24 points25 points 3 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
I’m sorry your family is generally spineless. 😕
[–]PooPooMeeksFDS Newbie3 points4 points5 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Yes, that's pretty much how we are. People pleasers all around. I'm working on my codependency though that has stemmed from it. Thanks for your sympathy friend.
[–]Haitianbychoice12 points13 points14 points 3 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
You sound like you need to ditch your "family."
[–]PooPooMeeksFDS Newbie4 points5 points6 points 3 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Easier said than done, especially right now since I'm a single Mom who's now unemployed and may be losing my place in a few months, so I may have to stay with my parents as a last resort...actually I'm quite glad you brought this up because the thought of moving back home, knowing how they were quick to turn on me when all this happened, will push me even MORE to get another job as quickly as possible!
There's also alot of abuse and neglect that both my parents went through that also solidifies the whole "sweep under the rug" culture we were all raised in. Eh, you can't change your famiy shrug
...but as of now, everyone is older and "set in their ways" so to speak. I just keep my distance. Even if I wanted to get closer, my parents show their quickness to be snappy and look at me as the "problem" on alot of things, since I don't take too much disrespect from them like my other siblings do. So in a sense, their resistance of me helps me solidify interacting as little as possible.
[–]Dearwaylon2 points3 points4 points 3 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
Thank you for sharing this. It's helped me not to feel so alone.
[–]PooPooMeeksFDS Newbie1 point2 points3 points 3 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
I am very glad and greatful that my post reached out to your heart! It really helps me as well when a fellow redditor says "me too," because often I do feel alone when I think of the rejecting and humiliating things I've went through as a kind hearted but passive woman. I'm still working through getting stronger though, which is why FDS is in my pocket of weapons ;)
I'm sorry for any related hardship you went through, from the bottom of my heart. *hugs* Thanks for the reply, and take care! :)
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[–]PooPooMeeksFDS Newbie0 points1 point2 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I'm so sorry you had to go through that. Hearing experiences like yours really ticks me off. And then she clings to you when he CHEATS?!
I know it's hard to break away from all that family drama too. All you can do is keep as much distance as possible. I hate the fact that bad things seem to always happy to the truly good and innocent. God bless you <3
[–]LiuCheezeFDS Newbie16 points17 points18 points 3 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
can confirm from experience... my mother is a pick me and doesn't believe me and I've had to cut contact with her, she convinced her whole side of the family including my brother that I was lying about sexual abuse that her boyfriend did - worst part = she's still with the guy
[–]Ms_TillyRuthless Strategist9 points10 points11 points 3 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
I'm so sorry.
I consider myself extremely lucky not to have been molested or worse by my BPD Mom's menagerie of trash boyfriends. I kicked her out of my life as soon as I started high school. She's 60 now and still entertaining trash men.
[–]LiuCheezeFDS Newbie1 point2 points3 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
yep, pretty sure my mom his also BPD... I also left that situation when I was ending high school - turned 17 and started living with friends/boyfriends but will honestly say I had a 'pick me' mentality probably up until recently. Just thought it was normal for relationships since it's the example I had witnessed my whole life, super happy to find this subreddit and hear experiences just like this to confirm that they're abnormal and wrong.
[–]penelopesheetsFDS Newbie11 points12 points13 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Yep they protect men at all costs because without men they are nothing.
[–]jetpatchAt-Risk Pick Me Youth47 points48 points49 points 3 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
Never imagine it's only one group who do this. Everyone's at risk. There are rad fems at the moment covering up an abuser in their mist. Believe all women doesn't apply to their friends it seems. But that's exactly why predators get away with it for so long, they are always nice to most people.
[–][deleted] 13 points14 points15 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Internalized sexism. It sucks.
[–]frodosdojoFDS Newbie1 point2 points3 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I agree. Not all pickmes ignore child abuse. Or even allow child abuse.
[–][deleted] 7 points8 points9 points 3 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Wow this explains the mom whose 5th grade boy sexually assaulted me at the park when I was in kindergarten. I somehow had the strength to go knock on her door after and told her her son chased me down to take my pants off. She told me that’s just what boys do and that it’s ok.
[–]PooPooMeeksFDS Newbie1 point2 points3 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
OMG, what's WRONG with people?! I'm so sorry you had to go through this. We females suffer so much at the hands of society!
[–]outside-perceptionFDS Newbie17 points18 points19 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Thank you! Been saying this since the beginning. My former MIL is like this -- didn't even let her second husband see his first child from his first marriage. When he was able to, that daughter got molested by HER Son from her first marriage (ex's older middle half brother) and she continues to act like it didn't happen and that the half sister is lying.
[–]millionssomethingFDS Newbie5 points6 points7 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
My mom is a massive pickmeisha, she would do absolutely anything for a boyfriend. My sister and I were neglected anytime her boyfriends needed anything. She even neglected her own health and sanity for them.
That being said, I learned almost everything I know from her because she taught me exactly what NOT to do.
[–]paperbackbakerFDS Newbie4 points5 points6 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
my grandmother told my mom, aunt and cousins to not tell my grandfather about HER BROTHER who touched them because grandpa was a cop and he openly bragged about beating pedos possibly to death (This is in South America) in the 70s/80s those women grew up with mad issues.
[–]Newwavesupport3657FDS Newbie5 points6 points7 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Omg I feel this :( my dead best friend’s mother is 56 and still a fucking pick me. She used my best friend to live vicariously through so she could feel young. Doesn’t care about anyone else but herself. She refers to young women as “hoochies.” And talks shit about young women and girls daily.
I had to go to her when I was evicted. She raves about my father despite what I’ve told her about him.
I told her he molested me when I was 5 and had sexually charged conversations towards me through my teens and 20’s and I want nothing more to do with him.
I’m guess I’m just another “lying hoochie skank” cause she doesn’t believe me or care. I got evicted and she made it all about her problems and I cut ties with her and she’s smearing me to my family.
As if my own mother didn’t smear me enough.
These women are evil.
I’m always afraid everyone hates me now
[–]letsnotansaywedidFDS Newbie5 points6 points7 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Yes! This is so sadly true. Some of them will sacrifice their own children in order to please a nem
[–][deleted] 2 points3 points4 points 3 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
I´ve also noticed this. Not just pickmes, also happens with codependents or simply naive people. When they have kids or become caretakers, they don´t just expose themselves, but also expose their kids to huuuuuuuuge dangers by closing an eye on bad behaviour or not recognizing it. The child will often go through physical, verbal/ emotional, sexual abuse due to not being protected properly. They´re usually really nice people that do no harm themselves, they just suck at protecting themselves and others from danger.
[–]eyooooo123FDS Newbie0 points1 point2 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
yes but at what cost
[–]DonDoveFDS Newbie6 points7 points8 points 3 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
What is a pick me if I may ask?
[–]Few_DirectionFDS Newbie14 points15 points16 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Women whose lives either consciously or subconsciously revolve around receiving male approval. They tend to be internally misogynistic, agree with things most males say, and are toxic towards other females. Just one example “I have mostly guy friends because girls are annoying and like drama” “I love being one of the guys”. There’s a sub r/notliketheothergirls with some memes that also exemplifies it perfectly lol.
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