I understand she's happy but damn, what kind of loser husband does she have who doesn't care whether she climaxes or not?? As long as he gets his, all is well 🤬

Lemon_bars_addiction · 2020-12-16T19:34:54+00:00

Confused what role he’s playing in her orgasm 🤣 praise to vibrators

Thestral-glow6 · 2020-12-16T19:37:53+00:00

This is really, really quite sad. So basically it was a Sex toy, not actually him that did it for her in the end..🤨

Also him saying “ Say you do orgasm. Then what? You’ll just expect it to happen every time” comes across as a bit bitter?

gutsandgorey · 2020-12-16T19:52:58+00:00

Turned to my boyfriend and asked "Would you stay with a woman that never made you orgasm during sex for 7 years and marry her?" He said no. No man would ever ever ever put up with that! So why should we?! I'm so sick of the lie society tells women that not orgasming is normal or some women are just "anorgasmic". Fuck that, most men just suck at sex.

Phoenix__Rising2018 · 2020-12-16T20:17:36+00:00

I guarantee, he did not do anything different.

She did it for herself.

Which means, for the last seven years, she has had to have sex that turns her on, but doesn't finish the job.

Basically living life blinded by a dangled carrot in her face for seven years.

Being single does not scare me.

MagnfiqueMaleficent · 2020-12-16T20:00:02+00:00

Ok so since we are talking sex... with a vibrator it takes me like 36 seconds to orgasm. My last sexual experiences with men were so... disappointing. In 2 years I been with 2 men. One lasted 3 minutes, the other one let out a massive fart during sex due to over eating. Men and sex are so unattractive to me. Its not worth risking pregnancy and STDs. So mediocre. I think ill start dating exclusively fit men. Both these men were extremely out of shape and overweight. For now celibacy is it.

Adventurous_Rise_307 · 2020-12-16T20:11:22+00:00

Don’t men expect to orgasm every time?🤔

MagnfiqueMaleficent · 2020-12-16T20:22:57+00:00

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longhorn102083 · 2020-12-16T19:33:40+00:00

Is this a joke?

daria1994 · 2020-12-16T19:37:21+00:00

So much internalized misogyny here. Do men ever thank us for hours of piv that doesn’t stimulate us at all?

ASeaOfQuotes · 2020-12-16T19:39:59+00:00

Wow, this is sad. I wouldn’t be proud or bragging about this. He doesn’t care about her pleasure, and she is failing herself again and again by just letting this be her normal.

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romantickitty · 2020-12-16T19:47:38+00:00

This is depressing. Some women genuinely have sexual health issues but she was fine with this toy in 10 minutes. It sounds like a husband issue.

strainedcrow · 2020-12-16T19:50:01+00:00

The only reason I'd cum with my ex was because of vibrators or using my hands during penetration. So many men don't care. So many women accept it and internalize it as "I can't come" rather than "he can't make me come"

Phoenix__Rising2018 · 2020-12-16T21:27:18+00:00

So let's clarify, the toy gave her an orgasm not her worthless husband. And then what, he told her not to expect it every time? What a prince!

I predict after 10 miserable years with this selfish bastard she'll divorce and eventually find a real man who makes her orgasm every time multiple times and doesn't make her feel like it's something she's not allowed to have.

_RustInPiece_ · 2020-12-16T20:46:16+00:00

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2020-12-16T21:07:51+00:00

So after 7 years of unorgasmic sex she finally figured out how to masturbate? Hahaha 🤣 oh honey no

eluriaeve · 2020-12-16T20:38:00+00:00

Men are so fucking stupid I just can’t anymore.

Savorycorncake · 2020-12-16T22:38:23+00:00

The saddest thing to me is how she says that she’s “so thankful for her patient husband who puts up with her crap”. I’m sorry when is wanting to orgasm crap or something to “put up with”? This poor girl

justwondering551 · 2020-12-16T21:51:12+00:00

I did not have my first orgasm until after getting divorced (he was also my first boyfriend). I had been married for almost FIVE YEARS. Fully believed I could not orgasm and started wondering if maybe I was asexual because I never even felt turned on or wanted it. Got divorced . . . Turns out I’m VERY capable of orgasms🤣

justforfds · 2020-12-16T21:25:49+00:00

If sex is only PIV, why are they begging for hand jobs and blow jobs?

Refusing to reciprocate in pleasuring your partner effectively is about control and winning, being on top, as is every part of their psyche. Men are integrally insecure. It is pathological. They must create the flimsiest of scenarios to lift themselves up.

Undisciplined men struggle to manage themselves sexually. They are sexually needy and lack responsibility. They blame women as they perceive this as domination and control over men, and it enraged them.

They project by framing a man being sexual with willing and unwilling women alike, as shameful and weak on her part. What do they call each other to insult someone the most?

To be honest, they rape women where they can and it's not difficult with the size and strength difference. A man congratulating himself on an ability any man has is like getting a participation medal, completely meaningless.

They take pleasure from holding back the provision of pleasure for women because that again makes them feel in control, similar to the disrespect such as the bad hygiene, keeping you waiting and farting. This by default is a win for them. They keep women sexually subserviant while they keep taking - in line with their zero sum game attitude towards women.

If a man isn't making you come, do nothing to make him come. His refusal is the hallmark of a weak man, a transparent cope.

issoecoisadefudido · 2020-12-16T20:36:24+00:00

This is so sad. And I'm confused as to what exactly was effortless here?

fckinengaged19times · 2020-12-16T20:01:12+00:00

Why do women put up with this? My heart hurts for her.

thewetdog_ · 2020-12-16T23:05:27+00:00

effortless?

SakuraGirl88 · 2020-12-16T21:29:55+00:00

Nah. Sis, your patient husband didn't do shit (like the rest of them). She basically just masturbated while her husband watched. And 7 years?! Girl, bye. At least you got your money's worth with that vibrator.

Purple_Mermaid_00 · 2020-12-17T08:47:12+00:00

This is a very widespread phenomenon. Women easily have orgasms while masturbating, but it's much harder when you actually have sex with a man. And that's how we reached this point when many men think women cannot orgasm or don't have to enjoy sex, when in reality those men suck at sex and could never bring any woman pleasure. It's really sad.

TheOGJammies · 2020-12-17T06:05:25+00:00

That second slide almost made me throw my phone. What the ENTIRE FUCK. Yes she wants to cum EVERY TIME YOU SNIVELING ASSHOLE.

cantsextihavebills · 2020-12-16T21:41:37+00:00

Real question : I do enjoy using a vibrator with my sex partner and I’ve never come from pv, oral or fingering. I don’t even like to use my hands on myself. I do feel like there’s something wrong with me or I’m just not relaxing correctly. When my ex would go down on me it felt like nothing and I very quickly went from this is fun to ugh please stop. What do I read or do to actually enjoy sex? I just assumed a vibrator was the only way for me to come.

biggestsigh · 2020-12-17T00:58:34+00:00

Congratulations to her? I guess?

sweetpotatocupcake · 2020-12-17T07:58:45+00:00

"I am so thankful for a patient husband who puts up with all my crap"

...Okay that's enough internet for today.

Lavender_flow · 2020-12-16T23:47:01+00:00

I can't with these pathetic people anymore. They live the most pathetic lives ever. And then they write about their laughable lives on reddit. 7 years no orgasm and she is so happy she finally bought a toy. He husband is a useless uncaring scrote who just laid these. Grats sis. Reading this dumbassery made me lose braincells

youdipthong · 2020-12-17T00:08:15+00:00

This has got to be satire. This is just sad.

justatthrowawayy · 2020-12-17T02:37:47+00:00

this is depressing...wtf:/

SMansdotter · 2020-12-16T23:12:47+00:00

Jesus... meanwhile, I'm over here getting five orgasms from my man's fingers alone... smh

Waste-Win · 2020-12-17T02:15:52+00:00

This Is not good, this Is tragic, 7 years and it's the first Time you get a orgasm while on the same room as your husband because Btw the Man did like...nothing?

MagnfiqueMaleficent · 2020-12-17T05:36:31+00:00

What is women fucked their partners for a couple minutes then stopped and walked off before he got his rocks off? Like every time. For seven years in a row? Shit, even once. Like, they just would not fucking allow it.

Why should we just shrug it off? They’d be gone or off somewhere starting a war due to the frustration.

notstrongenoughyet0 · 2020-12-17T15:02:20+00:00

Lmao oh god. 7 years letting some greasy man use you as a live in sex doll. I feel so bad for her.

Revy_Ur_Engines · 2020-12-17T04:10:27+00:00

You only got one chance with me. And this women waited 7 years?

EffectiveHoneydew422 · 2020-12-18T05:00:30+00:00

Personally ive never actually used a device during sex/. call me vanilla ( my ex did whatever i don't really mind that label) but I have had orgasms pretty much regularly since i became sexually active and the times that it has just not not not been able to happen was 100% because of mental reasons /intruding thoughts / doubts about the guy/ and I once heard this line in a documentary "the largest sexual organ is the brain" Ive had close to orgasms just from using my imagination and no physical stimulation. I know this is just my experience and doesn't speak for all but I think that the brain plays a much huger role then is given credit. Every ones brain is different- and different things are required to facilitate a relaxed body feeling, i reckon vibrations on clit bypass the brain's function in sex and bodies need to feel completely relaxed safe and comfortable. Also sex is a connecting activity and when that is strong it makes it easier, like a feedback loop of wanting to give pleasure because it feels pleasurable and both participants equally getting off on the fact that they are getting the other off which gets them off.. if that makes sense? like if a guy starts just getting off on himself ramming me i lose all pleasure sensation. if a guy is going down on me to gett me off but isn't getting off on it or enjoying it then im not enjoying it and they may as well be licking my knee cap and it's uncomfortable and then I know im not going to cum. so in short i know what getts me off and it basically a mental state of feeling like reciprocated enjoyment and maybe its just me i dunno, because ive set a bar in that respect i just dont force a sexual happening if im not feeling it. I have been coerced by boyfriends in the past and it sucked and felt like consensual rape- like my mind agreed out of guilt trip- but my body hated every minute of it and id rather be femcell than endure shit sex

nenindis · 2020-12-17T14:02:23+00:00

My reaction reading this.

I honestly can't even at this point.

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