FDS are female incels 🙄

starfighter07 · 2021-08-18T13:45:22+00:00

Men will always complain one way or another when you start refusing sex with them. I stopped arguing with those who act like cry babies about it, they bring nothing good in my life.

FineDeliciousSnakes · 2021-08-18T13:54:34+00:00

Just today at the airport I was propositioned by a young (and attractive although douchy) man to go “have a good time” with him

I’m definitely NOT hard up for company lol

stalient · 2021-08-18T14:05:35+00:00

A lot of them believe that the female version of incels can't get relationships/commitment, only used for casual sex. I disagree with this because there's lots of guys that would be your boyfriend, but most of them aren't quality because they don't appreciate you enough. They'll grab onto a relationship but are secretly looking for the next best thing.

Also, only loser men who read too much male-dominated internet material know enough about fds to complain about it.

boiledgatorade_ · 2021-08-18T14:09:00+00:00

What they seem to misunderstand is that a lot of us are here because we actually get BOMBARDED with male attention & need help to navigate how to determine who is a good person or a POS.

ApprehensiveGiftBox · 2021-08-18T14:25:32+00:00

Don't talk to men about FDS. There is no benefit, they won't agree with it and will gaslight or argue with you. It's not wise to openly talk about FDS to anyone before you test the waters. You never know how someone may react. The Plymouth shooter talked about his hatred FDS on his reddit account and went on to commit violence.

honeybadgerattitude · 2021-08-18T14:30:10+00:00

We don’t encourage violence against men. We don’t encourage sexual assault. We don’t live in a matriarchal society. We don’t get joy and sexual pleasure out of men’s fear. We don’t go insane and shoot innocent strangers and children because no one’s touched our vageen. We don’t form armies and take over countries to implement matriarchal religions that take away the basic rights of men.

We just want autonomy over our own bodies and lives. We just want to not be emotionally, physically, financially, sexually abused and raped or murdered by men. It’s not actually much to ask.

Edit: Formatting

trettles · 2021-08-18T13:38:40+00:00

I see this all the time and it makes no sense. We are more or less the opposite of incels. There’s an abundance of dick out there, but we don’t want just any crusty old dick.

I would happily never have sex again with a low value man. That’s a very deliberate and voluntary choice. Not a difficult one to make, might I add.

Usernameunchanged · 2021-08-18T14:13:52+00:00

LVM are the least creative bunch out there. I don't care if no one wants to have sex with me because sex isn't even top 5 most important things in my life. But it's sure #1 for scrotes.

The more they project, the more my eyes open to their bullshit behavior.

Vmchik · 2021-08-18T14:52:33+00:00

Please don’t talk about FDS with men. It’s dangerous and pointless.

datthingy · 2021-08-18T13:58:07+00:00

Yes I’m an female incel because I don’t want a partner who abuses and uses me 🥲🥲 makes total sense

electroloop · 2021-08-18T13:40:45+00:00

The biggest farce ever. We can literally breathe and a man will be knocking at our door begging to have sex with us. We’re not involuntary celibates, we have standards. Men can’t get that through their primitive brain.

Defiant_Error_ · 2021-08-18T14:06:06+00:00

People who call FDS incels do not even know what an incel is.

Incels have been known to be pro rape, pedos, laugh and mock women being assaulted and let's not forget shooting up people when they get rejected.

I have never seen this from FDS, we warn eachother and help look out for dangerous/bad men so we can live a good quality life with a good man, that's all we want.

Incels find it hard to get laid, we CHOOSE to not sleep with low men.

throwaway-fds · 2021-08-18T14:11:29+00:00

Yeah it's all bs and they know it. They think women denying them sex is the same as sex-based oppression and violence.

Oli_love90 · 2021-08-18T14:21:51+00:00

It’s a weird comparison because I’ve scanned incel focused subs and they’re violent, crass, the scenarios they imagine for women and their attitude towards women are appalling.

Ive never seen a post that horrified me on FDS.

23eggz · 2021-08-18T14:27:30+00:00

Its funny because these are the men who also say that women live life on easy mode and can always get sex whereas their lives are soooo hard because they have to put in some effort. They say these things at the same time but don't see the contradiction??? I think that they actually realize that fds is not nearly as bad but they dont like it so they try to drag it down by creating a false equivalency to incels (which they know are bad)

pickmieshaexorcist · 2021-08-18T14:49:01+00:00

They know. I’ve said before, most Reddit men, especially incels, don’t even believe women can be incels. Back in the day femcels would try to talk to incels only to get hatred and scorn because per incels, no woman can be truly femcel because woman can get sex at all times and HOW DARE THEY appropriate the struggle of (REAL) incels. Incels fucking despised femcels because to them they were pretenders mocking them. Also, they just hate women.

However, “incel” the term is quickly entering the popular vernacular as “very bad yikes!” kind of like “n@zi”. It’s used as a shorthand to emotionally manipulate clueless people into demonizing us because they’ll read “female incels” and their minds go to the angry, violent, entitled shooters featured in their news outlets. “Gosh, how awful! Scary! They women must be so disturbed!”

pozzalovah · 2021-08-18T15:17:54+00:00

Well I don't mention FDS to guys honestly, let them think whatever they want to think. We aren't here to convince the masses.

crapcakes0987 · 2021-08-18T14:57:20+00:00

ThEY ObJEcTIfY MeNnNNNnN!!!!1!!!

purasangria · 2021-08-18T14:24:56+00:00

The thing about FDS is that we don't talk about FDS (with men). Please stop discussing this with men. They will just use it against other women. Be a dumb fox; just listen to what they say and learn.

SoSurrealItsUnreal · 2021-08-18T13:46:17+00:00

Why would you mention FDS to a male, ever?

Peak_Tree · 2021-08-18T15:41:57+00:00

Also: NEVER talk about fds ( or if you support any feminist cause of any kind) with men. IT IS DANGEROUS. You never know if you are talking with a manosphere follower. Not your male friends, not your male relatives...some women here talk abput fds with their SOs but I would avoit that too tbh.

Catz10000 · 2021-08-18T15:04:36+00:00

10 bucks says that the LV critics who don't bother doing anything but incorrectly stereotyping FDS don't bitch about THIS post.

dollymyfolly · 2021-08-18T15:38:27+00:00

I don’t care anymore that they think this; as long as it keeps more of them away from me 🤷🏻‍♀️

blueboobs- · 2021-08-18T15:33:50+00:00

We can get sex whenever we want and we don’t have to work for it. They know that very well because it’s a fact they seethe resentment and ooze hatred over regularly. They haven’t forgotten. So the incel accusation is just another provocation to get women to defend themselves to men which sets up the dynamic of us answering to them, preferably with the end result that we adjust or diminish what we think to be more palatable and escape criticism which is why liberal feminism looks the way it does right now: USELESS .

Peak_Tree · 2021-08-18T15:38:16+00:00

It's like when they say women hit men at the same rate men hit women, they just want to make their BS seem equally distributed among us all but when talking about intelligence, bravery or anything good they vehemently deny women can also be those things.

wonkyeyes8877 · 2021-08-18T16:14:26+00:00

Incels can't get laid because women don't like them.

FDS women reject dates because scrotes don't meet our healthy standards.

It isn't the same. But I don't care if other people have issues with me or with this group. The people who have negative things to say about us and our standards are not people who have opinions I care about.

The bulk of what we talk about is our experiences with being abused and harassed. If someone takes issue with that, they can go fuck themselves.

lessadessa · 2021-08-18T16:04:53+00:00

More like volcels lol. Men don’t even realize how easily women could have sex cuz there’s literally a horny creep we could call up any second of the day who come could bang us on command. We have the luxury of picking who we want, that’s the point of this sub.

PinkBlair99 · 2021-08-18T16:26:54+00:00

Why do you have “male friends”?
Why would you mention FDS to them?
Why would you explain FDS to them?
Who cares what men think?
Read the Handbook.

ItsFreezen · 2021-08-18T16:13:29+00:00

Because having boundaries is Blasphemy /s

SunBae-iDoll · 2021-08-18T13:49:05+00:00

They are just in denial because truth hurts Males Lurker we only love HVM that's all, you need to accept it

anotherdamnloser · 2021-08-18T16:17:42+00:00

I’m could literally get laid tonight and many times a week if I wanted, I get offers from men half my age. They are jealous and hate it so they try to convince themselves these lies. That’s what angrier, jealousy as bitterness does to people.

strawbri_ · 2021-08-18T16:21:43+00:00

Can women even be incels? I've only ever known of female volcels. Even the least attractive least likable women can get sex it seems.

p0ludnitsa · 2021-08-18T15:15:37+00:00

I was pondering this too. There's really no such thing as a female incel. Women can go out and get sex (albeit most likely poor-quality) if they want to. They just don't want to, and that's what is so unfathomable to LVM. They can't comprehend someone declining to have sex.

Edit: I reread your post and totally missed the part where you talked about FDS to men. I don't think that's a good idea.

londochig · 2021-08-18T15:32:34+00:00

That's male logic for you. FDS teaches women to have boundaries and block and delete men who don't meet your standards or mistreat you. Incels advocate for taking away our basic human rights simply for being women, they advocate for violence against women they go on shooting sprees murdering women and children. I don't even know how the hell they can compare women blocking and deleting men to men murdering women and children. Unlike men we never have an never will advocate for harming, manipulating, emotionally and physically abusing, raping or murdering anyone. Men do all those things. Incels and redpill men advocate for harming others. Women who are fleeing abuse and manipulation by blocking and deleting and having standards and boundaries doesn't compare. I'm good to make this a post. Urghh. F@#k men seriously.

pissedoffmolly · 2021-08-18T16:32:27+00:00

Dear Lurking Men (and Confused Women):

If I want sex, it's easy to get. One-night-stands are as simple as sitting down at any bar, and I'm not even a 10, so to speak. I am not involuntarily celibate. At all. I don't know of any woman who is.

I'm just tired of meaningless sex. It's not fun for me anymore. If I want an orgasm, I have a vibrator.

So if you date me, I'm going to wait until I KNOW, for CERTAIN, that sex with you will not be meaningless. That means I trust you, I know you, and I have feelings for you that are more than just lust. That takes more than 3 dates. That takes more than just some flirting on IG.

But if I desperately need dick? Holy shit, it's never far away.

Austenma · 2021-08-18T16:07:38+00:00

Yeah to be honest this label doesn't bother me. Its a compliment really given the quality of men out there.

BxGyrl416 · 2021-08-18T16:32:28+00:00

I had make friends like that, they’d quickly be ex-friends. I’m done explaining things to men who are so invested in not understanding.

miwamus · 2021-08-18T16:28:27+00:00

A woman can be celibate but not involuntarily celibate.

Thesseli · 2021-08-18T16:34:29+00:00

They think everyone is like they are.

Title	FDS are female incels 🙄
Author	penguins12783
Upvotes	269
Comments	58
Date	August 18, 2021 1:31 PM UTC (4 years ago)
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