Fun fact really sad fact

sushiwalrus · 2020-09-17T11:37:15+00:00

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MagnfiqueMaleficent · 2020-09-17T12:02:28+00:00

Women are allowed to leave the minute they realize their husband isn’t good enough for them. That’s a fact.

Leavix · 2020-09-17T08:55:51+00:00

Yeah.. Most men are perfectly comfortable in their marriage. They are usually not the ones who are used and abused until a divorce looks like the only solution.

ceramicunicorn · 2020-09-17T15:08:56+00:00

If these comments are to be believed, I can’t see why would anyone here see marriage as a goal at all. It just doesn’t seem logical. I understand HVM exist, but they’re not common, and there aren’t enough to go around to everyone.

Going by this framework, the focus should be on the self and developing friendships, not actively dating. If someone does come along, use strategy to vet, but he likely won’t (because that takes effort, to pursue someone who is not showing interest in dating), so it should be considered a happy accident we have a small likelihood of stumbling on, right?

It’s just starting to feel like “playing lotto” strategy, when there are more secure, sensible paths. Maybe we should be focusing more on strategies of how to be very happy alone for a very long time than the crappy things men do? The reality is that if we all held to our standards, the majority here will be alone for life (unless a swath of LVM suddenly leveled up in response to a lack of sex...but I’m not so sure it’s about sex anymore, I think what they want most is power, and as weird as it sounds, so many LVM find not trying too hard at life as empowering). I’m not even sure why to be here anymore when there’s so much anger and disgust, as opposed to FemaleLevelUpStrategy. I can’t help but notice though that this sub is immensely more popular than that one.

Maybe it’s these posts are meant for those who just got here as a wake up call (especially those contemplating ending a relationship), not those who have known it for years. Or maybe it’s just that it’s very hard to kill a dream, and a lot of women just plain dream of a partner and crave love and are angry that it’s so difficult when the things we ask of men are so fucking simple, we see their potential, we’re willing to give back, but they just won’t fucking do basic basic things, and now everyone is lonely. I understand wanting to feel validated in those frustrations, but at the same time it eventually feels like looping.

It feels like my acting days, when it was- I kid you not- 10,000 women at times, competing for the best role. But again, the second I found myself more fixated on pitfalls and scams and how fucked they were, than how I needed to stand out to get the best roles, I knew it was time to leave that dynamic and leave that field.

I hope this doesn’t make some people here feel defensive. It’s coming from a place not of shaming but I just honestly worry that the negativity will eat at some quality women....when they could be more focused on maximizing potential, and eventually living a happy life, blithely unconcerned with romance.

modernmedusaa · 2020-09-17T11:11:43+00:00

They are just too lazy or entitled to file.

heliodrome · 2020-09-17T12:26:21+00:00

It’s become completely clear that all the stereotypes perpetuated about women are simply not true and are designed to gaslight women into patriarchy.

PinkFurLookinLikeCam · 2020-09-17T11:39:58+00:00

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modernmedusaa · 2020-09-17T12:37:40+00:00

Lmfaoooo men act like this is bc we’re big meanies& they have no clue why more women seek to divorce from them!

Is it to do with the fact that various women enter marriage under false pretences then slowly wake up to the fact their beloved ‘husband’ pulled a bait & switch & is actually a pornsick, cheating, abusive, lying ass lazy slob.

They really & truly believe you’re obliged to stay & be their eternal domestic bangmaid once the mask falls off.....no matter how much of a pisstaker they become.

Again men can never take any responsibility for why women run for the hills from them. You could have 1000 legit reasons for divorcing & they’d still go into fake vegetable mode with their shocked pikachu face & pretend it’s all the fault of superficial ‘modern women’ not knowing how to be a good (slave) wife

If men had any brains they’d clearly understand the higher no of women seeking divorce from them is a sign they’re collectively failing to satisfy us & do their job.

heleninthealps · 2020-09-17T13:36:06+00:00

Man : cheats on his wife, never cleans up after himself, stops brushing teeth, never washes his own clothes, forgets to pick up the kids, doesn't know how to buy shallots at the supermarket.

Wife: No sex and I'm doing everything anyways, so I'm leaving you.

Man: But whyyyyyyyyyyyyy?! :'O

His Bro to the next girl he meets: "Why you believe in marriage - half of them ends in divorce, last week my bro's wife just left him out of the blue!"

dzgata · 2020-09-17T13:44:06+00:00

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Novemberinthechair · 2020-09-17T11:07:05+00:00

Another fun fact...men invented marriage!

HoneyNJ2000 · 2020-09-17T14:26:19+00:00

I've been saying for YEARS that marriage is a better deal for men than it is for women.

Men get themselves a damned indentured servant to take care of all their creature comforts AND bring in a paycheck on top of it. And then when they have kids, the woman also works harder in that respect, as well.

Marriage is a trap for women, not men. They get worked to death and for very little gratitude.

ItsFreezen · 2020-09-17T12:00:07+00:00

No women were involved in creating the writing of the marriage contract. No man asked for a women's opinion about this idea of "Marriage" before they proceeded with there plan.

theflameinthewind · 2020-09-17T15:16:42+00:00

Men don't initiate divorce, they murder their wives.

Hipster-Aurora · 2020-09-17T14:32:14+00:00

They push and push a woman to leave so they don't have to divorce her and look like the bad guy they truly are, instead manipulating it so she does even when she's the wronged party. It's utterly spineless and weak.

The strong gender, everyone.

Lingueen · 2020-09-17T17:14:55+00:00

men marry women so they can act as their servant/sex slave/mom all rolled in one and then have the audacity to be appalled when we get tired and ask for a divorce lol

AyemHerself · 2020-09-17T15:12:55+00:00

Men like to bring up this statistic but never want to explore why women divorce in the first place. Do they think women drag their families into court as a fun pastime? Don't answer that.

Niceforwhatthrowaway · 2020-09-17T14:56:06+00:00

Men: women initiate divorce more

And they never bother to find out why.

Dadsanarc · 2020-09-17T12:07:04+00:00

I'm getting a divorce from someone who has consistently treated me like trash. He's apparently surprised and devastated that I don't want to stay. Even while acknowledging that this experience has been traumatic for me.

yalllove · 2020-09-17T16:20:23+00:00

Well yes, why would men want to lose a therapist, a house cleaner, a cook and a sex partner all in one? And all the women are losing is emotional neglect if not outright abuse.

stg21987 · 2020-09-17T20:09:26+00:00

I recently had this conversation with a male. He follows all that red pill blue pill whatever mumbo jumbo. He stated that women file for divorce more often than men and I went off! I told him that men like to have their cake and eat it to. Of course a man won’t file for divorce! He’s got his wife that he treats like absolute shit and his side piece that he can go off and disappear with. The wife puts up with it for so long until she’s had enough and finally files for divorce. I almost threw my phone violently texting replies to him. The audacity. 😡

Sekina7 · 2020-09-17T17:04:03+00:00

This is the honest truth but the brainwashing and conditioning of not only women to believe it's what they NEED as opposed to It being something the should want only with the right man and in a mutually beneficial circumstances but ALSO men are in SUCH denial they really bought into the notion that it is what women need, it's more beneficial to women and women are nothing without the status of marriage. It's sure it's why they feighn surprise when the majority of women file for divorce. Their ego's never saw it coming and that resent that women have choices and often happier lives alone than with the wrong man. Outside of the Western world the majority of women could not even conceive of this being the case and religious grooming , Abrahamic in particular has a lot to do with this. It is SAD.

heythere360 · 2020-09-17T17:38:33+00:00

ChEaPeR tO kEeP hEr

Okay Harold so shower and stop sexting cam girls in the mean time so she doesn’t leave your ass and get her much deserved alimony.

atuan · 2020-09-18T00:46:54+00:00

Women want marriage cause they have an unrealistic view of what marriage is.

Men don’t want marriage because they have an unrealistic view of what it is. Once they’re in it and see what it does for them, they can’t let go.

CoffeeAndCorpses · 2020-09-17T14:51:21+00:00

Doesn't FDS encourage commitment? I have seen this in a few posts. What are your thoughts? What if we never want to get married? Are we the forever girlfriend, or are we being smart? I think men get really lazy in marriage. Harder for the woman to leave.

If I get married, it will only be later in life, just prior to having a child, with a pre-nup (addressing any shared assets, fair child custody arrangements) and won't ever combine finances. Will have a joint account for shared expenses that we both contribute to.

akashyaboa · 2020-09-17T16:24:46+00:00

So he admits that husbands generally make their wives miserable and that men can't even keep one woman happy ? Huh we been knew... They think they put the ring on the finger and the effort stops there pfffff

Angelarae207 · 2020-09-17T14:18:55+00:00

I had a friend that got married at 18, the “marriage” lasted 6 months before she moved back home. She left it up to him to file for divorce because she didn’t want to pay the $100 or whatever it was to file. It took him SEVEN YEARS to file. The only reason he even did it was because he was dating a girl that made him.

quiiidpr0qu0 · 2020-09-17T17:43:57+00:00

i legit shat my pants bc this is the truest sentence ive seen in the entire year.

quiiidpr0qu0 · 2020-09-17T17:44:26+00:00

now if only i can stop catching feelings and being possessive, dependent and needy...

askmeifilikeanal · 2020-09-17T19:14:39+00:00

I think the reason a LOT of women initiate divorce is because they was backed into a corner. Their husband gets progressively worse and treats them worse until they have no choice but to leave. They try to work it out but the men refuse to call it so they woman has to. Then he doesn’t look like the bad guy. I’ve actually had men tell me they did this Bc they were talk chicken shit to end it

HaveNoIdeaWhatToPick · 2020-09-17T22:42:49+00:00

I always laugh at the posts from men like: "It's not worth marrying women, they don't bring anything to the table". In my country statistically in 2/3 married couples the wife is both working and taking care of the kids & house chores while the husband is only working. In most cases both of them work the same amount of hours outside the home, so my question is: What men bring to the table additionally? (btw I'm from Europe, so it might be different than in USA)

Travelbabe95 · 2020-09-18T01:38:42+00:00

The majority of men that get married only do it when they run out of options don’t have many options or they have done everything and screwed everyone under the sun until they just settle and figure it just easier to marry. Also they take years to marry the women they are with. People get married after 8 years or longer or being together. Some even do it out of laziness. Men they want to get married. They do it because they have to. To please family or their long time girlfriends. That’s my opinion.

IDontExist4u · 2020-09-18T04:20:52+00:00

Can confirm. I served my divorce. He remarried to a woman 7 years his senior with 2 kids by 2 different men, and he helps her NONE, that I can tell. He opposed it until he could find someone more gullible.

mscristalconnors · 2020-09-17T16:34:10+00:00

I ain’t marrying until I marry a wealthy guy with no prenup.

GypsyFR · 2020-09-17T13:16:44+00:00

Lmao so true! My sister said I won’t be a real woman, if I don’t get married and have kids. She’s a pick me 🤦🏾‍♀️

penelopekitty · 2020-09-17T17:31:13+00:00

Does he think that is an own?

Big Demeanour has a little brain. Think it through Einstein. There might just be a reason women are leaving your crusty asses, even when it means economic ruin. You're really that bad - yes you are.

Title	Fun fact really sad fact
Author	Mediocre_Situation
Upvotes	2497
Comments	120
Date	September 17, 2020 8:28 AM UTC (5 years ago)
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