How can anyone possibly think that buying your coworker a sex toy is ok?

seekindivid · 2020-12-18T15:49:12+00:00

She is engaged to a future unemployed man ✌️

leadmemories · 2020-12-18T15:41:54+00:00

gross. a joke gift? more like he wants his coworker to think of him when/if she uses it. i hope the coworker is creeped out cause she should be and i want this guy to feel shame

Jinxhourglass · 2020-12-18T15:43:46+00:00

Damn what kind of work culture do they have where this doesn’t immediately get sent to HR... unless this job doesn’t have an HR if they’re under 10 employees

Summerisle7 · 2020-12-18T16:28:28+00:00

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whokilledhydra · 2020-12-18T16:00:55+00:00

Please tell me the comments inform them it's workplace sexual harassment

mactrukk · 2020-12-18T16:00:05+00:00

Your man is f***ing his coworker...only reason she’d not report it as sexual harassment and he’d find it both appropriate and funny.

Lavender_flow · 2020-12-18T15:37:31+00:00

W T F... there is so much to unpack here 😳

to_learn_to_fly · 2020-12-18T16:11:45+00:00

WTF is wrong with that dude?! I just can't decide whether it's a grosser boundary violation with the fiancee or with the coworker. Either way, if I received such a "gift" AT WORK, I'd be scared sh*ss and report sexual harassment immediately

Capable_Okra · 2020-12-18T15:49:56+00:00

ITs JuSt A JoKe

purasangria · 2020-12-18T17:17:45+00:00

This is straight-up sexual harassment, and I hope he gets fired for this. No one should tolerate that disrespect in the workplace. This man is a pig.

And I bet it's a cheap vibrator.

LevelTurbulent · 2020-12-18T16:34:29+00:00

They're fucking.

I don't believe for a second that a coworker he isn't screwing would appreciate a vibrator. If they aren't I hope she runs screaming to HR and gets his ass fired.

whatiidwbwy · 2020-12-18T17:28:36+00:00

This is sexual harassment in the workplace.

ekkokekekko · 2020-12-18T18:46:02+00:00

"I strongly feel it would not go down well if I came home with a vibrator gifted from a male colleague masqueraed as a joke"

Flip it and reverse it. Her fiance would have a goddamn meltdown if this were to happen, but can't see it her way because of his gaping lack of common sense and empathy

rapscallionette · 2020-12-18T16:27:19+00:00

Even if she were a prude for feeling this way, what’s wrong with that? Just like being a slut is empowering for some women (libfems), so is being a prude.

thowawaywookie · 2020-12-18T17:58:57+00:00

Should be her ex fiance.

localgirlcult · 2020-12-18T19:51:06+00:00

Lmao, "men, woman" The difference between woman and women seems to be the hardest fucking thing ever for half of the internet.

It's unbelievable to me how all of these women on relationship advice always put forth absolutely unthinkably insane situations and it's not enough for them to ask for people's opinions. They always have to add Am I crazy? Am I a prude? Am I a jealous BITCH??

What's next? Am I the biggest scum of the Earth?? Should I be jailed for having boundaries????!? Is it crrrrazy that I don't want to be cheated on? Am I A TOTAL PIECE OF DOGSHIT??

Maybe CHILL THE FUCK OUT with the self insults.

Oomlotte99 · 2020-12-18T16:05:59+00:00

Is he Matt Lauer? Ha ha. Also... imagine how awkward that secret Santa exchange will be. Like HR awkward.

NurseBubbleGum · 2020-12-18T16:40:10+00:00

What in the actual fuck. Are people really that dumb?

Classic500 · 2020-12-18T19:06:15+00:00

Wow. You already KNOW if it was the other way around he would be livid that she received a sex toy from a coworker.

2oatmeal_cookies · 2020-12-18T21:16:18+00:00

I initially thought this had to be fake, but I quickly remembered how stupid so many men are. I 100% believe her fiancé did that and soon she’ll be married to an unemployed creep if she doesn’t get out now.

jargon_explosion · 2020-12-18T23:05:09+00:00

My instinct is either this is fake (because it's so ridiculous and no workplace would allow this, plus the use of "woman" which men often mixup woman/women for some reason) or she found a vibrator and he lied about it being for secret santa.

Whateverbabe2 · 2020-12-18T23:34:59+00:00

Seems like he's covering for an affair

2020-12-18T19:41:03+00:00

Who else get offended and insulted if they got these gifts from strangers??!?! Imagine her face unwrapping this gift.... That's just vile

Wildestrose1988 · 2020-12-18T20:11:41+00:00

Agree to disagree??? Fuck all the way off lol

2020-12-18T18:11:09+00:00

Shit like this makes me so mad!!

warinmymind94 · 2020-12-19T02:23:34+00:00

This isn't a joke or white elephant gift. He was sending a message to that coworker to "go F themself" literally- thats how men think. Or ot was an innuendo showing hes thinking of this coworker sexually.

Doesn't matter. It was inappropriate and he KNEW what he did was so wrong. He should be fired and I really hope his girlfriend dumps him since she knows this.

uselesssdata · 2020-12-18T20:40:08+00:00

What on earth? That guy is about to be sent to HR and fired, lol.

It's so dumb that I wonder if he's trying to get unemployment or something. Who is this stupid?!

Wildestrose1988 · 2020-12-18T20:11:01+00:00

WHAAAAAAAAAAT

MagnfiqueMaleficent · 2020-12-19T05:10:09+00:00

He’s cheating. Kick him out.

ThrowingItIntoTheSea · 2020-12-18T22:46:25+00:00

In what UNIVERSE is this OK or appropriate?

Oh.

🤡🍆🌎. That’s where.

biggestsigh · 2020-12-19T00:31:46+00:00

Did this get removed I can't find it?

Colorado1996 · 2020-12-19T04:01:36+00:00

I’m (straight, female) very close with another (straight, female) coworker outside of work and she want to buy me a vibrator ... some people just don’t understand work boundaries

That’s being said, it’s weird when a female does it, but it would be a dealbreaker if a partner did it

Mysterious_Midnight7 · 2020-12-18T23:22:44+00:00

Let me pour a 40 for her. She has been HOODWINKED by this loser

button-up · 2020-12-19T00:22:47+00:00

Wow, that sounds like sexual harassment. I would be so uncomfortable if one of my co-workers secretly gifted me a sex toy (unless that’s the theme of all the gifts), that’s so inappropriate.

2020-12-19T14:41:15+00:00

What did I just read

Title	How can anyone possibly think that buying your coworker a sex toy is ok?
Author	Summoning-Freaks
Upvotes	458
Comments	85
Date	December 18, 2020 3:36 PM UTC (5 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/FemaleDatingStrategy
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