Like…I know it’s bad, but I didn’t know it was THIS bad.

sleeplessbeauty101 · 2022-03-22T15:09:29+00:00

What about women? We get hit on everyday since puberty. We could probably have sex with all your friends, your dad, your brother, all our handymen, your personal trainer and your boss. And majority of us never do. Not because we are holding ourselves back from deranged urges but because we genuinely want just one loving partner and abhor behaviour like that. Where is our award? We are the ones with options we never take. Not them. We aren't the ones killing one man every week. And like in a recent podcast was said- women are absolutely capable of violence, murder and cruelty but we choose not to. Again where is our award

AnniaT · 2022-03-22T17:01:31+00:00

I still remember one time I was with a group of friends and acquaintances where one of them started asking everyone in the group if they had cheated on any partner in the past. When I said "no" he acted shocked as if not cheating was a big achievement. At first he didn't even believe me. Wtf.

makeawomancum · 2022-03-22T15:03:31+00:00

The bar is in Hell

vforvendetta87 · 2022-03-22T17:19:54+00:00

How do people get away with being this disrespectful to someone they lOvE?!

littlestarling123 · 2022-03-22T14:58:11+00:00

It is that bad. I had a very difficult pregnancy and on top of that my child sat head down constantly putting pressure on my cervix. It was painful and I legit felt like she would push her way out at anytime. (So obviously nothing was going inside of me and I didn't feel sexual AT ALL bcse I was alone and unsupported) My ex h had picked up a 2nd job as a bouncer at a strip club and told me repeatedly how lucky I was that he didnt hook up with any employees there. I remember telling him omg go ahead bcse it is not gonna be me...esp after saying that.

Madholley · 2022-03-22T17:04:28+00:00

Wait but if this is true, women partners should ALSO get a pat on the back. Or maybe a parade? Because men literally throw themselves at us.

Lost_Kale90 · 2022-03-22T18:31:20+00:00

Do men not understand that women can cheat too… dick is SO abundant

staywiththecrown · 2022-03-22T17:03:41+00:00

But "not all men!", right? /s

millennialpink2000 · 2022-03-22T15:57:30+00:00

He's just shown you how he views women and relationships. Run, girl

NonaOrganic · 2022-03-22T15:35:23+00:00

Garbage men. They’ve both probably already cheated.

How is it hard for men but not women? We are the ones that get dicks thrown at us as soon as we walk out the door. Men typically have to do the pursuing, so they are looking to cheat. Or a pickmeisha is after him whom no tasteful man would want to be with. Supports the theory they “always affair down.” In many instances the wife/gf will look like a beauty pagent contestant and the man cheats w/a troll. Or the woman will be highly successful professional and the guy cheats on her with an out of work baby mama on gov assistance.

Men who cheat are nothing more than highly insecure, selfish, dishonorable, entitled scumbags. And its sad as hell that’s the bar.

GoGoCaterpillar · 2022-03-22T17:59:58+00:00

Ew the age difference- and he STILL finds the audacity to be an ungrateful scrote. If ALL or most men have the urge to cheat, might as well just go after a cute young guy.

2022-03-22T16:53:15+00:00

Well that's something I won't be doing :)

sewingmachinesavior · 2022-03-22T16:40:53+00:00

So…men should get a pat on the back for…doing what they said they would do? Being faithful is part of the whole commitment thing.

Nah. I don’t throw parades for men for acting like a basic decent human.

love-starved-beast · 2022-03-22T22:15:15+00:00

It's only "hard to stay faithful" if you view women as flavours of ice cream to sample rather than human beings to relate to and bond with. Just admit you've never loved your wife.

Nice age gap btw.

cml678701 · 2022-03-22T18:26:59+00:00

This reminds me sooooo much of this asshole I was with in my twenties who expected praise for not cheating. He dumped me for basically no reason and broke my heart, and said, “I wasn’t happy! Aren’t you glad I left instead of cheating?!” Wellllll…yeah. But why would your mind even go there? You shouldn’t even consider cheating. He was so tempted by other options, but deserved a damn medal for staying faithful, or so he thought. Even worse, I was on a trip when he decided to leave, so he had to wait a week to break up. Poor baby. An entire week of being faithful when he is checked out of the relationship! Let’s nominate this dude for sainthood!

Geocities_SEO_Expert · 2022-03-22T15:25:19+00:00

It's worse than pointless pandering, because you can't even verify that it's true.

Delay-Party · 2022-03-22T15:04:16+00:00

Notice the age gap 😵‍💫😵‍💫😵‍💫

arnezuara · 2022-03-22T19:30:28+00:00

Men spit this nonsense because they can’t cheat, but want to. No woman wants to fuck them, so they’re angry.

If you hear a man try get praise for doing the bare minimum, well… block and delete.

aquietsword · 2022-03-22T21:21:19+00:00

So it's impossible for men to get dates but also so hard not to cheat once you have a gf?

MissPeachFuzz · 2022-03-22T16:41:20+00:00

Daily Reminder: Never EVER settle! Even if they have!

mythrowawaypdx · 2022-03-22T20:15:23+00:00

LVM want participation trophies for engaging in appropriate behavior. This might be a good way to vet a man because I can't imagine anyone high value agreeing to this. I also ask a man his history and only been cheated on once with my first boyfriend who was a monster. My friends tend to be drama free and my exes since have also been somewhat chill, they had issues but never cheated. Some data suggests men and women are nearly = likely to cheat. I want to feel special too. Can I get a pat on the back for never cheating on anyone? OMFG ROTFL.

2022-03-22T17:40:26+00:00

Huh? Do men give women a warm “thank you” for being faithful? No

FDS-MAGICA · 2022-03-22T19:48:18+00:00

I have to admit, I am impressed when I hear about men who don't cheat because the bar is indeed in hell. But what do they want? A doggie biscuit for positive reinforcement or some shit?

maIesaintshit · 2022-03-22T16:13:30+00:00

Are they going to give women a pat on the back for not cheating? No because they expect us not to but when we say things like “men are cheaters” they want to pretend we cheat just as much but surely that should mean we should also be rewarded for not cheating? Male logic at its finest.

Sonechko_K · 2022-03-22T18:04:29+00:00

Oh I think it is completely the opposite. It's very hard for women not to cheat, because you know the dick is abundant and very low value :)

2022-03-22T21:22:40+00:00

It's like exponentially easier for women to cheat if they wanted to. Yet you don't see women thinking they deserve praise for staying faithful.

2022-03-22T18:53:55+00:00

Dump them all

8jjjjjjjj · 2022-03-22T21:35:33+00:00

Men who think like this use “loyalty” as a threat and weapon. Oh and they definitely still cheat 🙄

WinterMagician22 · 2022-03-22T17:48:36+00:00

Disappointed, but not at all surprised.

AmazonAteMySoul · 2022-03-22T18:23:55+00:00

Yes, but it's way harder for women. Too many options out there.

4E4ME · 2022-03-22T23:33:27+00:00

Oof, he's already cheating. He wants milk and cookies for the one that turned him down.

2022-03-23T01:13:30+00:00

How did men get put in charge of the world?

InappropriateMommie · 2022-03-23T12:58:36+00:00

Why is it “hard” for men?? Ime - it’s WAYYY harder for women! Men are trying to fuck us constantly! Where’s my award 😂

sveji- · 2022-03-23T13:07:08+00:00

If men can't help but cheat to their beautiful, loyal, faithful partners, that's their fricking loss. They don't deserve a pat on the back for doing the bare fcking minimum while women slave away their lives to men.

CherryRainbowx · 2022-03-23T14:56:52+00:00

So I got divorced because my ex was super lazy and rude to me all the time. I used to get so much crap from older ladies in my family telling me to work it out because he’s not a cheater and I could have it so much worse. 😅

MadameDVorah · 2022-03-22T16:48:30+00:00

wow. gtfo with that.

lolmemberberries · 2022-03-22T22:46:41+00:00

The bar has gone through hell's trap door.

ilikedogsbutmenmore · 2022-03-23T05:35:31+00:00

So this construction company got permits and approval to dig, they took a loan to hire diggers and recruited their finest tradesmen to dig a giant hole in hell, they dug and dug till they couldn't dig anymore, it was quite a feat of engineering. They then took the bar and placed it there.

Equal-Ear2312 · 2022-03-23T07:50:05+00:00

I had a man try to make me want to be his girlfriend. Among his pros was: "and I will never cheat on you" like that alone should have made my panties wet.

2022-03-23T14:58:37+00:00

Aww he just admitted he doesn’t love his wife. Sad.

spinsterchachkies · 2022-03-23T16:31:06+00:00

Do they not know that its hard for us too? This is why I stay single. It’s really, really hard to be committed to one person when you have so many other tempting options. But when you make a promise that is supposed to mean something. If you don’t mean it don’t do it. I don’t expect a pat on the back for staying committed to someone I promised to stay committed too. Lol 😂

QuackJongUn · 2022-03-22T19:16:50+00:00

Ma’am please leave, the moment you piss him off he’ll use that as an excuse to cheat

sadeintyo · 2022-03-22T20:21:58+00:00

Are they the ones ovulating monthly? lol 🤡

EnvironmentalGroup15 · 2022-03-22T20:54:28+00:00

Yeah I guarantee it’s easier for women to cheat than men.

darkenchantress44 · 2022-03-22T22:12:16+00:00

Next they gonna want an award for breathing oxygen.

adalovelace1793--- · 2022-03-22T23:51:24+00:00

A kick in the back he said? 🤣

Revy_Ur_Engines · 2022-03-24T04:57:01+00:00

Men don't realize how much male attention we get. Generally speaking, women can dump a man and have 4 new ones by the end of the day. Women choose not treat men as replaceable. If a man has 3 options, he starts acting like Don Juan.

Thunderbird_Freya · 2022-03-22T20:27:28+00:00

Men should get a pat on their back for not hitting their wives during a power trip too? controlling your natural urges should not be rewarded. Are gold diggers rewarded when they decide not to be a gold digger once in a while? No.

meoemeowmeowmeow · 2022-03-22T21:28:34+00:00

Do I get a pat on my back for not cheating?

littlestarling123 · 2022-03-23T13:53:13+00:00

Also you guys are the best. Thank you for letting me get that out in a safe space.

Kingkazola · 2022-03-23T18:52:00+00:00

PinkestMango · 2022-03-25T03:07:35+00:00

Ex bf, right?

Title	Like…I know it’s bad, but I didn’t know it was THIS bad.
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Date	March 22, 2022 2:51 PM UTC (4 years ago)
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