Man terrifies woman into blocking him on multiple forms of contact. Cue him whining and hundreds of comments calling her a bitch without hearing her side of the story.

MadamLeFay · 2020-10-24T22:05:48+00:00

I'd love to hear her side. I bet he took out his peepee and she freaked. I bet he left that part out of his sob story. If all those women are on his side, they should go out with him. I bet they'd change their tune.

vereelimee · 2020-10-24T22:52:30+00:00

There is a lot of anger there. A lot of anger.

She definitely made the right call.

Remember ladies, don't make an excuse. Block and delete.

You do not want to witness or experience anger firsthand. You have no idea what a random man is capable of doing.

BoredinBrisbane · 2020-10-24T22:11:18+00:00

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Pengtingcalledme · 2020-10-24T22:20:17+00:00

I bet you he wasn't even a gentleman

InevitableHulk · 2020-10-24T23:29:53+00:00

So instead of just handling rejection like a stable person, he posts a psycho rant on Facebook for his fan-club to kiss his owie all better. Also, he sees the whole thing as transactional: “I did this, that, and the other for her! I deserve what I want in return!” Instead of recognizing she’s a whole human being with feelings of her own.

Sounds like they, what? Went out a time or two before he started acting weird and she lost attraction for him. Saying what a gentleman he was sounds oddly defensive - like, who are you trying to convince, champ?

The woman dodged an entitled, unstable bullet.

(Also, I’ve seen better flowers at a gas station.)

Innanaspeaks · 2020-10-24T22:47:35+00:00

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FewButterscotch6 · 2020-10-24T23:54:12+00:00

Reading between the lines in his rant makes me think that the real reason she "randomly freaked out" at being sent flowers at work and responded by blocking him on everything is that she never told this guy where she worked. It seems like they met on OLD and had only been on one date when he did this. What kind of dummy with no self-preservation would tell a random Tinder date where they work?

I think this little stunt is just the only part of his creeper approach to dating he felt comfortable sharing but that he'd already done some other creeper crap that had her guard up and sending the flowers to a place he shouldn't have been able to connect her to was a last ditch effort to get back in her good graces that backfired.

chatrebelle · 2020-10-24T23:06:14+00:00

What a bunch of fucking pickme jesus christ

DallasOMalley · 2020-10-25T00:05:31+00:00

She was kissing him on the forehead, and he thought that meant she LIKED him? Alternate interpretation: She realized he was nuts but was trying to act normal until he was gone, because she knew he was an insecure freak, and she wouldn't be safe if he got upset. So she compromised by kissing him on the forehead and then silently prayed he'd GTFO.

sikedyke · 2020-10-24T22:59:07+00:00

honestly not even nice flowers imo

KevlarSweetheart · 2020-10-24T23:30:34+00:00

They think one size fits all when it comes to women.

Some people dont like these overt displays of affection, especially at work. I know its a surprise but he could've discussed with her at some point prior if sending roses to her workplace was appropriate.

Novemberinthechair · 2020-10-25T00:36:58+00:00

So, he stalked her with an extra side of love bombing, and she had an appropriate reaction. He's obviously a nutter.

AnniaT · 2020-10-25T00:39:32+00:00

Why can't men understand that we owe them nothing? Good for him and nice that he was a gentleman and sent flowers, but that doesn't mean she owes him anything or has to feel the same for him.

Edit: I thought this was an incel reddit post (I hadn't seen the other pics) and only now realized he posted this on facebook... what a psycho lol

frogirl1993 · 2020-10-24T23:16:00+00:00

Love how they all assume she is hiding something not that he was a creep

ItsFreezen · 2020-10-25T01:04:03+00:00

What point is he trying to make? Men also send flower's to women they've cheated on.

Seamstress2 · 2020-10-25T06:12:47+00:00

it's not okay. here's why: it looks like a display of ownership, and not a romantic gesture.

you're not sending those flowers for her. You're sending them so you can assert that she's yours in front of all her coworkers

Flags: (insecurity, possible love-bombing, lack of consent (did he even ask her about this? nope), something about that kiss on the forehead seems off, but I can't exactly pin it down)

honestly, it sounds like he was playing a game, and his true colors accidentally showed, so she noped herself out of there.

futuristicallyangry · 2020-10-25T04:41:34+00:00

I'm pretty damn sure she got overwhelmed by the love bombing and I'm proud of her for calling that out because love bombing is one of the biggest manipulative games that these so-called "gentlemen" play in the name of "chivalry". He didn't want to give her flowers, he just wanted a publicity stunt which is why he sent them to her office and is now writing a public Facebook post against her and I'm sad to see that pickmeishas in his comment section are not able to figure that out. I briefly saw a guy who kept a picture of mine and made it his lockscreen on his phone and expected me to be swooned by it. I screamed instead when I saw the lockscreen because we had been seeing each other for barely a couple of weeks. That was classic love bombing.

randomgirlimok · 2020-10-24T23:31:16+00:00

It sounds like she thought they were friends but as a niceguy, he wanted something more which freaked her out

dzgata · 2020-10-25T01:27:29+00:00

He sounds mad his manipulative psycho game didn’t pan out the way he had hoped. Clearly she dodged several bullets. I pray he doesn’t show up to her work to kill her. Terrifying.

daisy_0720 · 2020-10-25T05:01:53+00:00

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Palgary · 2020-10-25T03:30:19+00:00

At my work place, women have received flowers from their husbands or fiances. Obviously, that doesn't represent every work place, but it would be weird if someone had been on a few dates and sent someone flowers.

geologykitty · 2020-10-25T03:12:44+00:00

This guy sounds fucking INSANE.

honeybeeroll · 2020-10-25T15:02:24+00:00

Dude this reminds me of a guy my old coworker briefly dated!!

So my old coworker - I used to work in an hostile and abusive work environment where management did not respect anyone's privacy (seriously you couldn't ask for a day off w/o being interrogated, even if it was to see the doctor. Like hello, health records privacy!?!?). The one girl I liked there, she briefly dated this guy who like two dates in sent two dozen fucking roses to the office.

He sent flowers multiple times, got her a teddy bear that was bigger than a person (it was well over 5 ft high) - totally love bombing her, and it's def part of why she stopped seeing him after a short time, cuz this dude was going nuts only a month in. Which besides embarrassing her at work, caused problems for her at home, she had to come up w/ excuses where she got all this shit cuz her parents didn't know about him. He didn't think about that once, I'm sure. If I was her I would've dumped him the second he sent shit to that hell hole office and disrespected my privacy by outing my personal business to everyone there.

So how much you want to bet this whiny little loser and this woman were dating a month or even less? And he was a total scrote. And totally love bombing her. And that's why she freaked out about getting flowers. She probably figured he was a total psycho and LOW AND BEHOLD, he was.

It's one thing to be upset about rejection; it's another thing to go on a rampage when rejected cuz you think you're entitled to her pussy cuz you didn't pressure her into having sex when she slept over. Fucking psycho.

thinktwiceorelse · 2020-10-25T15:42:17+00:00

This is why I'm scared to date again. That I will go on a date with someone, and if I don't like them back, they will turn into fucking nuts and make my life living hell (please no more stalkers in this life).

Throwitaway_72946 · 2020-10-25T05:40:39+00:00

Did she tell him where she works though?

Seems to me that'd be a big turning point in this story.

PinkestMango · 2020-10-25T08:54:14+00:00

Bozo, you can send me flowers at work when you are MrPinkestMango and not before.

afrodeasyak · 2020-10-25T23:17:49+00:00

He was an absolute gEnTlEmAn, how dare she deny him. Sigh, the pickmeishas were working overtime on that post, I presume.

veruscka · 2020-10-25T20:02:24+00:00

Well, Aaron sounds like a sociopath

Title	Man terrifies woman into blocking him on multiple forms of contact. Cue him whining and hundreds of comments calling her a bitch without hearing her side of the story.
Author	randomdazee
Upvotes	145
Comments	60
Date	October 24, 2020 9:53 PM UTC (5 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/FemaleDatingStrategy
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