My bro-in-law passed this little tidbit to me, oh, almost 20 years ago now. Over the years I have seen very few exceptions to this rule and even so, I'm still surprised at how many woman don't know this.

Men are only friends with women they want to have sex with. All your guy friends want to have sex with you.

Don't believe me? Look at all the straight guy's you've been friends with over the years.

  • How many of them are more attractive than you?
  • How many of them are friends with women less attractive than them?
  • How many of them are friends with lesbians, attractive or not?

I'm not going to make any assumptions here, but in my life, the answer to all of those questions is 0.

  • How many of your guy friends have tried or have slept with you?

I'm betting it's far more than 0.

If you're a woman who mostly has guy friends, I'm sorry to tell you that your friendship completely hinges on how attractive you are. Are you "one of the guys" at work? Nope. You will only be one of the guys for as long as you don't look remotely masculine to them. Did your guy BFF start acting weird when he got a new girlfriend? Of course he did because she's now occupying the space in his brain you once held.

Now, I'm not saying that you can't still be friends with guys. You may have a hobby that is male centric or work in a male dominated field and males are your only social outlet. I'm not saying that men are ONLY friends with you because they want to sleep with you either, it's just the one key thing that your friendship is built on(for him). And I'm not saying that your SO can't have a good friendship with another woman, as long as you're comfortable with it. You just absolutely need to understand that if given the chance, most of your guy friends would sleep you. Not all of them will try, but almost none of them will turn it down.

Edit: sorry ladies but that friend you’ve had since you were kids, who’s been married forever? I would bet my left boob that if he ever divorces and you’re single.... also, I can’t believe I need to say this but #NoTaLlMeN . I’m talking straight males here.