Has cheating become normalized for TRP married men?

Playful_Art_5364 · 2022-02-21T17:07:55+00:00

That movement went from “how do we navigate and get a good life from this post modern world” to

“Ships (society) is sinking. Might as well do whatever you want to succeed.”

I don’t think people understand how much of the general population believe that the changes to society in the past 20 years have basically doomed western culture. Even non red pill dudes I know are thinking this.

The giving up morality because the world is doomed is going to be spread out more. I don’t think people understand the true effects of this until it’s far to late.

RIP civilization as we knew it.

Accomplished_Gap5279 · 2022-02-21T21:46:03+00:00

Married red pill here. If you really start taking responsibility and getting the life you want cheating begins to look like going out for hamburgers when you have rib eye at home. Get it going the way you want it and don't fuck it up because the next girl you jump to will be a step back for sure..

tropicsGold · 2022-02-22T01:40:40+00:00

Red Pill is completely against cheating. Not necessarily on moral grounds, but because it is a weak, passive-aggressive, blue pill move. If the relationship isn’t working, a real man would either fix it or end it, not weasel around behind her back. And if she was cheating first, he should have had the balls to terminate the relationship on the spot, then proceed to screw other women. Cheating is just weak effeminate behavior that is contrary to masculinity.

cowfishAreReal · 2022-02-21T16:17:07+00:00

Tpr men don't care about being moral, why would they be against cheating

iwasneverherehaha · 2022-02-21T18:29:00+00:00

I hate cheating regardless of sex.. but I wouldn't call myself red pill.. or any pill for that matter

LateralThinker13 · 2022-02-21T20:51:11+00:00

Has cheating become normalized for TRP married men?

No. At no point does TRP advocate cheating as a behavior. TRP is about seeing truth, not expressly encouraging certain behaviors. EDIT: that said, it doesn't condemn it on moral grounds, either. TRP is amoral.

Much of TRP is about male self-improvement - stoicism, strength, character, improving financial status, etc. Lying to one's partners is not how you do that. That's more of a PUA tactic for the express short-term goal of getting laid.

EDIT: sounds like I contradicted myself, yes? Nope. Humans are creatures of habit. What we do, we become used to doing. Lying, like all negative behaviors, weakens us. TRP is about self-improvement over the long term, acting in truth, not in lies. It's not pro-lying because lying itself is what blue-pilled people are doing constantly, and RP is truth in action. It's not anti-lying on a moral basis, but because lying hurts everybody involved including the speaker.

purplish_possum · 2022-02-21T17:52:55+00:00

Recently there was a thread where a guy bragged about cheating on his wife (who was also cheating on him...)

Literally -- what's good for the goose is good for the gander.

Edit: FYI a gander is a male goose -- and a goose is a female goose -- English is a strange language.

AquaChip · 2022-02-21T16:44:54+00:00

They think it’s men’s nature to have a harem. What do you think?

BecretAlbatross · 2022-02-21T16:57:37+00:00

I think this isn't a men thing. Cheating is normalized for everyone. Not even related to the redpill.

Laytheblameonluck · 2022-02-21T18:37:19+00:00

You can't have a sexual revolution, women having heaps of sex partners before marriage then losing interest in sex later when married, and not normalise cheating.

Puzzleheaded-Lab-165 · 2022-02-21T20:13:28+00:00

I stayed faithful to wife but she was cheating on me while I was at work. Now that we are divorced, I lost respect for women. If you have a faithful wife, it is like finding a unicorn. Good luck. Women are programmed to cheat. When women are ovulating they look to get pregnant by the more fit male.

OneAngryBlutbad · 2022-02-21T21:51:56+00:00

TRP are like a lot of the women who buy into the cake eater bullshit, well they want to have their cake and eat it too. Even at the expense of the unicorn they claim to covet so much. Both genders are guilty of this but rarely do we discuss when men do it. RP likes to pretend we don’t condone cheating but it’s about 60/40, even when I was deep into TRP the guys were very lax when it came to cheating.

Look, I’m going to give you a useful tip; a lot of us will cheat just like women do, simply because we saw something “better” or because we thought we saw something better. The good girl that kept her legs closed? Unless she has a high sex drive and an already kinky mind, more often than not she’s going to be fine. But the girl that isn’t kinky and her religious or Conservative family life is why she thinks kinky stuff is dirty? Oh, she’s definitely getting cheated on if she’s with a RP. Maybe he’ll do it once, maybe a few times or maybe he’ll have his little soft harem whenever he wants the girl that likes it rough, or Tuesday when he wants to hang out with the one who likes it up the ass while being choked. RP like variety, but it’s nice to have a dependable helpmate at home. She stays home with the kiddos, her husband goes out and fucks the kinky broad then comes home to the unicorn whose idea of kinky is missionary with the lights on. Maybe wearing black or red lingerie and being on top for a minute.

Bottom line, women inclined to cheat will cheat if they think they saw something better and so will we. No point in sitting here pretending to be choir girls and altar boys.

OfCatandPagan · 2022-02-22T00:22:26+00:00

Definitely seems like it has, and cheating is something I don't abide with ant gender. I can see why people will checkout of a relationship that is clearly dead (i.e., neither partner has said it, but they're acknowledged the end and are moving on) but just up and cheating? Trash, plain trash.

Vtridolla · 2022-02-21T16:11:48+00:00

Most men here seem to not even be able to talk to a woman let alone get one into a relationship and then find another one to cheat on the first one with. It’s mostly jaded men larping some weird revenge fanfic.

Also humans are not monogamous by nature nor do we mate for like by nature. So humans will always cheat not matter the sex or gender. It’s always happened, it will always happen.

gimpgirl555 · 2022-02-21T16:40:54+00:00

Women ride the CC so men get to "cheat".

What's the argument against it: "sure I fucked 10 guys before you, but now we have to be monogamous"? No one is going to agree to that.

btcstandude · 2022-02-21T19:08:53+00:00

Look at the women who frequent this sub. Most have done casual hookups and ONS', how is a man going to respect a woman like that long term? Eventually he will cave and say" Fuck, my wife was a whore with no self respect or self love. Why should I?"

I don't condone cheating, but I can see where men come from when they do. It's not like they married something special with these women.

LowCreddit · 2022-02-21T21:31:31+00:00

Actual cheating is at the bottom of the Steps of Dread, which are a checklist for a dying marriage. It is seen as the last step of an essentially dead marriage.

PlayfulLawyer · 2022-02-21T18:21:56+00:00

I mean I think honestly cheating has just become normalized and Society in general, in relationships and marriages men and women cheat at about the same clip, social media makes it easier,etc.,

BlackPorcelainDoll · 2022-02-21T16:14:58+00:00

A woman withholding sex and refuses to mitigate or improve has broken her monogamous deal, cheating is no longer cheating as the deal is no longer in effect. Likewise, a woman that has not broken the monogamous deal and a man that steps outside of it to have sex with someone else, has broken the monogamous deal and now a cheater.

Swingers, poly are becoming more common, some of it is trendy.

skunkbear444 · 2022-02-22T06:24:17+00:00

The original red pill relationship wisdom was often tilted towards times of old. Emperors, kings, lords, etc... had harems or a string of mistresses.

Keep a family name, wealth, power, legacy growing. Have a don't ask, don't tell, don't embarrass policy with the wife.

The modern version would often be a guy has a wife, has one night stand when on the road for business, out of the country etc and uses a fake name, burner phone etc. when hooking up so it never gets back to him.

The trad version of red pill isn't very red pill. It is more trad/God pill. Red pill has always been about serving the male sexual imperative.

kentucky-windage · 2022-02-22T07:46:38+00:00

Because a red pill community was high jacked by betas who think that being an asshole = being tough = being red pill. In reality being disciplined = being red pill.

auui · 2022-03-10T16:22:35+00:00

If your spouse cheats you out of a sex life then you are free to see who you want. My wife went cold after 15 years, 2 houses, 1 kid, 3 cars, paying off her student loan, lots of vacations, cooking for her, supporting every idea she had, me losing weight and being the best version of me. Like ice cold...barely a kiss good night. So I found a woman who I connected with and she made me feel wanted, loved, fucked my brains out, gave oral 4 days a week and we had amazing chemistry. All I gave her was my time.

That was my first GF but there have been much more like her.

I have found women are much more receptive to this relationship once they realize just how bad they have it at home/their life has become. My last GF had 4 kids and working full time while her husband neglected her for video games and not moving much. So she found me and we showed each other lots and lots of appreciation.

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Title	Has cheating become normalized for TRP married men?
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Date	February 21, 2022 3:59 PM UTC (4 years ago)
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