N COUNTS WEEKLY DISCUSSION THREAD

N_Count_Council · 2026-02-07T05:57:49+00:00

I've decided to change my stance; that low n or high n doesn't pre-determine whether you'll get married or divorced. Sure the stats show there's higher odds for high n women but realistically who cares? Men should not be marrying anyways. And we should be keeping it more casual and non-committal, with high n or low n women, whichever tickles your fancy.

If you get in a LTR with a high n woman and not marry, she can leave without causing damage. No harm no foul

Such-Bed7764 · 2026-02-06T02:19:40+00:00

How can a man discern how he stacks up compared to previous men a woman has been with ?

Why do women find this idea of comparison taboo ?

gtbreddit1 · 2026-02-05T03:56:47+00:00

It is interesting that this thread seems to attract more women defending their high N than men attacking them for their N. Very telling.

Reasonable_Mouse789 · 2026-02-04T19:39:52+00:00

There are weird dynamics for fuckboys and trailer trash. I’ll try to observe people other than myself.

A hypermasculine (attractive) successful man seems highly likely to ruin his relationship by cheating
A hypermasculine broke man will ruin his relationship by not being able to provide. He’ll prefer “easy” (less attractive) women after he gets jaded by divorce with Stacy (it’s always some tall blonde). Is likely to say “money is everything”. Will possibly still cheat on easier women that date him in the long term
A beta (unattractive) successful man gets blinded by a Stacy looking in his direction for 5 seconds, and forgets what she “actually prefers” for who she sleeps with. A relationship with a woman who doesn’t want you is doomed to fail. Will possibly still cheat on easier women who date him in the long term
A beta broke man probably doesn’t exist unless he uses leverage in some other form, such as finding a woman who likes the same drugs as him, and sharing them

I believe a guy’s success in relationships actually isn’t necessarily to be “him”, it’s to pick one of these archetypes, and actually value the relationships you get out of it. However, one thing that gets ignored is unique compatibility, which the internet kind of stomps on: in real life, if everyone is “the same”, and you have different preferences such as a religion that’s uncommon for your area, then you might be loyal to your partner no matter what. However, online dating stomps on this concept. There’s always someone “similar to you” online in populated areas, as long as you’re desirable enough to catch their attention consistently.

Online dating deletes the concept of “social proof”, though, giving an advantage to women. Women can pick the guys they think they’re compatible with. Men are somewhat forced to work with the women who think they’re compatible with him, even if she mostly chose him due to looks or his job.

The “looks are everything” crowd correctly noticed that broke fuckboys and successful betas need to have preferences for women who sleep with them without much effort, or they’ll get a “high maintenance relationship” that guys really dislike

Power dynamics are determined by which partner settled more

ThatBitchA · 2026-02-04T19:23:27+00:00

What's most fascinating is the stories that people make up about promiscuous women.

There seems to be a fundamental misunderstanding of what promiscuity is.

Promiscuous =having or involving many sexual partners : not restricted to one sexual partner or few sexual partners (Webster Dictionary)

It has nothing to do with the speed with which someone has sex. It doesn't mean a woman doesn't have standards.

It just means they've had more sex than the average numbers. Which 4-7 people is theaverage.

HTH.

OffTheRedSand · 2026-02-04T14:22:50+00:00

Virgin men are the equivalent of a promiscuous woman in the “jaded” department

Do you get that? In your thick skull?

If men truly don’t think high n women don’t make good partners then the same is true for virgin men.

Now personally I don’t subscribe to either notions but if we take what males here say about high n count women as true then the same is true to them.

Inb4 “actually high n count men are the equivalent of high n count women” NO

Virgin women aren’t like virgin men even virgin men admit this, they themselves say femcels don’t exist and it’s easy for women to have sex, their match by their own admission isn’t virgin women.

Instead it’s someone jaded like them, high n count women. However just because someone is your league or match that doesn’t mean they have to like you which is why virgin men and high n count women don’t like each other.

NavIsShit · 2026-02-04T06:06:11+00:00

All I know is guys in this megathread are cucks and all I can say is, good luck marrying your future slut, see her walking to you in a white, pure virginal dress when you know damn well a guy she has fucked is sitting somewhere on her phone or god forbid in the crowd. Good luck eliciting devotion and everlasting desire from a whore. Because body count doesn't matter. I dont argue anymore I simply ask people to apply their values and see where they end up.

Copers will cope forever. Can't stop natural beta males from being beta males

winter_lover28 · 2026-02-03T18:39:34+00:00

You should have a high body count while you are young and sleep with as many people as possible to know you are desired before marriage.

Lemon_gecko · 2026-02-03T13:47:10+00:00

Men who judge women because of n counts are unattractive. They all threaten that i won't be able to be with them if i have sex, but they are not the prize to begin with.

Lemon_gecko · 2026-02-03T10:01:34+00:00

As someone stated here past matters. I agree. If a man has n count of 0 means he was completely undesirable and repulsive to all women he met and that matters.

Bitch_King-of_Angmar · 2026-02-03T07:52:58+00:00

i feel like those guys who worry about a woman doing kinky shit with another man and not wanting to do it with him are imagining very specific, common, kink acts that the dude wants. they can't imagine sexual acts they may not even want to participate in. like if you found out she used to get fisted or piss in guy's mouths i feel like they'd just be like nah. "just because you did that to your last man doesn't mean i want to do it".

but idk this is kind of an overly weird thought. maybe i am wrong.

Past-Shoulder-631 · 2026-02-02T12:40:22+00:00

Forget about N count specifically, but does anyone really honestly believe that the past doesn’t matter? Women, even if you successfully delude a man into thinking past doesn’t matter, deep down it always will on a subconscious level. It’s not something you can ever just “let go” even if you really wish that were the case.

brassbuffalo · 2026-02-01T15:51:44+00:00

Saw "Rashōmon" and thought that people of this thread would appreciate this line from the movie. N count flame wars in 16th century Japan.

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salphon · 2026-02-01T12:18:25+00:00

Daily reminder: high bodycount women are more likely to cheat and divorce you than women with lower n.

It is NORMAL to not want to date a high bodycount woman and this is backed up by a peer-reviewed study.

https://www.annualreviews.org/content/journals/10.1146/annurev-psych-010418-103408

On a rating scale of -3 (extremely undesirable) to +3 (extremelydesirable), men give the quality ‘fidelity’ +2.88 and ‘sexually loyal’ +2.85, the two most highly valued qualities in a long-term mate out of 67 qualities evaluated (Buss & Schmitt, 1993)

On the other end, men rate ‘unfaithful’ -2.93 and ‘sleeps around a lot’ -2.79, the two most undesirable qualities in a prospective long-term mate

I will worship my low n wife. She is very precious to me.

Popeoath · 2026-02-01T08:51:33+00:00

More and more women are becoming open about AF/BB (just not by those terms though).

A lot of rhetoric about guys not getting bitter, and confidently "waiting their turn". As if anyone would want to date someone who had them "wait their turn" instead of wanting them right away.

pie-mart · 2026-02-01T03:43:34+00:00

Low body counters and high body counters need to be with each other

Or, high libido people need high libido people and vice versa

Tired of hearing men settle for a low libido woman while he has a high libido and being angry

Short-Clerk-3560 · 2026-01-31T18:39:14+00:00

How do you escape this cringe community and toxic mindset specifically the blackpill,let’s talk about solutions if you’re a sub 5 or average man

newme02 · 2026-01-31T18:25:56+00:00

what N count is too high?

ThatBitchA · 2026-01-31T18:24:11+00:00

At what point are the supposed consequences of promiscuity to hit?

Because I'm still waiting for those threatened consequences.

No_Self_2165 · 2026-01-31T18:06:33+00:00

I am about to give up on my hopes to find a low n count woman.

Even the modestiest have been passed around by some chads

gtbreddit1 · 2026-01-31T17:53:57+00:00

An argment I sometimes see on here that I find immensely irritating is the suggestion that someone's behavior when single doesn't signal anything about their behavior when in a relationship. Typically this is suggested in the context of a woman who was promiscuous when she was single.

Your behavior signal things about your character. It isn't a guarantee of any particular character trait, but it is an increase in the likelihood of them. In the case of a promiscuous woman, there are many things her promiscuity signals about her character. A high libido, an ease with which she forms attraction to men, less aversion to unfamiliar men, an appetite for variety, a dependency on male validation. These things do not suddenly become untrue of her just because she entered a relationship, and they will continue to affect her choices when in a relationship.

DietTyrone · 2026-01-31T17:32:38+00:00

N count criticism goes both ways. Can't be mad at a guy for judging you on your past or how many people you slept with, then turn around and judge a guy for being a virgin or the fact that some of the people he slept with might have also been guys. That's called being a hypocrite.

Lemon_gecko · 2026-01-31T17:07:07+00:00

Oh wow, seems like it is fixed now

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