10 Year Field Report...Learn From My Mistakes. Learn from My Pain.

UrbanBanger · 2016-06-06T04:59:38+00:00

This is like the ultimate blue-pill nightmare. My god. At least you now recognize your errors and will be MUCH better for it. Wishing you the best man.

Forcetobereckonedwit · 2016-06-06T05:26:02+00:00

Yours is a fucking horror story from the depths of Hell. NEVER underestimate the depths of deceit and scorched earth policy to which a female will stoop to to get what she feels entitled to. I went through a similar but much lighter version of that 2 years ago. I wish you a speedy recovery. You WILL come out the other side of this trial by cuntfire. Stay with TRP and believe in yourself.

Rimeheart · 2016-06-06T06:08:36+00:00

That son, when she initiated sex after 2 years, is not yours.

Shamlei · 2016-06-06T04:18:32+00:00

Stay strong, honestly I don't know how you can stay mentally sane after all of this.

I think I'd wish to kill that person after she stole all of this from me.

Good luck and stay strong.

down_with_whomever · 2016-06-06T05:14:17+00:00

She was quite happy to take massages, foot rubs, etc. but would always roll her eyes when I offered and say “you’re just doing that to get sex”

Any time a girl says something like this, I immediately withdraw. The freeze-out is a fantastic tool for dealing with snottiness.

Eze-Wong · 2016-06-06T04:49:24+00:00

It hurt me to read your story. I literally could feel pangs in my heart as it touched something deep in the vangus nerve....

No one should have to go through what you did. Its unbelievable the cops arent on your sude though this. The gender bias is real.

I think you need to start recording things. It doesnt matter how late. Every interaction, every move , every where you go needs to be recorded or accounted for. She sounds capable of a lot more and shes willing to go beyond some serious boundaries if shes willing to do physical violence on a 6ft guy.

Id body cam everything or have a good alibi all the time...

Good luck man. Il pray for you. Im sure theres no god though because i dont believe in a god that allows this kind of shit.

KartagoPill · 2016-06-06T07:10:58+00:00

You tried so hard to be good husband and father. Yet goverment took it all.

redpillbanana · 2016-06-06T09:09:40+00:00

This is what life for married men is like under the threatpoint of divorce as Dalrock says.

However, divorce “reform” is as much about manipulating the power balance within marriage as it is about ensuring that women can frivolously divorce while collecting cash and prizes.

The wife lives like a queen during the marriage and the husband must obey because of threats like this:

All the meanwhile threatening to take our daughter and leave me if I didn’t do this and that.

...and then, in the end, after a decade of dog-like obedience, she pulls the trigger anyway.

Best of luck, OP.

JamesSkepp · 2016-06-06T07:13:06+00:00

These kinds of posts need to be gathered onto one easily accessible link on the Sidebar.

tb87670 · 2016-06-06T05:20:43+00:00

You still should've taken the evidence of her sister coaching her to be assaulted. The wire-tapping/stalking charges are nothing to what you should've been able to bring on to a police officer saying that stuff to a civilian. You could've at the very least fucked her sisters career for saying shit like that and being caught doing it. My brother was an LEO and was railroaded in promotion prospects for much less.

FYI her father getting in your face, that would've been permanent game over for him if he did that to me. Not sure how you did it.

kyzation · 2016-06-06T07:20:13+00:00

Angry phase engaged after reading this. I'm so sorry you have endured this ordeal. Good thing you've taken the positive steps to food yourself of her. Taught me a great life lesson. Thank you

MindlessElectrons · 2016-06-06T08:35:57+00:00

Things like this make me fear getting too close to a female at all.

ThisManHasNoDick111 · 2016-06-06T07:02:48+00:00

I think it would be therapeutic for you to hunt your ex-wife instead of animals.

4juice · 2016-06-06T06:50:17+00:00

Wow what a nightmare! And the bitch getting your parents to drive to your place every Monday so she could party with her friends is the most shitty thing of all, at least imo. I would never let my women disrespect my parents like that.

sqerl · 2016-06-06T10:02:14+00:00

This brings back memories. Especially how your wife and police (family or not) will actively conspire to manipulate for her gain. The intentional pushing of emotional buttons through words and actions to elicite a repose from you. Only to have that response used against you through the full force of police intervention and subsequently, the family court system. It's awful how this wilfull bastardization of legal intent is not admissible.

Sorry for your pain. Hang in there.

I wouldn't post documents. Even with information redacted, it's not advisable. If a mod wants to verify you, that's their call. Protect your anonymity.

pirateninj4 · 2016-06-06T11:32:19+00:00

You'll be bigger, faster, stronger and wiser from this.

She on the other hand will remain nothing more than a cunt, and she'll never be happy. You being happy will be her nightmare. I would advise you to pursue it as recklessly as you can.

vagbutters · 2016-06-06T07:13:51+00:00

I'd get a paternity test done on your children.

Stories like this make me wonder how men like you don't just kill your wives and end the suffering outright.

Andorli · 2016-06-06T05:48:10+00:00

I could not read through all of this, it was painful. Wish you all the best, you are in the right place and hopefuly you will get better.

ChrisBenRoy · 2016-06-06T15:15:34+00:00

Something that struck me as odd was the time she came home drunk and initiated sex with you, then you had your son 9 months later. Nothing in this story ever mentioned anything about her cheating, but there's no way she went an entire year without fucking someone. Have you looked into if that kid is really yours or not? I know it doesn't change how you feel about him, I'm sure you love him having raised and cared for him like you have. But still.

badabinglove · 2016-06-06T06:43:06+00:00

thankfully ill never put myself in these situations thanks to my education on the topics BUT I'm shocked at the how much this happens and ex-wives doesn't mysteriously disappear.

3rt41 · 2016-06-06T08:27:03+00:00

Dude, i am sitting on the crapper in my office and i went through your entire post for long after i did the job. I am shocked and so sorry for you. Also, scared. I will never fucking marry anyone.

BananaHammie · 2016-06-06T06:08:03+00:00

If you knew how much it would cost you, would you have hired a motherfucker jones to take her out? Morality aside and all

Ronin11A · 2016-06-06T13:13:09+00:00

When I showed all this information to my lawyer, they flat out told me that I could use none of it as evidence, as the court would immediately ask how I got this information...and if I told them that I had looked at backups of her phone on my computer I would be back to square one, AVO....and being charged with stalking and intimidation.

This is the shit that makes me livid. You literally have proof, by virtue of her being stupid enough to back things up to your personal computer, yet using that is "stalking" and "intimidation?" How the FUCK is it stalking to go through your own personal computer?

She can literally PLOT and MANUFACTURE the destruction of your life, leave evidence of it all over the goddamn place, and yet if you attempt to use any of that as leverage, she's the victim.

TheWise_One · 2016-06-06T14:06:42+00:00

This hits home hard . Like you, I blue pilled myself into a relationship , marriage and a child that resulted into nuclear disaster for me. For someone who lived the whole life with the RP mentality I managed to disappoint myself and almost lost everything I cared for. I thought I had everything under control , WRONG.

But as OP's wife , my soon to be ex wife displayed the same symptoms :

•Constant nagging •Never satisfied •Mental and even psychical abuse •Provocations •manipulation •demeaning to cut relationships with friends and hobbies •Constant threatening to call cops •Instigating fights etc

The result was :

•Got arrested based on false charges for domestic ( felony then misdemeanor ) to get me out the house •Got served with injunction while I was leaving the jail •Lost my rights and privileges for 9 months •Lost my child , house, guns, 2 motorcycles ,cat and 90% of my belongings •Accumulated huge amounts of debt as result of this •Loss of work ( I'm a contractor ) due to pending charges at that time •Loss of 50% income due to the charges at that time •Degrading of mental and physical health

While I was in jail ( 1 day ) she changed the locks , filed for an injunction , sold my rifle , cleaned the accounts , packed my stuff up ( mostly clothes ). Yes, in one day while she was pregnant . Thanks to my amazing lawyer i got all charges and injunction dismissed , got some of my stuff back , got my name cleared and got my freedom back. There's so much more to this but this is not about me , it's about how blue pill mentality can ruin your life

I understood where I fucked up and learned my lesson. As a wise man said , never learn from your own mistakes , learn from the mistakes of others. So everyone who thinks that a marriage , growing a family , LTR can be accomplished in the time we live right now should rethink again. You'll loose everything , trust me.

rm_-rf_slash · 2016-06-06T15:48:11+00:00

Damn. This is my nightmare to a T. Your story is eerily similar to mine but your wife and her family definitely seem a lot more sinister than mine. I also married older (20 v. 25; now 24 v. 29) and also have two kids, both sons. I don't mean to hijack to give my story but do so so you know that I understand what you're going through, and so others here can learn from me as well.

I'll skip the usual stuff about lack of intimacy (check) and plenty of arguing about that and other things like finances and use of time (check). The nuclear point with us came after we agreed to and filed for a mutual divorce. The blowout happened when she told me she was basically calling my bluff by initially filing the divorce and had no intention of appearing in the front of the judge. I was furious as I didn't want to stay in a marriage I saw as headed only in circles and I escalated it by swearing and losing my frame completely. Eventually I followed her and she turned on me and tussling ensued where I held her, too, while she dug her nails into my face and scalp. I was called into the station later where I alone was accused of verbal and physical assault with her only evidence being her hair on the floor that she says I pulled out (when really our older son had cut it in her sleep that morning as he thought it was amusing).

In Korea, verbal assault is still assault (wasn't aware when I was being questioned which I told them but it appears I was not spared the charge) and while the whole wifebeater thing was thrown out for lack of proof, I was slapped with an $800 fine and a 6 week restraining order. I didn't see her or my boys for 6 weeks and that killed me. If Korea was as gyno-centric as the U.S., I would've surely been in jail.

Fast forward and the mutual divorce was forfeited since she wasn't going to appear so I didn't bother either since both need to show or it's moot. She then filed for judicial divorce (this is the one that is nearly identical to the western process) and filed suit against me and a girl I was seeing during our post-filing period, for ~$42K each. Swell! Apparently adultery is still a misdemeanor here, recently down from a criminal offense.

There are some upsides to my tale as well. The police and family court both try very hard to amend domestic disputes and tend to be more forgiving when minor cases do arrive. Often times a supervised apology and possibly an agreed exchange of a small settlement between two parties suffices. Fortunately we have no mutual assets in Korea and my US assets are off-limits to the Korean divorce process. Like you, even though I think my wife has a mental issue such as bipolar or borderline personality, I still maintain that she's a good mom and have never witnessed her treating our kids badly or bad-mouthing me to them. Her family was also supportive to a point, after which they just gave up and let us deal with it ourselves.

Our stories diverge there as my relationship with my wife improved although the divorce will take a year or so, or even not possible if she willed it. I started following TRP about a year ago but given that our relationship was initiated and mostly existed while I was pretty beta, she didn't seem keen on swallowing it with me (and not sure how much I wanted it either).

Actually I'm writing this on my flight back to the U.S. after I went to Korea last August to try to settle there with them but I don't want to and no longer can stay without leaving the country every 90 days, which is just one headache of many when you don't have a proper visa to reside somewhere.

hores · 2016-06-07T01:51:52+00:00

and this is how murder-suicides are created

sasapesso · 2016-06-06T07:38:04+00:00

Your ex wife is kind of person who think world revolves around her, therefore she would never be satisfied with whatever you did. Me!Me!Me! is her illness and the good thing that kind of people will never be truly happy in life. I am concerned about your children. God help them.

SomeGuyNY · 2016-06-06T08:31:14+00:00

At mediation I was railroaded into giving her:

The house ($1million+) 2 cars Entire contents of house 50% of my super when I retire

Why would you agree to this?

I presume you'll be paying off the house for a long time or will pay alimony?

In that case you should seek out work abroad and give up citizenship as soon as you're eligible for the other countries citizenship.

I have worked in lots of countries and always came across guys that evaded alimony by working in another country.

bennybunny25 · 2016-06-06T08:38:45+00:00

i thought i was reading an authors story about a horrible separation and a psycho bitch but i realized it was a true story and its horrifying. the thing i cant believe is its one thing if a woman goes completely bat shit insane (and unfortunately, i have some experience with that although not even close to your case) but the fact that literally everyone she knew went in on it too.

sergeantbbbbs · 2016-06-06T10:22:33+00:00

Mate your story epitomises the worst of women.

Last night I was in the pub and a husband and wife and their young son were sat behind us. They were trying to order food when the woman got riled up about something that the kid had done. She turned into a monster to them both literally within about 10 seconds, then spent a good 20 minutes throwing a tantrum saying things like "I DON'T FEEL LIKE GETTING FOOD ANYMORE," "I'M NOT BUYING ANY FOOD AFTER THE WAY HE'S BEHAVED", etc etc. Eventually she caves in and the guy goes inside to order. The SECOND he goes inside her phone comes out and she's messaging someone else. The guy comes back outside, meekly sits down next to her and says "I'm really sorry, they've stopped serving." She throws this HUGE tantrum - "FINE, I'll just eat a tin of BEANS on my ANNIVERSARY!"

The reason they'd stopped serving is that she'd just thrown a 20 minute tantrum and created loads of drama so they couldn't order. The guy just sat there and took it all, I wanted to give him a shake.

StuttBuffer · 2016-06-06T11:00:27+00:00

Hard to read, must've been harder to write. Thanks for sharing your story.

XxX_Im_On_Fire_XxX · 2016-06-06T11:52:46+00:00

I'm in my mid-teens and this sub has been a gold mine when it comes to relationships with women. I always though there was something broken with the way the world worked with women and men and this sub has helped me really understand that its even more of a shit show then I first thought, the fucked up bit is that it even starts at my age.

OP, I wish all the best for you and your battle for getting everything that is rightfully yours and wish you a speedy recovery from this toxic relationship with this disgusting woman.

ForgotUserID · 2016-06-06T12:17:15+00:00

This has battered husband syndrome written all over it. Glad you're on the way out of the situation.

LazySwine · 2016-06-06T12:53:18+00:00

Thanks for a lesson. Not going to marry.

tekn0_ · 2016-06-06T13:02:38+00:00

Dude, this is exactly my story. Word by word. Fuck, I can't believe it. I was thinking I was the only one! Stay strong , and live well.

ShockerWV · 2016-06-06T13:59:43+00:00

Throw red pill/blue pill out the window. This doesn't apply here, you were in a marriage with a complete psychopath and I'm shocked you stayed that long

thethirdcoast · 2016-06-06T14:02:22+00:00

Maybe it's just me, but this should be cleaned up and put on the sidebar as a warning to others.

F-W-Mueller · 2016-06-06T17:54:06+00:00

Drop me a message if you are ever visiting Germany. First round is on ne and you can tell me how everything went uphill from now on.

And get a paternity test for your child.

AFPJ · 2016-06-06T19:43:19+00:00

The 1800s are starting to look good. The effect that permitting such behavior - let alone rewarding it with separation money & property as well as offspring - has on society is beyond devastating. It's the ultimate form of degeneracy.

Humanity, humility and loyalty is literally being selected out rather then selected for.

kryptokate · 2016-06-07T00:54:51+00:00

Look dude, this sounds hellish and I sort of feel bad for you, however, it's also hard to trust your one-sided version when you've completely hidden the ball about this scenario. You not only married a woman more than 5 years older than you, but a woman who makes most of the money and is the primary breadwinner. You're trying to make it sound like she's divorce-raping you when if you read closely, it's apparent that you're actually pissed that she isn't paying YOU more money...and that even though she is the primary caregiver to your children in your split-custody arrangement, that you are still demanding that she pay YOU.

She gets the house because there's a huge mortgage payment that only she can afford, not you. So she takes the asset and the associated liability. Same with the cars. That's pretty standard. The rest of the assets you're splitting. That actually sounds totally fair.

So leaving aside the domestic violence charge, which is totally fucked up if what you said it true, as for the rest of it, you are basically the vindictive bitch in this situation who just won't goddamn leave until you extract your price from your ex-wife and make her pay. It's actually the classic scenario in reverse.

What if you had just had some self-respect and left the relationship when she made it clear she didn't want you anymore? Instead, you've refused to let her end it despite her several attempts.

Your wife was obviously way higher RMV than you. She made way more money (except during one temporary period when she was on maternity leave for a few months and that's the only time you made more than her). She was probably hotter than you too. Why else would you marry this older woman and act like her slave?? You leave this out but what other explanation is there except that you married way above your station and then kissed her ass because of it, because you knew you weren't at her level and had to make up for it. Just like historically women have done when they marry up. So that's why you were the bitch in the relationship. It also explains why her family never liked you, since most families don't like their daughters marrying dudes who are clearly beneath them on the sexual marketplace, and who their daughter supports.

She made it obvious she didn't want you anymore and asked to split up and asked you to leave several times and you refused. She said horrible shit to you and maybe you never said those things to her, I don't know...the way you hid the financial details of this story makes you an unreliable narrator. But clearly this woman wanted to get the hell out of this relationship and you wouldn't let her because you are obsessed with her...because you know she's above you and because she subsidizes a life you would never have otherwise.

Except for the domestic violence charge part, which again, is totally unacceptable if it happened like you said, I see nothing particularly unusual about this story except that it's unusual for a woman to so dominate her husband financially, in age, and everything else, and for him to be so submissive. It sounds like she was desperate to just get you to move the fuck out and end the relationship, and it's not hard to figure out why. But she has never tried to take money from you or take your kids from you. She just wants you out of her life.

Have some fucking pride and self-respect and let her go. You're vindictively fighting for her to pay you more money because you're pissed because you think she should be stuck with you for life and you thought you would have a certain life that now you have to adjust to not having. I understand that's hard and sucks for you. But fighting this makes you look pathetic. This dependent attitude is exactly why you disgust her.

Yes I would say the same thing to a woman. Trying to keep someone who doesn't want you anymore, or making them "pay" for not wanting you anymore, is the height of pathetic behavior.

Let her go, support yourself like a grown man, and see your kids in your split custody schedule. You've split the assets 50/50 and she's taking on the assets that come with liabilities you can't afford to pay. It actually sounds like a pretty equal split of things. I get that you're furious because of the relational sweat and love equity you put into this relationship, and you think you deserve to keep the higher standard of living that you're accustomed to, but that doesn't count for anything whether you're a man or a woman. No ex who is the primary caregiver should have to pay the other ex money after splitting the assets. If you want more money, take your kids more.

She does sound like a huge bitch who gets her way, but that wouldn't have been possible if you didn't let her. Yes, the same goes for any man or woman who allows themselves to be "abused" in today's society...it's often bullshit because they were getting something they perceived to be of value, in trade for accepting the "abuse". In your case, you got to live in a million dollar home and have a wife who was probably smarter and more educated and more attractive and "above" you socially. That's gone now. Cry and be sad and expect to go through some grief, but have some pride and accept it. Eventually you'll get over it and won't care anymore, that's how grief works.

slimcoat · 2016-06-07T00:45:07+00:00

If she takes you to court, destroy her. Burn everything to the ground. You can rebuild; she can't.

cs_throwawayyy · 2016-06-07T02:19:32+00:00

damn this belongs in r / nosleep. This is some Gone Girl shit, stories like these make me never want to interact with a woman again.

TheAloofCat · 2016-06-07T20:08:16+00:00

Man, this post should be stickied like confessions of a reformed incel.

Sepean · 2016-06-06T06:43:42+00:00

The problem isn't that you married - it is that you had no alpha, no frame and abysmally low SMV, but thought your job and providing for the family made up for it. Well, it doesn't.

A red pill marriage is very, very different from what you describe. You might still prefer spinning plates, but if you think alphas get treated like that once they're married you're completely wrong.

UrbanBanger · 2016-06-06T06:22:55+00:00

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RXRob · 2016-06-06T12:32:44+00:00

There was a point in this story where I thought "I'd kill her. On the spot. In front of everybody."

How do you find the strength not to do that?

JohnnyRaz · 2016-06-06T19:10:50+00:00

I am thankful that I've never experienced a woman quite this bad because I would have wound up in prison for my actions.

DalekJay · 2016-06-06T04:33:43+00:00

Stay strong mate, for you I wish better days

SunshineBlotters · 2016-06-06T05:46:15+00:00

All I have to say is thank you for the lesson. I know it might not mean much but you taught me something that I will use for the rest of my life.

You and others who share stories like this have saved me. These stories make it so that I dont feel bad that I couldn't get a girl when people my age were getting married. Thank you.

sirencow · 2016-06-06T06:09:58+00:00

This is every man's nightmare .Good thing that you've recognized where you went wrong and learnt lessons albeit the hard way . The best way to get back at her is to invest in yourself ;lift ,get your finances back in order, live an awesome life and spin 8s and 9s .Your kids more so your son will one day see through the bullshit .

CPCPub · 2016-06-06T07:47:01+00:00

Noticed you mentioned super..

are you aussie? Which part of Aus if you dont mind me asking?

Jax77789 · 2016-06-06T07:53:29+00:00

Thanks a ton for taking the time to write this up. Great insight into the female psychopathic mind.

The more I read stories like yours the more I find that you should simply walk away/ punish the moment she disrespects you. Get disrespected once and it gets only worse until you are nothing.

Lucky_Locura · 2016-06-06T07:59:40+00:00

Geeze man, reading your story just made my heart sink. That is a devastating and disgusting situation you've had to live through. It's also very disheartening to read how the government basically teams up with women to fuck men over.

All that aside, I wish you the best bro. I hope your life takes a massive turn towards the better after having to deal with that devil incarnate of a woman.

And thanks for sharing your story, it's helpful.

tldrtldrtldr · 2016-06-06T08:00:59+00:00

Sorry to hear this man. You sure those kids are yours? Get a paternity test

grewapair · 2016-06-06T08:03:21+00:00

I had a female friend go to court for custody. She had a kid with Chad, but he refused to marry her. He let her move in, but she caught him cheating and so she ended it.

However, there was no marriage so she had to leave.

However, she needed his money, and the way to get it was to try to get sole custody of the kid. That would maximize her child support, most of which, she wanted to spend on herself.

So the fake domestic violence reports are all about proving the man is unfit to raise children. They always bring it up, and they get a restraining order to prove how "terrified" they are. Their lawyers always coach them for this.

Fortunately for Chad, my friend took off before she could gather any fake evidence. If a police officer asks you how she got the marks, all you need to say is you can't imagine, or better yet, nothing. It's all an act to get as much of your money as possible.

mrp_1844 · 2016-06-06T08:10:45+00:00

Lets assume for the sake of discussion, that this only happens once out of every million (?) marriages.

That's enough for us to say, never get married.

trippinallday · 2016-06-06T08:25:41+00:00

God man, it hurt to read that. The only catharsis I had while reading it was the part where you didn't sign all your shit away to her. I hope things work out for you.

Also, maybe you could make up some bullshit about accidentally finding the texts so you could really shaft her in the divorce. If I were in your situation I'd try to figure out some way to use all that proof to fuck her over as much as possible.

darkwolfx24678 · 2016-06-06T08:31:03+00:00

Gotta be honest, I couldn't read it in one sitting. It's like straight out of a nightmare. Best luck to you man, I hope it all turns out well and in your favor.

EndowedTurtle · 2016-06-06T09:01:09+00:00

God bless you, man. Work with that lawyer of yours, and don't budge an inch with this bitch. You can do this. You CAN rise above this. You are in control. You deal the cards.

Creaturbing · 2016-06-06T09:21:14+00:00

Reminds me of my 6 year relationship with my cunt girlfriend. She treated me like shit for no good reason. Today I know that she had severe psychological problems (she has borderline personality disorder, as I have learned about a year after I left her). When I read about your experience, I feel sooo lucky that I never married her or had any kids. Thank god for that. We still have a loan together, which will run until 2020. This part I really don't like, but we don't have any contact anymore, thankfully. But I still hate reading her name every month on my bills. This whole shit just comes to show you that no matter how much you get involved with a person, always look out for your own ass.

midoriringo · 2016-06-06T09:24:41+00:00

You needed a body camera, voice recorder, GoPro or something that can hold up in court. Thanks for sharing. I will take the advice just like most others here will. Lesson learned.

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pinstrap · 2016-06-06T10:22:34+00:00

I've read some terrible stories, but this one takes the cake. It sounds like you married a legitimate sociopath.

jumpingdonkey · 2016-06-06T11:10:21+00:00

@Urbanbanger i remember a similar story like yours on here a while back, that woman also somehow had the support of her family to completely fuck over her husband.

I simply (still) cannot wrap my head around this, how can this be ? you spend enough time with her family right ? they have seen for themselves what your like, right ? then how do they believe her bullshit ?!

Unless it all has been an elaborate plan and her family was in on it right from the beginning ?!

WilliamBott · 2016-06-06T11:16:33+00:00

What a bitch.
Your lawyer is wrong. If she backed her phone up to your computer, you can look at it all you want. If you came to my house and copied YOUR stuff onto MY computer, I could not get in trouble for "breaching your privacy" by looking at it.

empatheticapathetic · 2016-06-06T11:32:33+00:00

How are you affording lifting and spinning multiple plates if you can barely afford to live?

makechangegreatagain · 2016-06-06T11:38:52+00:00

Your wife was making 150k+ and you still got divorce raped financially?

Shubrook · 2016-06-06T11:48:15+00:00

Take that pile of evidence and send it to that female cop's boss. He might be interested to read it.
Go to your local paper. Remember that for women, the worst thing in the world is public shame.

DatYute · 2016-06-06T11:51:19+00:00

It may not mean much coming from a random person on the internet, but I really wish the best for you my brother.

I literally cannot understand how a person can be like that. She is barely a person at all in my eyes.

no_coats · 2016-06-06T12:22:02+00:00

Thank you for sharing.

Not wanting to spend time with your friends, your family, and her family not warming to you are big issues and big red flags. I know this because I lived through a hellacious relationship and was a total cuck.

I can't stress this enough. I know someone reading this wants to be in a LTR or already is. Take these signs seriously, the whining when you want to go out with the boys, the bitching about going home to see your family for a weekend, etc.

Don't fall in the pussy.

Gross_Guy · 2016-06-06T12:27:30+00:00

Worth the fucking read. This was brutal but it's good to see you're making the changes you need to become the best man you can be. Don't let her fucking get away with it. Fight tooth and nail for your kids and everything else that is yours in this. Also find a way to use that planning evidence. Hire a computer cleaning guy and say they found it while backing up your stuff. Asking if you wanted to save any files before wiping your system. It's legit, and at the same time you don't breach the AVO since the back-ups have a legit reason for being found

SrrBrrGrr · 2016-06-06T13:19:10+00:00

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What is this?

UrbanBanger · 2016-06-06T13:22:48+00:00

Holy shit.

Hope you continue to progress with what you been doing in the last 6 months and more.

UrbanBanger · 2016-06-06T13:24:36+00:00

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JonathanStrange1 · 2016-06-06T13:33:04+00:00

This hits way to close to home. I wouldn't of believed this could happen 2 years ago, but going through something very similar to this, I feel you man. People laugh when I say I'll never marry again, they just don't get it.

phibetared · 2016-06-06T13:40:34+00:00

Oh man this would make a great thriller movie. Start it out about the bad evil man abusing his wife, then half-way through the movie the truth starts to trickle out....

While reading this I was reminded of "Fatal Attraction", the movie with Glenn Close that was a major hit 29 years ago. Reading gave me the same scary feeling as that movie did.

RedPillSpookyGhost · 2016-06-06T13:58:53+00:00

still thinking the best course of action is paying some guys to club your wife to death. and her family as well.

CTLS83 · 2016-06-06T14:02:34+00:00

......................................................................................

Just....

......................................................................................

Unbelievable.

You and the soldier who got married and divorced twice literally break me. I mean, I don't even know what to say to you, brother. Could you honestly say ANYTHING to a story like this?

It's so unfair. It's so, so unfair.

redsfan277 · 2016-06-06T14:11:45+00:00

Are you sure that your kid is yours?

Sounds really fucking tough man. Good luck. this is why i am super afraid of marriage honestly

Dildo_Saggins · 2016-06-06T14:20:44+00:00

And people wonder how murder-suicides happen.

MelvinRedPill · 2016-06-06T14:21:10+00:00

Thank you for posting this. It's stories like this that keep me in check. Keep me grounded as to why I need to follow TRP and not let my frame drop.

Sorry for what happened to you.

Stythe · 2016-06-06T14:30:08+00:00

This is one of the worst stories I've ever heard in here. It kills me because it seems you genuinely tried to do well and got ducked by her, her family and a every system designed to make the world move. I have no comparison that comes close, despite knowing that had my relationship with my crazy ex continued it may have ended in a similar way. I can only imagine how frustrated and upset you are.

Still, starting to lift and take up hobbies and rekindle friendships makes it sound like you're already doing the best you can. Keep it up and good luck. Or good planning, may be more accurate.

callme-roy · 2016-06-06T14:38:54+00:00

If Frank Underwood can do it...

http://legomenon.com/images/house-of-cards-zooey-death-animated.gif

newusernamereddit · 2016-06-06T15:12:07+00:00

What happens with money distribution in a case like this if the house somehow suddenly burns down?

BenjiDread · 2016-06-06T15:19:41+00:00

I didn't see you mention it, but this sounds like a textbook case of Borderline Personality Disorder. My ex was on the low end of the spectrum, but your story sounds like full blown BPD crazy.

Do some research and I'm sure you'll find the parallels quite eye opening.

yallapapi · 2016-06-06T15:21:25+00:00

Wow that's some crazy shit for sure. Just out of curiosity, did this take place in the USA or elsewhere?

UnbelievableTeknique · 2016-06-06T15:24:39+00:00

So sad to see a good cunt get taken down like that.

Don't worry, be a good person and a good father and your kids will eventually clock on and follow you. It might take a while but when they start hitting their late teens they'll see how horribly manipulative and narcissistic their mother is. You're going to come out really well from this down the line and you're still young with a good head on your shoulders.

postreformedpua · 2016-06-06T15:25:06+00:00

Oh wow and I thought I had it bad. This is living nightmare. God speed dude.

redsfan277 · 2016-06-06T15:42:21+00:00

Im not sure if these videos have been posted here before but i have recently found out about this channel and other MGTOW channels...im not saying i agree 100% but its pretty unique and out of the ordinary of what we listen from the media and everywhere. Highly suggest giving it a go and listening to these vids if you have some free time:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=A7tBwQ5-rDI

Drok_MothLord · 2016-06-06T16:19:48+00:00

I am so awestruck to read this actually happened to a man. Its like real life gone girl. This was what my fiance was turning into, I knew I dodged a bullet when I found TRP, but your story of survival really dug deep. I'm curious if all of this is because of your [previous] BP nature, the reasons I blame my failed engagement, or if she was just a horrible person. I hope everything legally ends in your favor man.

BetaCake_ · 2016-06-06T16:25:59+00:00

I lost it when you said she wouldn't have sex with you.

What for, do you need a woman in your life, if not for sex?

I'm not a super alpha yet, still improving on health and physique.

However the 2years LTR i'm currently in is going to end the second she starts pulling shit like that. Not being in the mood due to monotony, stress or actual physical pain, I'm ok with because it happens to me as well.

But the moment it becomes a pattern, she's out.

Man, I'm glad you didn't end up in jail. You definitely put your dick in the crazy and it could have ended 100x worse.

Stay strong mate, soon you'll start toying with women like its nothing, you have no idea how strong she made you with all that she put you through.

Now that you've been through that hell and back, regular shit tests will be easy to ignore / destroy / deflect / reflect.

Btw, don't let your kids know any of this, hold frame against them too because they will most likely tell her at some point.

And if that son is really your kid, spend as much time as possible with him and teach him how to not be a beta / blue pill.

We need more young alphas asap.

knightSwolaire · 2016-06-06T16:46:34+00:00

You weren't beta. You were omega. Glad you found us.

Wilreadit · 2016-06-06T16:51:35+00:00

I can't imagine for the love of God, why you did man up, bone up and fuck her in the ass till she bled, when she first showed you the cold shoulder.

blarggggggggggg · 2016-06-06T16:54:35+00:00

Check out the book "Splitting: Protecting Yourself While Divorcing Someone with Borderline or Narcissistic Personality Disorder" - I haven't read it in awhile but maybe it can help you out.

Good luck.

Kwantuum · 2016-06-06T17:17:45+00:00

It's incredible how many red flags you can miss when you haven't been awoken. Good luck with getting satisfactory custody, you'll need it.

Alpha_Centurion · 2016-06-06T17:51:39+00:00

How didn't you see how bad person she was? I can't fucking imagine.

Our kids were asleep and I asked her if I could go downstairs and clean and polish the car as it hadn’t been done in a while

You had to ask her to do stuff? For fuck's sake.

spexer · 2016-06-06T17:59:17+00:00

TL:DR Don’t Ever Get Married. Learn from my mistakes. I implore you. I'm not perfect, but i tried to be the best husband and father that I could. If you can be bothered to read this, it will show you what can happen when a woman, even your wife…mother of your kids, decides you are no longer needed

You leave out the key fact that you were blue pill beta during this experience. If you were red pill during your marriage would things be different? maybe.

(I am not sure, with how crazy this girl sounds).

But it is important to illustrate that this is what happens if you marry crazy AND be the best BETA man you can be.

Alpha_Centurion · 2016-06-06T18:07:57+00:00

How do you feel when feminists say that you are a man, and your case is a "exception", therefore you don't need any support? Hell, to a feminist it may even be your fault!

1v1crown · 2016-06-06T19:47:07+00:00

I immediately close all stories about men marrying older or really any woman thats within 3 years of the mans age since I will never make that mistake. But I will say thanks for again re-iterating that sentiment.

snogglyrogers · 2016-06-06T20:18:20+00:00

You really got the worst of the worst in this woman. I think this can happen to any man, but you seemed to overlook a lot of red flags along the way. I've been married more than ten years and still very much love my wife. My parents have been married for fifty years and they're still in love. I know TRP's hatred of marriage but it can work. Even if I'm on here ranting next year, marriage is good for raising children. It's stability and the chance to model healthy relationships. I know TRP doesn't like children either but watching them grow and develop and getting the chance to teach a younger generation is incredibly rewarding. I hope you get to see your kids more and your ex gets eaten by a shark in Bora Bora.

Ragnorabove · 2016-06-06T21:28:31+00:00

I had a similar experience with a LTR which was a long distance at first. It ended 2 months ago and unfortunately we still live together, until 29/06. I was giving everything to her, and still it wasn't enough. I plan to disappear so she can't track me, because i fear the same results as yours.

PantsonFire1234 · 2016-06-06T22:56:28+00:00

My god sometimes I wish I could warp in the bodies of one of the guys this is happening to at this time. So I could massively emotionally cunt punch the bitch for acting like a deranged psycho.

Men get walked all over for no fucking reason and their hopeless with no one to protect them but a sub-Reddit. That's like giving cancer patient nothing but a 'how do I chemo myself' manual found exclusively on Tumblr

WildmanThaGod · 2016-06-06T23:16:58+00:00

Damn man stuff like this makes my anger skyrocket, women are manipulative monsters that's for sure. I wish you the best man and I hope you do good in your future, you deserve better than that trash.

2016-06-07T03:05:43+00:00

It's stories like this that make me not want to get married. This is a fucking horror story. It always used to amaze me the depths to which women will sink to destroy someone so they can get whatever they feel entitled to. Not anymore. Good luck OP; hopefully it doesn't go to court, and keep us updated.

2016-06-07T03:05:43+00:00

It's stories like this that make me not want to get married. This is a fucking horror story. It always used to amaze me the depths to which women will sink to destroy someone so they can get whatever they feel entitled to. Not anymore. Good luck OP; hopefully it doesn't go to court, and keep us updated.

Koalasonfire · 2016-06-07T03:28:03+00:00

Christ, man. Stay strong and be happy you are going to come out of this better than you ever were. A lot of men come out worse, or worse than worse.

mirl · 2016-06-07T05:00:50+00:00

Honestly I have no idea why more men don't just fucking murder these women.

Smartly. Strangle them, ditch the phones, drive them 100 miles into the desert and get digging.

PranksterLad · 2016-06-07T16:48:01+00:00

Man, reading that broke my balls, mainly because I felt like I know what type of woman you dealt with, but not on that level or time length. Question - do we let a woman do this to us or are these women a certain breed?

trptwerp · 2016-06-07T18:03:40+00:00

This is why I don't feel bad for post wall women. They get to have their back up beta cake and eat it too, while complaining about said beta cake. But if they have no beta cake they will complain about the lack of said cake.

mehdreamer · 2016-06-07T23:54:27+00:00

It's when reading stories like yours that I understand how crucial we fellow TRP....should NEVER EVER marry... good luck for you sir...you seem like a decent good man. TRP Will give you a new start.

AtticusWarhol · 2016-06-08T03:22:14+00:00

Time to start New Game + mode. Not everyone gets that chance and sometimes become ATM slaves to a family that treats them with no respect.

UrbanBanger · 2016-06-08T20:27:03+00:00

In a relationship, compromises are important. But once you realized your bitch had crossed the line ( the points 3 and 4) , you must have left her. Thats what I'd do. Seriously, is it worth spending time with a woman who doesn't want to spend minimum amount of time with your parents?

Its simple. If your bitch doesn't like your friends then she isn't suited for you because your friends are generally those who you spend time with (drinking beer, hunting etc).

MidnightZap · 2016-06-08T20:34:09+00:00

I feel bad for the cats that will eventually end up with this psyco looney bitch. Be well brother.

boogalooshrimp1103 · 2016-06-08T23:07:42+00:00

i feel like my best friend married a woman like this. id send this link if i didnt know hed brush it off. some just like digging their own graves

ecosci · 2016-06-08T23:45:26+00:00

This is why you have sexuall options make her compete for the d, now bpd is a place to start it all lines up but the thing is these type of women seek out weeker beta men because of the abuse they unleash she will try to destoy your rep but she will be uncovered by carma this is not your fault she is a sick person and needs help fast before she starts hurting your kid(s) but some alpha is going to turn her world into a shitmess and she will beg to come back, they are famous for manipulating people so dont fall for it stay strong good luck, sorry for the kids.

gingyger · 2016-06-09T04:01:59+00:00

Just a theory.

"My wife would have 3-4 nights a week when she would be out for various reasons"

Was she cheating on you possibly, sleeping around?

"She almost seemed relieved that I accepted her advances (Massive warning sign)"

Because she was pregnant and wanted to have sex with you in time so you would think the kid is yours?

eddiae · 2016-06-06T14:03:35+00:00

you sound like such a weakling i just cant feel any pity for you, this is too much blue pill even if your mom is a blue haired feminist single mother with 5 cats you shouldnt be this pathetic, wow.

TrueFacets · 2016-06-06T11:14:28+00:00

I get soo god damn angry whenever I read something like this. I just want to samck these god damn bitches in the face when I hear something like this!!

But then I remember it is not their fault. She was unhappy in the relationship because you were a weak blue pill beta. If you were taught by society how to be a real man, all of this would have never happened! Instead they fed us blue pill lies!

One point of my mission is to teach my kids how the world and people really work and that they must work hard and be strong!!

I wish op the best outcome he can possibly get !!!

Red__Alt · 2016-06-06T12:26:16+00:00

I'm sorry to hear this happened to you. I'm glad you're doing okay.

ondasboy1 · 2016-06-06T13:21:18+00:00

Reading this makes me immensely sad...

turkishbacon · 2016-06-06T13:51:22+00:00

Honestly dude, you're an idiot. I feel bad for what happened to you but seriously, what. The. Fuck. You shouldn't be giving people advice one way or another. Like what kind of person would even let it get to that? You really only have yourself to blame, this isn't her fault at all because you let her do all of this. You let her go over a year without sex?? You allowed her to cut off your ties with friends and family. You let all of it happened. Damn bro. Just damn. I'm glad you realize this and are bettering yourself and thank you for sharing your story as a cautionary tale of what to never be like. But don't discourage people against getting married or having LTR. Some of us here have respect for ourselves and hold very tight frames. You were just reckless and in la la land. Remember this always, a woman or child will and can only do as much as you let them.

pLH2k11 · 2016-06-06T15:06:52+00:00

Reading this..pity, sadness and especially anger. Best luck to you man, i hope you get out of that shithole you're in.

helio2k · 2016-06-06T15:24:59+00:00

i wish you found this place before, no one deserves to be treated like that. but be assured that someone like me reads this and will be extra careful in the future.

I wish you all the best!

Pacman1500 · 2016-06-06T17:02:35+00:00

I have much praise for you brother, a lot of men would have folded under that immense pressure she put on you but you reacted perfectly.

mgtowmirror · 2016-06-06T17:57:25+00:00

I just want to prepare you. She will poison your children against you. Find a support group, especially of men who have been through similar. You'll need it.

Javier_Mendoza · 2016-06-06T19:47:57+00:00

These stories are way too common. Men need to pay attention and refuse to be complicit in their own mistreatment. The system wants compliant slaves, not men with pride and self respect. Stay strong.

thetotalpackage7 · 2016-06-09T20:02:56+00:00

I've heard cunt stories before but this is a fucking level infinity cunt! I read your story and have viewed most of your responses to comments and am torn between admiring your patience and calmness in the face of hell and alternatively wanted to give you a good shaking to get you to stick up for yourself.

It seems like your marriage was one long series of escalating shit tests that you failed and I realize that you admitted as much. But this woman needs to be put in her place and made to realize that you don't treat anyone like this. I mean she is a natural machiavellian.

I'm sorry, I know you say that she is a good mom to your children but this woman is pure evil and will do everything in her power to make you into the devil in your kids minds. You cannot let her succeed. Wish you the best.

jellomayne · 2016-06-13T09:44:02+00:00

If i were you, i wouldve lost control and murdered this women. Be thankful for your natural frame holding

steelerfaninperu · 2016-06-06T11:06:51+00:00

from not cooking her the right vegetarian meals

This was the first mistake right fucking here.

You don't ever LTR a vegetarian. A vegetarian has a special sort of internal piety that makes them this lofty god which looks down upon the mere meat eating mortals as uncivilized apes.

We were meant to eat meat. Look at your teeth. Meat is delicious.

Sorry for all your troubles man. The fact that her family has her back just shows you they raised her to be a cunt and probably bought every word her spoiled ass said.

EDIT: To elaborate on my non-vegetarian relationship policy: The fact is that an LTR with a vegetarian requires that you accommodate her needs. Anytime this is happening you are acquiescing power. Now that's not to say that you don't accommodate to your LTR's needs, but you do so over shit that really matters and preferably on an occasional basis instead of routine matters.

But your diet is a part of your entire life. This dictates grocery shopping, likely what YOU may end up eating. Plus it's 3x a day. It's restaurant decisions. Eating is a major part of your daily activities and being a vegetarian is a choice. And because it's a choice, it shows you that this person doesn't mind inconveniencing others.

Regardless of your motives for being a vegetarian, you are okay with inconveniencing other people to adapt to you. Thus, the world revolves more around you. And when your world revolves around hers, you see the results.

IronAndGems · 2016-06-06T12:48:41+00:00

I'm not in this whole deal. I'm not gonna spend my time reading all this theory bs. I got here by being on random.

What I will say: You just married a shitty person. I didn't even read half of this before it became clear that it's on you for making a terrible call. Don't project this away from yourself onto the supposed universal downfalls of women as a whole, own your mistake. If you're gonna marry someone, make sure they're not a terrible person.

Edit: Holy fuck storm I should have waited till I read the whole thing. If this is all the truth, you got royally screwed. It looks like you are owning your mistake. I'm not gonna delete what I said earlier because I think it's true in general but... shit. Hope you're storming the trenches now, for at least some respite (I'm guessing from context that's what "spinning plates" means...).

awmace5 · 2016-06-06T15:47:58+00:00

Even before discovering TRP at 18 I've always had the mindset, just not the articulation. I have never and will never let anyone have even a fraction of the power this woman had over you. Honestly, if you were capable of being controlled in such a way, your journey of self improvement will be a long and harsh road. I wish you the best of luck, never give up.

5foot6withoutheels · 2016-06-06T06:16:35+00:00

Women want aggression from men and they will start to show it and take it on out on the man who doesn't show it...its fucked up

Muffin-Moip · 2016-06-06T13:31:04+00:00

Hello.

First, I would like to say congratulations on escaping a terrible abusive relationship. Despite what people from an outside-looking-in perspective say, leaving an abusive partner is NOT easy, either due to the complex high emotions involved or the threats of legal or physical violence or possibly both. It can be even worse as the male victim of spousal abuse because of the negative reaction from friends and family, with a large amount of victim shaming and masculine-based arguments about why you allowed the abuse to happen.

You've been through more than a person should have to go through with someone they loved, but I'm happy that you survived and can speak about it like this.

However, reading some of the comments below disturbs me. Greatly. I frequent TRP from time to time, so I get that there is the general air of genders acting within certain roles being taken as a given. I try to take TRP philosophy to be about learning to avoid the toxic women or men that fit the negative stereotypes that go with either gender.

Women are NOT like this. Men are NOT like this. People of either gender should NEVER be held to the standards of abusers or shitty people, because everyone is different. This is especially true in the case of people recovering from an abusive relationship or family situation, because recovery is possible, and you can trust the other gender.

Men are not the sum of all of the rapists and wife beaters that exist. Women are not the total of the sociopathic abusers and manipulators.

Your ex was a narcissistic abusive bitch. You have every right to hate her and her family for the things she has done to you. But she was an awful PERSON, not an awful woman. Your children will have a hard time because narcissism and sociopathy are different parts genetic and socially learned. Your self recovery has been amazing, but both of your children will learn from her behavior as normal if around her. I speak as a child raised in an emotionally narcissistic household, a witness to both sides of the abusive relationships in my family, and as a woman who has been subject to both female and male abusive attention.

Please, continue to be strong, for both yourself and your kids. I really wish you the best, but I do hope you can trust in women again. Let her be a lesson in red flags to avoid, in both the male friends you keep and the female attention you receive. Anyone that gaslights you, touches you in any way you don't want to be touched, negs you, are people to avoid. To cut from your life entirely, even if they are one of your "plates" or friends you've known for a long time.

TLDR: Abuse sucks ass

BlueWeakness · 2016-06-06T12:32:26+00:00

Honestly I would have took her life, Simple as that. This is a tough read and actually hurts the heart knowing that you suffered this much and not only you, I'm sure there's so many Men living this story right now. Best of luck brother.

saratoga443 · 2016-06-06T10:35:37+00:00

Couldnt read your story too much beta-ness. I dont care if you were blue pilled, its not an excuse to let a bitch step on you like that. Id say you were more of a cuck/beta provider. Thanks for sharing tho and good luck with future endeavours

NewNazi · 2016-06-06T11:52:31+00:00

Such an entertaining and amusing subreddit. I feel fortunate to have discovered it.

The vast majority of men are able to have normal relationships with women. Then there are the deviants in this subreddit.

Men who despise women are those that have been rejected by women.
Women reject men when those men possess genetic abnormalities, e.g., are physically-deformed/ugly, mentally-subnormal, closet homosexuals, etc.
This is the process of evolution actively working to prevent inferior/defective males from passing on their genes and polluting the pool.
Men who are genetically-inferior/defective and unable to help the species propagate are wastes of resources and should be exterminated.

You see, your anger is both misdirected and irrational. Whereas you blame women personally for rejecting you, what's actually occurring is a process that has been in place for millions of years and is being applied to all species on the planet. Evolution weeds out the weak, the physically-malformed, the cognitively-deficient, the stupid, etc. When you get ridiculed and turned down by women, that's evolution explicitly telling you're not worthy of continuing on. Whereas OP is upset at women in general, his anger should be actually directed inwards. He is completely responsible for his failures due to his inferior genetic makeup. Women are the just the messenger. Evolution is the one sending the message.

If I were OP, I would be extremely ashamed at the thought of being one of the very few men out there who are unable to establish normal relationships with women. There aren't many failures out there, and the reason for that is that it's actually quite easy to succeed at it. Those that fail should therefore be viewed not just with contempt and ridicule, but with anger at having committed the offense of embarrassing the male gender. Simply being ostracized isn't enough because as I mentioned before, if you are unable to help the species propagate you are a waste of resources - a parasite.

OP should consider himself fortunate to live in a liberal tolerant society that allows his kind to live. During the first-quarter of the 20th-century, horror at the thought of genetically-inferior/aberrant individuals infesting the general populace served as impetus for the widespread adoption via government sanction of forced sterilization in the United States. Contemporary society however frowns upon eugenics, the result of a liberal humanist-oriented swing in social policy and lowering of standards for what constitutes a human being. Similar fuss is being made over genetically-modified-organisms or "GMO's". Moralism aside, the science exists that shows specialized breeding to eliminate genetic defects/vulnerabilities has produced zero negative long-term consequences. Why then do meninists protest the evolutionary process when it is performing the exact same actions in defense and improvement of the species homo sapien? Genetically-defective males should in fact be humbled at the thought of not having been exterminated by this point.

As a male who has somehow managed to be rejected by women, OP is an embarrassment to his gender - an abject failure who no longer serves any real purpose other than to remind other men of the dangers inherent in being genetically-defective. OP is what the Nazis termed "unerwünscht" or "undesirable". He is a deviant and a parasite who consumes resources while offering no objectively-measurable value. Those that are sympathetic to his so-called plight are those that can relate due to being in similar positions. This is why you hide in here - because the rest of society regards you with absolute contempt.

In other words, this subreddit consists entirely of genetically-inferior/defective males. Given it's large number of denizens, I feel compelled to prescribe a remedy or final solution that could essentially be described as self-inflicted genocide. Your elimination would be entirely your fault as society recognizes you as an infestation, a blight upon not just the male gender but the species as an entirety. You are a weight slowing down the evolutionary process. This subreddit serves as a security blanket for genetically-inferior males reassuring you that you are not a problem, that it is ok for you to live. This is antithesis to what the evolutionary process is working towards. If you had any sense of perspective, you would realize that you should no longer exist. It is illegal in some jurisdictions to encourage people to commit suicide, but that doesn't also mean it is morally incorrect to do so in all situations - that there are absolutely no situations for which such a call would be appropriate. This would be one of those extenuating circumstances.

Title	10 Year Field Report...Learn From My Mistakes. Learn from My Pain.
Author	UrbanBanger
Upvotes	567
Comments	441
Date	June 6, 2016 3:41 AM UTC (10 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/TheRedPill
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