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dacapatan · 2022-06-28T08:15:05+00:00

Bump her basket with yours and tell her you will need her number for insurance reasons.

ChoppedBelAir · 2022-06-28T09:52:14+00:00

I usually chat a girl up in produce. Dumb but funny questions. Grab two bad looking onions or something and ask "do these look ok to you?"

Maybe act like you have no idea what you're doing.

Or ask if they've seen X item. I can never find that. This place is a maze!

Wakka_Grand_Wizard · 2022-06-28T11:12:44+00:00

say: "fancy a game of Gwent?"

TheAceprobe · 2022-06-28T11:05:52+00:00

Lmao @ these comments, this sub is dead

surfershane25 · 2022-06-28T07:41:07+00:00

I’m not saying don’t ever approach at a grocery store, but it’s not likely going to be a high success area compared to a bar or social activity. But if you must… Wait til she’s in the fruit section and say nice melons really loud while holding some honey dews.

Total_Obligation_371 · 2022-06-28T16:28:13+00:00

Go up to her and say "excuse me, you are ridiculously cute".

I go direct almost 100% of the time regardless of scenario. Makes almost no difference from what I've seen (I used to go indirect/situational, my results are the exact same now that I go direct).

Or do whatever indirect/situational opener you want, and then after like 10-15 seconds say "I'm kidding I actually don't care about blah blah, I just thought you were cute and didn't know what to say/wanted to talk to you".

It mostly doesn't matter what you use for your opener. The large majority of factors that determine whether you will hook up with a girl have nothing to do with how you open her. Things that have a bigger impact.

Is she even available or is she involved with some other guy?
Is she even in a mood/place in her life where she's open to meeting new guys?
Is she at least somewhat minimally attracted to you?
Are you guys compatible on a personality/vibe level?
Will she flake?
If she is open to meeting someone, does she want the same type relationship you want?

All of these things are much more important than how you open her. Here's a thought experiment:

Imagine the girl you are approaching is open to meeting someone new, is in a good mood, is physically attracted to you, likes your specific personality, wants the same type of relationship you want, and actually fully intends on coming on a date. Do you think all those things could be true but because you open with a situational opener vs a direct opener vs opinion opener etc that all the sudden those things are completely negated and she now won't meet up with you?

Particular_Visual531 · 2022-06-28T08:35:15+00:00

all of these work:

"nice melons", "nice jugs of milk", "my banana is much bigger than any of those", "why are you looking in that butcher's case for meat, I got all the meat you need right here", "looking for something spicer than those jalapenos tonight", any jokes about how tuna smells, any jokes about cherries.

All of these are tried and true ways to score tons of women at the grocery store. While they are looking for the coupon for that box of cereal, women are vulnerable to almost any pickup line from a confident guy, so that means your shopping cart should be full of canned meats (sign of confidence) and lots of smelly cheeses (demonstrates you're a foreign guy with a vague European accent or that you're an artist).

Good luck with your grocery shopping! After trying all of these, let me know how it went or if you permanently switched to instacart because you were banned from the store (which is just the manager showing his weakness, they are always going to hate on geniuses like us!)

HarryDabs710 · 2022-06-28T13:57:44+00:00

Honestly I’ve found that going out with the intention of meeting a woman never works. Women can smell that shit from a mile away. But if you just go into a conversation with no expectations and see where it can go and be yourself, it’ll go a lot smoother.

Westernleaning · 2022-06-28T10:26:24+00:00

Just go up, ask her where the mayonnaise is. She'll tell you she doesn't know or she doesn't work there, then go from there. Btw day gaming shouldn't JUST be the grocery store. It's pretty much anywhere you go during your day. Approaching and speaking to people shouldn't be difficult. It takes me about 2-3 months of moving to a new neighborhood to know most of the people there on a "hey how are you" basis.

Thin_Protection5616 · 2022-06-28T07:43:09+00:00

Whatever they are reaching for, tell them it tastes terrible.

Use that to break the ice and segway into a conversation

Netherus · 2022-06-28T07:37:16+00:00

Not an expert, by far. But I'd say something situational after you get some IOI. If you're in the chocolate aisle, something like "This chocolate is too good.", poiting at a particular brand you like. You can also ask for help "Do you know where the chocolate is?". But you have to follow up on that and make conversation, otherwise, the lady will help you and move on.

theKnightWatchman44 · 2022-06-28T08:54:59+00:00

just go to her and say "hello, how are you?".

Tactical_INTJ · 2022-06-28T09:51:59+00:00

Approaching women at grocery store is really not that different from let's say in the street.

Here's an example of street conversation.

You notice this chick with amazing tattoo.
Tell her you were thinking about getting tattoos like that. Ask for direction to the nearest tattoo shop.
When she's done, ask if she's a student or something and may be what's she's doing in the town.
Casually drop that you're here with your friends and is looking for a good place to hang out. Ask for recommendation.
May be then you can ask her whether she's an outgoing person or not and proceed with "Actually Let me buy you a beer and I'll show you my tattoo." Hand her your phone.

It just takes a minute or two. The conversation is organic and natural. I mean you can't have more natural conversation than this with a stranger AND get her number.

So yeah, you can try similar pattern on grocery store. Just try and it'll come to you.

CaliGalOMG · 2022-06-28T16:25:45+00:00

I agree with others it say most people on a mission at the grocery store so I would skip it unless you get some flirtatious signs.

Also, to me if a man is picking up on women in grocery stores he’s going to do that all the time. It’s almost as bad as the guys in cars yelling at me driving or walking dogs or jogging, if they can get your number; that’s not the kinda guy I’d want to deal with.

TrueBroccoli8 · 2022-06-28T20:53:10+00:00

Here's some fool-proof lines for you:

“I just come to the fruit section to talk to random, very good-looking people that stand near it"
"We can meet here next week to talk about the broccoli if you want"
"Cotton candy grapes. They taste just like them I’m not kidding."
"It’s really just so I have a story for my sister and my niece when I see them. Because I think we’re gonna talk about the grapes."
"I’m already ruining this, so I’m just going to keep going. Do you think I could have your number"
And... then close with this.... "So..... I cooked us something. If you’re open to trying it....."

GoosedOne · 2022-06-28T21:09:37+00:00

Get a hobby instead

caleb_weston · 2022-06-28T07:28:43+00:00

The best way is to not do it at all.

Steve77307 · 2022-06-28T14:36:20+00:00

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TechnoGeek423 · 2022-06-28T13:35:33+00:00

I haven’t had a huge amount of luck with this. It’s sort of like yoga class. Lots of good looking single women, but they’re on a mission and in my experience not always in a mood to be approached.

The caveat on this is look for eye contact and especially a smile. If she holds it longer than a second, you’re in. Also you can quickly tell if a girl is taken in a grocery store. She’ll be there with her partner.

A woman alone in a grocery store is very likely single.

Happy approaching!

ghrinz · 2022-06-28T14:01:04+00:00

“Hi, those are nice melons”. Comment on something she’s browsing or in the cart.

Connect and transition to a new topic and then subtly hint ideas of meeting again and close.

HolidayCode7672 · 2022-06-28T14:06:25+00:00

wasn’t it a joke or something if someone has a pineapple face down they’re looking to hook up ? i’ve seen people with pineapples in their cart and they’re probably wondering why i’m staring . I want to say the pineapple thing but it would be more awkward so i continue .

SassyDeluxe · 2022-06-28T17:10:13+00:00

Walk up to her and compliment her appearance. After that talk about anything for a short time then ask for her number. After you get her number ask her out on text. Go on the date and she’s yours

Z0RN92 · 2022-06-29T03:35:22+00:00

Tell her she’s got nice melons 🍈🍈

lanstargaryen · 2022-06-28T17:43:32+00:00

Only 2 rules to follow when hitting on women at grocery store:

Be handsome, tall, and extremely good looking
Read rule #1

shared0 · 2022-06-28T07:34:16+00:00

Ask them what kinda milk they got.

RogerRockmore · 2022-06-28T15:00:09+00:00

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chiefchief23 · 2022-06-28T15:11:42+00:00

Are you a fan of da citrus, is one of the best openers of all time.

xanielgreen4 · 2022-06-28T17:00:48+00:00

Youtube Gavin leron

AngeloMacon · 2022-06-28T17:35:34+00:00

Just avoid any overly direct pick up attempt. Don't lead off with any kind of compliment or pick up line. Just ask for advice on how to pick a good canto lope or which beef is best for a stew... whatever the hell section she's in at the time and stops to look at stuff.

If she has a real answer continue following her lead and follow up question. If she just shrugs and says i don't know, segway into why you are asking. I'm trying to learn how to cook so i don't do take out everyday, i'm trying to go on a diet, blah blah whatever. If she finds the floor more interesting than you at that point then thank her and move on.

EthicalSeduction · 2022-06-28T18:12:44+00:00

At the grocery you don't have much time, so you need to:

Approach. (Tell the person what caught your eye about them, why they stand out.)
Have a short chat. (You don't want to bug them. Chat about what you found interesting about them and why you wanted to stop them to find out more, then let them go back to their shopping. The fact that you are not taking much of them, but freely giving them something of value (a compliment, validation of something cool you noticed, etc) without any expectations of reciprocation is what's important. You create a mini-experience that feels good to them and then leave them wanting more.
Ask if you can follow up. (State how you enjoyed meeting them and ask if it's okay to contact or write them later.)

theyuta · 2022-06-29T04:43:01+00:00

"Hey, you are very distracting so I wanted to come up and say hi."

virgo_tea · 2022-06-29T04:52:39+00:00

I worked as a front end supervisor and the most common move most men made on me was their business cards and one headshot card with the guys nickname and phone number

Solanthas · 2022-06-29T05:00:44+00:00

I've stated before that chatting up women at grocery stores can totally work. Honestly I doubt it lol

affinity94 · 2022-06-29T06:31:22+00:00

Once you approach, try this out!

Creating conversational opportunities

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