How I picked up a 10

Proffmeowingtons · 2015-08-30T21:47:23+00:00

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IANAPUA_Yet · 2015-08-30T22:39:39+00:00

How to pick up a 10: Pick up 20 other girls right in front of her.

Good work

linsanityy · 2015-08-30T21:36:40+00:00

"oh no. This is too much for the unicorn" LOL

ThrowawayPUA · 2015-08-30T19:17:57+00:00

A guy comes up and says, "hey my friend over there really wants to talk to you."...I look at the kid and say, "your friend? why are you over here and he isn't?"

ROFL

J_Dilla_ · 2015-08-30T20:42:57+00:00

Good shit but it aint much unless you properly close it. The number means f*ck all most of the time....but your game seems tight enough so good job

IamBaconLord · 2015-08-30T19:24:59+00:00

Damn son

Avicenna1 · 2015-08-30T21:16:16+00:00

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iamz3ro · 2015-08-31T05:50:17+00:00

Good post, but a comment:

Don't ever assume you got the girl because you got her number. You can say you've "bagged" her once her tits are bouncing to the rhythm of your dick entering her.

nobody2000 · 2015-08-30T21:24:39+00:00

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DontQuixote · 2015-08-30T18:41:58+00:00

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BenGunnSilver · 2015-08-30T20:28:23+00:00

How tall are you, and how are your physical looks, OP?

ultimatewpierdol · 2015-08-30T20:41:10+00:00

telling me I am sexy

texts me goodnight handsome

And that is how I got a 10 in the bag.

Step 1: Be attractive

Step 2: Don't be unattractive

seedang · 2015-08-31T08:07:43+00:00

You didn't pick up a 10, you got her number. Good start, though.

rrissas · 2015-08-30T23:28:06+00:00

For whatever reason I can't help but imagine this taking place in San Francisco. Congrats brother, keep slayin!

GJLuke · 2015-08-31T08:17:40+00:00

Honestly felt like you were maybe the douchebag here...

And to have this many upvotes just for getting a girls number who your friends of a friends with.. and to get 250+ upvotes for that.. doesn't sound like a "pickup".. You still have tons of time to experience to see if you can actually genuinely attract her.

Not trying to be a debbie downer. Just being honest.

Seemed like your whole style was making her jealous and pumping your value and trying to look cool, rather than genuinely getting her attracted to your true self.

Probably good motivation for lots of guys to read it to know that they can too.

But driving a girl home and getting her number when she is a friend of a friend isn't anything impressive at all. Surprised this is top post...

Kind of embarassing that your bragging about it and calling her a unicorn too haha.

Shows you've already built up a huge pedestal for her in your mind.

The fact that you have to write and think to yourself "I don't care" so much shows you care haha

I am almost 100% sure you're not going to be able to create genuine attraction with this girl and have it lead somewhere just by how you wrote this.

However, I do genuinely wish you the best. I hope you respect my raw honesty. Raw honesty always tends to be the best way to grow

Looking forward to an update :)

Kvmabis · 2015-08-30T21:51:22+00:00

Kill the kitty

ndatoxicity · 2015-08-31T00:04:44+00:00

I think your friend definitely helped you by giving you the social proof of that group. But great job nonetheless!! Best of luck dude. I need to become more outcome independent like you and just not be afraid of failing. Thanks for the inspiring post

Mechanickingpin · 2015-08-31T07:44:47+00:00

picking up a 10 is easy, keeping her is hard.

badcentrism · 2015-08-30T22:28:45+00:00

Good for you mate :)

iliketurtlesdurr · 2015-08-30T23:05:55+00:00

I'm guessing you're not a bad looking guy yourself

penguin_says_slide · 2015-08-31T04:32:07+00:00

Now this is a territory I haven't explored.

otivito · 2015-08-31T04:52:15+00:00

Good for you man. Reminds me of a similar story I have. It's a great feeling. The 10 asked ME for my number. Crazy. Social proof is so huge in a setting like that. I had two random foreign girls grab me to dance soon as I walked in the club (we were a group of people in LA and one of the girls in the group was a friend of a friend and a 10 whom I didn't know.) i didn't talk to the 10. I spent the night dancing and having fun. By the end of the night the 10 was like ok ok what's your number? As if to say, you win.

nomdeanon · 2015-08-31T04:57:08+00:00

You've done steps 1-3. Now the hard part comes.

Neoking · 2015-08-30T20:23:45+00:00

Dude, you are fucking awesome.

My question is, how do you pretend to not be overly interested in her without causing her to have no interest in you? I guess what I'm scared of is that I might act similar to how you did, but a girl might discard me as someone who's boring or someone who she has no interest in being with simply because I didn't initially interact with her enough.

couid · 2015-08-31T01:18:36+00:00

For the record, when I say 10... I mean 10. Like 500+ likes on her facebook picture.

I hate society.

kenkotoko · 2015-08-31T02:52:05+00:00

In an intense club environment she told you "you are sexy" and you got her number.

You didn't bag her, wtf is this thread

kepelrs · 2015-08-30T22:44:36+00:00

OP is prematurely ejaculating his pants over a girl that hasn't been bagged yet. Inb4 this goes nowhere.

You had a good night man. You did well, gamed well, and behaved alpha. Well done! Now all this glowing over the unicorn is where your weakness is showing. You needed to share, i get it. But it's weakness and you shouldn't need to.

apelican · 2015-08-30T20:51:37+00:00

hey man, wicked job. i'm interested to see how the next few weeks play out for you with her. i find with 'unicorn' like girls when you don't give a fuck on a night out like this, things fall into place and they get wrapped up in the magic. it always gets tricky afterwords, especially when i start to actually like them a bit. keep your momentum and move forward, don't get caught up and make mistakes. i'd love a follow up!

ItsMachu · 2015-08-30T22:24:51+00:00

You played that fucking perfectly. Girls want what they can't have. Great post!

magiconscience · 2015-08-30T23:19:33+00:00

sounds fake

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davevd · 2015-08-30T22:32:57+00:00

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lowflyingmeat · 2015-08-31T04:20:09+00:00

Shit man, I enjoyed reading that shit, was inspiring.....Gluck to the rest of it, update us.

haazen · 2015-08-31T01:57:06+00:00

could you elaborate on the dancing. as in how do you do it with someone else please.

mindplaybyneo · 2015-08-31T05:30:21+00:00

Then the end goal will be the hard part either you are looking for a relationship, she is looking as well, or just to smash. If you wanted to just smash just because you just got out of relationship it will be hard

nebulous_slut · 2015-08-31T06:59:22+00:00

HAHA I love this story! Can totally imagine myself in her shoes, with growing interest in this rando and watching him be entertaining to other chicks. Great job!

Also I love that she said "I'm with him." Girl's got a little chancey game there too. I gotta remember that line for myself. Thank you for sharing! <3

w4rtortle · 2015-08-31T07:04:27+00:00

ITT - a lot of people who still think it's all about looks.

TheRealYellowClaw · 2015-08-31T07:30:24+00:00

Holy shit, this thread is a dumpster fire.

OP, a tip for you, don't go into interview mode when talking to girls. Like you did witht that one on the dance floor.

Gencooil · 2015-08-31T10:14:01+00:00

Your definition of a "unicorn" is not correct, check the sidebar. She made have been a 9 or 10- but a unicorn she probably wasn't.

redpillcynic · 2015-08-31T10:56:50+00:00

Anyway I got the stuff I wanted to out there. Before I go too far in detail. The night ends great she is crushing on me, telling me I am sexy. She gives me her number and texts me goodnight handsome at around 5AM when I drop her off. And that is how I got a 10 in the bag.

No sex isn't a pick up. For more detail head to /trp

gigitygigitygoo · 2015-08-31T12:51:57+00:00

This weekend I did the opposite. I used a 10 to build social proof with other potentials. Normally I would have gone for the 10 but ultimately it was a lack of confidence that persuaded me and the fact that she hated smoking.

I ran into the 10 while approaching the bar and engaged in light conversation. She came outside for fresh air while her friends were being hounded by "douchebags". She buys me and the bartender a shot then excuses herself for a minute. She gives me a kiss on the lips and comes back a few minutes later.

I was talking with my friends in the meantime and engage when she returns. We talk for a bit more before she has to go check in on her friends.

I decided not to pursue for the aforementioned reasons and instead use the social proof to attract others interest. We were in a highly visible spot and my confidence peaking after the encounter because I didn't beat myself up for not closing with the 10...instead turned in into fuel.

This was my 2nd night out after a LTR and overall just having a great time.

Scumbag30 · 2015-08-31T13:24:39+00:00

when I say 10... I mean 10. Like 500+ likes on her facebook picture.

Can confirm. I stalked her yesterday and liked it.

BKDenied · 2015-08-31T14:03:30+00:00

I mean, it makes sense. You made yourself desirable to her by showing her that you where desirable to other attractive women.

meukow · 2015-08-31T14:39:53+00:00

Close this shit asap!!! You will fuck it up, this isn't your caliber of women, you manipulated your way to her and GJ for that but son close it asap before you fuck it up.

I'm willing to bet 100$ you already conciously or subconciously plan to show her off to your friends atleast a bit. ;) And that's how youll fuck it up. Don't you dare pedestalize her and plan dates and shit. Take her out for drinks, close it, asap.

CrushHazard · 2015-08-31T14:53:04+00:00

For the record, when I say 10... I mean 10. Like 500+ likes on her facebook picture.

LOL, sorry just had to post the funniest line. 500+ likes on her Facebook picture means a 10? Are you serious?

Sorry dude, I mean, I am sure that there is some truth to your story, but as presented it is totally unrealistic. You didn't have any neutral reactions from women, they all just threw themselves all over you even though you barely spoke. That only works in KJ fantasy land.

I've dated three models in my life. I can tell just by a woman's behavior where she is on the attractiveness pecking order. This girl that you describe is definitely not a 10 (I mean, assuming that the story has some sort of authenticity to it). A 10 wouldn't give a shit if you make out with other girls in front of her. That's 7 and 8 behavior, because 7s and 8s have something to prove to themselves. 10s have nothing to prove.

Nice work of fiction. Thanks for the memories of Dear Penthouse letters back in the day.

davevd · 2015-08-31T18:01:54+00:00

My take:

Should have banged her, how did you miss that cue? Beta move... She probably banged the bouncer all night long. However If you do start dating and it's going well, don't become clingy, play the long game. And continue to work on other parts of your life. Avoid that pedestal.

Bubba1996 · 2015-08-31T23:38:49+00:00

there was pretty much NO game here, all you did was use preselection

Bossballoon · 2015-08-30T23:02:50+00:00

Rating of the European?

TonyDAbsolute · 2015-08-31T00:56:36+00:00

It's a good story. But what if instead of ignoring the girl all night because she's hot, you flirted with her all night, got to know her, showed her a good time, took her home and banged her?

nemo3141 · 2015-08-30T22:47:51+00:00

I go to concert

JustDoMeee · 2015-08-30T23:26:54+00:00

You magnificent bastard. Also OP you met a unicorn!! Post a picture pls OP!

readonlyuser · 2015-08-31T00:14:02+00:00

This is unclear. Did you bang the 10?

Aegenwulf · 2015-08-31T10:31:10+00:00

you god damn genius, dude i havent even tried the ignore strat yet

topimpabutterfree0 · 2015-08-31T11:10:39+00:00

What lessons did you learn? What can we learn from this? What grind have you put in? What mind set are you using? Is this anyhting other than boasting? Help a brother out

hanzybeast · 2015-08-31T12:28:23+00:00

What do you look like breh. A 10 won't be interessted soo much in a ugly looking guy. You must be a model or some shit. Perfect game btw bro

clearvanity · 2015-08-30T21:45:55+00:00

I think to myself, "oh no, is this too much for the unicorn." I don't care though, remember. Fuck it.

So fucking obvious you do care mate. Be honest about it and its all good but don't act like you don't.

2015-08-30T21:13:07+00:00

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How I picked up a 10

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Title	How I picked up a 10
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Date	August 30, 2015 6:35 PM UTC (10 years ago)
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