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How-To High Value_mooness/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/10/20 08:44 PM
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How-To High Value_mooness/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/10/20 12:11 AM
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#JustLVMThings_mooness/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/03/21 01:00 AM
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#HeAin'tTheOne2021_mooness/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/08/21 06:04 PM
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RANT_mooness/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/01/22 08:20 PM
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SHOWER THOUGHT_mooness/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/09/21 03:42 AM
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SHOWER THOUGHT_mooness/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/12/21 06:57 PM
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FDS MEMES_mooness/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/04/21 02:25 PM
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FDS TRANSLATES MEN_mooness/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/08/20 03:32 PM
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REMINDER 👑_mooness/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/10/21 05:40 PM
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THINGS SCROTES SAY_mooness/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/11/20 04:14 PM
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#JustLVMThings_mooness/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/12/20 07:54 PM
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MOOD FOR LIFE_mooness/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/05/21 02:25 PM
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DISCUSSION_mooness/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/09/20 04:33 PM
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RANT_mooness/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/02/21 06:51 PM
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STRATEGY_mooness/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/08/20 05:22 PM
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THINGS SCROTES SAY_mooness/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/01/21 07:58 PM
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THINGS SCROTES SAY_mooness/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/10/20 09:06 PM
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ROAST-A-SCROTE_mooness/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/09/20 08:43 PM
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MESSAGE FOR MALE LURKERS_mooness/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/09/20 09:02 PM
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NAH, SIS_mooness/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/09/20 01:41 AM
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THINGS SCROTES SAY_mooness/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/10/20 06:18 PM
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LVM LOGIC_mooness/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/01/21 01:21 AM
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PICKME CULTURE_mooness/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/04/21 03:51 AM
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SCROTES MAD_mooness/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/09/20 11:17 PM
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THE AUDACITY OF SCROTES_mooness/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/02/21 06:43 AM
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He’s fat.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/04/22 07:12 PM
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Minimalistic, yet accurate statement. Classic.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/04/22 07:11 PM
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Queue the male surgeon about to put his hands on you. Fun fact, this study found that female patients experience worse surgical outcomes when the surgeon is male. So did this one.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/03/22 10:23 AM
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I agree but a $7k retainer definitely makes it hard to do that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/03/22 10:11 AM
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I love your writings ♥️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/03/22 12:29 AM
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They have their biological cues all messed up, they act like they have a pussy in between their legs to offer. They ain’t shit.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/03/22 07:57 PM
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Guys leave her alone she’s furfilled
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/03/22 01:19 AM
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Omg YES
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/22 01:21 PM
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Power lip omg love that 💄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/22 12:30 PM
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You don’t need any reason or justification, it’s ok to wear makeup just bc it makes you feel good♥️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/22 12:28 PM
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I wear makeup cuz it just makes me feel better. I don’t think we need any other reason to wear it. Do what makes you feel beautiful♥️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/22 12:26 PM
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I’m Iranian but get mistaken for every country in the Middle East, and India as well. Of course, they think we are all the same. After I finish telling them a bit about my country for context they’re like “oh well it’s all the same shit!!!” Like no? It’s actually not?? So now instead of wasting my breath I tell them I’m Babylonian and watch them try and put that together.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/22 12:14 PM
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I’m so sorry, I truly know how absolutely terrible that feels. I’m glad you’re out of that. It took me 2 years to be able to talk about it, I had my abortion during the first week of lockdown in 2020 and I literally thought I was going to go insane. None of my family knows, just my sister. It was the most fucked up week of my life. I am wishing you healing vibes, love yourself♥️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/22 05:17 PM
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I once let a boyfriend talk to the void while I left my phone on my bed and went to go get a snack.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/22 06:15 PM
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We don’t all come into this world with overflowing amounts of dignity and pride. Just bc you don’t understand how women end up in these situations doesn’t mean you have to get angry at them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/02/22 05:50 PM
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This was lovely, thanks for the pleasant read♥️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/02/22 05:50 PM
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Does anyone else just not believe this? Like who does this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/02/22 01:25 PM
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Just another scrote trying to justify pedophilia.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/02/22 01:21 PM
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Aye
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/02/22 01:17 PM
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I recently started saying ladies instead of girls. Feels more respectful. Of course you could still find me in the bathroom of a bar saying “girl your hair is amazing!” but that’s therapeutic lol.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/02/22 12:47 PM
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I’m so scared to marry a man.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/02/22 12:42 PM
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Oh my god he is an abuser.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/22 12:33 PM
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Same.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/22 12:23 PM
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Bcuz they suck each other’s dicks so much
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/02/22 08:58 PM
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I’m middle eastern, I hate when white guys trash talk white women to me, or say they’re more attracted to “darker” features, or say they’re looking for a more submissive woman. Also, I don’t date military vets. Hard pass. I’ve had 3 ex’s who were deployed in various parts of the Middle East and they all assumed that I must be so fortunate to have the opportunity to suck his white dick since in the parts of the countries they visited women were treated poorly. Fuck you Kevin, your white dick is g…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/02/22 12:56 PM
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At best he will begrudgingly watch the game on his phone while she goes into labor, distracted, distant, and resentful. Why does this man deserve to have offspring? I hope she asks herself that question.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/02/22 12:50 PM
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Marywania
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/02/22 06:30 PM
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I’m a WOC software engineer in FAANG and 100% agree
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/02/22 01:48 AM
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It’s bc the men cheat. You can find all the answers online or even pay for them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/02/22 01:45 AM
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I don’t wanna give my money to Reddit but here is your gold 🏆🥇🏅
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/02/22 01:43 AM
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Male coders aren’t even that good, they just have no life so they have more time to code. Ew.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/02/22 01:35 AM
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One of a handful of female grad students in my CS program, making 6-dig’s at a FAANG, don’t have an OF but can attest to the fact that my male counterparts tried to sabotage. Still got the job, bet she will too.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/02/22 01:32 AM
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Male love coaching 101: Lesson One - wash your ass, shave your face pubes, go to a dentist, use moisturizer.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/02/22 01:26 PM
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“In sickness and in health” …right.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/02/22 12:12 PM
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One huge but subtle red flag I’ve experienced in my own life is if he doesn’t react to your pain. Like if you trip and fall, or if something hits you/falls on your head, or if you somehow otherwise injure yourself in his presence and he doesn’t flinch/wince or show any emotional or physical reaction to your pain. My ex was a cold and callous dude and he was like this with me. Not even a knee jerk reaction when I would get hurt around him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/02/22 02:09 PM
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This behavior makes me feel like I’m some performative pet under constant scrutiny. It’s used by confused males who think members of their sex are the pickers of sexual partners. No scrote, you’re the only performative pet here.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/01/22 02:26 PM
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Calm down short king, I think he needs those inserts the other guy was wearing in his shoes for 2 years.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/01/22 02:17 PM
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5’9”, lil ass short king, he IS an insect.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/01/22 02:14 PM
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I hate how the reason for women to want to work always HAS to be because we need money. It can’t be because we are passionate about a cause, or want to advance technology, or enjoy being business savvy, or because we are talented artists, or gifted practitioners of our skills. No, it can’t be because of those reasons. It has to be because we want to liberate ourselves from men. I hate how even our triumphs are centered around men, as if it’s impossible for a women to want to work simply because …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/01/22 02:11 PM
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Same.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/01/22 12:29 PM
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I’ve literally always thought this. Of course it’s all scripted, the amount of money and time that goes into producing a show, they can’t take the risk of no juicy content being generated.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/01/22 06:47 PM
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BE NICE to me because my fragile ego cannot handle it when an attractive woman is bitchy (aka opinionated), crazy (aka reacts to my abusive behavior), has bad relationship history (aka has been used and abused by other men but thinking about it makes me feel ashamed for being complicit), has a history of casual sex (aka women don’t want me and I’m envious that she can get whoever she wants), has domestic skills (aka will be my mommy all the time). This is why they can’t handle attractive women w…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/01/22 07:17 PM
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🤣😂🙃🙂 That’s me rolling
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/01/22 07:09 PM
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Below average scrote wants a 10/10 baddie to fuck him bc he exercises regularly and is pursuing a college degree. Sweetie, you can’t get laid because you’re ugly and your life is dull stop whining and get a hobby ok.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/01/22 04:30 AM
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For myself I can say I went to grad school and got a high paying job and made smart investments that are paying off. I have everything I need, and then some. I have a loving family, and great friends. I have several hobbies and interests that keep me occupied. All things considered, what is a man really going to add to my life ? Most men aren’t going to enrich my life in any appreciable way. Maybe one will find me, romance me, and treat me with love and tenderness….that would be a nice addition …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/01/22 01:30 PM
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He lives with his family, that’s why he has paid for hotels in the past. Idk why he has food containers in the unit, but from what he says he still lives with his family. I think his mom probably cleans up after him at home, so his hoard isn’t showing there. Did you guys get the bit at the end there where he admits cleaning a storage unit isn’t an actual date, but going to a store, now that’s an “interactive experience”✨ What a time
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/01/22 01:16 PM
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When I caught my ex cheating on me (the other woman had no clue, I could tell from their texts) I reached out to her and explained the situation, then ‘borrowed’ his credit card and took us out to dinner and drinks at a pricey restaurant……….lol we’re still friends to this day.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/01/22 03:49 AM
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This fucking guy. What poor little innocent guy, women his own age want nothing to do with him, and he’s too old and tired to keep up with younger women. Woe is him. Poor little bébé.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/01/22 02:29 PM
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I second this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/01/22 02:22 PM
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Literally 0 valid points were made in this exchange
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/01/22 02:19 PM
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Looking at his face triggers a visceral response within me to clock him and bury my knee in his scrotum.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/01/22 03:59 PM
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The modern man is completely debased. He has lost his integrity, morality, and humanity. They are weak in character.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/01/22 03:51 PM
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Why are women still having children outside of marriages?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/01/22 04:32 AM
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I’m bringing my judgemental ass rbf to this relationship that’s what. Get it while the gettin’s good or get out sir. Serving up roasted scrotums since 1999.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/01/22 04:29 AM
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Block and delete is for me just as much as it is for the other person. It signifies that I’m moving on now and creates a sense of closure. And since when is anger shameful? I acknowledge my anger and I’m proud of it. It’s a real human emotion, and it means I know when someone is committing an injustice against me. Why does this particular emotion have to be censored? I celebrate my anger as much as I celebrate my happiness.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/01/22 03:59 PM
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If the pig wants to live like an animal, let it sleep on the floor.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/01/22 03:32 PM
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I low key hate Philip Galanes more. Scrotes gunna scrote, but Philip is justifying it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/01/22 01:11 PM
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Same here, I’m a software engineer and I make way more than him. He must really suck lol.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/01/22 04:23 PM
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She knows he’s selfish. She knows he’s a worthless deadbeat husband who hates her and doesn’t even bother to hide it. She sees all of this, she’s angry, hurt, insecure, rejected, and devalued. Yet she stays. I wish I could just shake some sense into her and give her the strength to leave. I resent the wasted years and months women give to these dirtbag shitstain self serving twat males.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/01/22 04:02 PM
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Don’t support fast fashion! Brands like shein, fashion nova, missguided, boohoo, etc are unsustainable. They treat their workers poorly, steal from designers w/out giving credit, and low quality material. Say no to fast fashion!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/01/22 04:02 PM
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Literally same and I hate it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/01/22 03:36 PM
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Porn is used to groom children, groom adults, it fuels sex trafficking, it’s a billion dollar industry dominated by white men, it’s highly unregulated, it’s destructive to the women it features, it perpetuates misogyny and violence against women, it causes ED and has other negative physiological and psychological effects on people who consume it, it damages relationships and marriages, it destroys the self-confidence of the partner of the porn user, it ruins sex and removes intimacy for the part…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/01/22 01:45 PM
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Oh my goodness hun 😞 I’m so sorry. That’s not fair. That’s child abuse. Does he still do that when you’re around him?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/01/22 01:26 PM
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Yasss I second
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/01/22 02:47 AM
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Why do men assume birth control is the woman’s responsibility? I f*cking hate that. Bitch get your tubes tied.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/01/22 01:57 AM
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One time I went on a beach date with a guy and when I took off my clothes I guess I had some hairs poking out of my swimsuit bottoms and he’s like “oh! You must’ve forgotten to shave, haha!” And I dead ass looked him in the eye and said “oh! You must’ve forgotten what grown women’s bodies look like!”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/01/22 01:40 AM
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It depends on the guy you end up dating. I’m sure there’s HVMs out there who don’t want to live with their girlfriends. Personally if my boyfriend told me he’d never want to live with me that would be a dealbreaker.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/01/22 11:02 PM
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Their internalized misogyny knows no bounds
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/01/22 11:14 PM
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It certainly is an interesting read, but I viewed it as a historical reflection piece than a self-help book. I enjoyed his take on why Marilyn Monroe and Cleopatra were so captivating, and how unattractive men like Lord Byron pulled women, and learning about Don Juan’s charm, and Franklin D. Roosevelt’s depravity. But, in my opinion, the reader shouldn’t glean too much from the book. A lot of what he describes is manipulation, bread crumbing, lying, love bombing, and honestly some of it just sou…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/01/22 03:47 PM
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Good job, with the last guy I just decided to see what would happen if I didn’t text him one day and we never spoke again 😬 I blocked and deleted after 3 days cuz I was curious to see if he would reach out…but I got the message loud and clear.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/01/22 02:44 AM
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Ty for the kind words and the hope I felt after reading this♥️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/01/22 01:56 AM
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I’m sorry he toyed with you like that, I honestly can’t say what causes them to have so much contempt for intimacy, but it certainly comes off as selfishness.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/01/22 11:10 PM
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More like be absent 🥲
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/01/22 10:41 PM
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Wow, you pretty much hit the nail on the head with his personality lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/01/22 10:40 PM
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Ty for your insightful comments, FDS depends on the experience of its matriarchs!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/01/22 10:39 PM
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Ty for your kind words and book recs, I love that we can learn from our sisters here💕
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/01/22 10:37 PM
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Good on you, that’s just ridiculous
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/01/22 09:44 PM
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I love reading so I will def check This book out. Thanks for the tip!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/01/22 09:40 PM
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💜💕 ty
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/01/22 09:37 PM
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Yeah, I think the earliest red flag I could detect was the “am I being to clingy” self doubt rumination. Maybe that’s just how it is with this type 😐
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/01/22 09:29 PM
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Aloof is not who I am at all, it’s just how I am with people that aren’t in my inner circle yet. That’s why I’m having this issue, as soon as I get to a point where I start letting them in I realize they’re not capable of deeper emotional connection 😞
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/01/22 09:01 PM
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Omg we forgot to nominate the scrote who slept in a sleeping bag on top of his sheets because he didn’t want to make his bed everyday, and he slept with a brown pillow cuz he likes brown women 😭 EDIT to add link brown pillow
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/01/22 03:50 PM
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Thank you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/12/21 05:22 PM
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Thankfully I’ve never dated a psychopath (I think), but I would imagine the biggest difference b/t the two is at their core narcissists are insecure and cowardly whereas psychopaths are not.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/12/21 05:15 PM
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Imagine marrying a man who didn’t make you have to do shit like this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/12/21 05:57 AM
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Professional programs like dental, law, medical, and veterinary school are more expensive than other programs. My sister just graduated dental school with $500k in debt and she’s definitely not the partying type.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/12/21 04:02 PM
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Actually the more I read your comment the more insensitive I realize it is. I’m sure mental health is a contributor to women ending up in sex work and here you are invalidating someone with mental health. How is that supposed to be supportive of turning young women away from sex work?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/12/21 03:58 PM
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I’m not sure where OP went to school, but in the US we declare our university majors while we are 17 years old in high school. Some of us didn’t have the luxury of parents who taught us how to responsibly pick careers, and one 30 min meeting with a school counselors is not really that helpful in choosing your life’s career. I ended up working in a field completely different from my career, because at 17 I just didn’t have the foresight to pick a good major. And btw clinical depression is pretty …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/12/21 03:54 PM
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💀
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/12/21 03:44 PM
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Aw I didn’t get one 😢
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/12/21 04:14 PM
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Just as an aside, have you seen the reunion documentary? The person next to me on the plane was watching it, and I noticed all the women look fabulous 20 years later. There were moments when I couldn’t tell if the clip was from now or the original show…the men though….holy shit. Idk all their names but the tall one Ross I think? Is the only one who could maybe pass. The other two definitely didn’t age with grace.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/12/21 05:06 PM
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So many things I’m about to Google after reading this lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/12/21 04:59 PM
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It’s one thing to do this with a secure and experienced person (even though I don’t think it works for anyone really), but to seek out someone who is insecure and exploit them like this? That’s just cheating with a pretty little bow on it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/12/21 04:57 PM
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I can see myself being married to a woman much more than a man.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/12/21 03:48 PM
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Yassssssssssasas
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/12/21 03:38 PM
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Why is this so vomit inducing?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/12/21 05:56 PM
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Exactly
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/12/21 02:32 AM
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Love this lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/12/21 08:21 PM
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🤢🤮
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/12/21 11:59 PM
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“ I was surprised that he put so much time and effort and money if he truly wasn’t feeling the connection” Don’t be surprised at this. This is how any man should treat you while trying to court you, regardless of his motives. This type of treatment is the bare minimum, even if he turns out to be a fuckboy in the end. Don’t ever be surprised at this type of treatment, expect it, you deserve it. When men don’t invest until they “feel the connection” you start seeing the coffee/walk date nonsense. …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/12/21 12:43 PM
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I didn’t have a parrot I had a cockatiel actually! I really want an African grey
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/12/21 01:38 AM
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I bet he’d also clown women for staying up late at a club.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/12/21 11:01 PM
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I’m not black, but seriously I’ve noticed a lot of black males on the internet seem to have this intense hatred and rage towards black women wtf. Some of them are super subtle about it too but I can still pick up on it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/12/21 11:00 PM
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Women have been trying to ‘go their own way’ since like 1492 BC.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/12/21 10:56 PM
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Omg your parrot lets you cuddle????? Wow my bird hated my guts lol.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/12/21 10:53 PM
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Omg that video…his wife looked like she was low key dissociated for the entire thing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/12/21 10:51 PM
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Everytime I chuckle at a comment I glance at the username and like a lot of the time it’s you lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/12/21 10:48 PM
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I used to follow him before he cheated on his wife while he was still pushing the fake uplifting women facade….guess this is what he’s up to nowadays.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/12/21 10:46 PM
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Preach
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/12/21 04:45 PM
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Men act like damsels, but call themselves knights. The dissonance is real, and we’re living in their societal-scale ego protecting projection.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/11/21 02:16 PM
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“Hi I’m looking for a female human companion pet, she must be obedient, compliant, and wear pretty dresses. I have no other standards bc I view female human companions as nothing more than dogs doing tricks for men.”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/11/21 02:35 PM
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Your sisters projecting because she feels alone in her relationship probably, and doesn’t know the difference between being alone and being lonely. I wish you the best of years with your puppy!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/11/21 02:01 AM
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Omg they love larping as chads hahahahaha I bet this dudes 5’4”, 5’5” MAX with a shrimp peepee 🤏🏼 🦐 manboobies and acne between his struggle beard hahahahaha. I doubt this dude has ever in his life had someone besides his mom cook for him. He’s just trying to impress RP losers. When will they admit they’re gay and just start f*cking other men ?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/11/21 01:58 AM
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Came here to say this
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/11/21 01:43 AM
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Of course you’re desirable without makeup and fancy clothes! I personally like getting dolled up for dates because by the time I accept the date I’ve already determined the guy is someone I want to spend time with. Dates are exciting and romantic events for me so I like to look like I’m excited to be there. Doing hair and makeup shows that I put thought and effort into the date, just like he put thought and effort into planning it. And yeah, when I like a guy, I want to catch his stare, hear a s…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/11/21 12:16 AM
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Literally same. I don’t wanna be a nurse to some old demented scrote who shits his chonies.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/11/21 04:09 PM
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Oh my god I was rolling at sashay You are legit a super talented writer! this is actually funny, unlike the drivel OP wrote Edit: OP as in the dude not the FDS poster lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/11/21 04:05 PM
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First of all this is amazing thanks for writing this. Second of all can I just say that poly people call their primary partners “nesting partners” 🤢 Like, ew, I would never want to be called that. And finally I have to say I agree with you on basically all fronts. I can confirm from my own experience that: poly people view all friends as potential partners, it’s only a matter of time before they make a move on you being poly dominates their entire identity, it’s all they talk about, and for some…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/11/21 03:15 PM
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Men used to say this to me all the time when I lived in San Francisco. Thankfully even back then I had the sense to say f*ck off. It really irritates me when they say this. So much audacity.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/11/21 02:51 PM
63

Anyone could end up dating a married man, not just me. That’s cuz men lie and they are shady. But I find it interesting that you seem to be projecting that onto me so hard, almost like you’re shifting the responsibility onto me for altering my life to make sure men don’t cheat. ..interesting.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/10/21 05:59 PM
61

I’m at a point in my life where my career is my number one priority over everything and everyone else. I would pick my job over my boyfriend, every time. So I’m not looking for a relationship or any kind of commitment whatsoever because that would be unfair to my partner. With that said I do enjoy a man’s company from time to time. I enjoy sex, I like getting dressed up and taken out for a night on the town every now and again. I like flirting with sexy men. That’s it. It’s not that deep. Just b…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/10/21 05:33 PM
11

This is absolutely true, I don’t think men can move on from love the way we can. He will always have her in the back of his mind. If he was smart he’d have made her his wife and taken care of her, but instead he treated her like crap and she inevitably left. I was in a toxic on again off again relationship with a man for 3 years, and I think I was that girl to him. To this day he still tries to contact me. Every time I left him he would get another girl within days. When we would inevitably get …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/10/21 04:50 PM
24

I like all the podcasts and even got a couple of my friends hooked. You gals are authentic, funny, witty, and smart. My only hangup is you seem to be using the term triangulation incorrectly, and you did that multiple times. Triangulation is a manipulation tactic used by one partner to further gaslight the other partner. The 3rd person is brought in as a prop to “validate” the manipulator. Here you guys were using the term to say the couple was triangulating you to exploit your insecurity, when …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/10/21 02:08 PM
10

Ya it triggered me too, I bet one look at his thighs would make me wish I didn’t have eyes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/10/21 01:42 PM
8

Um, what??
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/10/21 01:39 PM
23

When you sent him a picture of yourself you confirmed that you subconsciously want his approval. Why did you feel like you needed his validation on your looks? Why did you engage with him? Why did you even respond? Men who do this should receive radio silence from you. He tried to manipulate you, and succeeded.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/10/21 01:38 PM
6

Thx for the eyebleach
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/10/21 01:29 PM
1

Because if you hadn’t I was going to say you just just pack up and leave. They can’t do anything. Who’s the main person on the lease, you or him?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/10/21 03:05 PM
1

I mean yeah, welcome to westernized capitalistic first world countries. Everything is commodified, sex, health care, education, medicine, art, entertainment. You have to be mindful of it all the time. I think self care means different things to different people at different times. Whatever works for you. Mine used to be bubble baths, now it’s guided meditation. Both times I was targeted with ads for products that commodified the service/product. You just have to do the research and buy from cons…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/10/21 03:03 PM
1

Did you give the leasing company your social security number?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/10/21 02:47 PM
21

It happened to me too.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/10/21 02:44 PM
276

Men: we want to feel needed Women: then do something I need Men: you women are just using us!!!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/10/21 02:37 PM
8

Came here to say this lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/10/21 04:39 PM
2

Makes me so angry.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/10/21 04:35 PM
24

I find the relationship advice reposts to be sad but helpful, they remind me stay on my toes. And the crappy tinder posts are funny and also a reminder not to go back to OLD. With that said, I agree sometimes the censorship is too much here.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/10/21 01:44 PM
10

I realized it pretty early on in life, in elementary school I hated boys and thought they were a nuisance. However, in middle school something changed. I wanted them to like me, and I wanted to impress them, and I was aware of my behavior. I didn’t know why I was doing it, because no one explicitly thought my to perform for men, but intrinsically I felt I had to. This went on for many years. Finally at 27 I started to question why I felt I needed male validation. At 28 I started to change. Chang…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/10/21 03:52 PM
15

You can’t just ask about someone’s disabilities, and your boss definitely can’t tell you. Don’t do anything like that. Write a report and send it to HR, and from now on start documenting every time he makes you uncomfortable. Even a compliment is sexual harassment if it makes you uncomfortable. Record the incident, date, and time and keep a log of it. Look for and emails/texts from him that are unprofessional and keep those as well. If your company is small and doesn’t have an HR go to a superio…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/10/21 03:36 PM
34

It is literally insane that this type of advice is being given out to women. What the f*ck.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/10/21 10:27 PM
84

As long as he’s not trying to build me a literal nest lol…..
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/10/21 05:53 PM
4

Omg I’m sorry 😞
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/10/21 04:13 AM
14

Or worse, “the ole lady”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/10/21 10:20 PM
24

As a side note, I hate when men call their spouse “the wife” as if she’s not a person? Saying “my wife” signifies the presence of a bond, “the wife”….just ew. Hell no.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/10/21 10:16 PM
14

This is all too familiar for me, I’m sorry about your experience during that time. It’s so destabilizing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/10/21 08:38 PM
34

Aww thx it’s the thought that counts, I don’t want you to give your money to Reddit lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/10/21 08:36 PM
52

Agreed. It’s absolutely a bad idea to try and save these people. It’s their responsibility to go to therapy and heal their deep-seated insecurities. I just want to highlight that narcissism is more than mere vanity, thinking about it that way is dangerous because we either brush it off, or worse, idolize narcissists.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/10/21 08:36 PM
84

Yeah, and by writing narcissism off as harmless “vanity” we’re further gaslighting victims, and enabling narcissism on a social scale.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/10/21 05:51 PM
20

I had no clue who this vile male was so I had to look him up, sad to say he’s Iranian (like me), really gives us a bad name. Also, I noticed he said he was going to go on an internet break for a few weeks because it was much needed blah blah, and he posts on gab 5 days later(?) which reminded me of a specific narcissistic red flag to watch out for: The grandiose “break” from social media…it’s purely for validation. It’s no surprise he is a narcissist, but I wanted to take the opportunity to call…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/10/21 01:16 AM
18

(Puts on crime documentary)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/10/21 12:56 AM
10

LOLLLL
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/10/21 12:54 AM
55

Of course he shows me affection in different ways! He lets me scrub the skid marks out of his shit stained boxers and serve him fresh home cooked meals while he plays Call of Duty with the boys, and takes me out for coffee/mall dates and he even lets me pay the rent because he supports empowered women 🤡
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/10/21 12:51 AM
59

I’ve made dating profiles for pure entertainment, the jokes write themselves.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/10/21 12:43 AM
27

Yeah you’re definitely a girl, you’re definitely not a 5’3” scrote larping as a woman to soothe your wounded ego.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/09/21 02:04 PM
3

Omfg I’m rolling
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/09/21 04:46 AM
2

I agree with you in that it’s a term of endearment for young people. I don’t get my feathers ruffled up about it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/09/21 06:36 PM
4

Yes
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/09/21 06:34 PM
1

Lollll love this
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/09/21 06:33 PM
16

It doesn’t bother me when other women call me girl. “Hey girl, where’d you get your shoes they’re really cute!” Or “hey girl I miss you!” Or “Damn girl, get it!” It’s cute and feels endearing. Like we’re both not so different from one another. Maybe it’s generational thing? I haven’t noticed millennials or Gen z get particularly worked up about being called girl by another woman. I would feel worse if another woman called me lady. Can you imagine being drunk in the girls restroom of a club and t…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/09/21 06:31 PM
27

Ugh. I couldn’t stand her internalized misogyny long before I knew what the term pickme was. She’s so cringy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/09/21 03:54 PM
17

I’m 29 single childfree and plan to keep it that way while I grow my career over the course of the next 5 years. I use FDS to vet friends because I’m not interested in being friends with pickme’s or lvm. Sometimes you can’t avoid these people, like at work and such, so I use FDS to target the lvm’s and their enablers, and I use other techniques to emotionally distance myself from those people. I use FDS for sisterhood, I feel like I belong to a greater collective and that’s helped me feel less i…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/09/21 03:46 PM
18

I know exactly what you mean. I keep one foot out the door in every romantic or platonic relationship I have with a man. I was pouring too much of myself into it I left a piece of myself with every man I loved or had sex with. I had to stop doing that. Keeping one foot out the door is my way of protecting my soul. It’s all temporary, nothings guaranteed. We have such little time, I’m not going to waste it because some man left my life.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/09/21 03:33 PM
57

Careful with the drinking, it causes something called euphoric recall. And it lowers your inhibitions. Every time I broke no contact I was drunk. And the next day in addition to being hungover I felt shame and guilt and embarrassment. 3 days is so fresh. Please be careful❤️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/09/21 03:22 PM
32

It’s not that some women want to be with an educated man just for the sake of the degree, it’s more about finding an IQ match. Being treated well and as an equal, as you state, is the bare minimum. I expect that out the gate. I also want someone who can hold an intellectual conversation with me. Additionally, having a college degree is necessary for most high earning jobs in the US. Many women want to be with a man who has job security and financial stability, while not absolutely necessary, hav…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/09/21 05:10 AM
32

Pathetic.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/09/21 04:50 AM
15

What’s sad though is how she’s broadcasting this as “humor” to everyone. We get it, you pander to men, and..?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/09/21 05:22 AM
5

They definitely do
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/09/21 05:20 AM
86

Pfft. Once a year is too much for me. I have mental images of pornography I saw months and months ago STILL etched into my mind. If he’s watching porn once a week that’s often enough to keep it fresh in his mind such that you, a real living breathing human, will have to compete with a porn star. No fogging thanks. I don’t tolerate that shed.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/09/21 05:13 AM
19

Ugh. Women need to stop taking in strays.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/09/21 02:09 AM
15

I felt this with the Sarah everard case and the petito case. For every white women murdered by a man there are dozens of woc getting murdered, but our faces don’t get plastered on social media, our stories don’t grip the nation, our cases to get attention. I’m tired of it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/09/21 11:58 PM
3

Let’s break this down, he’s offering to cover all your expenses while chauffeuring him around. Ok…so that’s most likely going to be a tank of gas per day say $30, plus $0.17 per mile for wear and tear. Federal Minimum wage is $7.25 but double that because she has to put up with you. I’m sure she expects to work 8h days to make it worthwhile for her…so this adds up to $198 per day. He says he’s working there for 5 weeks, so that’s $4,950 in total. I’m assuming she wants weekends off, but if he wa…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/09/21 04:27 PM
51

Can we go on a field date after our chore date then go halfsies on a 10pc bby? Pls bby?!?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/09/21 03:59 PM
7

Yayyy love this
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/09/21 12:07 AM
21

Yes you are! I love telling men to fog off, I don’t give a shed if it hurts their feefee’s
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/09/21 12:06 AM
25

Omfg yeah they really do
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/09/21 12:04 AM
30

Sad but true. Porn is a dealbreaker for me too.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/09/21 12:04 AM
18

Love this
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/09/21 12:03 AM
29

Love this
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/09/21 12:02 AM
21

Same.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/09/21 12:02 AM
21

Amen sister.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/09/21 12:01 AM
63

A relationship should serve you If he wanted to, he would Support and uplift your sisters Keep one foot out the door of any relationship
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/09/21 12:00 AM
6

I stopped watching the dashcam after a few minutes of her talking to the cop because I recognized what was happening immediately. I couldn’t bear to watch the cop invalidate her and blame shift. I’ve been frantic like that, I know what that is. Out of respect for her I couldn’t watch it anymore.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/09/21 02:59 PM
2

Girl why are you flexing this??? I was the pickme type to exaggerate and boost up the dates to make them sound reasonable cuZ I was in denial. But she’s proud 🥲
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/09/21 02:49 PM
3

Same. I wish there was a place you could go exclusively for POC therapists. I know of the Association of Black Psychologist but they don’t really update their database that often. I wish there was a better resource for this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/09/21 02:36 PM
4

If she was a WOC this wouldn’t have gripped the nation the way that it did. Similarly, if Sarah Everard wasn’t white I doubt the whole world would’ve noticed. You can’t deny that. It’s true. BUT, it’s not like these scrotes care about us either. They’re just trying to derail the conversation.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/09/21 09:08 PM
14

My NVM Narcissist ex had the audacity to tell me he wouldn’t date a woman with kids even though he’s a deadbeat dad. He said that was his only deal breaker.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/09/21 07:43 AM
13

Supporting you and hoping you accomplish this goal quickly❤️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/09/21 07:30 AM
30

Idk if I’m too old for this or what but I’ve noticed most Gen Z women wear the same outfit. High waisted baggy jeans kinda like boot cut style maybe even with some cargo pocketing (for utility ?) plus crop top and sneakers and almost all of them wear their hair parted in the middle. Maybe they’re rejecting sexualized clothing? I have no idea tbh, but it was the first time I noticed so many people wearing essentially the same outfit.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/09/21 03:57 AM
34

Scrote, scrote, scrote. Scrote-y scrote-y scrote. I like saying scrote. I’ll never stop!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/09/21 03:41 AM
23

Omg this guy is a MASSIVE incel. This level of projection?!?! He can’t even contain it anymore.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/09/21 03:36 AM
53

I just know the baker was rolling her eyes the ENTIRE time shaping the fondant.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/09/21 03:31 AM
48

A whole ass meme
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/09/21 03:24 AM
2

$15?!?!?! Please. $50 per person type of joint at the minimum. Sorry not sorry💁🏻‍♀️ I don’t even want to date right now…hoping this is a deterrent (fingers crossed)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/09/21 04:30 PM
13

I was groomed on the internet and exposed to porn at 12 years old. Your strict rules protect your children.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/09/21 05:46 PM
4

💀
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/09/21 05:39 PM
53

Hmm, I guess I didn’t really consider the religious narrative on this topic
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/09/21 04:47 AM
75

Exactly.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/09/21 04:20 AM
3

Cutting straight through the bullshit to the crux of the issue, thank you. I needed to read this today.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/09/21 01:07 AM
3

👆🏼
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/09/21 01:01 AM
34

Omg I do this too lol, the A section of my phone is like Asshole 1, Asshole 2, …, Asshole 2.5 x 1072
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/09/21 09:31 PM
7

I consider her lucky, she’s free of him now, and needs to go to therapy to find the root cause of her depression.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/09/21 03:58 PM
32

With a few sentences you uncovered what the journalist couldn’t with an entire article.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/09/21 03:44 PM
2

But here’s the thing though, would you even trust that he was taking the BC? Taking it correctly? Not missing doses? I hate BC don’t get me wrong. But I’d need some assurance that he was being responsible about it. That sh*t would have to be stuck in his body lol.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/09/21 03:06 PM
18

Lol, imagine having that much time on your hands. I would have a whole ass side hobby by now if spent half as much time on Reddit as they obviously do. I recently got into making sushi, took a class and invested in some of the tools. My first roll was not very cute but I’m slowly getting better. Nigiri is actually way harder than rolls.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/09/21 05:34 AM
11

Ty
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/09/21 05:12 PM
10

What’s ENM?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/09/21 04:07 PM
3

The whole house. All 1100 sq. ft. So much room for activities!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/09/21 05:26 PM
32

My ex did this in cycles repeatedly. He would go for barely legal girls, they’d get tired of his shit in a couple of years and leave him, and he’d start over again. He’s now 38 trying to date 18 year olds. It’s tragic and hilarious all at the same time.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/09/21 05:23 PM
7

He’s absolutely hysterical! I lost my sentence after a gigantic yawn induced by his tedious prose, and didn’t finish the rest. 🥱 What did I miss? Nothing? That’s what I thought. Anywho, Reaux, Savannah, Lilith - thank you for your courage and dedication 🥂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/09/21 03:43 PM
14

This thread omg 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/09/21 03:20 PM
5

I LOVE Donna and Tom Haverford in that show. I even love Ron Swanson and Leslie Knope. The only 3 people I don’t like are Andy, April, and Anne.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/09/21 02:50 PM
19

He embarrassed himself
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/09/21 05:09 PM
10

This.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/09/21 05:08 PM
76

Visuals or thoughts that helped me move on from a long term abusive relationship: Imagine my life without him - a meaningful career, independence, my OWN home decorated how I want, my OWN car, going on vacation to the places I want to go, watching MY favorite movies, listening to MY favorite music, working out, getting healthy, cooking what I want to eat, spending MY money on whatever I want, wearing the clothes I want, and spending my free time however I want Imagine his life without me - he wi…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/09/21 05:01 PM
139

Damn. I used to think he was funny, now I’m just laughing at him. How pathetic he must feel everyday!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/09/21 04:48 PM
18

Well first of all I only date men in their 50’s cuz that’s when they peak obviously 😍 Hopefully he has a really good job like a manager at Denny’s. Bonus points if he identifies as a Daddy Dom 🥰 and if I’m really lucky he will let me watch him play video games for a few hours before I lend him some money for his charitable contribution to OnlyFans cuz I love men who support sex work 🥲 Also, I would prefer if he was short and had a tiny dick cuz those guys are always the sweetest 🥰🥰😘😘 EDIT: Did I…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/09/21 06:56 AM
4

I don’t use OLD anymore but I used to report every single one LOL.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/09/21 04:36 AM
5

Omg
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/09/21 05:01 PM
2

Can I add, don’t tell men anything that would lead them to determine how much you make. It’s not their business if you’re not married. Always downplay your job, if you’re an engineer say you’re a tech, if you’re a lawyer say you’re a paralegal, if you’re a doctor say you’re a medical assistant, etc. If you don’t want to lie, then just say you work at a firm, or you work at a clinic, or you work at a university etc. When LVM figure out how much money you make they ask you to give them loans, inve…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/09/21 01:33 PM
80

I legitimately DIED
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/08/21 12:57 AM
173

THE ROASTING WITH THIS ONE OMG GET IN LINE FOR SOME BBQ CUZ WE ARE ROASTING THIS SCROTE 🔥 🔥 🔥
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/08/21 12:56 AM
23

💯
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/08/21 09:01 PM
22

Men need to be the performative ones, they should be trying to get picked, they should be catching the bouquet at weddings, they need to be courting US with Alfredo.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/08/21 04:59 PM
6

Ty🥰
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/08/21 04:53 PM
21

I started my own retirement fund at 25, I’ve saved up $65k so far and hoping to double that within the next couple of years. I’ve also invested in stocks, and I’m going to start investing in some property as soon as I can make a down payment. My plan is to buy myself a small home in a safe neighborhood with access to good healthcare, and enough money to live off after retirement. My biggest fear in life is to get stuck marrying a piece of shit man just to have someone to take care of me. Even th…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/08/21 04:06 AM
104

Let’s stop building men up, and start dropping them off at the nearest dump where trash belongs 🚮
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/08/21 03:52 AM
18

Fuck this piece of trash
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/08/21 04:27 PM
19

It’s not victim-blaming, it’s tough love and I agree with you. Her boyfriend is an ass, there’s no doubt about that, but the bigger lesson here is she needs to become financially independent bc a 26yo making $12 per hour is not a stable situation.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/08/21 05:29 PM
100

This 💯 I’m an engineer and make pretty good money, but I don’t ever fully tell men what I do, I just tell them I’m an IT tech LOL. There is absolutely NO reason to share expenses with a man who isn’t your husband.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/08/21 05:20 PM
33

First of all, anyone over the age of 25 with fucking LEDs in their room needs to immediately remove them wtf. Second, sadly I know at least 3 woman who have done this with complete strangers they’ve met off CL, it’s scary and so sad. He will definitely find someone to take him up on this offer, and I’m genuinely afraid for her bc I haven’t seen an ad quite this bold before. And finally, I wish more women would offer up their homes rent free in exchange for work around the house from women in nee…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/08/21 04:50 AM
43

Yeah not to mention some men coerce their gd/wives into getting abortions let’s not forget them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/08/21 05:49 PM
553

He’s jerking off to porn in the bathroom.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/08/21 05:20 PM
114

Let’s start calling in and reporting men lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/08/21 05:15 PM
63

Girl, plesse.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/08/21 05:14 PM
12

I still don’t believe this person is an actual narc. Have they done their research? Yes, definitely. But a real narc wouldn’t bother helping their supply become stronger. The term “ex-narc” is a joke to me, these people don’t stop being leeches. They suck up everything that you have to give, then go get it from somewhere else.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/08/21 04:17 PM
72

I bet 100% that the laundry is her job too, and that she has to clean his nasty underwear later.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/08/21 04:02 PM
8

I did it with guided meditation, you can search “cutting relationship chords” in YouTube and you will find lots of resources
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/08/21 04:45 AM
14

My pleasure
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/08/21 12:29 AM
56

Thanks for helping me feel validated bc yesterday I felt destabilized after he attempted to make me feel prudish/immature for my stance on porn usage.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/08/21 11:02 PM
42

Haha, love the Harry Potter ref
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/08/21 10:53 PM
21

My pleasure
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/08/21 09:48 PM
97

Good for you. Porn is toxic, no woman should have to be pressured to just “put up” with it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/08/21 09:23 PM
74

How do you know they’re not just lying?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/08/21 09:16 PM
63

Hahaha nice I’d do that too lol I just need a blood sacrifice from him
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/08/21 09:01 PM
11

Ty❤️❤️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/08/21 09:01 PM
248

Thank you! I started listening to sleep hypnosis and guided meditation videos on YouTube a while back. I listen to fall asleep at night, and before I get out of bed in the morning. My favorite channels for this are PowerThoughts meditation club and Michael Sealey. They have guided meditations around detachment, and chord cutting. It’s been an amazing addition to my self-care routine. The basic routine involves visualizing the thing causing you pain, and then detaching yourself from it, throwing …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/08/21 08:16 PM
638

This was the big shocker for me. He literally could’ve had sex with a real living breathing woman and he instead chose to jerk off to his iPhone.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/08/21 08:03 PM
9

This actually makes me sick.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/08/21 04:25 PM
13

I lost what little faith I had in men after reading this. It’s insane how men dissociate abuse and violence when sex is involved. How did we get here?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/08/21 01:34 AM
1

You deserve it❤️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/08/21 11:46 PM
21

Don’t forget this 😉 only fuckboys use that
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/08/21 09:28 PM
10

What ring? I don’t see a ring ?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/08/21 09:21 PM
5

What a drama queen 🙄 $5 this never happened.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/08/21 07:57 PM
273

Maybe it’s just me, but it sounds like this woman is upset she can’t fuck her son.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/08/21 07:51 PM
39

🤢🤮 there’s some throw up for him to clean
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/08/21 07:44 PM
59

Conversely, if men truly practiced empathy and asked themselves “how would my female alter ego feel if ___” then maybe they would treat us with basic decency. I don’t know if their brains are evolved to handle this amount of introspection tho lol.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/07/21 10:44 PM
5

This explains why 50 year old scrotes out here hoe hoppin.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/07/21 03:40 PM
268

No, I don’t want to date a guy who has syphilis, yes I want my guy to go to therapy, no I don’t want him to gaslight me, yes I have a height preference. Like girl, what point actually are you trying to get across?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/07/21 03:38 PM
11

LOL. It’s always the parents with the brat rug rats who say this
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/07/21 03:28 PM
16

This shit happens ALL. THE. TIME. Marie Curies husband is the exception. Mileva’s husband is the rule.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/07/21 04:58 PM
29

I commented something along these lines once and got downvoted to hell …glad at least you got the message out
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/07/21 12:04 AM
3

💀
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/06/21 06:03 PM
5

Omg 😳 wow thx for letting me know, Fuck that!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/06/21 11:00 PM
5

Ohh like the opposite of curves maybe lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/06/21 10:32 PM
9

Edges ??
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/06/21 10:22 PM
22

He’s on steroids
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/06/21 02:54 AM
14

This article may also explain why so many narcs seem to want to “see how you’re doing” about 4 months post-discard. According to this article at around 4 months into their new relationship the new supply tends to become reluctant to continue the relationship, and so it’s probably at this point they go down their roster of ex’s looking for more supply. Hence the “I miss you, how’s everything?” text a few months later🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/06/21 06:11 PM
20

Absolutely on this. I’ve had so many bad experiences that ex-military is just a hard pass for me at this point.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/06/21 02:08 PM
6

Nowadays psychiatrists who do research into NPD estimate that it’s actually a much larger percentage of the population who has narcissistic personality types/patterns/disorders. The reason it’s such a low percentage historically is due to the fact that narcs don’t seek therapy because they don’t think there’s anything wrong with them. That’s why whatever this is dude claims I take with a grain of salt, if he really IS a narc then by definition he won’t give a fuck about helping victims navigate …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/06/21 03:20 PM
9

Ok…I had to go there and read sorry , but OH MY FUCKING GOD. I was laughing the whole time I couldn’t help it. The sheer amount of time it must take to maintain that sub! Wow! If only they put that kind of effort into their relationships! Hate is a better motivator than love it seems.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/06/21 02:28 PM
28

Going back to graduate school even though your narc boyfriend invalidates you at every chance he gets. Leaving a tough relationship and sticking up for yourself. Investing in yourself 🙌🏼🙌🏼🙌🏼
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/06/21 02:45 AM
21

Ty I kept finding this other guy that wasn’t him
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/06/21 01:15 PM
122

I wish this was an isolated incidence. There was that guy with the box cutter last year trying to cut his girlfriends subdermal birth control out. And I’m pretty sure there was another one too but I can’t remember the details right now. One FDSer actually wrote a warning post telling us this is exactly why the doctors cut the strings super short
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/06/21 01:15 PM
19

What’s his handle ?!?!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/06/21 01:08 PM
2

Would it be bad if the wife started investing some of his money and using the profits to buy herself Gucci handbags ? Asking for a friend.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/06/21 10:00 PM
22

Omega3 v2.0.1 gen8
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/06/21 09:29 PM
8

💀
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/06/21 09:28 PM
3

Same
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/05/21 02:30 PM
8

🤢
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/05/21 12:58 AM
10

OH MY GOD IM STEALING THIS IDEA THANK YOU QUEEN
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/05/21 12:48 AM
10

I can’t believe this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/05/21 12:45 AM
3

Scorpios have it bad
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/05/21 05:34 PM
2

Yes, just a couple days ago he showed his true colors, I got a coveted internship while he’s stuck with some shitty unpaid internship and he commented on my picture on Instagram “You look like you work for __” In and of itself that’s not necessarily an insult, but said company is known for being nerdy and techie so I believe he meant it as an insult
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/05/21 02:51 PM
14

Ty for the helpful tips
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/05/21 02:26 PM
15

👏🏼👏🏼
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/05/21 01:58 PM
16

May I ask, what made you ask in the first place? Was there any telling signs? Did you just have a hunch? Do you think you would’ve found him out even if he did lie? I ask because you said the sex was great so I’m wondering if there are any other signs.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/05/21 01:51 PM
23

First of all I love that you did this 👏🏼👏🏼 The one thing I wonder about situations like this, do you think he (and other men who have been dumped over porn) will just start lying from now on?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/05/21 01:12 PM
23

LOL
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/05/21 07:01 PM
24

And this right here is why I argue that narcissism occurs at a higher frequency than what is actually estimated (5%). Narcissistic people aren’t self aware enough to self diagnose like this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/05/21 06:29 PM
8

My only issue with this article is the fact that the group of single mothers who reported the least housework, most sleep, and most leisure time were those who had never been married in the first place, which makes me wonder how many of those women are wealthy enough to be single mothers. Of course, wealthy people are going to have more time for sleep and leisure because they can afford extra help.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/05/21 06:25 PM
97

I can’t believe it took FDS to make me see this double standard, but since then I can’t unsee it and it completely destroys a movie for me, to the point where I have no interest in continuing to watch it
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/05/21 06:07 PM
29

Lilith is my favorite 😊 she’s empathetic, but at the same time she gives tough love, she discusses difficult topics while using humor to take the edge off. Every time she speaks I feel so engaged. She could run the whole damn podcast by herself I think.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/05/21 09:37 PM
1

The thurst is real
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/05/21 12:28 AM
26

We should employ the same strategy men do when shirking responsibilities, let’s just start doing a really shit job at cooking, and soon enough they’ll just start doing it themselves since they’re “so good” at it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/05/21 10:37 PM
50

I would love to sit on his deck
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/05/21 04:42 PM
10

😍😍
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/05/21 04:41 PM
12

Men did feel that way about their faces, wearing makeup wasn’t always limited to women, and it still isn’t. I have bad acne scars, skin discoloration, and thinning eyebrows. Makeup helps me to improve the appearance of my skin and eyes. Makeup today also contains sunscreen and other protective compounds.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/05/21 04:19 PM
25

I don’t use TikTok because it destroys my attention span, but I think I know about what videos you’re talking about. I can’t speak to what motivates women who participate in the trend, but as far as wearing makeup goes I can give you a personal anecdote. I like the way I look with makeup more than without it, and that’s reason enough for me to wear it. We don’t have to justify why we wear makeup for anyone.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/05/21 03:57 PM
12

I hate it when women do this. She must’ve told the woman she was bisexual by accident
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/05/21 02:37 PM
19

They HATE our excessive use of emoji’s ...you know what I have to say to that? 🌟🌸✨🌺✨FUCK ‘EM✨🌸✨🌺🌟
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/05/21 02:34 PM
4

Ooo ya thankfully my friends don’t think anything of it
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/05/21 01:00 PM
12

Yayyyy congrats girly ✨✨
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/05/21 01:10 AM
7

Yay! I finally found a dumpster for all these ugly scrotes in my dm’s...here ya go hun, you can HAVE THEM ALL!!!!! ...She’s seriously bragging about being the humane society of ugly reject stray men?! I’m embarrassed for her, yikes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/05/21 09:47 PM
11

Yesssss this is goals right here 🙌🏼
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/05/21 09:31 PM
12

Yay!! Congrats
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/05/21 05:08 PM
8

I’m gonna go give a bunch of people women compliments. I’m a big fat dude, and I know it can come across as creepy or uncomfortable when I do it, I like making women feel uncomfortable because I’m creepy, because hey, random dude who’s intentions you don’t know with bad intentions. But as a chick? Man oh man am I free to say a bunch of nice inappropriate shit to people without freaking em out.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/05/21 02:07 PM
14

They’re fucking entitled bc women have preferred tall white men, they dominate media, and they promote only themselves, and they’re racist as fuck. I’ve become viscerally unattracted to white men as a result of exactly what you wrote.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/05/21 09:00 PM
7

Screenshotted this, ty🤍
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/05/21 08:52 PM
21

Oh my GODDDDD why are people so fucking extra?!?! Ty for adding the links, I did not know this was even a thing. Straight guys targeting bi women so they can slide into some kind of poly situationship is unbelievably manipulative and aggravating, as a bi woman who constantly got hit on by couples on dating apps, I feel your pain girl. I don’t tell men I’m bi.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/05/21 03:19 PM
35

WOW. That’s such a trip!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/05/21 01:57 PM
12

Can you link to an example? I have no idea what you’re talking about!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/05/21 01:49 PM
107

I think capitalism will step in and incentivize childbirth before men step up to the plate, if they ever do. As more women become educated, employed, and independent, government and industry will step in and give us benefits for having children. Probably in the form of free daycare, extended work leave, stipends, free healthcare for the mother and infant, and cheaper IVF. If there’s anything men love more than oppressing women, it’s brainless masses of consumers to keep lining their pockets.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/05/21 01:46 PM
5

The guys who go out of their way to flex like this are almost always lying about it lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/05/21 02:01 AM
18

After reading this I imagined a herd of country boys with their boots and lifted trucks and chewing tobacco coming for us like we’re helpless little bass and they’re a-goin fishing
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/05/21 01:11 AM
47

Don’t keep score scrote in marriage!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/05/21 01:05 AM
3

2.5 years with an abusive narcissist, without FDS I would probably be sitting next to him right now, wondering why he tilts his phone away from me, wondering why he can’t get hard enough to have sex with me, justifying when he cheats because “we were technically broken up that week”, wondering which dating app he’s secretly using this time, trying to see what his new phone password is, listening to him tell me that I’m the reason he cheats on me, believing that I’m the crazy one, that I’m too co…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/05/21 05:50 PM
7

💜
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/05/21 05:34 PM
1

Sounds like you need to bolster up your boundaries. Listen to her 👉🏼 https://youtube.com/c/DeborrahCooper
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/05/21 02:03 PM
77

I love this! I’m starting out as a dev this summer and I love seeing more women in tech! I have a ton of respect for designers, customers don’t buy poorly designed products, so there’s that lol.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/05/21 03:04 AM
68

I love the last one, “that’s almost right!” ...”Good job sweetie”, “almost there!”, “You’re on the cusp!”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/05/21 02:51 AM
15

1) make sure they’re not secretly married. The last woman I dated dropped the marriage bomb on me on date 3 ....”But it’s not like that! I don’t love him anymore! Our marriage is a sham!” ...bitch wtf why you lie about something that huge???? 2) Avoid women who display hot and cold behavior, bad mouth their friends in front of you (cause guess what they bad mouth you in front of someone else), or display jealousy and try to control your friends.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/04/21 09:56 PM
1

I really do love reading but jeez this authors writing is not very clear whoever she is! Maybe it’s just this excerpt? But I read it twice and didn’t get the message until looking through the comments. 😳
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/04/21 03:57 PM
15

Oh jeeeez hahah, thanks for the play by play lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/04/21 11:50 AM
68

Occupy positions of power, have a strong work ethic, advance society, technology, and humanity, educate your fellow sisters every chance you get, accrue wealth, own property and businesses, VOTE, support woman owned businesses, and for god sake STOP LETTING SHITTY MEN PROPAGATE THEIR GENETICS BY PROCREATING WITH THEM! I mean come on ladies our wombs are the gatekeeper to the next generation of shitty men! Maybe one of these superstar geneticists can figure out how to favor female sex during ivf
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/04/21 11:49 AM
20

I don’t even wanna know what the comments were saying
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/04/21 11:35 AM
4

Hey why did you have to come for orkas like that!!!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/04/21 01:35 PM
3

Damn girl I’m so sorry you had to experience that....I used to be like that too. But it went away as I got older. Now I’m almost 30, and I don’t stutter or get anxiety like that anymore. One thing you could do is not say anything at all. Show no indication of a reaction whatsoever, just look at him quietly till he leaves you alone. That really confuses people. As for me, just LET that mf come at me like that and I’ll rip him a new one. I would put his ass on blast, the entire coffee shop would i…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/04/21 02:39 PM
13

This guy was wearing a diaper to comfort his wife who was anxious about having to start wearing one. I guess she thought it was funny and recorded him and it got a lot of attention on Instagram and TikTok. It was totally wholesome, I just thought it could be used as a good meme template for some of the FDS mommy bangmaid jokes 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/04/21 10:04 PM
8

Aw
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/04/21 10:02 PM
4

Oh I didn’t even realize he spelled it right at one point omg
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/04/21 08:24 PM
10

Hahaha ty! I will try to do that more !
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/04/21 08:12 PM
13

There was an anger post made by a scrote who thought literally was spelled “littarly” and I think about it everytime someone says literally.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/04/21 07:46 PM
222

Wouldn’t hurt if he had cock, cash, and cuteness on top of all that 😏 But 💯 the 8 you mention are NON-NEGOTIABLES
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/04/21 07:39 PM
13

Ty 🥰
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/04/21 04:48 PM
307

Actually it was pretty cute, the girl recording this was nervous about having to wear diapers so her husband tried to make it easier for her by wearing one too. It was totally wholesome I just thought it could be funny as an FDS meme
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/04/21 02:44 PM
56

I’m not really funny so if someone else can come up with a better caption I’ll change it
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/04/21 02:27 PM
133

Ok let’s be real none of this happened. This guys just a fucking loser jerking off to his Chad fantasy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/04/21 08:32 AM
7

He has no chin right? Like, that’s just a puff of hair growing on his neck where his chin should be ?? So confused.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/04/21 08:29 AM
30

she will spend the entirety of her late 20’s cringing about this 💀 💀 💀
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/04/21 08:24 AM
24

Males are all about throwing around fancy words to make themselves sound smarter, but there’s rarely ever any substance. I’m more impressed when a male can get an impactful message across in a one-liner.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/04/21 08:01 PM
2

WHO IS THIS PERSON I LOVE HER!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/04/21 04:48 PM
259

“I have all these goals, none of which I’ve accomplished, actually this is the first time I’m even writing them down, nonetheless I require the perfect submissive wife who will pump out my babies even though my sperm is so old the babies will Come out fucked up”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/04/21 12:54 AM
81

Let’s bring these back ?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/04/21 03:25 PM
5

Be careful what you wish for, I trigger scrotes but they just tell on me to Reddit admin and try to ban my account lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/04/21 02:11 PM
11

There’s some hoars in this house There’s some hoars in this house
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/04/21 02:03 PM
3

Omg 5 years ok stay safe!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/04/21 10:08 PM
5

Girl be careful or you’re gunna get killt! 😳 is moving out of NYC an option for you? It’s been way more low key for me since I moved to the burbs
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/04/21 10:04 PM
15

Take a self-defense class, it will give you a confidence boost. Make sure you wear comfortable clothing, doesn’t matter what you wear, as long as you feel comfortable in it as if it’s your second skin. Men can sense insecurity on women. I don’t recommend you confront any of these men, but personally, after living in San Francisco and experiencing exactly what you’re talking about, I got fed up and started confronting them...saying shit like “Can I fucking help you?” Whenever I noticed a man gawk…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/04/21 09:45 PM
91

One time one of my male coworkers posted on Instagram that women need to be more environmentally conscious and stop using pads and tampons and instead start using cups to minimize waste. I’m like 1. Fuck you. 2. Are you going to clean the gd cup for me? 3. What about all the wasteful things males do? You should start making your own beer instead of drinking it out of a can, you should bike to work instead of driving your inefficient car, you should stop buying brand new clothes and purchase only…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/04/21 03:23 PM
54

Side note — don’t ever tell men you’re anorexic. Abusive men target anorexic women because they think it’s easier to manipulate them. I’ve met enough men who say this, and even dated one. If you still struggle with this, talk to your therapist, and maybe your best friend/sister, but that’s it. No one else needs to know. In general I don’t think us girls should open up about our vulnerabilities bc it’s almost always used as ammunition against us, even by other women. 🤍 hope you’re on the path to …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/04/21 03:16 PM
6

Could be a father and his son.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/04/21 04:24 AM
396

You should’ve given him directions to the nearest dump.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/04/21 04:07 AM
69

This is why I don’t lift a beautifully manicured fingernail for a male. Ever. F_ck him, let him get fucked up, it’s prolly another male doing the murdering anyway
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/04/21 04:04 AM
117

BD is just one of multitudes of women who engage in this type of prostitution. It’s insidious because at face value it’s NSFW and suggestive and lewd, but it’s not always necessarily p0rn. They teeter on the fence of prostitution by sexualizing every activity they engage in (gaming, taking baths, eating), short of actually having sex (on camera) for money, which is btw prostitution. This gets them masses of followers, worldwide recognition, and they become internet celebrities. But then what? Ok…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/04/21 03:51 PM
7

People in the comments going off about safe words and consent meanwhile this woman is being sexually abused by her own husband 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/04/21 03:41 AM
106

Every man I’ve been on a date with in the past 2.5 years has been a blundering bumbler or blithering baboon. So yeah, I’m done dating men.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/04/21 03:25 AM
3

Idk what country OP is from, but in the US we don’t have laws banning hate speech because it would violate the First Amendment of our constitution. So if you live here, feel free to earn your badge as “man hater”, you’re well within your rights as a US citizen to not only hate, but also to speak up about your hate. I don’t think we even have a legal definition of what constitutes hate speech to begin with. But scrotes be like, “she’s a man hater HATE CRIME REEEE111!!!”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/04/21 03:24 PM
54

Ugh. I had a conversation with a 20 year old family friend, and she’s brainwashed about sugaring and thinks it’s totally justified as long as he pays. I feel bad for the women of GenZ, they are going to wake up with a ton of trauma in a few years.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/04/21 03:10 PM
1

Wait but for real what is a natural face???? Is that not what we all have? Natural faces? Is he referring to plastic surgery? Or makeup? Or reconstructive surgery? Do braces count? What if you have headgear? Or lasik surgery???? So many questions.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/21 04:23 PM
24

Oh that coquette of a font, Helvetica
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/21 04:06 PM
86

Confidence comes with experience, experience comes with time. 20 year olds males don’t have substantial work experience, so all that “confidence” is really just conceit. The massive gap in the 20-30 age range is due to inflation of the male ego 💯
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/21 04:02 PM
108

I was banned for 3 days for “promoting hate”, while I admit, my comment was vulgar, it was definitely NOT condoning rape, violence, or promoting hate. Somebody just really doesn’t like me lol.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/04/21 03:54 AM
29

Harry, Hermione, Ginny, and Dumbledore were each possessed by lord Voldemort and neither one of them took it out on the person they loved! Granted Ginny frees a monster, but still she handled it better then Ron, who completely ditches the girl he loves in a forest hunting horcruxes where she could get into all kinds of danger.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/04/21 06:30 PM
138

The way Ron was throwing an absolute fit because Hermione wasn’t procuring gourmet meals in a timely manner for him while they were tracking down Voldemort???? Or when he got pissed after learning she already had a date to the Yule ball when he tried asking her as a last resort. He was in utter disbelief anyone would go with her. She’s more intelligent, empathetic, and resilient than he ever was yet she was madly in love with him??? I couldn’t stand Ron. He was always throwing a passive aggressi…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/04/21 02:09 PM
14

And to that I say, let them be sent 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/04/21 12:30 AM
66

Why are broke men so paranoid of being hoodwinked by gold diggers? Ummm, sir. You’re pants are from old navy and you’re wearing adidas slides as you step out of your 2009 Toyota Corolla...trust me gold diggers ain’t lookin at you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/04/21 11:47 PM
36

I almost got banned from Reddit for the same thing. Funnily enough, I’m only active on FDS. So either there is a specific word that’s automatically triggering a bot that flagged me, or someone here at FDS reported me for “promoting hate”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/04/21 09:44 PM
4

I thought I was gunna make it through but then when they started the slideshow I fucking lost it. Bless you Fred!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/04/21 03:22 PM
25

Personally I think cute names always sound more vicious, like when I get my pit bull im naming her bubbles lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/04/21 03:09 PM
14

😂🤣🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/04/21 03:06 PM
49

More than that, why do they assume we give a solitary f_ck about their opinion ?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/04/21 02:42 PM
132

Same. I look better at 29 than I did at 19, and I know I’m going to look even better in my 30’s. I see guys my own age already starting to bald and grow love handles....so idk what this scrote is talking about but I’m willing to bet he doesn’t even have that much money 😹
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/04/21 02:05 PM
4

Wait computer programming is geeky now?! I’m offended! 😿
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/04/21 01:47 PM
3

Hoboscrotes - men who pursue relationships for a place to live
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/04/21 07:57 PM
139

Here’s to another 150k 🥂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/04/21 11:16 PM
19

Girl your ex sounds so gross! Glad you left that situation!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/04/21 07:09 PM
12

Nick came from a line of NVM, remember his dad tries to sidestep him on a horse race bet to win money from off him before bouncing out of his life again? Yeah he’s NV to his core.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/04/21 07:07 PM
11

Ummm, ew? Why is this a flex? I must be missing something cuz my pussy is worth way more than the max $500 this prostitute is gunna make.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/04/21 03:48 AM
39

I just can’t not laugh at this rn. I’m sorry I know you’re being serious but a button ?!?!!!!! 😂😂😭😭💀
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/04/21 04:10 AM
152

Fucking men with tiny cocks is painful. It pains my soul. my heart dies just a little when he unzips his pants and boing goes his wee shrimp.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/04/21 11:53 PM
3

I always felt these things but didn’t know how to talk about it without sounding racist... you should read this book called Reset by Ellen Pao, she was briefly the CEO of Reddit btw. Talks about all the things you mention here.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/04/21 05:58 PM
7

Getting there ty <3
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/04/21 04:37 PM
16

I feel like as a whole we’ve transitioned away from Caucasian beauty standards for women, but for men tall and white is still the most common preference. It’s super obvious. They even know it and they capitalize on it by pumping & dumping as many women as they can. Not saying men of color don’t do this, they certainly do. But yeah, this is not the topic on which to suddenly become colorblind IMO.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/04/21 03:48 PM
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She’s calling out a trend. Tall white guys get a lot of women simply bc they’re tall and white. We’ve been socially conditioned to view this as the most attractive. While different women have different interests, tall and white seems to be the most common. (gee I wonder why 🙄) Personally I was abused by my partner who was a tall white man so viscerally I’m just not attracted to them, but plenty of women will go all out pickme for a tall white dude.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/04/21 03:06 PM
20

Littarly*
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/04/21 08:51 PM
15

$5 the short office scrote jerks off his shriveled up roid dick to you every night, men love bitches and they f_cking know it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/04/21 06:45 PM
3

Yasssssss
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/03/21 03:19 AM
148

One buzz and it’s all gone. What’s under that beard sir?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/03/21 05:25 PM
2

100%, and honestly as someone who has seen both sides of the same coin, I can tell you that being stuck with a shit man because you don’t have another option isn’t any better of an option than struggling and being poor and broke. It’s a whole new set of traumas. In the end it’s never worth it to give any of your years to a lvm. I was mostly just giving an example of why some women stay, and might feel resentful and/or depressed because of it. But regardless of what my or someone else’s situation…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/03/21 05:21 PM
4

Ty for sharing Deborrah’s channel, I love her content!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/03/21 02:49 PM
4

I’ve always wanted to live on my own and be independent, I’m 29 and I finally am now just able to. I work in an area where living costs are really high, $3200 a month for basically a studio apartment. At the same time women still earn 11-20% less than men. Pair that with costs of tuition during graduate school, student loans leftover from undergrad, and the inability to work full time in order to advance your degree so that you CAN eventually afford to be single? It’s near impossible. So yeah, w…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/03/21 01:24 PM
3

Why does living with your family into your 30’s automatically make you immature? It’s completely normal in my culture and no one gives it a second thought. I know plenty of men who live alone and 30 and are completely immature. Plus, we’re slowly coming out of pandemic, so yeah a lot of people, even in their 30’s, had to move back in with family. Some of us work in areas where rent is extremely high compared to the rest of the world, are we considered low value for not wanting to spend 2/3 of ou…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/03/21 05:59 PM
36

Ugh, this f_cking pissed me off so much while it was happening.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/03/21 04:18 PM
127

I hear a lot of “you” but not enough “I” coming from this shitstain, like: “I shoulder some of the blame for not calling out my male friends for questionable behavior” “I should support my brothers to get therapy to treat their desire to sexually assault women” “I should be an ally to women by educating myself about the things I, so clearly, don’t understand” But no. According to this f_ckface, the cause of sexual assault is far too complex for mere women to understand.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/03/21 04:08 PM
35

Just say simps are sexy and watch them start simping. Men are like fucking playdo. I swear the herd mentality is strong with them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/03/21 03:51 PM
13

I agree, I doubt twitch is doing it for the right reasons.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/03/21 03:45 PM
3

Ohh, ok, got it, thanks for letting us know, hope you get that changed soon
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/03/21 03:39 PM
24

Harvard Medical School George Washington University Ottawa University All conclude it can’t be cured. I’d rather be safe then sorry, protect children, and imprison these filthy fucking monsters.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/03/21 05:41 AM
60

Today all I wanted to do was order a tennis skirt. Literally, I just wanted to buy an article of athletic clothing, and this is what I have to see???
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/03/21 05:15 AM
3

The abs gross part is many of them go on to consume food with those filthy hands.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/03/21 04:53 AM
153

Let’s not forget jealously, pride, frustration, hatred, fear, and bitterness, all of which are big hitters in the average male psyche
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/03/21 04:52 AM
3

You got this girl!!! I believe in you!!! You deserve a man who makes you feel beautiful and loved and desirable and RESPECTED. Not some dude who can’t help but wank his peepee until it shrivels up into a crusty raisin (🤢) 🤍🤍🤍
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/03/21 04:23 AM
14

🙄 these aren’t even original anymore. Even DoMs are low effort.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/03/21 04:16 AM
11

Oh shoot really?! I know someone who asked for it lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/03/21 04:06 AM
9

I think you can request it lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/03/21 04:03 AM
9

Had to go to his insta cuz I couldn’t believe it WHAT THE ACTUAL FUCK
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/21 01:21 AM
15

I used to hate being called bossy, it made me insecure like there was something wrong with me. But I recently decided to embrace it instead of fighting it. I’m the girl who’s boyfriends always said “you have an attitude problem”, “you’re a bitch”, “you need to check your attitude before you come back over”, “don’t call me until you fix your mood”....I will never let a fucking man (🤢) talk to me like that again. I’m bossy, yeah. So what? It’s cuz I know what I want.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/03/21 06:33 PM
48

Ummm, wait where did you say you lived? Lol, I’m moving there. They just get really mad when we say we want tall guys with long dicks and fat wallets 🤷🏻‍♀️ whose cares? It’s just a preference. Get over it scrotes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/03/21 01:58 AM
5

How is this not sexual harassment?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/03/21 06:30 PM
23

I wish this was true about Elon, but one time he was giving us a lecture I was sitting in the front row and he was wearing really tight light wash jeans...and yeah. The package was not small lol. I couldn’t help looking, a billion dollar dick was sitting in front of me a girls gunna look 🤷🏻‍♀️ But yeah he’s forsure a narcissistic psychopath
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/03/21 03:55 PM
13

While this is a nice sentiment, there’s a lot going on which isn’t captured in this photo. If she’s really a venture capitalist than her life is literally a one off. That field is exceeding misogynistic, composed of only 8% women, and it’s a very hostile environment for women. It’s not uncommon to take work calls on your delivery bed. They are pressured not to have families because their job is supposed to be their first priority. I’m not entirely sure what OP is trying to convey with this post,…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/03/21 03:43 PM
5

This dude is obviously 5’4” with a micropeen, early male pattern balding, and has never received a reaction other than disgust from any woman in his life. Die mad you piece of shit incel, I know you’re anger reading all these comments because you’re a pathetic fucking lowlife with nothing going for you. 💅
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/03/21 02:02 AM
2

This literally makes me so sad. 😞.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/03/21 01:52 AM
24

This is deserving of its own post, what if you need help covering the cost of the abortion?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/03/21 08:39 PM
20

How bout we don’t shoot our shot tho since guys who don’t even like you will still seize the opportunity to f_ck you? I don’t know any happy marriage where the girl was the one to pursue the man 🤷🏻‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/03/21 04:21 PM
1

Wait, what ? How is this not male pandering? How is this any different from laughing at a bad joke to pad their fragile egos? Why would a woman have sex with a manipulator? Wouldn’t that validate his tactics even more and reward shitty behavior?? How is this FDS?! !!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/03/21 05:36 PM
19

Ok let’s see, here’s 2 1) we go out for dinner, he wants to go play poker after so I agree to sleep and hang out in the car. I end up getting sick from what I ate and begged him to take me home, he couldn’t drive cuz he was drunk at the casino, I wait 2.5h in the car while sick, and end up taking his car and driving myself home 2) he calls me to bail him out of jail for a sexual assault charge made by his work client against him, I refused to do it, but “sUpPoRtEd” him emotionally throughout the…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/03/21 10:05 AM
40

We are not passive objects, but many of us are/have been manipulated by men. Many of us didn’t know “what was up”, and many of us were “fooled into” sex. Plenty of women fall for coercion and manipulation tactics, and ARE forced into doing xyz. Forgive me for asking but what exactly are you saying? That women are not actually being manipulated into ONS’s and that we do it of our own free will??
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/03/21 05:46 AM
3

He’s too emotional for me to even bother with. Ew.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/03/21 01:51 AM
3

Honestly, being with a porn user degraded my self confidence so much that even the thought of loving a man who uses porn gives me anxiety and stress. I don’t think I could ever date a guy who watches porn. It makes me so uncomfortable it’s not even worth all the anxiety I’d rather be single 😞 this has been the biggest dealbreaker for me when dating. As soon as I find out they use any kind of porn I just lose all interest.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/03/21 04:19 AM
8

So sweet, made me smile 😊
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/03/21 02:58 AM
171

Hoboscrotes
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/03/21 02:43 AM
10

Wtf is an omega bro?????? Jesu isn’t alpha beta and sigma enough categories?!?!?! Why do they even bother with the ranking most are trash anyway.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/03/21 02:38 AM
7

Pantea was a commander of the Immortals, an elite force of the ancient Persian military known for their resilience and skill. She was respected by the men to whom she was a superior and leader. Before Islam came and f_cked my country up, it was not unusual for women to hold positions of power and earn the same as men in those positions. Even Cyrus the Great openly admitted to the crucial influence of his mother and wife during his reign.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/21 05:09 PM
2

🙊
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/21 04:56 PM
5

Yeah exactly, all the texting, and phone calls, sending pictures, videos, hanging out with them, at least prostitutes get paid by the hour. Sugar babies are getting ripped off.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/21 03:23 PM
2

Ugh.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/21 03:20 PM
53

I move we start calling it what it is, prostitution. I’m tired of phrases like “sugar baby” or “sex worker” used to describe prostitutes. All it does is make it easier for young women to con themselves into thinking it’s respectable.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/21 03:25 AM
51

Americans were willing to enter into civil war to protect the enslavement of black people. I don’t think men are going to give up the systematic oppression of women without a fight.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/21 03:17 AM
8

Yeah no thanks she’s advocating large age gap relationships gross.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/21 12:24 AM
21

Call them a prostitute (which is exactly what they are) and watch the ensuing tantrum.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/21 12:14 AM
2

I guess pickme is the wrong way to describe her, but she glamorizes hookup culture
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/21 12:08 AM
2

I like her too but recently she’s been giving off pickme vibes 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/21 12:04 AM
53

I’m on bumble BFF to make more friends, and last night I met up with a total pickme. She spent the ENTIRE time talking about how she’s constantly doing one night stands with men, and how she’s done more “dating” (hooking up) during the pandemic then ever before. And how into kink she is, and just gross stuff 🤢 Well as we were finishing up, the table of guys next to us offers to buy us a drink and I politely decline because I know there is no such thing as a no-strings-attached drink from a man. …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/21 08:38 PM
8

LOLLLLL
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/21 08:31 PM
69

I know a lot of us are laughing at this, but this scares me. This could be the beginning of murderous incel if he’s unstable and keeps getting rejected. This guy needs therapy to manage his anger before he decides to physically take it out on one of the girls who rejects him (he’s already taking it out on her verbally).
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/03/21 12:49 AM
33

I totally agree with you, but self-responsibility is the hard pill to swallow. We all face challenges in this life. I’m an immigrant WOC from a Muslim country where female degradation is legal and protected. It gets to a point where you wake up and recognize the injustice that is being committed against you, and you choose to save yourself from it. It’s not the easy path. Hell it’s probably impossible for many women to be independent, I consider myself lucky. But still, at some point or another …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/03/21 02:31 AM
24

🚩 let’s forget the elephant in the room that is his guilt for the way he treated his ex
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/03/21 02:15 AM
57

I’ll probably get downvoted to hell for saying this, but is it f_cked up that I don’t care? I just don’t care about women who want to be pickme bangmaid appliances. You wanna be a 24/7 TPE slave? Cool. Idgaf. I have an education, a career, a family, hobbies, goals, and friends. I used to want to “save” these women, but I’ve gotten to a point where my mentality is f_ck it. You do you. Cuz you better believe I’m doing me. I’d rather help women who want to be helped, then fight women who are in den…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/03/21 02:10 AM
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Yeah that’s what I’ve been saying.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/03/21 02:03 AM
3

✨savage✨
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/03/21 10:17 PM
2

💀
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/03/21 10:15 PM
7

Hah! Love your energy. Love how you’re super talented and confident and call out these talentless scrotes. I don’t know if it’s exactly the same, but I’m in tech and constantly being mansplained. Whether or not they are better programmers doesn’t excuse the condescending remarks. I once called an older guy out for it. I told him he talks too much, and to get to the point 🤷🏻‍♀️ men love to talk about themselves. I really don’t have time for it though. He was BAFFLED btw. A woman half his age, and…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/03/21 02:51 PM
12

I swear, men get off on insulting women more than they get off on young women. Lol @ the Nintendo metaphor
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/03/21 01:08 AM
15

I’m swearing off men entirely. So glad I’m bisexual.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/03/21 12:28 AM
19

Who wants to bet this guy would throw a whole tantrum if she tried to throw out his lego’s
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/03/21 07:37 PM
9

Not directly related to this post but I’ve noticed that guys who delete your conversations are probably trying to get rid of the evidence so their wife doesn’t find it
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/03/21 02:41 PM
8

Yas.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/03/21 02:28 PM
13

Girl stop explaining things to him! All this does is make them better liars to the next girl! You should’ve blocked and deleted at “Saleem”!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/03/21 02:23 PM
247

Yet 40 year old scrotes are so eager to start “relationships” with girls aged 18-25! I once had a 30 something tell me (on OLD) that I was older than his cut off of 25, but that he’d make an exception for me. 🤢 no, please don’t make that exception
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/03/21 02:18 PM
29

Because how could a woman possibly know what she wants?! Women are emotional and they have hormones! We’re better off listening to men telling us what we need! 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/03/21 02:11 PM
73

He fucks that doll.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/03/21 05:15 AM
33

I think it’s an accurate representation of what most men think, but won’t admit to thinking irl. I don’t think Reddit attracts lower value people thereby giving us a skewed representation. We ladies are, after all, are on Reddit too, and we strive to be better versions of ourselves. Nope, I think it’s just a place where they can be their true selves uninhibited. Men on Reddit are low value, men on OnlyFans, PornHub, and Fetlife are low value, men on tinder and other dating sites are low value, m…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/03/21 01:19 AM
29

My grandmother was 14 when she got married off to a 25 yo man. She had 8 boys, 8 BOYS, and spent the rest of her life cooking, cleaning, and sewing clothes. No education, no job, never travelled, never saw the world and what it had to offer, never chose what she wanted to be in life. She got stuck being a domestic slave to an old man. She didn’t get to pick her husband, she didn’t get to choose a career, she didn’t have the choice to LEARN ABOUT THE WORLD SHE LIVED IN. Her world was the kitchen …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/03/21 12:56 AM
12

Wow.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/03/21 07:41 PM
33

Too bad they don’t idolize Chads enough to actually level-up Love your username btw
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/03/21 06:54 PM
2

He’s like “wait whattt you can see me no way?!?”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/03/21 02:42 PM
4

LOL
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/03/21 02:41 PM
108

And on the off chance that incels are only surrounded by super attractive men, could I get that zip code??? I mean why is it wrong to date a sexy man? Why are Chads sooooo evil anyway? Just cuz they look good? And we’re somehow sl_ts for wanting to date them?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/03/21 02:32 PM
87

Feels like he’s just trying to get attention, but I know for a fact some guys feel this way. I once dated a guy and I mentioned something about needing to use the restroom and he got so grossed out he told me to just go take care of it and don’t talk about it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/03/21 02:23 PM
3

They think if they keep trying it’ll eventually work. That’s why breaking no contact is so detrimental, it proves to them persistency works. I’ve read, on this site, women talking about their narc ex’s reaching out after yearrsss.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/03/21 02:16 PM
2

Hahaha wow. You’re prolly right.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/03/21 12:14 AM
3

Ya
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/03/21 12:13 AM
32

I know right, the projection is strong
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/03/21 09:57 PM
38

Dick is abundant, cheap, and easy to get. She doesn’t have to do all this for dick, surely she knows that??
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/03/21 09:56 PM
5

HAHAHHA
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/03/21 05:56 PM
23

ty for posting this
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/03/21 02:45 PM
11

The whole relationship was about him. He is "dIsMaYeD" because realizes he is not at the epicenter of my life.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/03/21 02:26 PM
10

He's too much of a covert narcissist to risk ruining his reputation. I'm not saying he's harmless, but I doubt he would do anything illegal. So far he's tried to contact me by e-mail and physical mail (he doesn't have my new phone number), and I'm moving by the end of April so soon he won't know where I live either. But if it escalates to him showing up at my house I'm 100% getting a no contact order.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/03/21 02:25 PM
14

Good luck, I wish you the best, you’re about to feel some true peace🤍
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/03/21 05:43 AM
16

Girl don’t say that
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/03/21 05:41 AM
26

Ty🤍 you are going to achieve everything and more without his dead weight keeping you down!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/03/21 04:29 AM
101

Yes I already did the locks, working on the rest, ty🤍
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/03/21 03:49 AM
45

Yes I left him last year. No if, ands, or buts. One day I just packed my shit and left. No big fight, no explaining why I was leaving, he would’ve just tried to gaslight me into staying.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/03/21 03:47 AM
14

Stupid is an excellent way to describe him lol. And ty! I do them myself 😊 I bought a UV gel kit at the start of the pandemic
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/03/21 03:46 AM
32

Tyyyyyy🤍🤍🤍
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/03/21 02:22 AM
134

The cops here don’t care about cases like this. I called 911 once when a stalker showed up at my house and wouldn’t go away. The cop calls me 4h later like “sorry I was busy, hope everything’s ok” The truth is, where I live, they don’t care about victims until they turn up dead.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/03/21 02:20 AM
87

Ugh. I’m all too familiar with that cycle.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/03/21 02:16 AM
64

Exactly. If he had anything important to say he would’ve written in right there in the letter instead of trying to get me to message him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/03/21 02:14 AM
98

He’ll find another girl and leave you alone for a while, then she’ll realize how abusive he is and leave him, so he’ll reach out “just to see how you are” 🙄 any time they try to talk to you out of the blue you can rest assured he just needs narcissistic supply. They can’t stand themselves enough to be alone.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/03/21 02:12 AM
186

HAHAHAHA. This is an example of his level of effort throughout the relationship. On our 2 year anniversary, he had me pick him up from work, take him to the grocery store, sit in the car for 20 min while he bought my flowers. I swear the roses he got me were dead. I was a clown.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/03/21 01:16 AM
321

Oh I have so much evidence of his abuse and harassment.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/03/21 01:10 AM
207

^ precisely this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/03/21 01:09 AM
44

Laugh at someone’s expense, take jabs, tease, or mock
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/03/21 04:26 PM
39

Ok but what’s that last bit at the end of the article about? The solution to this is to make fun of your spouse bc apparently couples who routinely take jabs at one another stay together longer? So now on top of being a man child men who read this are going to think “ahh, I don’t have to change! I just have to laugh at her expense more!”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/03/21 04:24 PM
60

I thought the same thing till I read to the end where they claim the solution to this is to make fun of each other? Yeah, no.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/03/21 04:21 PM
24

I find it funny how the people in the comments seem to think the reason Danish women aren’t having children is because Danish men hate feminists so much that they left the country and now there’s no men to have children with? I think we all know the actual reason behind this. Women don’t want to start families with scrotes!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/03/21 12:06 AM
13

Wow that didn’t even register. She is just a walking contradiction.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/03/21 05:10 PM
18

For some reasons tradwives always give off those cult victim vibes. It’s not normal ignorance, they literally remind me of people who have been in cults
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/03/21 05:02 PM
25

The fact that she plays one of Meghan Stallions songs in the background while folding her husbands clothes 🙄 hot girl Meg is 37.42 billion times the woman she is.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/03/21 04:57 PM
6

Just admit you feel powerless for giving it up so quickly and move on
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/03/21 04:46 PM
44

Hey there is no such thing as bad publicity! If these dense redditors can recruit at least one lady from the wild then we’re in a net positive 😊
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/03/21 04:36 PM
1

Oh I see, well I hope she gets some therapy and works it out!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/03/21 03:51 PM
26

We get it dude, you’re ugly.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/03/21 03:29 PM
21

This might as well have been a page out of my own journal. I (28F) left a covert narcissist (37M). It was the hardest thing I’ve ever done, I hate how long my codependency kept me in a toxic relationship with an abuser. I’m so glad you’re out. Those first few months are hard, so many embedded emotions will surface. All I can say is don’t break no contact. I gave in and called him last year, a month after I broke up with him, and it was the worst thing ever. The abuse got way worse, I felt 10x wo…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/03/21 03:26 PM
120

Faking your entire personality is somehow a win? What a clown. Who has the energy. Side note, faking an orgasm is similar to laughing at a joke that isn’t funny. Wtf do I care if your feelings are hurt?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/03/21 03:13 PM
5

Thanks for letting me know. She was on the fence for me, sometimes her lyrics are sus. I knew she was a pickme, but I didn’t expect this. I didn’t even know she was black tbh, why is she into this kind of degradation?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/03/21 03:00 PM
10

I’ve never liked hiphop/rap specifically because of the degrading language against women. I just can’t endorse music that constantly objectifies and sexualizes women it’s disgusting. Recently though I’ve been able to enjoy music from Meghan Thee Stallion, Ashnikko, Doja Cat, Cardi B, and Nicki Minaj because they use language that empowers women. So if I do listen to rap it’s specifically from a female artist
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/03/21 11:15 PM
81

Honestly, same. I never once felt that vibe about FDS. I think it should be FLS (FemaleLivingStrategy) because that’s what you ladies represent to me anyway.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/03/21 09:26 PM
8

Hahahaha fucking loser
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/21 11:55 PM
9

She feels like a fossil 😂 poor thing. Baby, your life won’t even start till you ditch this loser
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/21 11:53 PM
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Nah it’s not fair to make that generalization. I’ve met guys who are not as strong as me and I’m sure there’s plenty of women here who could say the same. We don’t let “nAtUrE” excuses slide in 2021 🙌🏼
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/21 09:32 PM
139

Even the THOUGHT of finding out the guy I’m dating used a single penny of my money on porn or prostitutes (OF “models” are prostitutes) makes me want to vomit. Honestly most of the people I know cry misandry when I say this, but in my personal opinion a man who makes decent money is just basic. In a society where men flourish by design, a man who doesn’t earn a bountiful income is subpar. I mean come on dude. You have the upper hand in the job market, you’re more likely to get any job than I am,…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/21 04:47 PM
19

Honestly the only reason they’re better at lifting is because they do roids. If that wasn’t an option they’d probably only be marginally better. Half the guys in my city are like 5’4” wtf how’s that guy gunna be sooo much better than me
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/21 04:29 PM
33

Never have, never f_cking will. This is why I will continue to level-up till the day I die. I’ll be damned if I ever have to depend on a scrote. I’ll take his money forsure, but I’ll never need it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/21 04:42 AM
39

I bet the new girl will leave his aaa as soon as she gets a whiff of his narcissism
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/21 04:38 AM
33

He may have been cheering for years though, I wouldn’t put him past it. It’s possible he knows the other woman quite well.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/21 04:37 AM
26

That was literally the first thought that came to my mind. Give him the kids. He’s the one who’s employed. It makes no sense for her to take them when she can’t even financially support them. Totally sucks but this is why I’m never having kids.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/21 04:36 AM
18

Hope you get picked babe💕
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/02/21 06:06 PM
63

They justify their shortcomings so they can absolve themselves of any responsibility. “I just don’t know how to make you cum”, or “I don’t clean the kitchen as well as you do!”, or “it’s in my biology I can’t help it!” They play stupid or primal so they can free themselves of the responsibility of having to be a decent adult. They continue to do this because it’s worked in the past “boys will be boys”, or “he just doesn’t know any better”. The LoGiCaL sex is clinging to these baseless claims so …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/02/21 03:52 AM
28

Sure that’s why he follows them 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/21 11:24 PM
22

This literal exact thing happened to me! She invited me back to her place after dinner for a glass of wine, and honestly there’s nothing to fear with women so I went 🤷🏻‍♀️ well when I got there I noticed there was a lot of sports paraphernalia, but it was a single bedroom apt (so no roommate) so I asked “wow you really like football lol” and that’s when she decided to drop the bomb that she was married and lived with her husband who was out of town???????? You didn’t think to mention the fact th…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/21 06:43 PM
18

Why are these patriarchy pushers so adamant on decoupling kink and abuse? Why do they want to normalize abuse kink?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/21 03:50 PM
23

They’re trying to completely decouple kink and abuse. That’s the whole point. She’s a red pill pusher trying to disassociate her beloved kink with the trauma that comes with it to make it easier to swallow. The quote about boring heterosexual women in their 30’s. Fuck her. I took that personally. Not requiring a baseball bat being shoved up my ass during sex doesn’t make me boring.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/21 03:49 PM
51

It literally makes me sick. I’m bi too, back when I had OLD I would get approached by women asking me if I wanna fuck their boyfriend?????? I had to put a disclaimer on my profile that “dick is abundant, if I wanted one I’d get my own, no couples” The worst is when they coerce their girlfriend into finding the unicorn, I just feel bad for them. You can tell deep down they aren’t even happy. Idk why polyamory gets lumped into the kink sphere, and idk why being queer gets lumped into kink.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/21 03:45 PM
6

Wow you’re a badass! I love data visualization, but honestly I don’t have the mind for all the statistics. I’ll be working on the UI for cloud storage components so people who are migrating to it from traditional 3 tier architecture don’t have to do anything differently. I like Python too but recently it’s all been JavaScript for me and lemme tell you I effing hate JS.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/21 03:23 PM
9

Aww 🥺 your dad is awesome. People are total assholes in high school (many continue to be in life), I say this because I was v. overweight and was bullied a lot in high school. Believe it or not it was always boys who said mean things. Never girls. I wish I took a fem class at uni tho. I wouldn’t have dated my ex lol. It should be mandatory to take a rad fem class in uni!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/21 03:18 PM
5

Yesss! Do you program in R? I took a data mining class and it was really fun.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/21 03:08 PM
3

Oh no worries lol, think of how Kylie Jenner dresses but a bit more subdued. Honestly I mostly wear some combo of leggings and sports bra out.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/21 03:06 PM
5

Omfg 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/21 03:04 PM
7

Ugh. I bet the porn scripts would be better if you wrote them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/21 03:03 PM
31

Look into my face, for it is chiseled. Name an ocean and I will drive to it and fish for you there.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/21 06:26 AM
10

It’s all the Mountain Dew and Cheetos
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/21 06:17 AM
6

I can smell his name
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/21 06:16 AM
10

Ughh somebody link it!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/21 06:13 AM
7

If this is someone’s real experience, then I feel bad for what I’m about to say, but part of me things this is fake. It’s just off for some reason. Anyone else get that vibe?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/21 06:06 AM
86

Wow so I felt angry while initially reading this, but after finishing now I’m just sad. That’s a legit dick thing to do to your wife an family! My ex used to walk wayyy faster than me, he would even complain about how slow I walked. I never acknowledged it then, but now that I think about it, he was neglecting me. I’m glad you didn’t cook in that car, thankfully your mom had it together.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/21 05:58 AM
32

Ugh. Female engineer?!?! That’s a joke right? We’re too emotional. We have too many hormones /s
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/21 05:51 AM
8

So this is the adult version of “oh he’s mean to you cuZ he has a crush on you”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/21 05:49 AM
11

I mean have they not heard of nurses, doctors, writers, freelance workers, retail, RETAIL???? I MEAN THESE DUDES ARE THEMSELVES WORKING IN RETAIL SO HOW HAVE THEY NOT NORMALIZED THE CONCEPT OF AN ATYPICAL WORK SCHEDULE?!?!?!?!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/21 05:48 AM
11

Yes, definitely going to start going by something more common now. Honestly it would make my life easier since I constantly have to repeat my name, then spell it, then tell them what my nationality is, then what it means, yes I’m fluent, no I don’t have an accent,....and the same questions over and over and over again.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/21 05:45 AM
6

Lolll no prob!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/21 05:41 AM
6

YAS. This energy right here 👆🏼
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/21 05:40 AM
7

Wow, actually thank you for telling me this. I have a very unusual name so if you did a Google search I would be in the first page. I absolutely hate sctotes who hit on you on linked in like wtf.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/21 04:10 AM
22

Wow so they start being nice once they realize you’re attractive? Like where was the kindness before? Imagine if I was rude to ugly men. They’d have a fucking meltdown.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/21 04:07 AM
19

I would say workout leggings, sports bra, cardigan, nice bag, typical Kylie Jenner loungewear I guess you could say.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/21 04:04 AM
19

Wow. The fucking ignorance.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/21 04:02 AM
15

Wow. Sad truth.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/21 04:01 AM
30

Exactly, like why such personal questions??
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/21 01:06 AM
14

Screen shotted this. Thank you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/02/21 03:59 PM
15

The pillow is a pregnancy hazard.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/02/21 01:22 AM
5

In a world of sheep, he is a wolf. Line up ladies, this ones gunna be off the shelf soon.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/02/21 01:18 AM
5

I LIKE BROWN WOMEN SO I GOT A BROWN PILLOW.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/02/21 01:17 AM
17

They really want to believe that we “secretly” love abusive and non-consensual sex
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/02/21 01:14 AM
61

Demand multiple wipes!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/02/21 01:11 AM
6

Don’t forget the syrup!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/21 10:16 PM
20

Wow I’m sorry for your loss😞 It’s situations like these that make me wonder why some people stay for so long. 10, 20, 30 years. Is it denial? Maybe ignorance? Do they know there’s more to life than a cycle of toxic co-dependency? So much wasted.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/21 10:14 PM
17

Exhibit A: I give you a covert narcissist. This is textbook narcissism, this is emotional abuse, this is manipulation and victim blaming and abuse via withholding. They make you feel like you’re in charge of managing their mood. If their mood becomes sour, it’s because of you. You did something wrong. They decide whether or not you have the right to be offended. Fuck getting caught up in the narcs abuse cycle. EDIT: they will do this forever. They won’t change. They may promise to change, but th…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/21 02:03 PM
15

“we need to understand why a system that purports to be ‘tough on sexual violence’ is fundamentally anti-feminist” WHAT.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/21 03:58 AM
35

Men are incapable of just shutting the fuck up For some unknown reason they think we give a shit about what comes out of their yapping face holes?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/21 01:37 AM
19

Who hurt you? /s
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/21 06:08 AM
24

I love her!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/21 05:57 AM
19

Trust me, if the situation was reversed, he wouldn’t entertain you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/02/21 09:12 PM
20

My moms a pickme 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/02/21 09:02 PM
285

Do men ever just shut the fuck up? Like seriously. You ever look at a guy and think do you ever stop complaining?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/02/21 08:57 PM
36

I’m 5’3” too but back when I had OLD I rounded my height up to 5’8” because 1) if scrotes can round up their height so can I 2) this deterred short scrotes from lying (does it tho?) 3) I wear heels on dates anyway
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/21 09:24 PM
31

If only black women and/or fat women no longer had to deal with these scrotes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/21 08:18 PM
186

Girl, He’s not even 5’10” look how small he is he fits on the whole frame he’s prolly 5’6”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/21 08:16 PM
59

Imagine if a woman wrote this on her OLD profile
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/21 08:15 PM
95

5’6”* they always add inches. Any guy who’s actually 5’10” rounds up to 6’
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/21 08:14 PM
31

Here’s Monica Belluci now for anyone who’s curious. She definitely aged more gracefully than he did.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/21 08:12 PM
21

It’s definitely true. Abusers target insecure women they can easily manipulate. They are less likely to pursue a confident woman who enforces boundaries and knows her worth because using her will take more effort. Meanwhile an insecure woman is an easy target. My ex-abuser told me he would go after women who were shy, quiet, isolated, young, and uneducated. Of course I was not shy, quiet, uneducated, or isolated and he still targeted me, so at the end of the day anyone can be the victim of an ab…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/21 04:23 PM
43

Dead ☠️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/21 05:24 AM
122

I was in a relationship like that for 8 years. Had to move back in with my parents while I built myself up. It was a difficult period of time but now I’ve never been happier. She will not regret this, and in 6 months she’ll post another video looking like a different person.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/02/21 04:42 PM
18

I agree, it should be life, but don’t worry he’ll get what’s coming to him. As soon as they get wind of what he’s locked up for the guards will look the other way as other inmates rape and brutalize him. If we’re lucky he will die in that cell.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/02/21 03:59 PM
6

Idk I kinda disagree with you. I’ve grown up in America and everyone that I’ve knows who’s gotten married has split the cost of the wedding pretty even between families. Marriage is a scam, but not for this reason.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/02/21 10:06 PM
26

Aww poor bby is so tired time for a nappy poo
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/02/21 06:08 AM
2

100% pickme.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/02/21 01:30 AM
0

This is the pill that’s hard to swallow.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/02/21 01:18 AM
7

LOL. Bulls eye.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/02/21 01:14 AM
36

On that hill with you babe
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/02/21 01:09 AM
8

They’re all disgusting and I bet she WAS a prostitute. Who would fuck him for free? Ew. The way he speaks is disgusting let alone his pathetic appearance.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/02/21 03:33 PM
6

☠️ Dig a hole and throw me in it cuz I’m absolutely dead 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/21 09:01 PM
6

99.9999999999999%
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/21 09:00 PM
1

Please help me stop laughing I can’t breathe
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/21 08:57 PM
8

Love how the responsibility to stop catcalling is placed upon the woman 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/21 08:48 PM
24

This is why I don’t compliment men. Oh, and by his own logic, ugly men should stop complimenting me because I’m not attracted to them. So, for all the short, fat, and balding lurkers with DeathGrip™️ dicks out there, kindly insert your foot into your incessant chin-wagging face pocket.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/21 04:27 PM
15

Dorito dust lagoon mf 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/21 04:20 PM
6

F_ck Joe Rogan
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/21 07:47 AM
34

I found out my ex was cheating on me and I suspected the other woman didn’t know so I reached out to her. She had no clue and felt terribly guilty for hurting me, but she wasn’t the one at fault. He was. I stole his credit card and took her out to a super expensive dinner during which I sent him pictures of her and I together. We both dumped him. She and I are still friends.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/02/21 01:34 AM
6

What the hell? So attractive guys can do whatever they want? Nah, sis. This ain’t it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/02/21 01:18 AM
23

I already see clowns everywhere
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/02/21 03:37 AM
7

Yes it’s time for an upgrade, HumanMale 2.0 lots of bug fixes- Fixed ears And there’s a new feature, They now wash their asses !
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/02/21 03:54 PM
90

That 2021 energy taste different ☺️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/02/21 03:35 PM
36

More like jerking each other off. Which is what this man will resort to when he realizes women still don’t find him interesting.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/02/21 03:17 AM
57

Actually they’re starting to call themselves “sigmas” now. They’re essentially like “alphas” except they’re cooler cuz they don’t care about status. the new “sigma” male
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/02/21 03:15 AM
105

Oh no! However will he manage the legions of women who are going to start throwing themselves at his feet?!? 🙄 Please. Where do they get the confidence? I bet he’s an absolute eyesore of a man.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/02/21 03:10 AM
17

“Even the clean ones don’t have a mattress pad” is a great way to describe how I feel about men these days LOL
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/02/21 08:59 PM
5

F_ck this guy. I’ve seen his posts before. He ain’t shit. He’s got a couple hundred followers on Instagram. He can suck it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/02/21 02:00 AM
7

Tough love has its place but it sounds like your mom just wanted to support you in anyway she could🤍 I would gladly help my daughter pay for her electricity bill if she was a struggling student, away to college, in grad school, starting a business, etc. those are all good investments. But to support her in having a relationship with a man who isn’t even trying to take care of her? No.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/02/21 08:17 PM
31

YES thank you 👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼 my mom did this for me, and I would do this for my daughter. Seriously, moms just know when somethings up, and trust me your daughters will thank you in the long run if you call them out!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/02/21 04:41 PM
16

I wish this type of language was so rare that I was beside myself with shock. Unfortunately, the language (and probably actions) this poor girl was exposed to is almost commonplace these days.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/02/21 02:33 AM
34

This isn’t an answer to your question, but I think we should do away with OLD altogether. It’s so easy to fabricate a persona online. I think we should instead focus on ways to bring people together based on interests, culture, religion, etc. Dating shouldn’t be the goal of these organizations, but it could be a byproduct. At the end of the day, whether or not you find a partner, you found a cool group of people who like to do the same things as you. It won’t be a waste of time like OLD.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/02/21 08:39 PM
20

What does he hope to accomplish with the baseball bat?!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/02/21 04:39 PM
10

“I want an intelligent, successful, model wife even though I’m ugly and basic.” -All men
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/02/21 04:36 PM
70

Noooo, get out of the feels girl! Cry it out, write in your journal, read FDS. That’s what I do. I had to drive thru my Ex’s neighborhood tonight after a couple of months and it got me so down I had to go home and read the list. I keep a list of all the wretched things that bastard did to me, and I read it when I get in my feels about him. Helps a lot.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/02/21 06:05 AM
61

Wow that bird literally put more effort into that hole than my ex did our entire relationship
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/02/21 02:53 AM
11

Fine blame it on the parents, but that stops at 18. Once you’re an adult YOU are responsible for your behavior. Any 26yo acting like a 12yo is actively CHOOSING that behavior. They were the victim of bad parenting as a child, sure, but that excuse no longer holds when you’re an adult. LETS STOP EXCUSING GROWN ASS MEN FOR BAD BEHAVIOR.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/02/21 11:34 PM
2

Wow. Just wow.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/02/21 03:43 AM
243

“I’m a traditional guy” I’m a misogynist “I’m a feminist” I want to get woke brownie points, but I’m still a misogynist “I want someone who is open minded” You better be ok with abuse-kink and polyamory “I’m a simple guy” I’m basic as fuck and you shouldn’t expect much from me “I’m down to earth/chill” I don’t want a high maintenance girlfriend
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/02/21 05:46 PM
25

He never said he does the housework, he says he handles it. He handles the housework, and arranges the meals. aka my guy is one bossy lil bitch.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/02/21 09:21 AM
13

I bet he has a weak chin
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/02/21 09:11 AM
28

I’m in my 20’s and I prefer to be called ma’am because it shows respect. I don’t respond to girl or anything that’s not an actual word.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/01/21 12:22 AM
4

All this will accomplish is women who don’t wanna have sex with men. Period.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/01/21 01:55 AM
10

Pathetic low life doesn’t understand the meaning of responsibility. Fucking scum.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/01/21 01:52 AM
34

You had me till “this is why polygamy actually works” I’m good sis. Fuck polygamy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/01/21 01:50 AM
2

YASSSSSSS
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/01/21 01:43 AM
13

Yayy you’re free!!! I struggle with an eating disorder too and honestly breaking free of that binge/guilt/shame/starve/over-exercise cycle is so liberating 🤍
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/01/21 08:07 PM
39

Seriously some people are letting “wellness” consume their lives. Is it still “healthy” if it’s occupying 90% of your thoughts and energy? I prefer to spend my energy on learning and being creative, those scrotes didn’t like that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/01/21 07:57 PM
31

Here in North America we have, for better or worse, arrived at a point where the risk of marrying a man outweighs the risk of fending for ourselves as single women. Marriage was crucial to a woman’s survival not too long ago. Women couldn’t work, save money, buy property, vote, own businesses, etc. We were forced into marriage for security. The pros of marriage outweighed the cons. Now we can create our own security. Comfortably. Now marrying a man shortens our lifespan, adds stress into our lif…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/01/21 04:44 PM
189

The opposite is equally true. I tried dating someone who was a germaphobe and neat freak, it didn’t work. Strict vegan, didn’t work. Obsessed with their workouts and appearance. Didn’t work. It’s not just about meeting one standard, it’s about meeting your standards. My personality just doesn’t mesh with people who are obsessive health nuts/gym addicts/ compulsive cleaning and that’s ok too. We all have different deal breakers.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/01/21 04:17 PM
9

Struggle chin mf
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/01/21 05:56 AM
166

A lifetime of charcuterie boards and artisanal cheeses where the Prosecco doesn’t stop flowing ?????? Oh whatever will I do 😩
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/01/21 04:18 AM
18

Hence why I will never marry lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/01/21 01:24 AM
6

Total game changer.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/01/21 01:22 AM
7

FINALLY I’m not the only one who feels this way.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/01/21 11:43 PM
12

☠️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/01/21 11:39 PM
23

Am I the only one who doesn’t like men who don’t know what panty liners are?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/01/21 11:38 PM
21

DIAGONAL
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/01/21 04:43 PM
5

Lol!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/01/21 04:32 AM
14

Having money doesn’t make a man high value, it makes him standard value. He’s average. In a world built by men, for men, men are expected to succeed. If a man is playing a game rigged in his favor and he’s still failing? Then he’s substandard. You can’t sit there and enjoy all the perks of the patriarchy AND expect women to fall at your feet because you succeeded at something that you were bound to succeed at. Men over here wanting accolades for doing well at something that’s designed for them. …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/01/21 01:34 AM
16

I’m trying to sum it up, but I think these sigma men are outside the standard deviation, there seems to be a sequence of characteristics that, when considered collectively, approach my limit. While they believe themselves to be highly covariant to their alpha counterpart, I find them to be just average. ...just a little 🎁 for my math statistics nerds 😋
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/01/21 12:21 AM
8

How do you transition from Newbie to Apprentice?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/01/21 01:55 AM
27

Being single >>> being with a porn user
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/01/21 10:04 PM
32

I think the biggest take away from this should be not dating when you’re sorting out your stuff. If you were going thru a rough time then you probably shouldn’t be dating . I know it’s hard because companionship makes you feel better, but in my experience dating when you’re not 100% looking to commit is a waste of everyone’s time...either way, sorry you felt he was being disingenuous :/
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/01/21 04:22 AM
33

I mean I’m not usually one to defend men, but I just don’t see how what he was doing was any different than what you were doing. Why did you go if you weren’t feeling it? You’re not beholden to go out with anyone. I definitely don’t want a guy to continue dating me just cuz he’s putting off hurting me. That’s a shit reason to date someone. Not really FDS either.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/01/21 04:05 AM
39

Usually they’re doing this as a last resort before they cheat. In my experience as soon as men start talking like this they’re either already looking to replace you, or have already found a side piece and are looking for an excuse to dump you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/01/21 04:00 AM
51

Child free. In my bag. Men ain’t shit.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/01/21 01:59 AM
2

Wowww that’s amazing babes I’m so happy for you!! Maybe it was easier for me for that same reason, I also felt like I lost myself in my relationship w a narc (they are the worst), maybe that’s why FDS was so easy to employ. It just kinda clicked one day
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/01/21 04:25 PM
15

Yessss these vibes Omg look at a scrotes face after you say “No.” with no follow up justification... priceless
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/01/21 05:18 AM
31

I felt that empty cv to my core
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/01/21 05:16 AM
14

Ok so basically men = bowel movements Amiright??????? 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/01/21 05:14 AM
103

Maybe it’s just me but I find FDS has made my life easier. Less headache, less stress, less anxiety. I focus on me now. I put myself first everyday. I don’t pretend for others. I found FDS in August 2020, in those 5 months I dropped a worthless piece of garbage boyfriend, went back to graduate school full time, started meditation and and journaling, started a non-profit side hustle, and I’m back to my high school weight. 🤷🏻‍♀️ FDS principle take some adjusting to, sure, but are they hard? No. Be…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/01/21 01:14 AM
4

Exactly, are we going to prioritize a relationship over putting a roof over our head, putting food on the table, clothes on our back, and access to healthcare? OP lives in a fantasy land.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/01/21 05:21 PM
5

That’s a lot of words for I’m unemployed.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/01/21 05:19 PM
2

Idk why you’re being downvoted, I don’t see a problem prioritizing your career. My career is how I’ve liberated myself, of course I’m going to prioritize that. My job gives me power and status. What has a man ever given me ?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/01/21 05:18 PM
3

Exactly.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/01/21 05:16 PM
3

Lollllll
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/01/21 04:14 PM
4

They don’t comprehend
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/01/21 04:12 PM
12

It’s a micro dick on this one
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/01/21 04:12 PM
11

Hahahaaa yesssss
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/01/21 04:02 PM
26

I couldn’t even get past halfway. It was nauseating. The way she mocks feminism, creates completely fake and untrue reactions as if she knows what it’s like to be a rad fem. she’s a pickme to her core.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/01/21 03:43 AM
3

My heart is with you and your mom, I feel so terrible I’m sorry you are experiencing this. I have no advice to give you because I just can’t imagine what it’s like. All I can say is that when I was being cheated on I would’ve appreciated it if the person who knew came and told me😞 Please keep us updated if you can
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/01/21 05:42 PM
6

🥂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/01/21 03:09 AM
50

Yeah equality feels like oppression to the privileged. Manipulators often use a tactic called victim playing, this is when the manipulator plays the part of the victim in order to make the true victim feel guilty and apologize. That’s all this is. Men are aware of how they objectify us, sexualize us, and reduce us to our mere body parts. Yet they believe themselves to be the true victims. Why do they do this? Because they want us to feel bad for having standards since our standards ultimately ru…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/01/21 12:08 AM
10

Ty! 🤍🤍
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/01/21 08:45 PM
106

I would argue FDS ladies do scrutinize men, as they rightfully should. Men are risky.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/01/21 04:58 PM
9

Same
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/01/21 04:40 PM
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I’m a length lady AND a girth girl. I’m also a bicep bitch, and a chiseled jawline chick....since it’s apparently ok to reduce people down to their body parts? I swear, if men were objectified the way women are they’d wage war. Scrutinizing our bodies, clothing, and life’s choices. Imagine if we did that to them 🤔 Oh yeah, we do here at FDS ...and they hate it
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/01/21 04:36 PM
7

Is that Katherine Ryan? I used to think she was all about FDS mindset till she got back w her lvm ex
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/01/21 02:03 AM
31

Also creeps can’t stare at your lips while you talk. It’s so gross when dudes do that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/01/21 01:47 AM
19

Why even have this conversation with him ?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/01/21 01:41 AM
64

I wish there were more reminders in this subreddit that there’s always a side piece. Men won’t leave until they have backups. And we take their bs excuse to heart thinking we’ve got some huge flaw, when really there’s just someone else who either 1) has no standards/boundaries or 2) has no idea he’s a cheater.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/01/21 01:40 AM
23

Always a side piece.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/01/21 01:37 AM
634

It really is the kinda cringe that affects your whole body 😖 My cringe cringed
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/01/21 05:34 PM
14

I can’t unsee it
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/01/21 05:32 PM
20

It’s the hair for me
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/01/21 05:30 PM
25

I have old videos saved on my phone of my ex yelling at me that I recorded in secret, in one he even threatened to put me in the hospital....maybe I should do this? Idk what good it would do now though, I’ve been out for a while.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/01/21 04:41 PM
5

Girl I did not bother to respond to that!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/01/21 04:21 PM
39

Scrotes be scrotin
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/01/21 05:15 AM
16

I mean idk bout irresponsible as long as you’re maintaining social distance and wearing a mask where appropriate , but I certainly agree that no decent man is dating.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/01/21 04:34 AM
23

Yeah, happened pretty recently, my towns still in lockdown so only grocery stores are open basically
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/01/21 03:55 AM
181

This guy asked me to go to Costco with him I’m like.....so you’re gunna buy my groceries amiright???
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/01/21 02:52 AM
9

Yass.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/01/21 02:45 AM
6

That’s an unfortunate looking man
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/01/21 04:14 PM
1

Yeah, that and I think he’s just leeching off of a hashtag that gets a lot of traffic
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/01/21 01:41 AM
23

I agree. I know spirituality gets a bad rap, but I do believe we have the ability to attract the energy we put out. That’s why so many FDS principles are focused on leveling-up.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/01/21 10:17 PM
7

I honestly didn’t realize this 🥺
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/01/21 10:05 PM
129

Honestly? I found out my ex was cheating on me so I reached out to the girl he was cheating with. Not because I was going to tell her to back off, but because I suspected she had no clue. I was indeed correct, she had no idea. Poor thing was shocked and terrified she hurt me. I took her out to dinner and drinks at a super ritzy upscale restaurant with his credit card and sent him a pic of us. 🥂💅 We both dumped him. She and I are good friends to this day!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/01/21 09:58 PM
49

Chuckling
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/01/21 04:04 AM
58

Omg yes I love your response 🙌🏼
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/01/21 01:31 AM
5

Personally I appreciate the watch 🤷🏻‍♀️ it’s like a label that makes it waaay easier to filter him out! Thanks Connor!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/01/21 01:22 AM
18

Men who flaunt their ability to manipulate and create toxicity in their intimate relationships as if it’s some accomplishment are depraved and pathetic because they are, at their core, lacking empathy and humanity. They will be unsatisfied and full of self-hatred till the day they die alone.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/01/21 10:10 PM
4

They had me till they started talking about being dominant/submissive at that point I was like ehhhh no thx.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/01/21 05:56 AM
22

My ex used to always pack me snacks like this when I left, then I found out he was getting his food for free because it was past the expiration date and he was just trying to pawn it off on me because he could only get it for free if he got it wholesale. Cheap mf. I was no longer impressed after I found that out.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/01/21 03:13 AM
11

What omg! I need that maid in my life lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/01/21 08:34 PM
68

100%. I’m supposed to waste my time? Arguing with a scrote?? About doing some chores???? Hell no. I don’t have time for that conversation, I don’t have time for that entanglement. My time and energy would be better spent working a couple of extra hours per week to pay a maid to come in regularly. And I’m willing to bet she’d be more pleasant to interact with. Besides nagging is ugly. I’m not going to make myself ugly for some scrote.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/01/21 08:08 PM
8

It does “ring a bell”. His families net worth is $45 million. While I agree that’s absurd, he’s not even in the top 40 wealthiest American families Top 40 wealthiest American families
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/01/21 05:35 PM
13

His net worth is $16 mill. He’s definitely richer than anyone needs to be, but he ain’t shit.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/01/21 05:12 PM
143

100% of scrotes like this get to a point in their marriage where they demand an open relationship, and justify it b/c they have “needs” you can’t satisfy. That or they will just cheat with a 20 year old bc they don’t care about young women so it’s easier to hurt them. I’ve been both. Don’t be me. BDSM is a red flag. They don’t just “get over” the kink lifestyle. They put it on the back burner for a while, focus on you, and once they have you, they hit you with it and demand poly.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/01/21 03:34 PM
7

Thanks for sharing, confirmed most of what I already knew, I can personally feel my concentration and attention span being degraded with increased scrolling thru social media.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/01/21 11:25 PM
9

Hahahaha omg wow! For me it’s like, wanna see this half naked girl dance? What about this one? How about this one?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/01/21 09:20 PM
76

Tiktok has the most mind numbingly stupid content. I want to carry out an experiment that studies the effect that hours of scrolling through short clips of video entertainment has on the brain. This has to be lowering the users attention span.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/01/21 03:44 PM
22

I’m sorry that you’re such a failure that you can’t even buy me a ring that I can afford myself, and I’m sorry that you have to project rather than “reavaluating” your own life lmao
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/01/21 03:36 PM
12

Thank you. Too many people asked me “why did you stay?” And not enough people asked “how did you leave?” Leaving was the hardest thing I’ve ever done, but most people don’t get that. Everyone is so quick to victim blame.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/01/21 11:25 PM
2

Same. I realized I was only doing it cuz I was lonely and that’s the absolute worst time to start dating.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/01/21 04:01 PM
120

A break?! There’s no time for breaks! She has to go home and cook dinner, do the dishes, clean the house, fold her geriatric boyfriends withered boxers, scrub his skid marks off the toilet bowl, and sit and pretend to like watching him play video games for two hours before she goes to bed alone cuz he’s fapping it to some onlyfans girl he spends half his income on because she’s a cOoL GiRl
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/01/21 03:58 PM
4

5 children. He murdered his 5 children. And drove around with their bodies in his car for over a week. All because she didn’t want to be his punching bag anymore. 😞
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/01/21 04:03 AM
30

A guy messaged me saying he’s never seen a woman on FDS who isn’t fat or ugly
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/01/21 11:20 PM
27

I love it when they call me ugly lmaooo But seriously though, it’s fucked up how guys think they can be mean to women they deem ugly? Like wtf. It’s not ok to be mean to anyone because you don’t find them attractive. If I had a picture of myself on my account and they saw that I was attractive would they be nice to me???? At that point I don’t even want that conditional niceness scrote.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/01/21 10:59 PM
2

Yes it is!!! Ty!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/01/21 07:25 PM
12

Undergraduate degree in chemistry, worked for internationally known company but decided to go back to graduate school. Last semester of graduate school starts today. I will hopefully have my masters in computer science by summertime as I prepare for an internship at a FAANG company. Said company will cover the last semester of tuition if I’m invited back for a full time position after summer. Having a background in the physical sciences as well as a masters in CS has allowed me to be able to app…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/01/21 05:31 PM
3

I’ve about had it with this scrote and his pathetic musings. He’s desperately trying to justify why women won’t give him the time of day. The longer you deny it, the harder it will be to accept that you, scrote, are the common denominator in your failing relationships.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/01/21 03:47 AM
3

Got it, thanks. I had this feature turned off but now I see how useful it can be !
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/01/21 11:17 PM
1

To my knowledge it’s not possible to see when someone is active on Instagram, how are you able to deduce this?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/01/21 09:54 PM
17

It’s also embarrassing that they have to swap tips on what it’s like to have a “real” girlfriend.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/01/21 11:25 PM
18

Bravo You just did one of the hardest things someone could ever do. I have: Lost 70 lbs Changed careers into tech Went to grad school Overcome addiction And let me tell you, leaving a narc was THE HARDEST accomplishment in my adult life. Went back so many times. It’s the mind games and emotional abuse that really keeps you in there. From an outsiders perspective people will say “Well why did you leave?” “It’s your fault for staying” “You must’ve liked it if you stayed” These people don’t underst…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/01/21 03:52 PM
4

Should we report? This is weird.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/01/21 04:28 AM
13

Honestly waking up at 20 is better than waking up at 28 like me! I’m glad you are leveling up! You have so much to look forward to in life, enjoy it🤍
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/01/21 03:53 AM
16

Filth.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/01/21 10:26 PM
3

Yeah the block is for them, the delete is for you!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/01/21 03:59 PM
5

🤍 you too
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/01/21 12:58 AM
18

I really needed to hear this. I have been thinking about my narcissist NVM ex for 2 days basically nonstop. I’ve had to put my phone in separate room to avoid contacting him. It’s been really hard. I keep thinking of things to say to him, ways to approach him. It’s been such a rough battle not to reach out. Idk why it’s just now happening to me. We’ve been no contact for so long now. Maybe it’s just the holidays or just me being sentimental. But reading what you wrote made me feel confident. I k…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/01/21 12:54 AM
297

🤢 I can’t hold my vomit anymore, I’m gunna be sick.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/01/21 05:08 PM
3

If he doesn’t stay up to wait for your “I’m home now” text he ain’t the one
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/01/21 02:33 PM
6

As someone who has met Elon Musk I can say he’s definitely dominant and competitive, and probably a psychopath.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/01/21 01:33 AM
35

I’m a chemist with a minor in biochemistry, and specifically I’m interested in metabolism. I’m not an expert in the field at all, it’s just a hobby, but being that I’m a chemist I understand how to conduct scientific research and interpret studies. It gives me an edge with fitness because I know metabolism down to an atomic level. My favorite is when men/trainers at gyms try to “teach” me about nutrition. Loooool. Bro go pump yourself with roids and move on. I’ve straight up had to hit mf’s with…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/01/21 03:46 PM
11

Love him
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/01/21 02:59 PM
29

Exactly what I’ve been saying about the kink community for years. Abusers flock to BDSM in the way that pedophiles flock to the catholic church. They know they can get away with it. The only difference being that, unlike the Catholic Church, BDSM community creates abusers in addition to attracting them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/12/20 07:18 PM
59

I used to have a profile on FetLife and I can tell you it is a cesspool of filth. LVM, pedophiles, rapists, sadists, narcissist, psychopaths, and complete and utter trash. It should be completely abolished.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/12/20 05:01 PM
181

This is what I saw as well.... “see black women aren’t difficult! they’re willing to be my maid, sex slave, therapist, chauffeur, and personal cook!” I say be difficult sis 💁🏻‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/12/20 04:54 PM
31

Can I just say, as someone who’s parents were very liberal with parenting, I wish my parents butt in more. I wish my parents were nosier, read through my phone, asked to meet my friends, met my friends family, and helped me vet people. I had to learn to do all of that myself. I had little help. And along the way I met tons of assholes, tons of shitty people who used me and treated me like shit. I really respect this father, he should absolutely butt in, he should absolutely be nosy, it’s his res…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/12/20 04:24 PM
17

Same here. I used to be in the 6’ up club but the last few tall guys I got to know turned out to be fuckboys, psychopaths, narcissists, or arrogant assholes. Now when a tall man shows interest in me I get ptsd flashbacks and get turned off. Also when tall guys make fun of short guys? Wtf. Why are they so cruel to one another?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/12/20 04:09 PM
18

Some guys need to grow beards to hide weak chins, and some need to grow beards to hide enormous chins, but this man? Well this one can’t grow a beard. I feel bad for the lady standing in front of him when he turns his head, may she wear a helmet. 💀
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/12/20 06:06 AM
9

Yes to everything.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/12/20 06:01 AM
31

Yup. And if I do get married it’s a prenup for me!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/12/20 05:18 PM
72

He’s such a tart. She deserves way batter. I doubt he was actually ever fondant of her. EDIT: yaasss thanks for the award lovely!!! X2 wowowowow thanks!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/12/20 06:49 AM
54

That’s what I immediately thought
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/12/20 06:47 AM
5

Time to spread your wings and fly 🤍🌸
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/12/20 06:45 AM
44

Have you actually watched the videos though? The men in the videos are teaching hacks on how to lower the standards of high maintenance women. The first video is basically a PUA telling guys not to spend money on girls because it’s a turn off to women. The second video is teaching men how to lower their girlfriends standards. The videos should be called “how to lower your girlfriends standards”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/12/20 09:23 PM
1

Read this post I shared a few months back where a guy on OLD told me he wanted a woman who wasn’t overly ambitious. Straight from the horses mouth!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/12/20 04:32 PM
13

“Women are supposed to be bitch” 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/12/20 04:47 PM
152

It’s cuz the dog knows her love language is quality time so it sits there and licks her 24/7, around the clock, putting his own needs aside to please her!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/12/20 04:36 PM
65

[Insert Spider-Man meme of everyone pointing at each other]
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/12/20 04:33 PM
11

Most of them are so young...young people don’t really think about that stuff unfortunately. Otherwise they wouldn’t participate unless it was life or death. I feel like everything before 25 years old was a blur for me, life didn’t really start to come into focus until 28.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/12/20 06:14 AM
4

Ty 🥰
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/12/20 05:14 AM
14

Love the edit 😂 He’s on some maaajor crack.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/12/20 03:08 AM
28

How many of the actresses in porn actually come out of it making decent money ? I really wish a journalist would study this like they did with Uber drivers. Turns out in the long run the average Uber driver makes barely min wage in America. I’m curious how much the average porn actress makes from her career when all is said and done. Men want younger and younger women, which means the average actress can get ~10 good years if she looks young, and then you have to add in the costs of doing busine…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/12/20 02:57 AM
24

Lost 10 pounds, finished my masters degree, landed an internship as a software engineer, and started my own non-profit business. Wbu scrote? Wtf did you do? Haha, that’s a joke. You did nothing. Oh Yeah! You fapped your shrimp dick into oblivion and got even balder 🤢
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/12/20 10:51 PM
125

Asian men are hugely misogynistic. My Japanese PI straight up told me good luck finding work as a scientists with men who don’t hate women. My career field is dominated by Chinese men who view women as property. I went to a Japanese owned (not Korean owned, because many of them are) sushi restaurant in my hometown and the Japanese waiter wouldn’t even take my order from me. He asked my boyfriend what I wanted. Asian neckbeards are hardly better then American neckbeards.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/12/20 10:46 PM
18

And also, the fact that these coal miners are out here mining coal with their consent means that if there’s a coal raper out there he can go mine coal legally instead of raping coal. It’s obviously a win win.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/12/20 05:52 PM
7

Ok who is behind all there fire ass tweets from FDS twitter 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/12/20 05:51 PM
6

Awesome job helping your friend avoid making a terrible mistake 🙌🏼 solid friend right here 👆🏼
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/12/20 05:41 PM
27

Pickme’s and codependency are two different things. I’m not a pickme, I don’t pander to men, and I don’t put down other women, but I was in an abusive relationship with a manipulative man for 2.5 years. I was codependent. I’m not sure, but it sounds like OP’s friend might be stuck in a toxic relationship. When I was stuck in my toxic relationship I was nothing without my friends. I’m sure I annoyed them, and I’m sure at times they wanted to stop being my friend, but I owe them my life now. Idk h…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/12/20 05:39 PM
6

You want to talk about easily accessible? I googled “no dick Instagram girl” to find this abhorrent, albeit hilarious, influencer and the stuff that popped up on YouTube was unbelievable. YouTube. YOUTUBE! Children have access to this!!! Omg it’s terrifying.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/12/20 03:17 PM
8

This, and they always take on a post-renaissance dissertation tone when they discuss, like, um, ok Sheffield Maxwell Esq. it’s not 1842.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/12/20 03:14 PM
5

Yeah and if they kink shame you for this then they are being judgmental and closed minded and they need to learn to communicate and it’s very normal and they should just be ok with it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/12/20 03:12 PM
5

There has to be lawsuits coming.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/12/20 03:11 PM
24

Isn’t it nice to be entanglement free???!!!! 🙌🏼🙌🏼
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/12/20 03:06 PM
106

Everything about the way dOmInAnT men talk about themselves is so cringe. BEWARE: “Old fashioned” or “traditional” are two other phrases men use to basically describe the same thing, that they are losers in every other aspect of life.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/12/20 03:03 PM
5

“Seeing the funny in everyday life”, I love that. Humor has been the one that that’s allowed me to truly put my life into perspective!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/12/20 04:24 PM
4

You’re right, being comedic doesn’t necessarily mean you have a sense of humor either!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/12/20 04:22 PM
4

It was a pair of earrings for me. Obviously the earrings belonged to another woman, but it’s funny when you think about the power inanimate objects have in your life.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/12/20 11:21 PM
9

I can’t help but agree with you, I wish it wasn’t this way, but literally every single one of my ex boyfriends was just a money, time, and energy sink with little to no roi. Not worth the headache imo. I’m bisexual and I have a girlfriend who I treat like a queen, and it’s definitely worth it. She is a better lover, partner, friend, and roommate than any man I’ve been with.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/12/20 11:17 PM
15

I sure hope you’re right
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/12/20 04:10 PM
22

Why do people blame victims for staying in abusive relationships? I’ve had men and women blame me for staying in a toxic relationship, which I get because was my responsibility to leave, but don’t people understand how hard it is to break free of that cycle and cut the bond? I’ve been out for a while and maintain no contact with my ex-abuser, but I still wonder why people lack empathy for the victims trauma bonded to their abusers? It seems unnecessarily cruel. More often than not it’s men who b…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/12/20 06:05 AM
54

Same. My ex had it too. 37M, I was 27 and fit (pickme days) and he still couldn’t get it up. Watched porn daily and jerked off 11 time in one day at one point. But his dick was almost always soft during sex. Fucking pathetic loser.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/12/20 03:27 AM
11

As women start to earn more and become financially independent from men there will be absolutely no reason to date old fuggos.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/12/20 03:19 AM
6

Idk about all that, but I can give you some scientific reasons as to why older men are gross: Sagging balls Shrimp dick from a lifetime of masturbation Bald Fat Wrinkles from sun damage and lack of skincare routine Did I say fat? Neckbeards Tits. Literal fucking tits. On a man. Lowered testosterone from lack of exercise Erectile dysfunction I feel like I could list more but you get the point.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/12/20 03:17 AM
10

I love reading, I’m always reading something, but my rule is that I have to learn something from it. Science, research, psychology, art, history, autobiographies of influential people. I like the sci fi too, but I don’t read too much of it. I like to learn. I expect this of the men I date. I always ask them what book they’re reading when we first meet as a vetting strategy. It’s really obvious when they’re lying.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/12/20 05:01 PM
12

Definitely a red flag if they don’t read at all. For me at least 🤷🏻‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/12/20 04:58 PM
77

If a man has ED what is he good for even ? Unless he can eat pussy like a champ, boy bye. You think a dude would stick around for a girl who couldn’t have sex ? No. He’d try to get a blow job out of her and ghost her. Fuck being nice. Your dick doesn’t work? I don’t need you. I have a vibrator.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/12/20 04:56 PM
15

I’m so happy to see so many young women on here. I wish I had this info at 18.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/12/20 01:56 AM
3

Why aren’t more men like this
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/12/20 01:55 AM
33

Absolutely, 100% been there. It’s more common than you’d think. It took me months to reprogram my mind. I still find myself fantasizing about degrading and painful sex, but it’s become less frequent with time. You can do it, but you have to do it in a healthy way. Guilt will make things worse. It was programmed into you, so it can be programmed out. 1) Stop using porn. If you have to use something try taking pictures with your partner if you have one, I take pictures of my girlfriend (with conse…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/12/20 03:47 PM
30

Oh god I saw this, the OP is a real ass, he kicked out his 20 year old son and banished him to his grandmothers house. What a bitch.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/12/20 12:21 AM
5

I look better at 28 than I did at 18, I get more male attention now, and I attract sexier men. I have a girlfriend because I’m bi and women are better in bed, better lovers, and more intelligent than men, but that hasn’t reduced the number of men who cold approach me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/12/20 09:29 PM
20

Girl get out. He hates you. You don’t talk to the love of your life this way.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/12/20 09:13 PM
41

It’s accurate 🤷🏻‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/12/20 04:34 PM
1

Awesome!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/12/20 03:58 PM
5

No, he didn’t send me that. We were FaceTiming, he stepped away from his phone and I saw the extent of it in that moment. I stole a screenshot.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/12/20 04:05 AM
6

😂🤢
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/12/20 01:50 AM
3

Fuuuuuuck that. I’m no housekeeper.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/12/20 01:50 AM
3

New Orleans originally
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/12/20 12:03 AM
2

😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/12/20 12:02 AM
2

Amen sister.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/12/20 12:02 AM
6

Agreed.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/12/20 12:01 AM
15

😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/12/20 12:01 AM
4

🤣🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/12/20 12:00 AM
16

Oh thanks for the heads up!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/12/20 08:53 PM
6

Wooooow. The perspective. That’s probably exactly what would’ve happened.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/12/20 08:52 PM
24

🤣 Next time I’m asked to describe my preference on the spectrum of cleanliness I’m gunna say if hoarding is 1 and serial killers are 10 I want a 9 please thx
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/12/20 08:19 PM
25

You’re probably right. I mean why does he even own a vacuum. I know he doesn’t use it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/12/20 08:15 PM
15

My best guess is that’s his way of organizing??????
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/12/20 08:14 PM
17

Personally I can’t handle mess. Maybe it’s just me. But it gives me anxiety. Like I imagined myself having to live in that and I was immediately turned off by him. I mean he couldn’t even be bothered to clean it for a date.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/12/20 08:14 PM
52

Right?! I mean how do you let it get like that?? That takes time.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/12/20 08:08 PM
183

Girl idk. The entire picture gives me anxiety. They could be apples he goes around and gives to homeless orphan children and I still wouldn’t date him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/12/20 08:07 PM
92

I was on a FaceTime date with a guy I’d met online and had been texting with. We’d talked on the phone, he’d seemed fine, nice, educated, employed, attractive, dressed ok (better than most men, not that that’s saying much but still), and appeared to be clean in his photos. During the date he left to go answer his door and I saw his living room. It was disgusting. I think he’s a low-key hoarder. How would you not clean this up before a date????? Imagine showing up at his place like this. I wouldn…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/12/20 07:59 PM
6

No they won’t. They couldn’t even pick her out of a lineup.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/12/20 03:50 PM
13

Wow 👏🏼 You’re living the dream girl!!! I can’t WAIT till I get my own spot, no man, just me 😊
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/12/20 03:47 PM
14

I’ve been vegan for 2 months now since I started dating my girlfriend (who’s been vegan for 3 years) so that she could feel comfortable when we go out somewhere, know we can share food, cook together, and not feel pressured about her lifestyle around me. She didn’t ask me to do that for her, I just did it because I didn’t want her to feel any kind of internal struggle when we hang out. If I can do that for her, a guy who loves you will do it for you. I think the right guy (vegan or not) will do …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/12/20 04:19 AM
126

SPOILER ALERT: It’s pretty obvious the entire thing was written by a man. Neither male writer nor male director were particularly good at depicting a woman’s experience. The scene where she spirals out into a drinking binge, that’s just not how most women I know cope. Going to stay with some random dude in his crusty apartment for 6 weeks so he can teach you chess? Also not something a woman would do. Crying because she lost? Guess what, not all women cry when they’re sad. The whole time I was k…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/12/20 04:01 PM
15

The cheesy Dr. Seuss quote at the end, the way the writer mentions having to “go to work tomorrow!”. When men pretend to be women they adopt a base and overly excited tone, it’s really a reflection of what they think of us, like we’re merry little cartoon characters in la la land or something. I have no way of knowing obviously, but to me it sounds like a guy describing, what he thinks, is the experience of a young woman infatuated with love.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/11/20 05:01 PM
5

This is a man obviously. Sometimes in the closet bisexual men pretend to be women to talk to other men online. It’s pathetic.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/11/20 04:36 PM
26

Yes shoutout to the mods, ty for your diligence in protecting our space here!!!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/11/20 05:34 PM
14

I will never unsee or unhear this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/11/20 05:30 PM
51

They could climb trees with their foot talons
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/11/20 02:47 AM
10

😂 dead.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/11/20 02:46 AM
6

Yassss good for you girl
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/11/20 01:54 PM
2

I’ve tried talking sense into pickme’s who literally bend over backwards for men, cater to them day in day out, my moms one. They don’t want to change. They don’t see anything wrong with being a servant. Cooking a second meal for your husband cuz he thinks what you made is girly? Girl, please.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/11/20 01:50 PM
13

Exactly. I hate the mods on that sub. They’re complete misogynists. Not even trying to hide it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/11/20 02:43 AM
9

It’s unfortunate that it takes so much breakage to learn to stay away from abusers.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/11/20 10:35 PM
36

Why would they delete this? It should serve as a warning to all women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/11/20 10:24 PM
29

She probably served him an open faced turkey sandwich and it reminded him of all the pussies he faps too online so he said it was too “girly” I’m sure he’d feel much manlier putting a 10” thick bulging bratwurst down his pathetic throat.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/11/20 10:18 PM
7

Yes. It’s really gay. Start cooking for yourself you piece of fucking trash.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/11/20 10:15 PM
21

I second the motion
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/11/20 10:13 PM
56

Ok “daddy” you’re a general manager at chili’s and your mom still gives you money for your birthday. You have a beer belly, receding hairline, and a shriveled up shrimp dick from jacking off to children online. Calm down with your crusty ass and, plaque ridden teeth, wrinkled face, and neckbeard. Any man who insists on being called daddy is a literal wad of shmegma.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/11/20 03:09 AM
1

Amen sister.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/11/20 01:41 AM
2

Fuck yes!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/11/20 11:01 PM
6

I legit cannot stand Randy. I’m glad to know he’s mostly a nobody. 💁🏻‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/11/20 09:26 PM
2

😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/11/20 09:24 PM
3

Lol he fuckin does tho
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/11/20 08:06 PM
5

Wtf ew girl, I’m sorry.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/11/20 08:05 PM
3

Right?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/11/20 08:05 PM
23

What’s hilarious is the hashtags he used on that post WAS entitlement. But he thinks it’s women who are the entitled ones. I’m soooo entitled for wanting a person who matches my value. 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/11/20 05:50 PM
32

Hahaha, I hate that guy. He asked to follow me on Instagram and I straight up was like fuuuuuuck that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/11/20 05:36 PM
10

Same
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/11/20 03:42 PM
129

Yes I received something similar a while back. Students do use Reddit as a source of data for projects, but this is sketch.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/11/20 06:24 AM
18

🤢🤮
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/11/20 03:15 AM
60

Can we all stop for a moment and acknowledge the fact that this man wants to fuck his mom ?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/11/20 02:47 AM
32

Yeah I think you’re safe there pal
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/11/20 02:46 AM
10

Yeah I majored in chemistry as an undergrad and worked in a research lab. Definitely fucking racist. My PI straight up sat me down one day and told me that finding work a boss who respects women is hard. Needless to say after a couple years of working as a chemist I transitioned into computer science. Unfortunately for me, that’s one giant cockfest too.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/11/20 05:26 PM
19

Ugh. Fat, old, white, men. If there was ever a single demographic that could bring me to vomit by merely existing it would be that. Old fat white men 🤢🤮
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/11/20 05:22 PM
25

😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/11/20 05:14 PM
74

I’m bisexual and in my experience women are much better in bed. They take their time, pay attention, and want to pleasure you. I make my girlfriend orgasm every time we have sex, it’s really not that hard.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/11/20 05:14 PM
9

Yes girl, you are the asshole. You’re an asshole for putting up with this prick.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/11/20 02:07 AM
5

Yes I am! Ty!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/11/20 05:00 PM
14

My heart hurts for her, I had a botched abortion at the start of the pandemic, locked in a house by myself while the father of the child I was pregnant with was out trying to get his dick wet during a pandemic. That was the last straw for me, so maybe it will be for her too. Hopefully.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/11/20 04:14 PM
21

YES.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/11/20 01:11 AM
5

And then out again, and back again
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/11/20 06:51 AM
5

😘
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/11/20 06:57 PM
11

Yes girl. This is one of our powers as women. When you don’t have children you can cut scrotes off and ghost at the first whiff of bullshit. They know this. It’s one of the reasons they try to tie us down with children. Boy byeeeeeeeeee
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/11/20 06:22 PM
40

Exactly. I know it’s an offensive term to use, so I don’t use it against other women, but personally I fucking love being a feminist bitch. In general, when people call me a bitch I take it as a compliment. It’s where I draw my power. When someone calls me a bitch it confirms to me that they have recognized my strength, intelligence, conviction, and strong adherence to my own personal ethics. I know I sound insane, but a small part of my soul lights up when someone calls me a bitch😊 Yes I am dif…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/11/20 06:19 PM
17

😂 gold.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/11/20 03:32 PM
48

It’s because women have kids with these scrotes. That’s why they get stuck. Women need to stop procreating with pieces of shit, and start investing in themselves.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/11/20 03:30 PM
10

Me too lol, I’m getting a pitbull and I’m training her to attack the balls first, then I’m getting myself a gun. I’m moving out of my parents house soon and I want to be prepared.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/11/20 03:24 PM
13

Holy shit.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/11/20 03:20 PM
21

As if they’d actually absorb any of this? Don’t argue with scrotes. 1) it’s not worth your time, 2) it only feeds into their sense of self-righteousness, and 3) you’re better off trying to convert a pickme because for every pickme lost there’s at least 10 scrotes getting less attention!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/11/20 03:19 PM
81

Here here. 🥂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/11/20 03:13 PM
13

I want to say this is cute, but in my experience only cheap men ask for picnic dates
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/11/20 01:27 AM
11

Wooooow. Thanks for proving what we all suspected.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/11/20 09:43 PM
19

Maybe if he stopped jacking off so much he could learn how VPN and WiFi work. JFC. Are there any intelligent men out there? 👀 😂😂😂😂 idiot.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/11/20 04:58 PM
29

Yeah these two were pretty obvious to me from the beginning. It seems like most women who wanna be famous have to be pickme’s
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/11/20 04:54 PM
18

Someone get this girl some water, the thirst is high w this one 🤡
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/11/20 11:56 PM
17

The level of thirst is high, this girl is parched.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/11/20 11:54 PM
18

Fucking scum
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/11/20 11:41 PM
7

They play it off as a pipeline problem: “we want women, but NoT eNoUgH wOmEn aPplY” Plenty of women apply. Yes, every year there are more male college grads with STEM degrees than female college grads with STEM degrees, but we ARE out here and we ARE applying. The problem is the hiring process, and the retention. This study found that when gender revealing information is removed from a resume, the percentage of women who are called back for an interview increases from 5% to 54%. Unfortunately, i…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/11/20 03:17 PM
39

I see what you did there
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/10/20 10:25 PM
22

What is he a fucking 7-11?! Ooooo I’m so scared. Whatever will I do!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/10/20 10:23 PM
20

Misogyny killed my sex drive too....then I started dating women. It’s back ☺️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/10/20 03:05 PM
28

😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/10/20 02:59 PM
53

Fucking exactly.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/10/20 03:39 PM
2

Beautiful 🤍
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/10/20 07:14 PM
13

Yeah. It’s a shitty feeling to see a guy you’re smitten with take another girl out, but if we’re advocates of women dating multiple men before settling down, then we can’t be hypocritical about men doing it too. It would of course be an entirely different story if there was exclusivity between OP and the guy. OP, if you’ve been seeing this guy for a while and he hasn’t already asked for exclusivity maybe you should cut ties with him bc he’s wasting your time.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/10/20 03:01 PM
12

👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼 Thank you for taking the time to relay this information to us. Absolutely female selection is key to the evolution of men. Maybe if we weren’t oppressed for so long men would be tall, athletic, hung, and have IQ’s greater than 80. Well, fingers crossed for the future ladies. Maybe in thousands more years, through our efforts, the women of the future can all be married to Tom Ellis’s. Too bad men will fuck any hole they can find because they have nonexistent standards. Maybe if they were a…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/10/20 02:53 PM
2

Yeah, in 5 years we’ll see a post on relationship advice: “Hi my (33F) boyfriend (45M) was gracious enough to pick me as a girlfriend even though I’m old and decaying, but all he does is sit on the couch and play video games and eat lard and jerk off. I mean, I wanna give him a break cuz he’s such a good man in every other way, and I love him so so much, but lately this girls been coming over while I work overtime, to pay for his onlyfans subscription and PS5, and I think they’re more than frien…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/10/20 02:31 PM
2

Awesome!! I’m excited for you
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/10/20 03:03 PM
1

Aww, you will 🥰
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/10/20 03:02 PM
3

😭
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/10/20 03:01 PM
15

Aww 😢 that made me smile
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/10/20 04:15 AM
47

He’s trying to cope with the fact that no one wants him beyond 5 dates. How could they when he categorizes people like this?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/10/20 03:44 AM
8

This makes me literally sick
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/10/20 03:41 AM
9

I agree!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/10/20 03:35 AM
12

Yes!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/10/20 03:29 AM
14

Yes they are 🥰
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/10/20 02:50 AM
18

Yw love 🤍
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/10/20 02:49 AM
5

THANK YOU!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/10/20 01:12 AM
8

Thank you to the lovely soul who gave me the award 🤍
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/10/20 12:57 AM
24

Yes we are fortunate and grateful🤍😊
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/10/20 12:54 AM
10

🥰
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/10/20 12:54 AM
120

I know right? My point is that it doesn’t take a whole lot of effort or money or time to make someone in your life feel special. If a broke graduate student can do it, so can a boyfriend or husband or brother or father. Thanks for seeing through to the point!!!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/10/20 12:54 AM
66

We try 🥰
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/10/20 12:52 AM
11

THANK YOU!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/10/20 12:52 AM
21

🤢 I hope you get picked hunny.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/10/20 09:00 PM
3

🤣🤣🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/10/20 05:12 AM
2

🤣🤣🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/10/20 05:12 AM
2

😂😂🙌🏼🙌🏼
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/10/20 06:41 PM
7

I LOVE trey Kennedy
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/10/20 05:41 PM
3

I’m trying to sum it up, but I think these sigma men are outside the standard deviation, there seems to be a sequence of characteristics that, when considered collectively, approach my limit. While they believe themselves to be highly covariant to their alpha counterpart, I find them to be just average.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/10/20 05:24 PM
5

Dry heave is an accurate way to describe my general reaction to most men these days.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/10/20 05:04 PM
14

I’m also gunna go out on a limb and guess that the women who are into BDSM and come from a trauma free past are probably not on the receiving end of the whip and leash 😊
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/10/20 03:12 PM
3

This is a tough situation. 25 years of friendship makes me think despite your differences you may actually value this woman in your life. Also, I’ve said things out of anger before and regretted it later, do you? If you don’t regret it, then maybe this was the last straw for you. Either way victim blaming is never ok, and I’m sorry she wasn’t able to support her friend, and instead sided with a pervert. But, I will say this. With men I have a block and delete at first sign of bullshit policy, bu…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/10/20 03:05 PM
19

In a world of sheep he is the wolf, the alpha to the omega, the yin to the yang, the destroyer of chains, kind of dragons, liege of of the scrotes, all hail lord king dick
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/10/20 02:44 AM
1

😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/10/20 10:47 PM
35

Yeah it’s obviously a choice !
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/10/20 10:46 PM
6

Shoot ok I already rejected I The chat request, idk how to go back and find who it was!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/10/20 03:49 PM
25

I got a threatening chat request from a scrote telling me to stay the hell away from women in BDSM and to stop filling their heads with nonsense....I’m like, why? So you can fill up their heads with nonsense unimpeded? ...just kidding. I rejected the request to chat, and I took it as a compliment since I obviously hit a nerve a struck some fear with them☺️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/10/20 03:13 PM
16

I don’t know why I put up with it either...FetLife and BDSM in general attracts trash.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/10/20 03:07 PM
18

This article accurately describes how I felt while I was involved in the BDSM community as a pickme. At my core I knew these men were sick. But everytime I was about to wake up from the denial I would shut it down. Convince myself that kinks and values are mutually exclusive. Boy was I wrong. I just didn’t know how to express it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/10/20 03:05 PM
34

FetLife is so cringe. I swear, it’s like the people who have profiles there don’t realize how f_cking lame they sound. “I’m just an obedient little slut who’s looking for daddy to show her the ropes, I’m not super experienced, but I’ll let you tie me up and punch me in the face and shove an eggplant up my ass till I bleed....cuz that’s what I need to orgasm! Teeheee Oh and I’m into breath play, and age play, and orgasm denial, and strangulation, and being reduced to a warm fuck toy slave to your…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/10/20 02:53 PM
30

Fuck them. I’m not Indian but I have Indians female friends, and I work in a field that is very popular with Indian men. I see how they treat women. It’s horrible. Like slavery. I wish they would dump their husbands I really do.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/10/20 02:34 PM
13

Ty for saying that
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/10/20 08:16 PM
14

We got this
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/10/20 05:40 PM
12

🤍
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/10/20 05:00 PM
20

Ty🤍
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/10/20 04:29 PM
77

Thanks for the perspective. I forgot he may still be love bombing her.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/10/20 04:29 PM
190

I really needed to hear this. Recently I’ve been down on myself because it appears that my ex has gotten his shit together for his new girl. I’m not interested in teaching a man how to treat me, so it kinda burns that he knows how to treat a woman, he just didn’t want to do it for me. Or so at least this was my mentality. But now I’m starting to think I’m just being weak. He’s a piece of shit. He probably hasn’t stopped being a piece of shit. I’m just being insecure. Of course he hasn’t changed.…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/10/20 04:21 PM
19

Yes, it’s only been Indian men for me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/10/20 02:11 PM
12

Thnx girl
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/10/20 11:52 PM
37

This is the biggest burn of all. When they clean up their act after you. After I left my ex I was desperate and co dependent, I begged him to stay friends with me bc I was so broken. He said he no because “I don’t want to lie to my girlfriend about being friends with my ex.” Wow. That cut deep. He didn’t think twice about lying to me, and cheating on me so many goddamn times. But now you’re willing to clean up your act. That one still burns. It’s hard coming back from something like that. 😔
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/10/20 11:43 PM
3

Sure, just start a chat with me. I messages blocked because I don’t want scrotes to be able to write to me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/10/20 11:32 PM
14

Contributing to society and humanity >>>> having a sheltered life at home. I’m sorry this neckbeard can’t compute that women may actually have the passion, desire, and drive to advance society and give back to humanity through our work and intellect. No, it’s eCoNoMiEs fault. BITCH, out societal input IS what drove the economy to need us here. CAN SOMEONE PLEASE TELL ME HOW MALES ENDED UP BEING SO MENTALLY CHALLENGED? Is there no fathomable way that women would want to be educated and working me…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/10/20 02:49 PM
35

I wanna say I expected more from her, but a girl who marries a LVM is probably gunna go back to him after he cheats. If she were HV she would’ve vetted him before marriage. I’m sure there were red flags. He’s so cringe.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/10/20 02:39 PM
42

🙌🏼 same
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/10/20 02:36 PM
29

Literally said that from day one. She’s a fake.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/10/20 02:35 PM
5

😂🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/10/20 02:28 PM
10

That’s too bad he was a scrote, I didn’t know that. Tom Buchanan was a scrote. The golf player was my favorite lol.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/10/20 03:13 AM
2

Learning so much 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/10/20 02:45 AM
5

I did not know that, I will approach chihuahuas differently now tho lol 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/10/20 02:19 AM
14

Haha, thanks!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/10/20 10:57 PM
311

Not a fucking thing. I won’t so much as lift a beautifully manicured finger for a man. And this is why. I volunteer my time to tutoring women in programming for free, I’d even be willing to do so much more for free to see a fellow sister smile and thrive. But for a man? Not a goddamn thing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/10/20 07:07 PM
3

That’s why when I see a guys profile online and it says “just looking for someone sane” I’m like, yeah wtf did you do to your poor ex to push her to her breaking point...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/10/20 06:55 PM
113

Ok guys, let’s wrap it up. Our job here is done, he got her the GOOD paper towels. It’s true love.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/10/20 01:53 PM
5

It’s even worse when the kid doesn’t even belong to the neckbeard.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/10/20 01:47 PM
29

You’re right. My friends all ditched me in my pick me days. They continued doing the sleepovers without me while I was out having a coors light in Brads dingy garage. The joke was on me, I’m still trying to recover from the friendship loss.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/10/20 01:37 PM
93

Honestly?! He doesn’t even know how to use ‘than’ vs ‘then’ correctly. Get this 150 pound incel chihuahua out of my face before I eat him for breakfast please.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/10/20 01:20 PM
12

Amen. I’m bi and I officially set my hinge profile to “looking for women” only. Since then I’ve been talking to a couple of attractive, intelligent, and put together ladies. It’s unbelievable how much better women come across on OLD.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/10/20 01:14 PM
27

I just want to know why they adopt a holier then thou, renaissance, Henry David Thoreau-esque tone? Like ok buddy calm down we’re not arguing in 1852.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/10/20 05:19 AM
17

I think the only way to make the BDSM community aware is by pegging every “Dom” that hits you up. Anytime a woman is asked, “Do you like anal? How about butt plugs?” She should say “absolutely I do!!!” And then tie him to her bed ram a daikon up his ass “teehee oopsie, I bet that hurts (sad face) be a good boy and take it for me anyway?”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/10/20 11:05 PM
11

What the actual fuck did I just read. 😞
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/10/20 11:00 PM
14

Just a quick thought on this. People write bots that analyze content in subs, it’s harder on them when we use images vs text. I’m personally working on a bot that analyzes the posts on TRP and does statistical calculations on their word usage (kind of like a word cloud). They make it really easy to do because the overwhelming majority of their posted content is text (so much for MeN aRe ViSuAl). For comparison I wanted to look at FDS, but I couldn’t get enough data because most of our content is…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/10/20 02:26 PM
1

bowing to knees while avoiding eye contact “yes lord king dick” They chanted in unison
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/10/20 10:09 PM
6

Tbh I think it’s hilarious. Pathetic people can’t stand being laughed at, so it feels good to know that by giggling at their feeble attempts to hurt me I’m deflecting their toxicity and leaving it with them ☺️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/10/20 10:07 PM
1

Big win buddy
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/10/20 10:04 PM
1

Thanks for the heads up
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/10/20 10:03 PM
2

Lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/10/20 10:03 PM
25

This was a lady ?!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/10/20 09:55 PM
5

Ca always protects pedos
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/10/20 06:48 AM
11

Yeah and our f_ckhead governor just passed a law making it easier for them Gavin Newsom repeals mandatory sex offender registration Idk why CA is a cesspool for pedophilia
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/10/20 05:37 AM
23

Right?! I noticed that too......I wonder if he actually knows what “keeping it real means”? Or maybe he thinks he can use slang to pick up 18 year olds, cuz you know he sets his age preference that low.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/10/20 05:20 AM
12

Me 3
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/10/20 05:19 AM
20

Too bad scrotes don’t have enough self-awareness to hold themselves above this pathetic behavior....Then maybe I’d have more respect for them then I do dogs.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/10/20 05:15 AM
58

Flirty men irritate the shit out of me, it’s like “great! Now I definitely know I can’t date you because you probably talk this way with all the women you find attractive” ...And those pickme’s who normalize their men flirting with other women cuz at the end of the day hE kNoWs WheRe hOmE iS 🤢
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/10/20 05:13 AM
36

Yeah and now she’s a grown ass women who knows better than to stay. Can’t blame him anymore.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/10/20 11:14 PM
25

It’s not low key. She is.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/10/20 11:14 PM
11

I hate all of BDSM but yes DDlg is the worst. It’s basically an excuse to be a sadistic abusive piece of shit, AND act out a pedophile fantasy AND act out your incestuous fantasy. They basically claim that changing another adult humans diaper is sexy and also find it sexy when adults speak at a toddler level while playing with stuffed animals? Give me a fucking break. You wanna act like my “Daddy”? Ok. Cool. Buy me a car and pay off my student loans. Cook dinner for me every night. Wash my cloth…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/10/20 05:53 PM
26

Not a single one. No chiseled jaw to be had in this crowd. 😅
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/10/20 08:34 PM
64

I’m 5’3” and 127lbs and I can eat a double double burger with animal style fries and a chocolate shake like it’s nothing. It’s called working out LOL. When my ex used to neg me for eating too much I’d grab his plate and finish his plate too. It’s not my fault you sit around playing video games and watching porn all day, of course you don’t need the calories 💁🏻‍♀️ Eat what you want girl. F_ck scrotes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/10/20 01:48 AM
14

I bet he thinks it’s so good tho
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/10/20 01:38 AM
2

😂😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/10/20 01:37 AM
4

I could just say that being anti kink is my kink and that they’re just kink shaming me
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/10/20 11:29 PM
3

Wait was that the movie with the girl who had teeth in her vagina??
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/10/20 08:23 PM
3

😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/10/20 08:22 PM
2

😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/10/20 06:37 PM
44

Stop. Please. Tell me you’re lying.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/10/20 06:27 PM
3

Sure thing!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/10/20 06:15 PM
12

Yes that or we could hack the bots and program them to do really funny shit 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/10/20 05:25 PM
9

I just wish there was a way to communicate without them getting all libfem-y on my ass lol. I know for a fact most of these women don’t actually like being beaten or being in poly relationships
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/10/20 05:08 PM
13

I know, they’re just super brainwashed. I was thinking of starting up a FetLife account just to support women in transitioning out of BDSM. Help spread the word you know?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/10/20 05:00 PM
29

Honestly don’t waste your time on those low life’s. They aren’t willing to look at it from our perspective. Your efforts are better spent helping submissive women come out of denial and recognize they are damaging themselves by participating in BDSM.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/10/20 04:01 PM
154

These guys just really think they can ask us to tag along on their day to day activities and call it a date😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/10/20 03:57 PM
25

Is this from some kind of BDSM sub?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/10/20 03:55 PM
2

😂😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/10/20 03:53 PM
6

HAHAHAHAHHA😂😂 Love it
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/10/20 01:34 PM
18

5 YEARS?! There’s toddlers in preschool who haven’t been alive that long.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/10/20 03:46 AM
7

I love how he assumes a message from him would be an “adventure” ......yawn. Eye roll.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/10/20 02:57 AM
3

Wow that’s great lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/10/20 02:55 AM
8

I wouldn’t be surprised, these scrotes basically throw out a huge generic net, they have no concept of vetting.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/10/20 02:55 AM
3

Lol, right. She’s a total pickme, she would do that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/10/20 11:39 PM
7

I 100% agree with you. I think you are normal, and healthy, and sane. Sex is an intimate romantic thing between two people, I reject the concept of allowing those you love to suffer at your hands, let alone enjoying them suffer. We are delicate beings, and I think physical and emotional abuse degrades our mental health, whether it has a fancy label or not. Basically all these “kink-positive” people have degenerate mental health.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/10/20 11:37 PM
4

They are mentally ill, they have literal mental trauma they need to address.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/10/20 11:31 PM
13

Exactly. I agree 100%. That’s why I think BDSM is fundamentally wrong. If we were wired to enjoy pain, why do we instinctively run away from it? Why don’t we get uncontrollable WAP when we get bitten by snakes? Why don’t my nipples get hard when I see a big ass mountain lion about to pounce on me???????
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/10/20 11:29 PM
9

I used to have a FetLife account and I can’t tell you how many VOLUMES of LVM would message me saying the most ludicrous shit. I had an old man confess to me about being a pedophile, rapists, abusers, sadists. It’s disgusting. Everything is normalized in BDSM. To the point where “subs” are made to feel insecure if they do not condone rape, violence or polyamory. I attended several submissive safe space events and I can’t tell you how many broken women I saw. Both physically and emotionally. The …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/10/20 11:24 PM
36

Imagine being a short ugly man with fucked up skin on steroids making a fool of yourself for the world to witness.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/10/20 11:06 PM
16

No shit
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/10/20 09:38 PM
17

Ok as long as there’s some beard pubes in there 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/10/20 03:32 AM
67

Can mine have a rapey vibe when I open it and keep trying to touch my thigh while I’m reading it?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/10/20 03:05 AM
38

Wow reading this was like reading about my own life. I’ve slept with 30 or so men, only 1 has made me orgasm. He would take his time, and be patient with me. He made me feel comfortable, and he honestly enjoyed being down there. It was always amazing. He’d do it at least once a day, more if I wanted it. No wonder we dated for like 8 years 😂 The rest couldn’t make me cum if they wanted to. It was always one of the following reasons: 1) they didn’t know that women need clitoral stimulation to orga…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/10/20 02:45 PM
7

Ew.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/10/20 02:19 PM
3

Good! I’m really happy you finally feel that way☺️ you should!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/10/20 02:03 PM
37

This man should go drown himself.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/10/20 09:25 PM
23

Haha, it’s so elegant and simple right? So much for being the lOgIcAl SeX 😂😂 If I’m just looking for a free meal, and you offer to take me out again, why would I turn that down? After all, it’s way less of a time investment for me to go out with the same guy again. I can put my Tinder on inactive and stop entertaining meathead idiots online and focus on my life because you’re already providing my free meals for me. There is no logic there. The truth is we’re not using them for free food, and the…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/10/20 05:48 PM
34

Hell ya. Dick is abundant AF. As soon as one dick starts acting irreplaceable, kindly remind yourself that there are dozens if not hundreds of other dicks that will do more for you. Dicks are literally a dime a dozen. I literally have more respect for dogs then I do most men. They know this too, they lie to one another that pUsSy iS aBuNdAnT.......but deep down they all know it’s the other way around. They literally NEED us. Yet, oddly, we do better without them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/10/20 05:42 PM
2

Ok awesome!! I will 100% read now THANK YOU!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/10/20 07:15 PM
3

Yikes. I’m trying to put myself in her shoes. I would’ve wanted to leave and say f_ck you to everyone there, but at the same time I wouldn’t want to risk losing a job that could give me enough power to really make an impact for women. I like that she didn’t associate with Maxwell at all, but being that Maxwell was also a partner, Pao probably didn’t want to risk her position.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/10/20 07:11 PM
3

Hahahaha They do. Men already act like toddlers. Women feed them, clean up after them...we’re already there lol. Except they don’t let us order them around 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/10/20 03:02 PM
2

Probably daily threats from men calling her an ugly femcel hahaha. She’s super cute, if she’s celibate it’s definitely not involuntary
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/10/20 02:12 PM
14

I’m into monogamous play, but I’m also into polyamorous play, but I only want one girlfriend, but like, it would be ok if my girlfriend had a girlfriend? But, like, only if my girlfriends girlfriend fucked me too? Otherwise I’m not down with polyamorous play. I’m also into rape play, but also consensual sex play, recently I’ve kinda been into age play, and toy play and broccoli play, and asparagus play and honestly I just need to fuck women over to get off.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/10/20 05:07 AM
14

YES. It’s Jesus!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/10/20 05:00 AM
27

Give him a break, it’s not his fault she can’t cOmMuNicAtE. She’ll be fine after he takes her out on a walk date before their Netflix and chill night. And then she can bottle feed him and change his diaper and put him to bed cuz she’s a good live in girlfriend.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/10/20 04:38 AM
4

Hell ya!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/10/20 04:27 AM
4

😊
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/10/20 04:27 AM
9

😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/10/20 02:04 AM
18

Oh yeah totally, I only use come to this sub for advice. All the other subs are trash, filled with male trolls waiting to pounce.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/10/20 01:49 AM
14

She’s my hero lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/10/20 01:48 AM
16

YES!!! And honestly, I bet she totally freaking enjoys elevating other women to her level. I bet she gets off on knowing other women are leveling up and crushing it and that she was able to help them. I know I would.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/10/20 11:28 PM
43

All I really do these days is hope that Reddit is not an accurate representation of the general public.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/10/20 11:23 PM
17

Honestly I get it, it’s hard not to compare yourself to people who have achieved more. I think she just worked really hard and dedicated her life to crushing the patriarchy. I’m sure she came from some form of privilege, many of the people in the C-tier did. But they also just work really hard, and keep their eyes on the prize.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/10/20 11:01 PM
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Yes and I’m glad it didn’t slow her down, she’s always calling out misogynists and I love that about her. Big role model vibes for sure...especially for us ladies that are constantly trying to prove ourselves in a male dominated field.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/10/20 10:57 PM
11

Hells yes!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/10/20 10:55 PM
16

OOo me too I love her!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/10/20 10:55 PM
11

Thanks for the award!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/10/20 09:55 PM
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No I wasn't on Reddit during her time. Honestly I get why she stepped down, it must've been so exhausting.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/10/20 09:17 PM
2

I really needed a laugh today lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/09/20 09:45 PM
50

They’re broke, short, ugly, bald, stupid, and lazy. Are you surprised?! Girl. Come on now!!!! You think it’s a 6’5” 29yo hottie with a body and an 8” pipe and 6fig salary sitting on the other end of the screen?!?! HELL NO! It’s some 40yo 5’9” garbage can with a beer belly and receding hairline and microdick, wrinkles, bad breath, and crotch beard taking out his lifelong resentment of his short comings (pun intended) out on women!!! 🤢 Girl don’t let it occupy any more of your mental space. BAHAHA…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/09/20 04:00 PM
23

Yup. You can always count on a man to take the easier route and this is exactly that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/09/20 03:53 PM
3

What a vile creep. I’m sorry that was your experience. It makes me so angry to read things like this, these types of men should be castrated. Blatantly violating a women. Of course he knew what he was doing, he just didn’t care. How do you think he would feel if a big hairy man took him out on a date and started groping his ass? Started forcefully rubbing his boner all over him? I bet he would go home and cry to his mama. It’s ok hunny. You’re a nice person and he saw that and thought he could g…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/09/20 01:22 PM
8

Word.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/09/20 03:06 AM
54

I think men stand to gain from divided women. I know one LVM who explicitly came out and said he likes it when women are mean to each other. Women who support one another, motivate one another, and love each other are scary and powerful. I bet you never get hit on in public while you’re hanging out with a group of girlfriends right? They look for vulnerable women who are alone because it’s easier to manipulate them because they don’t have sisters with whom to seek council. There is already so mu…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/09/20 11:02 PM
5

Thanks for this🤍
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/09/20 07:10 AM
71

“The fact that he panicked only after she said goodbye” realized no scrote ever
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/09/20 06:48 AM
9

Honestly I wonder how many of these ppl are 13 year olds. There’s tons of kids on Reddit.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/09/20 03:52 AM
23

Apparently it’s a thing lol, I don’t want to believe it, but apparently some male redditor was complaining about why this girl didn’t wanna go to a field w him for a date
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/09/20 01:52 AM
11

FDS taught me that I’m worthy and valuable, that I should stop lowering my standards for men, and that I should constantly be improving myself. I’ll never settle, I’ll never date low effort men, and I’ll never let a scrote run me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/09/20 11:18 PM
156

100,000 less women who will go on field dates ! B.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/09/20 07:07 PM
46

Yes thank you for your volunteering!!!!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/09/20 07:06 PM
18

Wooh!!!!!!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/09/20 07:05 PM
6

Share!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/09/20 04:28 PM
6

Ty, I just don’t understand it. I’m 28 now and I’d never date an 18 yo.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/09/20 03:21 PM
26

I was really self conscious about aging (mind you I was 27 at the time) because my ex (34) kept talking to 18-19 year olds online, so naturally I felt insufficient. Well one day I approach him and the scrote says this “You know how I know I love you babe? I was talking to this hot little 22 year old and I’d still pick you over her” Nah bro, pick her. 👋🏼
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/09/20 04:08 AM
37

“I’m just a super casual, totally chill, really down to earth, laid back, easy going, super cool type of dude” every scrote
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/09/20 03:56 AM
18

😂 I couldn’t help it I had to scream-laugh at this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/09/20 02:06 AM
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