Forgetting things can happen purposefully, or by accident. In this post, I'll talk about why I purposefully forget things at a man's place that I'm vetting.

For this to work, I usually forget something very universal, that can't be pinned down to a certain person. An example of this would be earrings, a necklace, a belt etc.

I also make sure to place it in an area where it could easily be found.

Why do I do this? For two reasons:

1) I'm testing the man's honesty very early on in the vetting process. If it's something of signficiant value (a designer belt etc.), some people may not say anything at all and essentially "steal" the item. They obviously found it, but never acknowledged it. When I finally realize and tell them I "forgot my belt at their place", they will mention they never saw it. Not only did I catch them in a lie, but this man is obviously a LV thief. I've never had this happen with expensive items, thankfully, but I have had it happen with items that can easily be regifted to someone else.

2) A man who is seeing multiple women won't want to screw up and mention that he found an item that potentially could belong to someone else. Earrings on the nightstand? Those could have belonged to how many ever woman he's seen that week. Even if they were yours, he wouldn't dare to mention it. If he did mention he found earrings and they turned out not to be yours and you have discussed exclusivitiy already, that's a big sign to LEAVE.

This has worked for me in the past successfully and I'm curious to know if anyone else has done something similar. Looking forward to the discussion!