What attracted you towards the men you ended up to be together with? Be honest. Brutally honest. Please.

_mwk · 2021-10-02T19:57:50+00:00

his beautiful plump booty

ObviouslyAnAltAct · 2021-10-02T19:40:41+00:00

Brutal honesty: He was kind of cute (I have weird tastes, most people would think he was pretty unattractive) so I didn't mind having sex with him. He was incredible in bed. And I've always been one who could take or leave sex. After that, suddenly everything about him got way more attractive in general. It helped that he was an actual good person in general though.

catsinbananahats · 2021-10-02T19:35:19+00:00

Dick

Orange_Paisley · 2021-10-02T20:15:20+00:00

His manners, his smile, and his aptitude for comping me margaritas.

yourenotunique · 2021-10-02T20:01:51+00:00

Exceedingly handsome
Very funny
Matching values and goals
Willing to commit quickly and be engaged within 2 years
Showered me with attention and compliments

ashpr0ulx · 2021-10-02T19:57:52+00:00

he’s real manly and an absolute southern gentleman. i liked his long ass beard, he’s covered in tattoos, beautiful eyes. smart as a whip and he made me laugh. when he asked me on our first date i was pretty wishy washy about him and by the end of the date i was fucking smitten.

s00perhan5 · 2021-10-02T20:09:44+00:00

Gorgeous face, muscles and treats me like a princess.

DiamondLilyD · 2021-10-02T20:24:08+00:00

I had low self esteem and they were nice to me.

mackenzie013_02 · 2021-10-02T20:50:31+00:00

We share the same odd humour; that’s what first sparked my interest when we met. He’s attractive, very well rounded and has very broad interests. He is a GREAT/EXCELLENT conversationalist. He supports my career and understands it’s important to me.

NarniaFox · 2021-10-03T03:58:34+00:00

We were all crumped up in a university hall waiting for a professor, I was hungry and tired. There was one bench there and he squished me there, touched my hands and kept saying how pretty they are.

From that moment we started chatting here and there, he was cheerful, made me smile and at some point I started seeking his company. He asked me out, turned out to be even better than I expected. Mature for his age (we were 16) and open.

And yeah, he's tall and handsome.

towerofcheeeeza · 2021-10-03T05:32:58+00:00

For me, it was our common interests. It almost felt like there wasn't enough time to talk about all the things we wanted to because the more we talked the more topics we wanted to pursue. I'd never had so much fun talking to someone in my life. We had similar taste in music, overlapping hobbies, academic interests, etc.

Holler4Heller · 2021-10-02T19:40:11+00:00

asking women to be honest about something they’ve never bothered giving conscious thought to

cupcakegensis · 2021-10-02T19:34:35+00:00

God first his smile. I walked up to him at a coffee shop and when I talked to him he looked straight up from his laptop and his smile shown. The way he looked at me made me feel seen⁰ for the first time Second was his intellect. He talked with such elegance and went so deep into his ideas. I felt imeadatly enthralled in everything he said. He was also so kind. His charity eked into every aspect of his life. We couldn't go anywhere in town without someone running up to him thanking him.

Hjelmert · 2021-10-03T03:58:27+00:00

compatible humor, great friend, handsome face, big D

Vyrnoa · 2021-10-03T07:27:08+00:00

Similar interests. Good social interaction skills. Funny. Similar values and mutual interests.

YMaedchen · 2021-10-02T19:47:15+00:00

He is hot and we have the same mindset. He is ambitious and loves his work. He works out a lot. He isn't someone who likes to sit on his ass all day. He always comes home with a smile on his face. He isn't a complainer.

CoyoteCookies · 2021-10-02T20:12:32+00:00

He’s emotionally mature (specifically lacking in prior relationships) and communicates with me well. Also he doesn’t act weird about being short (I like short guys anyway).

LettingHimLead · 2021-10-02T19:59:51+00:00

The way he looked in his baseball uniform. Bubble butt. Pretty lips. Nice teeth. Thick eyebrows. Broad shoulders.

TrueStorms · 2021-10-02T20:45:38+00:00

He’s hot, funny, shares my values and pursued me.

_pineapplylemon · 2021-10-02T21:40:09+00:00

He’s precious and funny and comfy and tall

Sudden_Molasses3769 · 2021-10-03T02:10:48+00:00

Strong need to be in control, standout amongst our peers in our degree program (I knew he would be promoted within 5 years with my influence…he’s capable but I’m his motivation), and of course his 6pack which is now a little belly but I still love him just the same :)

nemma88 · 2021-10-03T12:42:59+00:00

I wanted to jump him, he's kind and made me feel special.

For the height thing, he is average guy height, I am average woman height.

ItWasBrokenAlready · 2021-10-03T20:31:31+00:00

We talked over beer for a year until I fell in love.

rft24 · 2021-10-04T04:39:46+00:00

they were nice to me.

gimpgirl555 · 2021-10-02T19:35:59+00:00

I thought he was cute. And then I slept with him and it was good, so I kept being with him.

Party1969 · 2021-10-02T20:47:44+00:00

He was outgoing, socially apt, very likeable, witty and we would laugh together all the time. We were together 10 years. We are still good friends.

Height? 5’11 Was he ripped? No, just normal Was he dominant in bed? No, but had a good sized pee pee and we had nice romantic sex

yungthrowaway97 · 2021-10-02T20:53:59+00:00

Brother I promise you every single woman here is gonna answer they are attracted to their boyfriend. When in reality majority will be average. You gain nothing from this

whoreror22 · 2021-10-02T23:37:26+00:00

Love how all the men r up in here under every woman's comment lik "yeah?? And how tall is he??" Like damn seems like y'all are really the ones that care about dudes heights

texassportsfan97 · 2021-10-02T20:10:43+00:00

Notice how none of them said height because it's just an inherent quality women expect men to have and short men don't even register on their radar 🤪

gkom1917 · 2021-10-03T03:33:26+00:00

It's quite bold to assume all the women are genuinely that attracted to the men they're currently with. I guess if you asked my ex why he was with me, she would also enumerate things like care, attention, kindness and shared interests (at least those were the excuses she gave me before breaking up), but did it mean shit? Not at all. So I doubt there will be enough really representative and valid answers.

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chalkandapples · 2021-10-02T20:57:51+00:00

He passed every initial standard I had, and it just feels so nice being with him. Just so much warmth. The more time I spend with him the more I liked him.

tangerinecatapult · 2021-10-02T21:58:51+00:00

He made me feel safe and in fact I was indeed safe with him. For 3.5 years he respected my boundaries and that only got hotter and hotter. fuck

whoreror22 · 2021-10-02T23:32:43+00:00

Best friend that I hooked up w randomly when both v drunk. Dick was bomb. That's what made him my boyfriend and ofc besties so a lot in common personality wise too

Title	What attracted you towards the men you ended up to be together with? Be honest. Brutally honest. Please.
Author	lostwanderer28
Upvotes	10
Comments	120
Date	October 2, 2021 7:28 PM UTC (4 years ago)
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