Are there many women who subscribe to and believe in Red Pill beliefs?

sleuthoftrades1 · 2022-04-24T15:12:45+00:00

A few. However, some RP people take ownership over some really basic ideas that have existed forever. Self-improvement/dressing better, for example…men were doing that in the 1950s. That’s just normal advice.

However, talking one on one I think there are some ideas about women’s sexuality and attraction that are correct. I think many women are drawn to men with a sort of edge. I also think maintaining attraction is hard and if someone’s attraction fades the partner of that person is the only one who can get it back.

I think on here the concepts are weaponized into revenge fantasies. I also think plates are bullshit and AF/BB is bullshit too. Lying to women to get them to fuck you is weak and also mean. Not all women spend their 20s riding every guy’s dick; sometimes I wonder if RP men just surround themselves with club girls and extrapolate them to the whole population.

KikiYuyu · 2022-04-24T17:35:40+00:00

It's far too generalizing for me. I know for a fact that there are a lot of woman who behave in the way that RP describes, but RP just paints us all with that brush.

I stopped calling myself a feminist because of the broad generalizations being made about men, so I'm not about to be okay when it's done to woman either.

StacksFifthAve · 2022-04-24T16:44:53+00:00

First you have to ask if there are many women who know and/or care what Red Pill even is.

The answer to that is no.

gofigure62 · 2022-04-24T16:51:04+00:00

Frankly any small town hetero conservative man or woman will be "red pilled".

This very liner and offensive stereotyping of men and women is very consistent and normal in small backwater towns.

I used to hold some of these beleifs until I went to college and met men and women outside of my economic class and culture to prove what and ignorant fuck I was.

I used to hold some very ignorant beliefs about men and women that was beat into my head since I could remember. I was taught in school and reinforced by teachers and men in my community that men didn't have emotions. Not that men "weren't emotional as women". I was taught verbatim that men had no feelings at all and were only logical which is why men were intelligent, needed to have careers and invent, while women stayed home. I was also taught that women only needed enough education to help children with their homework and going to college was just a way for a woman to find a husband.

And yes, every school that I went to growing up were listed as some of the worst in the country.

Also I've come to find that people with such narrow and rigid views are probably on the spectrum or have some other type of neurological problem or learning disability that renders them incapable of seeing or understanding anything outside of a linear fashion.

luliloo · 2022-04-24T16:23:18+00:00

I’m RP and prefer to date RP guys. It has helped my dating life since I’ve learned about it.

I’m not interested in the rpwomen subs though and prefer to consume content aimed at RP guys to learn how guys think and what they are looking for in relationships.

TermAggravating8043 · 2022-04-24T15:13:51+00:00

I’ve never met one, I have read a few stories on here in disbelief. I’m all for each to their own but these women really have (in my opinion) been brainwashed . They don’t ask or nag or expect their husbands to help with any sort of childcare or housework even when both partners work full time. They limit contact with friends or people their husbands don’t approve of, the husbands control all monies and she’s expected to keep herself looking good fir him at all times without inconveniencing him. Eg watching kids while she gets haircut. To me, this sounds like emotional abuse but if their happy who am I to judge.

I read one story, where a red pilled wife was explaining how she felt terrible for nagging her husband to help with dishes after she’d made tea and worked that day, he explained to her he didn’t like dishes and didn’t like her nagging, the solution? she does the dishes too and doesn’t nag him, her husband is happy, she gets to show her love for him by doing all this, their both happy. Except their not, HES happy, and since she isn’t a man, she’s only an extension of him, her happiness is not important in their partnership. Just my observation, but it feels like red pilled beliefs are about controlling women legally

Teflon08191 · 2022-04-24T16:05:36+00:00

She's a social chameleon. When she's around her red pill male friends, she's a red pill "cool girl". When she's with her girl friends she's all in on the "yaasss queen" stuff.

Essentially she acts the way she thinks she needs to act to be viewed favorably by the group she's currently with.

goatismycopilot · 2022-04-24T16:55:19+00:00

I am sure they exist. There are a few women active in men's rights forums as well. I imagine redpill women and redpill wives think of themselves as vaguely parallel.

AngelxEyez · 2022-04-24T16:03:01+00:00

There are red pilled women who do believe the same concepts about human nature (to an extent) but they avoid “red pilled men” pike the plague. They know red pilled men are looked to spin plates and thats not what they want to be.

They use the same pseudoscience and concepts about human nature to find a naturally alpha husband with rather traditional roles. /r/redpillwomen

simeneta_two · 2022-04-24T16:04:05+00:00

I’ve never met a totally red pilled woman but there’s many of us here that are purple pilled, which means we believe in some RP truths. My main issue with red pill is it is too extreme and RP men have a hard time dealing with nuances.

For example while I believe AF/BB is real the “af” and the “bb” are the same man at different points in his life. I have rarely seen a “true” AF/BB scenario where a woman marries a guy completely different from the ones she fucks. What is more common is a guy who was sexually attractive in his 20s gets complacent (or beat down) in an LTR.

Similarly while I agree men don’t care as much about education or income as women, RP doesn’t take into account this has a floor defined by socioeconomic class. And Ivy League educated doctor doesn’t care if his wife is a lawyer or a secretary, but he’s certainly not marrying (or even dating) a woman without a bachelors degree (inb4 “mUh ProxImiTy”).

emerald_engineer_08 · 2022-04-25T00:55:28+00:00

There is r/redpillwives but I don’t think they’re necessarily red pilled, they are just honest and acknowledge what most women are scared to admit.

They also claim to be more traditional but idk…not seeing too many 1950s wives there….

sarkington · 2022-04-24T15:11:02+00:00

Yes, some women agree that women suck, although red pill women are the only ones I’ve seen who explicitly finger themselves as part of problematic femininity.

BecretAlbatross · 2022-04-24T22:53:07+00:00

I think a lot of women are honest about the fact that they want a confident, masculine guy who intentionally leads. A lot of girls don't like the community and certain RP rhetoric, but overall, literally want exactly the kind of guy TRP says women want.

cocomoe · 2022-04-24T19:08:42+00:00

I'm fascinated by RP etc, and I have dated and been in relationships with RP guys where it's openly discussed.

I think I am drawn to the concept, because I felt responsible for raising my younger brother when we were growing up. When he was 17, he asked me how to get girls. I gave him some advice. He followed it and it was very successful. We had a lot of fun with different ideas and strategies etc.

I think this can be a really healthy and useful stage for young men to go through. Some may stay RP forever, but many (e.g. my brother) mature and move on to develop a different perspective. It is 100% possible for a guy to start off RP and be more manipulative in their interactions with women, but then move on to having and wanting healthy, honest relationships.

Lateralanouncer · 2022-04-24T19:30:14+00:00

Red pill you tuber commonly state they have female flowers. I'm guessing most keep quiet in fear of the current cancel culture which normally turns on them.

2022-04-24T21:25:37+00:00

Theres a few from years ago but not many new recruits.

Anyone who has heard 'TRP' for the first time on the last five years instantly thinks 'incel".

RealNiceLady · 2022-04-25T04:21:26+00:00

There is the r/RedPillWomen. A few women embrace it, but not many.

Ainsleygz · 2022-04-24T18:15:11+00:00

I don’t think there are many women “subscribed,” that is to say consciously aware of TRP practices. But I think internalized misogyny can makes women TRP-adjacent in a lot of their views, and they would be susceptible to the pill. But they’re not really the target audience, for obvious reasons, so it doesn’t reach them.

Also like another commenter said it, they give off “cool gf” try hard vibes. Or “I don’t have any friends who are girls! We don’t get along!” Or dare I say.. pick me vibes

TrefoilTang · 2022-04-24T16:01:10+00:00

Normally men with "red pill" ideas don't get to date women, so that's probably why it's rare among women.

gladusgates · 2022-04-25T11:36:30+00:00

Let me put it this way. Their words do not match their actions.

“Hypergamy is a lie!” - Swipes left on 90% of men on social media and only swipes right on top tier males (chads), despite her own level. She believes she deserves this and only this. Thus creating an immense casual sex gap.

“Your past shouldn’t matter!” - Will viciously exclude/mock any man that has visited escorts in the past

“Spinning plates is dumb!” - Has backup options herself, men in the friendzone, is dating numerous men at once

“Being dishonest is bad. Tell women your exact intentions!” - Uses men for free food and drinks not ever telling him that she isn’t interested

As you can see, women are huge hypocrites and their ways do not match their words.

So they do believe in red pill… but for women. Men shut the fuck up and believe in blue pill, women are queens you scrote yasssss

Meat_Mockasin · 2022-04-24T19:27:32+00:00

Pick me's?

SUS_pended · 2022-04-24T15:56:16+00:00

Women are naturally redpilled without even knowing. They believe the same things as redpillers but they don't use the same terminology. Women are taught from young age how to manipulate people to get what they want, it's natural to them.

SS-naikku · 2022-04-25T00:35:00+00:00

Women who believe in red pill aren't very different from ones who aren't, they just stop lying to themselves about what it is about.

You see lots of red-pilled women in this forum more or less bragging that current social standards allow them to fuck guys way above their level and still get married at 30.

lilickybitch · 2022-04-25T03:09:29+00:00

I’m a woman and sub to RP. Despite not considering myself RP, I do believe in the working on yourself first and the women flock part because why would anyone from either gender want someone with nothing going on over someone with their shit somewhat together

Protocol_Apollo · 2022-04-24T16:16:58+00:00

It’s on the come up.

But women, being women, do value the opinion of the herd way more than men.

So vast majority keep most of that to themselves.

You will only be able by talking and getting to know them closely.

Women aren’t as overt about any one belief until it is preapproved.

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ClaraBow01 · 2022-04-25T21:22:30+00:00

Not many. Only a few and they tend to be some real pick-me girls who worship the ground that men walk on. There are far more male feminists than female redpillers.

Khanluka · 2022-04-25T22:08:06+00:00

The only real life red pill i see is from woman most i know all agree with it the just dont call it redpill. There version has no real name.

cowboob · 2022-04-24T16:57:04+00:00

Doesn’t really matter, as long as one sided divorce is still legal.

Are there many women who subscribe to and believe in Red Pill beliefs?

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