Can the difference between the female sex drive and the male sex drive be evidenced by the stark differences between gay male sexual patterns and lesbian sexual patterns?

When observing gay male (and transwomen) vs. lesbian (and transmen) sexual behavior patterns, it's clear what sexual patterns biological males and biological females are more inclined toward.

• The gay male community is known for having NSA and frequent sex with new partners at magnitudes exceptionally more than hetero demographics and lesbian demographics. Hookup apps (i.e: Tinder's inspo Grindr) originated within this community. Why? Because this is what unrestrained male sexuality looks like.
• The lesbian community is known for "U-hauling" (moving in quickly and into a serious relationship) and teetering in and out of "lesbian bedroom death." Why? Because female sexuality is reactive, not compulsory, and nowhere near as testosterone-driven as male sexuality.
• The hetero community is known for "battle of the sexes," especially wrt "sexual relations" because men and women for millennia have been trying to reconcile the major differences between their biological impulses and atavistic angst. For example, straight men would likely be as sexually hyper-active as gay men if women allowed it. And women would probably not be as performatively sexual as they are now if men weren't pushing for it.