The dilemma.

gopher_glitz · 2022-12-31T05:08:22+00:00

Lol, guys getting sex on the first date on ppd

dukesaces · 2022-12-31T01:37:30+00:00

Why don't the women on PPD realize that the men that want low n count women typically aren't the men that want sex on the first date. The men that want low n count women are looking for girlfriends and wives not a hookup.

Also, with the sex on the first date debate, the whole argument is that it isn't okay for women to withhold sex from men they're interested in a relationship with when they sleep with attractive men right away and on the first date. It makes the men they want a relationship with feel less attractive and it makes them feel like they're only worth what they can provide. Why should a man have to wait multiple dates for sex when she slept with the guy she found attractive right away? Women can spin whatever story about growth and change they want but men aren't willing to accept it and that's that.

JDWhiz96 · 2022-12-30T22:22:25+00:00

Low N count girl because I am anti hookup for both women AND men.

Lift_and_Lurk · 2022-12-30T22:16:32+00:00

If you just hookup it’s not a date. taps head

Physical-Pie748 · 2022-12-30T23:10:58+00:00

i take low body count. the girl who fucks on first date has a high body count, so nope. NEXT

imivani · 2022-12-31T00:57:51+00:00

Give me right any day of the week. Hookup culture is fucking disgusting

thetruthishere_ · 2022-12-31T01:03:34+00:00

LOL LOL

meddit-throwaway · 2022-12-31T12:16:00+00:00

It’s not a dilemma. They want a girl who fucks them on the first date, because they’re so attracted to them, but not anyone else. Due to them being selective with high standards they also have a low n count.

BittererWegwerf · 2022-12-30T22:09:22+00:00

Just do BJs on the first date. BJs don't count for n-count. Win-Win situation

houstongradengineer · 2022-12-30T22:10:16+00:00

This isnt a thing. most men are fine with low n count girls that dont fuck on a first date. its the alpha fucks beta bucks thing where a reformed slut makes the guy "she really loves" wait when jamal was stull gettin all in her gut nsa short notice while the beta was dating her.

Ainsleygz · 2022-12-30T22:08:37+00:00

Ooh women mad on ppd rn

SmarmyPapsmears · 2022-12-30T22:13:10+00:00

Huh? Wait for the low n girls while you're pump & dumping the high n girls on the 1st date. Problem solved.

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MotleyCrew1989 · 2022-12-31T09:52:25+00:00

Depends if you are looking for fun or a relationship.

HungerISanEmotion · 2022-12-31T10:27:40+00:00

Fuck the first one, marry the second one.

Paranoidexboyfriend · 2022-12-31T03:53:25+00:00

You only need the button on the right once really. Otherwise I’m hitting the left button as much as I can right up until I use that right button the only time I need

livinginlyon · 2022-12-31T01:14:44+00:00

I never try to sleep with women in the first date.

errrright · 2022-12-30T22:16:15+00:00

Women who’ve been on dates with other men 🤮

Blitted_Master · 2022-12-30T22:33:00+00:00

No dilemma at all. One is for recreational use only. The other, if not lying about said body count, is potentially more.

RGL137 · 2022-12-30T22:22:23+00:00

I doubt anyone here thinks this. I couldn’t give a fuck less (heh) if a girl puts out on the first date. In fact, I generally prefer it and have more respect for her.

ChibsFilipTelfordd · 2022-12-31T00:40:39+00:00

Easy choice for me..

Slootandoh · 2022-12-30T22:35:16+00:00

Thankfully one can press both buttons multiple times by spinning plates.

eye_fuck · 2022-12-30T22:11:44+00:00

N-count is old news. How many people came inside you/you came inside? No condom of course

Bandit174 · 2022-12-30T22:31:06+00:00

Easy, I'll choose the right. Unfortunately most men get a high n woman that doesn't fuck him on the first date which is the worst of both worlds.

Barely-moral · 2022-12-30T22:58:03+00:00

Female pinnipeds do appear to have some choice in mates, particularly in lek-breeding species like the walrus, but also in elephant seals where the males try to dominate all the females that they want to mate with.[121] When a female elephant seal or grey seal is mounted by an unwanted male, she tries to squirm and get away, while croaking and slapping him with her tail. This commotion attracts other males to the scene, and the most dominant will end the copulation and attempt to mate with the female himself.[127][128] Dominant female elephant seals stay in the center of the colony where they are more likely to mate with a dominant male, while peripheral females are more likely to mate with subordinates.[129] Female Steller sea lions are known to solicit mating with their territorial males.[121]

2022-12-30T23:10:34+00:00

The left, obviously. But the difference between me and most guys is that sex is something that can’t be used as leverage.

glad0_ve0rgijev · 2022-12-30T23:22:23+00:00

Simple, tell her you are dating or that she is your girlfriend, but in your mind its a hookup so if you sleep with other girls its not cheating and you dont care about this picture, problem solved.

Capeninja · 2022-12-30T23:49:09+00:00

Thing is a lot of men get neither button, but are instead faced with high n count women who also don't want to sleep with them very quickly.

"Vetting a relationship is different from vetting a hookup" and all that.

jacked_degenerate · 2022-12-31T00:41:09+00:00

dilemma of the century right there

DrinkItInMan11 · 2022-12-31T01:09:49+00:00

Both are possible, the only people who think it isn't are dumb as fuck.

Shroomhunter93 · 2022-12-30T22:23:02+00:00

Neither both are gross.

maplehobo · 2022-12-31T06:13:40+00:00

Nah, just be consistent. If you make everyone wait, make everyone wait. If you fuck everyone on first date, fuck everyone on first (or dump right after if there's no spark).

the_butter_lord · 2022-12-31T02:50:07+00:00

Are you sure it's the same guys saying these things🙄

InfamousBake1859 · 2022-12-31T13:28:23+00:00

Guys think there are girls that he can get who are both. Lol

Title	The dilemma.
Author	gobblegoobleoneofus
Upvotes	140
Comments	111
Date	December 30, 2022 10:07 PM UTC (3 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/PurplePillDebate
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