Approximately how much or often do you agree with the takes of posters of your gender here?

armpitpics · 2023-05-13T19:14:00+00:00

Can't tell you a precise number. Much of this sub is women recounting their personal experiences, something I can't disagree with even if I've never had those experiences myself. Other women generalize their own behavior to other women, which I not always appreciate.

theDanElias · 2023-05-13T23:28:36+00:00

I'm a man and I'd say almost never. All the posts (regardless of gender) seem to be of bitter (? idk if that is the right word) people who are annoyed with their dating prospects.

Safinated · 2023-05-13T18:50:43+00:00

I agree with the normie women, because I am a normie woman. I don’t agree with the trad cons, FDSers, rad fems, terfs, red pill women and religious types.

Is this....not logical or expected?

Trazyn_of_Infinity · 2023-05-13T19:58:54+00:00

Almost never. I’d say 15% of the time.

The only thing I agree with is looksmaxxing (bodybuilding, etc.) and figuring out (even if you need to take drugs to do it) how to be more energetic and willing to go out and socialize.

The whole alpha/beta talk is so cringe. No one talks like this IRL. As for me: I believe men can have friendships with women without wanting to have sex with them. Feminism is good for society. Women’s rights should be protected. Successful women are good. Etc.

bigpapirick · 2023-05-14T03:14:20+00:00

Any post by a fellow male which generalizes women, for the most part, I instantly disagree with. Any post that is scathing, I absolutely disagree with. I don't think I see a lot of balanced male views on here. It would be nice to have some real, true discourse amongst the sexes so we can all learn and/or appreciate this adventure in better ways.

saraimarsena · 2023-05-13T18:37:02+00:00

maybe 50%. there’s some sensible women and at least 3 i can think of that i nearly always agree with. but there’s some that are totally off base imo

eefr · 2023-05-13T23:16:35+00:00

I agree with the women here most of the time, but that's because they're usually arguing against some pretty extreme red pill takes. I have no idea how closely our views would align if we were having a more centrist conversation.

Lovers691 · 2023-05-13T18:42:52+00:00

Like 50-60%, I don't think it is possible to get an accurate assessment of this though since I don't focus on the gender of who's commenting

eatfleshdrinkblood · 2023-05-13T20:25:21+00:00

Almost never lol a lot of the guys here are pretty red pilled and I hate that shit. Although I do agree with them about going to the gym and looksmaxing and all that shit.

KayRay1994 · 2023-05-13T19:14:28+00:00

10-15% -

I agree that men are in the shitter, but we completely disconnect where as most blame women for men’s problems, i think its an issue of adaptability and men need to get their shit together. Essentially, I agree that lots of men have issues, but I hate the active and near constant whining and bitching - the “but women do it too!!!!!!” is a response i absolutely hate cause buddy, you’re not interested in solving your own issues or getting better, you’re running on complete and total envy.

I also vehemently disagree with the redpill side of posters here, but there is a level of respect for the redpillers who take it up to themselves to improve their own situations, i might disagree with their whole worldview and their view of women - but i at least acknowledge that, however flawed, it is a masculine view of the world that’s frankly less whiney about their problems + they’re more interested in solving their own problems - which i respect

I also cant stand the near constant misogyny and sexism here, especially when a lot of it comes from a lack of understanding and a lack of even wanting to understand the more nuanced intricacies involved

angelicasinensis · 2023-05-13T22:15:28+00:00

Not often at all, but I am kind of a weirdo, lived on a commune my whole 20s, so I wasn’t exactly dating/finding a partner the way most people do. I always enjoy getting different perspectives from others though, so I enjoy reading and learning.

WilliamWyattD · 2023-05-14T01:13:42+00:00

90%+

Often, posts of all kinds have an element of truth. But there is no nuance. Everything is exaggerated. Logical fallacies and incoherence are the norm. I'm primarily interested in the big picture, and many people have a problem putting their takes into a coherent big picture argument that is well calibrated.

Things I hate include underestimating individual variance, but also refusing to generalize because of that variance. I also hate the strawmanning and lack of sense or proportion. Overall, PPD has become somewhat insane.

Particular_Trade6308 · 2023-05-14T15:37:47+00:00

Guy here. I have a bone to pick with the redpillers and 1) it’s their obsession with game/personality/etc and 2) their assumption that if a guy disagrees with (1), said guy is an incel.

I am a Chad by internet standards and in my experience, the biggest single lever I can pull is physical appearance. I had a phase where I was overworked and depressed, not feeling social, weak game, but I was 11% body fat, 200#, playing peak soccer, just a specimen. And I would go on these dates, say dorky stuff, throw a hail-Mary “hey you want to come back to mine” and fuck the woman on the 1st date.

Years later I am happy and healthy but 220# and 18% (due to all my social engagements in part), and I am getting friendzoned left-and-right.

Even this post will get called LARP. The redpill guys fanatically believe in game and ad hominem any critic by calling them an incel.

CapsuleCorpLogo · 2023-05-13T18:54:44+00:00

It’s 50% for both genders. I’ve seen some doomer delusional shit by men and I’ve seen some bitchy bitter takes by women. The main things I agree with are the “positive” RP takes such as hit the gym, looksmax investing your self type stuff and I disagree with the “black pill doomer” takes such as height is the end all be all stuff. For women i agree with most of the sane takes and disagree with the TwoX takes that all men are evil and want to cause women as much pain as possible.

reddishrobin · 2023-05-14T01:09:10+00:00

I agree with most of what the women here say. It's the men on here who continually call us liars when we speak our truth. I sometimes wonder why we bother really.

Ok_Tomorrow_3963 · 2023-05-13T20:17:27+00:00

I agree with practically none of the women here and only around 40% of the men here. Lots of weak men on this subreddit, even the redpillers surprise me with their cucked takes sometimes.

No-Needleworker7944 · 2023-05-13T19:26:13+00:00

The place is hilarious, don’t know who’s the most delusional the men or the women 😂

BeepBoop1307 · 2023-05-13T21:26:47+00:00

9/10 i agree w men cuz tbh yall women have stupid braindead ass takes.

Infinite_Signal90 · 2023-05-13T18:44:15+00:00

50%ish. But I agree with the men like 5%.

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DerayRevan · 2023-05-13T19:05:59+00:00

Eh 30-40%

I don't really even think about it since l just give my views on this topics

So could care less honestly

AngeCruelle · 2023-05-13T19:06:32+00:00

Roughly 25%. It's pretty low for both sexes because my views are definitely outlier territory for this sub.

jackedsoon · 2023-05-13T19:47:28+00:00

rarely with any gender. 10%

bifewova234 · 2023-05-13T20:01:38+00:00

Most of the posts here are regard men and women as distinct groups and sometimes as separate political entities, usually with perverse notions of collective responsibility. The relative superiority or inferiority between men and women is usually claimed either directly or indirectly. I disagree with most everything posted here for that reason.

Salt_Mathematician24 · 2023-05-13T22:30:38+00:00

I agree with the women here more but that's probably because there's more blue pill women here than blue pill men. I disagree fairly often however, sometimes even with blue pillers.

RocinanteCoffee · 2023-05-13T23:11:56+00:00

I generally don't know the gender of the poster when I read or respond to their comment so who knows.

wtknight · 2023-05-14T00:03:23+00:00

I do not agree with the views that men post here very often. I do agree with posts about age gap relationships (actual relationships) not being shamed, and with posts about casual sex being discouraged. So I'd say I agree with maybe 15% of men's posts here?

New-Preparation9296 · 2023-05-14T01:09:20+00:00

missionarymechanic · 2023-05-14T01:14:24+00:00

It's usually cringe, late-to-the-party, misinformed, delusional, low-quality, etc. That, or just plain uninteresting. Of the posts I find repugnant, I've never mis-guessed the gender.

It spreads pretty evenly across the gender divide, but I think guys are pulling ahead at being wrong. Certainly a lot noisier about it, anyways... "Go team..."

The real pearls of wisdom, if any are to be found, are in the comments. You just have to dig through a lot of mud to reach them. And it's usually like the same five people subtly revealing to the OP why he's an idiot.

karmakiller3001 · 2023-05-14T06:38:47+00:00

The problem with subs, websites, blogs etc etc that let anonymous people give relationship advice is that you never know where they and their perspective stand on the spectrum of mating.

Let's assume the 80/20 rule.

80% of the people here giving advice on love, dating and game are to varying degrees at different levels.

You have 1/10's, 2/10's .... 6/10's giving advice from their perspective that doesn't apply to the top 20 and vice versa. If I'm an 8.7 male telling a bunch of 4/10's how to "get women", it doesn't work because these guys just don't have the tools that I do (wealth, looks, money, intelligence etc etc)

Same goes for women.

The real issue is not the gender, it's the current SMV of people giving the advice. Would you take fitness and dieting advice from a fat obese person?

I imagine that 80% of the people on the internet giving advice are fat people giving advice to other fat people on how to diet.

Same goes for this sub. You have kids, poor people, teenagers, low confidence, mentally ill, losers, ugly people, weirdos, perverts and parrots asking and giving advice to each other as if they are in a position to give it. It's the blind leading the blind.

The fact is, 8/10's and up don't need to ask the internet for advice. We already have the advantage of being able to pull naturally.

Gender means nothing.

I guarantee you that if people had to post their age and verified photos on this sub, it would eliminate 80% of the noise. Who takes dating advice from young, lonely, ugly, poor, stupid.. people?

No one.

Treacle-Flimsy · 2023-05-14T08:16:29+00:00

Probably around 40% with guys. Sometimes, it's reasonable, good observation that someone can actually spot irl, but quite often you'll see unfiltered doomer stuff which is rather depressing

Opening_Pattern_301 · 2023-05-14T14:07:23+00:00

only 20% percent of what male posters say i agree with, the rest (stuff like the wall, that women expire at 30, that if you re an attractive man then you should be allowed to cheat,stuff like that) i disagree with.

Devourer_of_felines · 2023-05-14T14:31:52+00:00

Maybe 50/50 tops.

One example being the women age like milk while men age like wine thing; realistically most men age just as poorly as women. They just spend less on hiding it.

throwawayofc1112 · 2023-05-14T17:50:10+00:00

I’m a guy, and I definitely agree with some posts, but some are just horrible takes.

MxMaster9907 · 2023-05-14T18:13:59+00:00

I am a guy and i probably disagree with 95% of the posts here made by other men

APLAPLAC100 · 2023-05-14T18:34:17+00:00

about 50% of the time

DoinIt989 · 2023-05-14T19:33:27+00:00

Man, I agree with maybe like 25% of male takes here.

Inabind369 · 2023-05-15T17:41:46+00:00

I’m a man and I almost never agree with the other men except for black pill rhetoric from the perspective of a top 20% man. By that I mean I agree that men who are tall, attractive, intelligent, and wealthy have a much easier time dating. So much so that dating as a high SMV guy is radically different experience than dating as an average man. I disagree with how bleak they put things because I think most average man can get in a relationship with a woman, but I don’t think they will ever be seen the way they want to be seen by women. Conversely I find myself agreeing with the women on here a around 50% of the time.

D0uble2 · 2023-05-17T00:00:32+00:00

A post I completely agree with? Maybe 10%. Probably less. A post that has some decent points? 25%.

kvakerok · 2023-05-17T15:12:25+00:00

Less than 10%. I still upvote of they try to make an effort of discussion rather than shouting into the abyss of the internet.

Title	Approximately how much or often do you agree with the takes of posters of your gender here?
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Date	May 13, 2023 6:33 PM UTC (3 years ago)
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