So many times, n count/body count comes up and female dominated subs will do the o’ “run! Red flag. Real men don’t care”, or “I never disclose the real number. I had fun in college, but that’s my business”.

I’m sorry, but that’s insane. If someone is thinking dating you, marrying you, having you be the mother/father of their children etc they have a right to really KNOW you. To know your history, all of it.

if you’re a man and you smacked your gf when you were 21, I don’t care that it was 10 years ago and you feel you’ve changed - any woman has a right to know what you did.

if you’re a woman and you’ve done anal, got facefucked as a cam girl, fucked 50 guys, whatever. Whatever you did, you did it. Take some responsibility. If men don’t wanna date you because of your past, tough shit. That’s your fault. You don’t get to just lie and make it out that only a one inch dick virgin cares about this stuff and men of quality won’t ask.

TLDR: Grow up and own your past. You did what you did. Tell the truth.